*Relationships that consist of domestic abuse, whether physical or verbal, are hard to get out of.
But there are some women (and men) that are not afraid to stand up for themselves and get out.
But those who are afraid, stay in the relationship way too long and sometimes until their premature deaths.
But you have to be serious if you call on family to help because things, well, things can get a little out of hand. (more…)
What is up it Black folks videotaping all kinds of craziness and uploading it the net? Do they think that folks actually want to see stuff like this? She better hope that the guy does not press charges against her for assault. I got the fact that the boyfriend was beating up on the sister but let law enforcement do their job. Matter of fact, she could be in more trouble than the boyfriend. This is a bad situation all the way around and the young lady should get counseling for the abuse and get the little boyfriend locked up!
That sister must be a stone bull dagger.
NYCsoul, I agree with you…but sometimes you’ve got to be ‘the law’ for yourself. If we were a community like we were once-upon-a-time, we could handle our own affairs but hey, that’s a whole notha story. Getting back to this guy…he deserved to get his a** beat because he wasn’t a man about the situation…it took too long to answer the question, number one…number two, only punks beat on women…lol…and he got beat down like a punk. [NOTE: These daze, in extreme cases, there may need to be an exception to the rule - for self-defense purposes...but even then, most men will attempt to restrain the woman before it escalates (sp)] Hopefully that’s a message to punks around the country and worldwide: Stop Hittin’ Women…
Obviously, her sister has some esteem issues to even want a sucker like that in her life…how do you kick your woman in her butt and call her a b*tch? And how does she allow that foolishness? GTFOH…
MC…lol..I don’t if it’s like that or if he was just a ‘lil fella…regardless, she was trill about her business…lol. Kudos to her!
LOL! I agree with what you are saying but they weren’t smart videotaping it. I just hope it does not escalate because hurt feelings can translate to somebody getting a gun and getting crazy. Not crazy about law enforcement in general but a person has to cover themselves when they throw up a video like that on the net. Just sayin…
@NYCsoul,
“…because hurt feelings can translate to somebody getting a gun and getting crazy”
If “lil man” keeps watching that video, reading the comments and checking the number of hits it’s gotten he could seek revenge. The family needs to back away from the sister bringing troublesome men in their midst. Folks drive me crazy posting everything on the web.
I agree with t.eye, sometimes shit needs to be handled and not by the law.
The fellas there did right by letting big sis whoop his ass and not getting into it. Too bad their punk asses didn’t handle it themselves. It’s obvious everyone knew what was going down and big sis was the last to know; she, therefore, corrected the situation.
I hate weak chicks! Plus, little sister wasn’t too small her damn self and should have beat his ass herself when whatever happened happened.
No, I don’t condone violence but, if you make the mistake of starting something, I can shut it down. Many have slept and paid the price.
The only “guns” were her fists . . .I wish I had a sister like her years ago.
He should’ve pummeled the sister like a man..plain and simple. I once saw a lesbo get TROUNCED and I mean head-pounded-to-the-grown pummeled because she decided to “man up” w/the wrong dude.
In a small way, I felt sorry for her.