*Hold up! Before we go any farther, let’s give you some quick background on a new project we’re trying. We’ve partnered with Chanel Rhoads-Reed, a Delaware based writer. She goes by handle of C Double R and her creative effort, a blog titled “Crazy Azz Women” caught our eye.
We found it to refreshing, entertaining and enlightening, to say the least. Just the kind of thing we thought we’d share with you. And just what is “Crazy Azz Women” all about? Here’s how C Double R explains it:
“It’s a blog where men and women can sound off in regard to the male/female relationship. The blog has no limit when it comes to discussing topics on the male/female relationships.
The blog discusses everything from how to spot a “certain” kind of woman to how to please a woman sexually. The ‘Crazy Azz Women’ Blog is definitely for the mature minded individual. The blog keeps it 100 real and does not sugar coat the topics, because sugar coating is for food not for conversation!
I’m just saying. – C Double R!”
Alrighty then. With that in mind, please enjoy the first installment of the new “Crazy Ass Women!”
You Would Be the Perfect Woman Only If You Would Lose Some Damn Weight!
*This is a topic I had to speak on because I have had this conversation with several of my male counterparts and each time I get heated when I have this discussion with a man.
Ok everyone peep this, true story. I have a really good male friend. He is a very attractive man who loves attractive women. He meets this woman (which is not his traditional flavor) he starts dating her, but never really exclusively. So one day we’re having a conversation and he says to me, “Chanel, this woman is like no other woman I have ever met! When I go over to her house she has my bath water ready with my favorite soap and my toothbrush laid out with my favorite toothpaste and my dinner is ready when I get out of the tub. She rubs me down and caters to me in every way possible sexually. She even packs my lunch EVERY day for work (I am talking homemade meals not sandwiches).” So I am thinking to myself damn does she have a brother that can cater to me the same way!! So I ask the obvious question, “So what is the problem?” His exact words were, “She is big as shit!!” Then he goes on to say she is a beautiful girl in the face, but she is just too damn big!
At this point I am furious!! So we go into the whole male/female conversation on how men are physical creatures and women are emotional creatures and so on and so forth. So eventually I just told him, if you truly felt that way about her then you should have never gotten involved with this woman, period!! This situation went on for over three years until he finally had the balls to tell her that she deserves better.
So of course I had to survey all of my male friends in regards to this issue and it wasn’t until I had this conversation with a male friend who kinda put things in perspective for me. So I had to take the Chris Rock stance, I don’t agree with it, but I understand!!
So here’s the deal, he says, what if you met a man and one of the qualities that attracted you to him was that he was a hard working brotha, good job, great work ethic then all of a sudden he just said fuck it and stopped working and laid around all day playing video games? He said men hold a woman’s appearance in the same regard that women hold a man’s work status and ethic.
Now, he did agree that dude should have never gotten involved with ole girl if he knew she wasn’t his flavor from the gate! He then went on to say, what if you and I got together and right now you take care of yourself by working out riding your bike, walking the treadmill to keep in shape, then all of a sudden you just stopped working out and started eating twinkies all day and gained 50 pounds. He said then I wouldn’t be the same person he married and was attracted to, same with him, he wouldn’t be the same man I married if he just stopped working. These are the different qualities that appease the sexes. Bottom line is, men are physical creatures and women are not only emotional creatures, but are drawn to strong powerful men or at least a brotha with a job!!!
I don’t agree with it, but I understand (in my Chris Rock voice)!!
What’s your take and keep it 100?
C Double R
Chanel Rhoads-Reed aka C Double R! was born in raised in West Philadelphia, PA. Chanel has a B.S. in Marketing from Rosemont College and a M.S. in Organizational Leadership from the University of Pennsylvania.
Chanel has always had a passion for writing which prompted her to start the blog Crazy Azz Women. The blog deals with the male/female relationship in all aspects.
The blog discusses topics from self independence for woman to how a woman likes to be pleased sexual. Chanel intertwines her own experiences along with the experiences of her friends, family, and acquaintances to keep the blog 100%.
Chanel is a single mother of a 7 year old son and currently resides in the state of Delaware.