Kelly Rowland wears a colorful ensemble at Fountain Studios while filming scenes for "The X Factor" in London (Nov 27, 2011)

*Kelly Rowland, currently a judge on the UK “X Factor,” apparently frequents X-rated stores to purchase sex toys, but always on the sneak tip.

“You can’t keep me away from a good sex shop. Those are interesting places. I go with a bunch of people – that way no one recognizes me,” she told the Daily Mirror.

Kelly says she has become more “liberated” about sex since turning 30. Discussing her single “Motivation” – which describes how she feels during sex, she explains: “I’m now liberated at 30, it’s almost a transition. I was scared what my mom would say after ‘Motivation’ but she was yelling, ‘Go lover.’ ”

Kelly – who was once engaged to pro football player Roy Williams before the wedding was called off – also says she has learned not to take any “crap” when it comes to men.

“I wanted that wedding. I wanted to be married. I wanted to have kids,” she told the Daily Mirror. “At that time I was crazily talking about wanting five. You can just make wrong decisions in life. That was all a part of growing up. I just think it’s important to trust your gut. I’m careful with my heart. I don’t take crap from no one these days. I put my foot down. Being a woman you deserve heaven and earth. So if a man wants to date me, know that I don’t take crap.”