Heather Headley turns 36 today
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Good morning. Who watched RHOA? Nene getsore annoying with each season.
Nene is soooooooooooooooooooo ghetto.
Today’s CHOCOLATE JAM is “I’ll Write A Song For You” by Earth Wind & Fire
Happy birthday Heather Headley.
Good Morning! Jazz, I watched RHOA, and I guess I don’t understand why NeNe always has to make a scene. It seems to me she is not happy unless she ‘brings it’ to somebody in a public forum. It makes me think that she simply wants to always be the center of attention, by bringing drama (or as Neicy would say, foolishness and mayhem) wherever she goes. I wonder why she can’t have a discreet discussion with anyone.
Pene I agree. The sad thing is she will look back on her behavior and not see anything wrong with it. I believe Dwight is telling lies because I know a big ole queen just like him and all he does is tell lies. Many of them are outlandish just for no reason lies.
I watched RHOA and that shiggety was Ninjaocity at it’s finest!
NeNe KNOWS she was wrong for having her back fat out in that dress.
Kim KNOWS those hair pieces look like coochie curtains.
Kandi KNOWS that red birds nest on her head is a mess (and how long did she mourn AJ? AND, she’s knows that NFL ninja is in her bed; she needs to quit fronting for the camera).
Sheree looks sooooooo much like my cousin it’s scary.
Phaedra is ALREADY on my nerves. For her to be a southern belle, I really need her to not be so ‘ugh’. AND, her husband looks like a D.L. ninja.
Dwight and the rest of the queens ALL look a hot, greasy mess. When did men (even non-straight ones) begin painting their nails?
Oh, and Greg and Eddie Long use the same curl kit.
Good morning F4A, it’s been a while since I posted, but I need to rant so decided this is the best place to do so. This is more so for the lurkers. First of all, I have nothing against interactial dating; however, if you are a white woman married to or having childred by a black man, PLEASE ask his momma, sister, ex-girlfriend, or someone how to take care of your kids’ hair. If you are a black man with kids by a white woman and your kids are out in public with hair looking like what done it and why did it to them, you need your azz kicked. Buy your woman some grease for Christmas so that she can used on the kids’ heads. That is all. Have a good morning everyone
God bless my little mixed sisters… They (thankfully) never looked a mess growing up.
Hats off to my dad’s concubine for her genes dominating their hair and hats off to my dad’s genes for his genes dominating their brains.
I take that back… the concubine is smart, too. She has lots of book sense but she is lacking in common sense.
LMAO @ DOne. So true.
Good morning family. What it do?
Can’t do RH of anywhere. There’s enough ratchedness in the world already. SMH
Oh! Oh! Oh! I have a gripe for parents!
Parents… your child should not look like a dingy little wrinkled, high-water wearing refugee when you’re suited & booted. That’s not right.
Target has some cute, inexpensive stuff for kids if you don’t want to spend alot of money on stuff they’ll grow out of.
YLY – the butterfly, uh oh, that’s old! lemme see yo’ tootsie ROLL! ROLL! ROLL!
I can’t get that friggin song outta my head. I was doing the tootsie roll the whole time I was getting ready this morning.
It sucks when a dumb song is the first thing you hear when you wake up.
What up fam? What’s shakin…
Lovely….it’s the total opposite in my house. I’m in dire need of a new pair of kicks. I was seriously wondering if I could fit one of the three new pair of Jordan’s my son got for school. I’m sick of him and PPP. MY TURN!! MY TURN!!!
My co worker said Optober again.
Hey Y’all. Thanks for the continued prayers and thoughts. We continue to stay focused on Him. The devil is a liar!!
DOne, I have actually recommended to some white women, how to care for their child’s hair. It pizzes me off too. But then again, most of the white women don’t seem to be too much of a prize themselves, so I don’t have a lot of expectations in that regard. And also, it ticks me off b/c there seems to be a conspicuous absence of body moisturizers too. Give the child a bottle of lotion.
Hey Happy People! Thanks for the continued prayers and thoughts. We continue to stay focused on Him. The devil is a liar!!
Good Morning Everyone!
Letmein – I dare you to rock some J’s in the office!!
SB – arm fat? (trying to switch it up from “booty meat”… you’ve GOTTA be tired of booty meat by now).
HK – YES! Claim a victory!!
Prayers still with you HK!
Lovely….the tootsie roll came on in the car the other day. I swear I wanted to get out the car at the stop light and break it dowwwwnn!
Then she goes on to say that she thought she was going to have extra money when she got the settlement from her and her son’s car wreck but she had to use that money for other things. Why did she call me with that?!?!? 
In ‘bytch please’ news for today: I just got a call from PPP’s momma. In the midst of the conversation she says she told PPP that when she gets a LUMP sum of money she’s going to ‘kick us down’. She knows we’ve been paying her school but she didn’t think $100 was enough to give us and wanted to give us more.
So, you DIDN’T give us the $100 because you felt it wasn’t enough which meant we got $0 until you somehow hit pay dirt?! I just want to scream or cry or something. I hate people.
SoulGlo.. Chocolate Bootay!
Lovely- you are a fool…LOL! Greg and Eddie Long use the same curl kit. RHOA is going to be rockin’ this season.
And how is she gonna give YOU money from her SON’S settlement? What if he didn’t wanna share his money? That’s not her money to be volunteering.
*ummm thinking chocolate bootay…:-)* —> hush lovely…lol my figure yesterday was mosdef correct…
Rayne – I’m just sayin… they DO have the same hair.
Dark as night with jet black curls and the whitest eyes… trying to “mack the hoes” (as he so lovingly said about all his chicks).
My boy from the Chi calls that “a butter”. I used to hate when he would come back to school after Christmas break with that ol’ jheri curl looking crap in his hair, talking bout “I got a butter”. WTH?
SB – so 59? My math is pretty much always right.
You kids and your new math SUCK!
If your number is 30, mine is 3.
Love: my number is definitely under 30…like for real…lol now dont get me wrong I bang chicks…but I dont slang my thang everywhere…for big spurts in my love life I dealt with just one lady(relationship etc)…high school my number was lower than I woulda ever guessed…but I was the big man on campus Sports, Christian, Model Citizen wise so I could not bang many many chicks cuz that woulda messed up my ‘image’ so…I escaped highschool…with my number relatively low
like for real
So you did 2 in high school and then 15 in college and then 13 since graduation?
GTFOH!
That’s pretty close Love….its actually 4 in high school and thus and so…:-)
Hmph… well I had one in high school, one in college and one post-undergrad.
Shid @ Love lol
That’s the same way I feel about what YOU said!
Hell, I can take it a step further and say the one in high school didn’t even count because that ish was so painful I made him stop! THEREFORE, that doesn’t count.
Afternoon Folks! LMAO @ RHOA…. them chicks are STILL a hot azz mess. Nene is out of control. She and Kim need one another and their dysfunctional azz friendship. Sheree is a trip hollerin bout her newfound passion is acting, LOL, she was HORRIBLE last night working with that coach. I believe Dwight is a lying little queen too. I know a queen that reminds me so much of Dwight and he is like that – a huge liar who lies to make himself more important than he really is…. That pregnant chick is slaying me with her attitude and southern belle stuff. Her hubby does look a lil suspect, but hey, I love Black love, so if she like it, then hey. I know she is making serious bank though with her career. I am waiting to see what the other new lady Cynthia is about. She seems to be the sensitive one as the previews show her crying a lot. Kandi, Kandi, Kandi… she is STILL wearing that busted hair and hollerin bout she gon be celivate (like Willis said last nite, LOL) until the end of the year. Yeah, right! something about her seems super phony. This season is gonna be crazy though. After boring DC, I guess they have to turn it up a few notches…..
lmao. i am not lying…lol like for real….
How bout this: I’m officially celivate! Effective immediately.
Afternoon all…@RHOA. I think I need to re-watch that episode. Nene is a drama queen for sure. Dwight talking about the money he loaned Greg and how much he put out for Sheree’s fashion show. Wasn’t Sherees gay friend in the restroom with them at the shoe event? Kandi with that jacked-up hair is dating MacGhee (who plays for the Ravens) a married man whose wife just had a baby recently and this fool is all on camera with her talkign about oral sex. Just wow!! Lately, I’ve read some not too pleasant things about her like Gerald LeVert having a restraining order on her after they broke up.
@HK prayers for your sis-in-law.
I just fell asleep while this lady was standing here talking to me. I feel so bad!
Locked – I just did some googling… looks like this ninja Willis has a whole tribe of kids and all kinds of lawsuits/paternity suits. That’s a mess.
Why would Kandi invite that kind of drama to her life?
Per mixed kids, Halle Berry doesn’t seem to know how to comb Nahla’s hair either.
Has anyone ever seen a photo of Halle’s sister?
Letmein – did she walk away?
Lovely…yep! LOL!! She was talking about tulips, mums, hillsides and dirt or some shat like that. NOT INTERESTED!
awwww OJ! I like Nahla’s wild curls… I think it’s cute on her. I’m glad she doesn’t have ponytails.
She’s a gorgeous kid but her hair is always all over her head. I wonder if halle’s was like that growing up.
Good day beautifuls and men
Thank you very much for your support and concerns. slendarella was not ok but she is better now, although not 100% but I think the worst is over. I don’t want to jinx it and start throwing confetti and run nekkid in the rain yet but things are looking up.
There was never a problem with The Prince, just her. Growth of the baby was obstructing flow from her right kidney to the bladder causing a lot of pain. She was hospitalized in order to have a ureteric stent inserted to prevent further pain for the remaining 3 months of the pregnancy. Side-effects of the procedure were extreme but I think we are sort of back to normal pregnancy shenanigans again.
Saluting all the woman who have carried children to term. Superhumans. I could’ve died and although all along I thought I fully appreciated what women go through, I was kidding myself.
Crooked Brother…my comment wasn’t directed towards you. It was directed to LoveTrain. Total of 3 ninjas! HAH!
Slenda – awwww! I’m glad she’s doing better!
Now you go home and kiss her bloated feet!
Letmein – see, I would have told her point blank “not interested” and that would have eliminated any further conversations about that stuff.
Glad Slenderella is doing better!!!! 3 months won’t be long…hang in there.
HK – Well I’ve only had one this year. That’s gotta be an accomplishment… Right?
I’m pretty sure I only had one last year, too.
I feel like a queen today. I have on 5 inch platforms, making me 6’3″… To top it off, my outfit is masculine (black slacks, white button down long sleeve shirt, black and white houndstooth vest), but I rounded it out with an overly ornate necklace to make me feminine… The spikey short ‘do rounds out the ensemble.
ANYWAY, I missed RHOA, but will watch it on DVR tonight. Some dummazz scheduled a 10:30-11:30 PM meeting tonight so I will be up. Who does that shat?
LHM – that sounds cute! I wanted to comment on your pics on fb but I didn’t want my email all clogged up with 50-leven responses.
Loving the jeans with the black shirt — you look so innocent!
LMAO at Ninjaocity. Imma have to use that!
SOBRO, I could see that number being accurate– especially if you were in long term relationships. But I swear, you have so many dayum scenarios that I could see where folks would think you were lying…
Prayers up to Hersh’s sis in law. One of my best friend’s mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer yesterday. My friend is devastated. Pray for them, too. As a matter of fact, add EVERYBODY to your prayer list because we all need it.
LHM – that’s the truth… I don’t know one person who doesn’t need prayer right now. Seems like everybody I know is going through SOMETHING. I guess that’s life.
80+ days feels like a lifetime when she’s not at 100%. I’m just grateful I have your support and advice as I would be crazy by now or have done something I shouldn’t have. Nobody warned me about this but had all sorts of warnings when we got married lol. I swear to God, since I can’t tell the future, I don’t feel like putting her through another 9 months like this. It was cool all along but this latest episode really got me feeling some kinda way. It’s highly stressful for her as she is very active then suddenly, she’s totally incapacitated, can’t drive, can’t cook, can’t water her plants, can’t stand up without help, can’t sit up for a few minutes, can’t lie down, can’t eat everything, can’t shop and there’s still childbirth to go through.
Sorry if I sound like whining. I can’t make out how we still manage so many teenage pregnancies. Baby-carrying is serious business.
Slenda – here is the place to let it out… We just wanna support you.
I think you’re going through something a lot of men go through when their wives have a challenging pregnancy — you say you’ll never put her through that again. While it IS scary, it’s not the norm so don’t fret. She (like many moms) may decide it’s worth the 9 months of BS to have 21+ years of love from a bambino.
letemin…the chance of you ever seeing any money from that ninjette is slim to bitch please. Chalk it up, keep smiling and keep it moving.
SoBro….Under 30? I am a virgin who’s child was born by immaculate conception.
slenda, most handsome, so glad to hear slendarella is improving. Hang in there. Once the baby is here, she may not forget all the tribulations, but will definitely feel they were worth it.
BRB
lol @ Ylawd. I’ve been thru my list several times…and 28 is the actual number…YEP…that’s not good but It’s definitely not as bad as it could be….banging the same chick several times does not add to tha number of individuals…:-)
RANDOM: I need to get a grip. I was in the barber shop waiting my turn and this dude was in the chair getting his baldy taken care of. When he was done and all coifed and shined, YLAWDY did I say WITHOUT THINKING, “Damn that looks so good. I want to rub it.” Talk about stopping convo! Finally one of the barbers says “Ms. YLAWDY are you getting out of hand in here?” THEN I realized I had said it out loud.
Regardless of the situation or circumstances….we are STILL and will ALWAYS be a blessed people. I am praying for and sending good thoughts to ALL of you! If you don’t care for The HK or don’t like my opinions, that matters very little to me. That’s your burden to bear.
Please friends and family, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES!! Go to the doctor, eat right, exercise, love hard, love well, and require that those in your company treat you like royalty. Most importantly be good to yourself and LOVE GOD as if your life depended on it…because it really does.
SB> At least you are a little selective…. some young brothas out here are not in the least, they will fukk anything with 2 legs and a split in between…..
Thanks Lovely. I guess I needed to let it out since all I have been doing since Tuesday last week was just answering questions from friends/relatives about the state of my wife. My line of work has a lot of high-tension moments so outside of work it is incredibly hard for me to get stressed out. A double-edged sword as everyone gets stressed out and I’m just relaxed. slendarella gets incredibly stressed out about my calmness and sometimes I need a third party to confirm that she has nothing to be stressed about and it’s gonna be okay. The post-procedural side-effects have brought a lot of that to the fore. I’m having to reassure her everyday that it’s okay, she will be fine. My research says the same, doctors say the same. It works for a while, until she spends too much time by herself and she falls into the trap again. At least I have an idea she is like that so it’s always work-in-progress. I think over the past few days I did push myself just a little bit harder though and feel good being back here today. It’s nice having good friends and everything but it just feels so empty when those you love are not in a happy state so I withdraw…until my body cries out and I have to ramble and write long essays like this.
I went from CTFU @ YLY’s post to tears at HK. OOo I can’t take it! I need a valium or something. My emotions are all over the freakin’ place!
Oh gawd Slenda more tears!! I think you hit it on the nail up there, I know it has to be hard for Slenderella if she’s used to doing her things, being mobile, etc. I have yet to take care of a medical situation because I know it will have me down for a couple of weeks. What working mother, wife, lover, confidant, chauffer, cook, dishwasher, church goer has time to be down for two weeks? NOT I!
Just came across this:
Against the protestations and to the consternation of NeNe Leakes of the “Real Housewives of Atlanta,” Bravo TV today announced a sixth version of the “Real Housewives” franchise — Beverly Hills, USA Today reports.
Also, inside sources tell rolling out that “RHOA’s” newest cast member, Phaedra Parks, will come on to the show unloading with both barrels in the direction of Kandi Burruss, NeNe Leakes and Kim Zolciak.
The “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” will hit viewers sometime next year and will be in close proximity to its sister version in Orange County, Calif. It will join the current versions in Atlanta, New York, New Jersey and an upcoming Washington, D.C.
Parks is going to make it undeniably clear that she has issues with Kandi. Hopefully, the source of that friction will be laid bare for viewers to consume. Both are in the music industry, as Burruss is a Grammy-winning songstress and songwriter and Parks has represented many musicians over the years, including Bobby Brown. Parks is also one of the producers of the “Tiny & Toya” reality show currently airing on BET.
Parks is reportedly going to put NeNe and Kim on full blast, exposing their entire stripper pole pasts. She is ready to spill what, when, where and how they stripped, the media reports.
Hopefully, Parks will wear full body armor because there are some dirt trails following her as well. It is widely rumored that Parks had an active sex life with many of the clients she represented. And she recently had a shotgun marriage to a recently released unemployed ex-con. –terry shropshire
Lil: thanx. I can talk shyt with the best of em…but just cause I talk you up dont mean imma lay you down…*if you cute you got a high chance tho* lol
OAN: this weekend will mark the 3rd weekend in a row I will be attending a wedding…this will make the 4th wedding tho cuz I went to two of em the first weekend…this is like wedding season sheesh…cutting into my danggone budget with all these gifts #nshyt lol
ROTFL @ “I can talk shyt with the best of em…but just cause I talk you up dont mean imma lay you down…*if you cute you got a high chance tho* lol ”
Crooked Brother- you are a trip. I love you nonetheless. LOL
LETMEIN – Sawry Chica! Didn’t mean to make you cry. Just keeping it real…just like you!
HK….girrrlll you know I’m too sober for all-a-dis! LOL!
HK – I sooooooo love you and the way you communicate! Real talk.
Thanks Love. The feeling is very mutual. But I’m sure you already know this.
To the thumbsdown bandit: May God cure you of all your ills so that you can find peace.
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Pass the dutchie on the left hand side.
HK – see, since you took the high road with the TDB, I feel forced to sit here and bite my proverbial tongue. I sooooo want to tell the TDB a DIFFERENT route to take.
But, in the effort of living a better life, I’ll just hush.
Man FVCK the TDB….lmao –> he aint done with me just yet….lolol
LoveTrain. TDB’s life is sooooo miserable sad and barren. Aren’t you glad you never have to hide behind a moniker or a like/dislike button? TDB thinks they are hurting me/us. Could never happen.
Or you can throw caution to the wind & speak your mind like Crooked Brother.
Still love you boo!
LOL
JB> Did you see Unsung with Musical Youth last night?
The sexy chocolate IT brother is working on/fixing my personal lap top. How should I show my appreciation. Would offering up hot no strings attached spooge be a bit much?
Just because – - -
There are some things the world simply does not need to know. The inside scoop on Kourtney Kardashian’s difficulty having sex after giving birth to her baby son definitely falls into that category.
But that doesn’t stop Kourtney from spilling the dirty deets to sister Kim Kardashian in this clip from an upcoming episode of their show, “Keeping Up with the Kardashians.”
She tells Kim that her doctor told her to wait two months after having her son, Mason, before having sex again with husband Scott Disick.
“Once the doctor gave us the okay, we were like excited to try it, but it was very painful,” Kourtney says. “It felt like a metal pole is literally ramming you in the crotch.”
Kourtney also reveals that because she is breastfeeding, her estrogen levels are very low and she’s not “very juicy down there.”
But the poor girl toughs it out because she is embarrassed to buy lube.
Wait, she’s too embarrassed to buy lube in a store but not to talk about this on TV? And hasn’t she heard of online shopping? He-LO, drugstore.com?
Logic clearly does not exist in the Kardashian universe.
I was flippin channels and I was wondering why in de heyell they were sitting in the car debating over who would go in the drug store to buy lube… but she said the paparazzi may take a pic of her buying it, LOL with that I turned the channel – - silly silly girls….
Oh!! He gave me a free adapter. Should I feel special? Should I take that as him throwing a pass at me? Would blowing in his ear be too forward.
Lilmocc, I saw some of it.
HK – so true
Jacque – she then said “The juice is loose”
*singing* Who’s that peeking in my window *POW*, nobody now! Hey y’all! Just read the board and I’m laughing & crying @ the same time. I love y’all.
>lawdhv, your outfit sounds KEWT! I was sitting here picturing it as you were describing it. >hersh, prayers going up for your sis-in-law. God is in control sis. >babybro, your number sounds believable to me cuz you’re only what, 23? That’s actually a lot for a 23 y/o! Let it be a woman, she’d be considered a whore. I will never understand why it’s okay for men to love sex, but not women. 
BTW, my # is 4. >slenda the king, I’m SO happy to hear that slendarella & Prince Akeem are doing well. I’m glad to hear that it wasn’t the prince! Your wifey will be fine, hang on in there king! >letmein, PPP’s biological mother is such a poor excuse for a mother. She sounds like she’s feeling ‘guilty’ so she’ll just feed you with anything to try to ease her own guilt. What a loser! 
Ummm, I don’t really watch RHOA. I’ve seen a few episodes, not interested. >lilmo, I missed Unsung yesterday, how was it?
12 – ew. you didn’t speak to me.
Maybe too late to contribute, but:
SB needs to count all the days in the year not only on holidays!
Slenda, keep being there, I totally feel you on the reaction thing. HK, what’s up, you are especially merciful today!
LOL @ lovely! I’m sorry pumpkin-patch! *hugs* You know I love you boo.
Awwwww! yay!
you know I’m a little ‘touched’
I guess everyone else is gone for the day…
I’m here stalking the IT guy.
yeah, it gets kinda empty in here after 4. I’m leaving in about 20 minutes…
Ex used to work late and sometimes our west coast folks.
I think we need to hold a Lurker Drive… get some of those mofo’s out of hiding.
correction: they’re not mofo’s, they’re potential fam members.
LOL
Hey asize *waving wildly* it was pretty good, it gave a lot of background info about them I didn’t know. It was kinda the same boy band gone wrong story though…..
Indiebiz what are you trying to say???
Hurumph!!
OJ – I wish he could come fix my laptop… the ‘man’ is taking it from one place to the next and I’ve been without a laptop for WEEKS. I’m getting SUPER annoyed.
He just gave me back my laptop. He won’t take money and said I could pay him with circus peanuts. I almost said can I pay you in trim.
Cheers everyone. Thank you for the support.
OJ – tell him then he’ll owe you!!
Ya’ll be easy, I’m outta here to go put on some comfy clothes and go shop for this dude’s birthday. Sooooooo not in the mood to buy stuff for other people. I need stuff for ME!!
*so selfish*
Two and a half weeks to VEGAS, baby! I may even put a whole $5.00 in the penny slots!
LOL @ Osun. Girl, you got it BAD!
HK , perhaps you recently experienced one of those, hopefully pleasant, “life changing moments”. I haven’t been lurking so I may have missed something.
Indie I’m still unclear. Life changing moments? Guess folks don’t consider this normal behavior for me. *dave chappelle shrug*
Ok! Have a good night family. XOXOX