*Phaedra Parks attempted to clean up her ‘butt dial’ mess that flipped some wigs on a recent episode of “Real Housewives of Atlanta.”

In a questionable voicemail, Phaedra said she could give a flying you-know-what if Cynthia attended her son’s birthday party. You can imagine how that sounds to the person on the other end of the call.

According to Phaedra’s BravoTV.com blog, the message was taken out of context and blown out of proportion. She says NeNe is the one to blame for the drama behind it all anyway.

“In true NeNe style, a recipe of drama was brewing using rushed judgment as the main ingredient. I have known Cynthia for two years, and we have always managed to get along and support each other in our various endeavors,” wrote Phaedra.

“In the sound bite of the conversation I basically said I didn’t care if Cynthia attended Ayden’s birthday party after repeatedly being badgered about the guest list. I never said anything malicious or derogatory about Cynthia, and it was not my intention to insinuate that she is insignificant. The point of my comment was to communicate that Cynthia’s attendance to Ayden’s second birthday party was not essential, as Cynthia is my peer, not Ayden’s. Ayden’s celebration was not about MY friends, but about his enjoyment with HIS family and friends,” she wrote.

And like a true Southern Bell, Phaedra was sure to apologize to her friend about any misunderstanding.