*Everyone has been speculating what possibly went wrong with Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries‘ marriage.

Most are blaming the woman for the whole bit, of course. But new gossip is pointing to the man in the relationship who allegedly bullied the reality star.

According to Us Weekly, the NBA player was cruel to Kim.

“He belittled her in front of people. He’d call her stupid. It was truly sickening,” says a source.

The source said Humphries was jealous of his ex-wife’s fame and fortune.

“He tried to control Kim by bringing her down … He would say truly terrible things. One time he said she had no talent and her fame wouldn’t last,” a source told outlet.

Humphries, 27, allegedly didn’t even want Kardashian, 31, to act like a wife, while he was out partying it up around town.

Whatever.