lala anthony *Unlike many woman who release tell-all books about their love or sex life, LaLa Anthony says her book is “more about, ‘Ok. I’m going out on my first date. What should I wear?’” explained LaLa, who offers few relationship rules for her readers.

“I’ve always been that girl that all of my friends come to for advice about relationships, about dating, about life. So I figured put it into a fun book, but it’s not a tell-all about my marriage to ‘Melo,” LaLa told “Access Hollywood.”

LaLa Anthony’s offers up some words of advice and guidance for all the love hopefuls out there in her new relationship book “Love Playbook: Rules for Love, Sex And Happiness.”

In the book, LaLa warns women about opening their cookie jar up too soon with a love interest.

“The number one rule I did put out is to make them wait a little bit just because they will respect you more and appreciate you more. If you give it all up in the beginning, then what do they have to look forward to?” LaLa said.

She doesn’t seem to be a real advocate for sex on the first date, but doesn’t believe it’s the end of the world either.

“I think it can work. I wouldn’t say it’s a good idea; you probably shouldn’t do it, but things happen,” she said.

LaLa does offer her readers a few tidbits about her 10 year long relationship to her husband Carmelo Anthony, but we shouldn’t expect that to take up too many pages.

“Melo is so supportive of everything I’m doing,” she said. “I do talk about my relationship and marriage to ‘Melo in reference to advice and things. I want to be honest, but…it’s not that kind of book. It’s a fun book for women to just get advice to learn about love, happiness and sex.”