*Uh oh, somehow we know it only a matter of time before the doo doo came out. We’re talking about Steve Harvey’s ex-wife of 16 years, Mary, putting bruh man on serious blast.
Not sure what her total motivation is, but she wants everyone to know that the successful radio host/”relationship expert”/comedian/actor/author that we all know as Steve Harvey is not the same man she married.
In the video, she details Steve’s cheating with his mistresses, including one chick who sent a letter to Mary about condoms on the nightstand, and how he cheated on Mary with his current wife Marjorie, who according to sources, was one of his mistresses.
All we can say is whoa! And … pass the popcorn!
UPDATE … When we originally published this story Saturday morning (01-22-11), only part 2 (video #2) had been posted. That’s where most of the “meat” or “juice” of this story is. In part 3 Mary details how Steve is suing her because she’s the reason he didn’t get a show on Oprah’s OWN channel. And in Part 1 she tells what the impetus was for for going public and gives background on how she and Steve met.





















Lucky me, I get 1st crack at this one!!
Wow!! I believe every word that she’s saying & I hope the chicks who were involved with him come out & confirm some of the things that she’s saying. The only problem is that non of this will matter, because the people who have assisted “The Arrogant One” (Steve Harvey) with becoming the world renown “guru” will never give her the same level of attention and talk-time that he has received. Oprah won’t be calling her, The View b%tches won’t be calling her, the morning shows won’t be calling her, etc. Once certain media groups build-up a person they never won’t their audience to hear the opposite side of the story or anything negative about the person they built-up.
Steve Harvey over the last 5-7 years has become one of my least favorite black stars. His arrogance has really gone to a level that I can’t stand.
Most of us are not even surprised that he was a cheater, I mean that happens, but for him to so willingly and proudly take on this foolish relationship guru title is really a slap in the face to his ex-wife, children, and those weak-ass people who support him.
LMAO!
Wow! Powerful, but I wish she had written a BOOK instead. I’ll be looking forward to Part 2!
Oh you have to know a book is coming. For those of y’all who don’t know how full of it this dude is check this out. He tried to do her dirty as hell in their divorce settlement. Check it out here http://www.edivorcepapers.com/divorce-settlement/steve-harvey-divorce-settlement.html
Horsemouth Harvey is lucky he wasn’t married to ME. I get more child support than Mary does, and my child’s father is nowhere NEAR a millionaire!
I can’t find anything stating the case has been settled, but I suppose we can assume it has. Hence the books and the Family Feud job– so he can replenish his coffers, something he would want to do because that’s why THIRD wifey married him in the first place–FOR MONEY. The POS SOB.
OH LAWD!!! Did you say Horsemouth Harvey? LOL!!!
Horsemouth Harvey!!!! ROTFL!!!!!!
A book by Mary Shackelford Harvey would outsell any book Steve Harvey has ever “written.” I will read it while eating bon bons.
me too!
Y’all see, this is the type of woman that deserved half or somewhere near unlike so many of these broads who come in after the money’s made stay a few years and leave with millions and property. She was grinding with him. She stayed with him after he was busted and he still wouldn’t straighten up.
Yep…
On a side note, is anyone else a little annoyed by Steve’s radio sidekick Shirley Strawberry? She giggles at every got-damn thing he says! I mean, is he banging her too???
She is probably afraid of losing her job. From what I understand, Jacque Reid lost her job with him because she wouldn’t be his “yes” woman.
Shirley doesn’t look to be Steve’s type IMHO. He seems to like his women a little more toned than she is.
I always wondered what happened to Jacquie Reid…I predict this video will be down by the end of the day Monday (if not sooner).
This is really getting SERIOUS now. I wonder when the lawyer is going to get involved with these videos? Interesting.
That lawyer must not be worth a damn, because the videos are still here and they are still on YouTube.
Yes, she laughs and compliments Steve on EVERYTHING no matter what it is – kind of reminds me of the old “Howard Stern/Robin Quivers” set-up…..
A lying, cheating Aquarius. What else is new.
Another one who wants to prosper, mixing profit and faith with holy laughter. How many books has he written? How many wives has he left smitten? He’s lion to the kitty cat.
I hope all the parts of this story get released…I just have a feeling when the courts open on Monday we won’t see anymore videos. STAY STRONG MARY!!!
She’s seems to be a smart woman so I doubt if Steve made her sign a “hush”/gag agreement as a part of their settlement so there’s no shutting her up unless Steve can buy her silence. If she keeps pressing this and showing just how full of shit he was/is she might become a real monkey wrench in Steve’s gimmick. Truth is that he should’ve known better to put himself out there like he has over the last couple of years. He should’ve known that something like this would be coming! But when the smoke clears somehow & some way he’ll become the victim!! Just watch!
I enjoyed this as you all can probably tell, but I hate the shameless promotion of that book. It’s like someone trying to sell crotch itch cream or some shit!! LOL!! “This stuff really helped my nuts stop itchin’!!!!” LMAO!!
Stephanie makes all of us brothers look bad,he is really not what he portrays,if this is true.I for one will no longer support anything Stephanie does until he does right by his ex-wife,which he is too arrogant to do.Apparently Oprah saw through him,hence no show,but then again Oprah gives shows only to white people,yeah I said it.
There are three sides to a story……his side, her side, and the truth. I do believe Mary should be compensated after all she. was there from the beginning. Not all of the money but certainly more than the pennies she received!
How about this y’all; My wife and I were riding & listening to the radio here in Durham, NC and guess who’s the keynote speaker at this year’s Women’s Empowerment in Raleigh??? Y’all guessed it, ole mule mouth Steve Harvey!!!
Women should boycott that shit until they find someone truly worthy of being a keynote speaker for such an event. He’s really taking this “relationship guru” bullshit too far and the sad thing about it is that event planners are blowing his big-ass head up even more by booking him.
I hope the women in this area force the promoters to cancel his fraudulent ass!!
Here is part of the Essence article. It looks like Steve just thought he would pick up where he left off in 1986, three years before he met Mary. Marjorie watched his rise to fame and then decided to give him a holla.
Essence Magazine should be ashamed of itself for putting Steve Harvey on the cover of its January issue:
http://www.essence.com/relationships/hot_topics_5/marjorie_harvey_on_her_husband_steve_har.php
Thanks Grace…I didn’t want to stand in the grocery check out to read this. It’s obvious the articles content hurt her.
Unfortunately, Essence has lost its touch as well so I’m not surprised by anything they do. They jumped on any and everything irrelevant.
I have read everyone’s harsh opinion of Steve & his ex-wife’s story. I have not seen or heard either of the videos and don’t care too. Of course, this means I don’t know the context of which she answered these questions or was propelled to speak about her past with Mr. Harvey. I will say this, Mr. Harvey is a human being who like us all, have made mistakes. He’s a born again Christian who can admit his faults and be straight about his past marriage(s) and bad choices. He doesn’t deny any of that. His books (of which I have not read for myself) have only served as a source of what he’s learned as a maturing man, ex-husband with faults/flaws and a new born again Christian. Some men won’t ever admit to their wrongs. So in Steve’s case, he’s just said, here is my take on this issue. He doesn’t claim to be the guru of anything, he’s just been honest. Above all, I’ve seen many of Steve’s appearances on TBN and this man is favored and blessed by God. I believe God has forgiven him of all of his past sins and he is better for it today. Too bad Mary didn’t get this Steve that we see today. Arrogant or not, he’s a human being subject to mess up, as a Christian, he now knows who to run to for forgiveness and guidance. Give the man a break.
If you think he is a Born Again Christian, I have this lake on my property I’d like to sell you. He is a Wolf in sheep’s clothing who is profiting off of “silly” women. As a person who has all faith in Christ I am totally discerned by his act. That TBN mess was an act. HE is an actor, duh!! The whole audience was filled with silly women! You don’t see no dudes listening to him like he is the next messiah!
Mira, I have met Steve Harvey in person, and I can tell you for a fact that he is NOT a nice person. He is a “born-again” misogynist.
I have heard similiar stories by others who have encountered him and they all said he is one rude, arrogant azz. A girlfriend of mines recently won a gift card and he was very rude and nasty to her on the show.
Diva007, what show was that???
Yes, I am really enjoying this, because he was very rude and arrogant with me, and I was only there with him in time and space to put money into his pocket by purchasing his DVD, “Don’t Trip, He Ain’t Through With Me Yet.” He embarrassed me in front of my teenager who, at the time, knew that Steve Harvey was my second favorite person in the whole world, after her.
I am glad he is being exposed for the SOB that he really is by someone who knows him INTIMATELY. I hope HE is embarrassed now.
What a bunch of men bashers we have here. Projecting your own failed relationships onto Steve Harvey how sad. She’s not as smart as y’all want her to be cause if she was she wouldn’t be in this predicament. Simply put he was smarter and had the better legal team. Hence, he got all the goodies. NEXT!
Here’s a news flash, Khanman:
“Simply put,” Steve Harvey was NOT “smarter and had the better legal team.” He had the SAME “legal team,” because the SAME slimey lawyer represented BOTH parties, a conflict of interest if ever there was one. That lawyer should be disciplined by the State bar association at the very least and perhaps DISBARRED at the most, because the lawyer ALSO had an interest in the assets that were the subject of the case!
HENCE, he had no RIGHT to “all the goodies.”
I ahve heard inklings in the past of Mr Harvey’s dalliances and I believe Mary 100%. At first I could not understand how he can wriet books and give advice on relationships but, then again he been doing the same thing he lectures about so I guess he is sort of an expert on the subject. huh? LOL
Seems like Steve is a devious dirtbag. I was always happy for his career moves but knew certain folks just did not like him. I’ll be boycotting this fraud from now on.
“and how he cheated on Mary with his current wife Marjorie, who according to sources, was one of his mistresses.”
Y’all know what this reminds me of?
Jill Scott character and the 80/20 rule in Tyler Perry’s “Why did I get married.”
You remember when her first husband came back to her and thought he was explaining the 80/20 rule to her, and how he messed up by letting her go. Then she told him to go back to his 20.
So Steve really left the 80% in his wife for the 20% he thought he was missing. I mean, she was cheating with him while he was married, just like that other girl in the movie.
Steve, Mr. relationship guru. You should know that’s a 20 you are leaving your wife for. Well, you soon will find out.
I am not a hater of Steve but, I do believe what Mary is saying. Unfortunately, some men are only as faithful as their options. He should have tried to end that chapter of his life on a lighter note.
I feel bad for their son because he is the innocent party in all this mess. Steve has now showed this young man how to lie, minipulate, and con his way out of everything. If you’ve got the right lawyer, you are unstoppable. Steve really should have done the”right thing” by Mary. Now, he wants to play the victim to a game that he started by not handling his affairs correctly. Steve has lied to his son and the world about what has really happened. The evidence of his adultery is now public and he has to explain to everyone why he “LIED”. He has already taken everything from her. What point is he trying to prove by taking her to court again.
I heard him on the radio this morning and he was crying about it. You must understand that you can not inflict pain upon someone and not expect them to inflict pain by. Thats why God said to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I think he might have “FINALLY” got it. My prayers are with them all.
Crying? Are you serious? Man he is a great actor. He shore can ACK.
“Crying” is his way of doing DAMAGE CONTROL. Don’t believe ONE phony tear. I remember when he told everyone over the radio that he and Mary were getting a divorce. That SOB said he was going to make sure Mary was treated right, that she would have a house and money.
NOW, six years later, Mary is saying she was EVICTED from her house and had EVERYTHING taken away, including her impressionable teenage son.
I don’t think she’s slandering his name at all. In fact, I believed here when the court docs first hit the web. The truth comes out in the courtroom. Everyone gets butt-naked with the truth in the courtroom. I’m not understanding how the relationship and marriage went from getting dressed in the car and using a bag of coins to survive and promising each other they would hang in there with one another to he beating her, cheating on her with no care in the world, taking the house, money, and child. He could have at least gave here money for all here loyalty and efforts, a roof over here head, transportation, and joint custody. After all he cheated on her—so give here everything she wants and needs to be comfortable. Then you put out a book telling ladies to think like a man??? Ha!!
I knew when the news hit that he married Marjorie that he had been unfaithful. I remembered thinking “Did he re-marry Mary?” and “Da–! THAT was fast!”. All he had to do was just come clean to Mary regarding all the ways in which he was no longer attracted to her, why, and that he wants a “fresh start” with someone else. Then, give here everything she needs to be comfy.
Steve Harvey mentally manipulates and picks his listeners/followers brains’ the same way pastors do. However, those in search of the TRUTH will find it.
Steve Harvey mentally manipulates and picks his listeners/followers’ brains the same way pastors do. However, those in search of the TRUTH will find it.
Just to think, many people supported that dumb book he wrote and thought he was being a savior to women. I’ve always thought he was a fraud. Look at how he treated Bernie Mac. My eyebrows raised then. He portrays himself as this all-American guy with values and prestige. Give me a break, game recognizes game.
A friend e-mailed me a copy of that first dumb book when it was first published. I haven’t read it YET.
Grace12_34, please don’t waste the energy nor time. I bet its garbage talk just like his show is.
People who haven’t read the Essence article need to understand that Steve Harvey met Marjorie THREE YEARS BEFORE he met Mary. He met Marjorie in 1986 and met Mary in 1989. Of course, that’s NO excuse for cheating, BUT it explains why he was soooo quick to go to Marjorie when Mary found out about the cheating.
Once Marjorie found out about Steve’s steady rise to fame, she had been in touch with him the entire time.
@grace or he could be lying about when he met marjorie too…..that is possible too you know. why was marjorie playing games & calling their house talking about a job? she did it trying to rub it in mary’s face.
He married his first wife, Marsha, in Cleveland in 1981.
That sick bastard seems to love the letter “M,” doesn’t he?
Marsha must be the mother of those ugly-ass twins.
Whoa, how many times did this fool get married? My goodness.
@ Grace12_34 My bad but no matter what she was stoopid and allowed herself to be represented by the same attorney and got no goodies. You women seem to think that just because you open your legs a few times over the course of a relationship that you are entitled to half a man’s earnings. NOT! Go get your own and stop relying on us men. We are tired of you sorry skanks trying to get over on us. It has to stop somewhere and this is a good start. Go Steve go!
@ khanman: I don’t normally waste my precious time on ignorance, but I felt I needed to respond to someone who obviously doesn’t have a working brain. I take full offense with you referring to women as skanks. There are some of us who work as hard as a man physically and mentally. We have relationships with our Men and we support each other. We stand by our Men through the low times and we don’t expect to stay with our men eating beans every night, being a shoulder to cry on together, “Going Through” as they say – then once the “Hard” times has change – He finds someone else and moves on after years of being dedicated to THAT MAN. Just because you are a bitter little person who is totally against women, doesn’t mean that all women are opportunistic gold diggers. And if you even try to part your lips as I “Part my legs” for MY Husband of 15 years, I am educated, Married and have a Career and not looking to take anything that I am not entitled to. I believe Mary. Steve rubbed me the wrong way when he seemed to be a spoiled sport when Bernie Mac and Cedric were getting popular after Kings of Comedy and he wasn’t. Snide remarks he made on the sly made him look ugly to me. The only good thing Steve did was take off that stupid wig…….
I co-sign.
@ work4hers So you’re offended by the word “skanks” are you? Well if you weren’t one you wouldn’t be offended but obviously there’s a hint of truth in there for you. Otherwise you wouldn’t have responded as you did. And for someone who’s supposedly married 15 years with a career seems odd that you’d be on the EUR site talking trash with a mere stranger when you should be on your knees servicing your husband so he won’t leave you as Steve left his former wife. That’s what you ought to be worried about or could it be that the so called husband is a figment of your imagination. I imagine the latter is the case. Now you and your girls on here come at with your trifling sorry feedback so you can feel better about yourselves. My how I love you strong Black women and how you stand up for yourselves like somebody on EUR really cares. Ha ha hee hee silly broads!