*Jill Scott shared with the world the other day that she’s no longer celibate. Well, she recently shared with  Sister 2 Sister magazine her past frustration with relationships and men. She claims that she was “dickmatized!”

“Oh Lordy,” some of are probably saying. “Dickmatized?!” What that mean, Jill?

“Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest-or not expecting the rest from them.”

While the singer is not strictly opposed to the sex driven man; she just warns ladies to be sure if they want a relationship to be aware that its not strictly based on sex.

“What I’ve discovered is, although it may be a lot of fun, it is also a waste of time and you might be blocking your blessing-blocking somebody who wants to be more to you than just a great time in your life,” Scott said.

She adds that she had to do some soul searching to conquer the d**k. “Just realizing what I have to offer. I’m so much more than my flesh!”