*It’s been how long since J-Lo got divorced … wait, is she divorced? No, not yet.

Well, whatever the case may be it looks like the 42-year-old singer/actress is moving on, but in a backward fashion, so to speak. BET.com is reporting that she’s getting close again with her former lover, Sean “Diddy” Combs, 41.

According to a source for the site, Jennifer is “the love of his life” and he’s very excited to be back with his “fantasy girl.”

But some are concerned about the reunion saying the music mogul could end up hurt.

But some folks close to Combs are worried that he will end up hurt, especially since she wasn’t there for him when he “needed Jennifer the most,” says the source

The two had a serious love affair in the ’90s that ended shortly after the 1999 shooting at Club New York that left Diddy on trial for weapons charges (he was found not guilty).

By the way, bet.com’s source says it is possible that the two may be on the red carpet pretty soon.