rasheeda & kirk (b-day)*Although most people have scolded Kirk Frost for the recent drama in his marriage and suggesting his wife get an abortion, Rasheeda recently told an insider that she might have condemned him too quickly.

“He couldn’t handle it,” said the source who counseled the couple briefly after Kirk’s infidelity aired for the nation to see.

Kirk was seen on an episode of “Love & Hip Hop: ATL” getting intimate with two women while his wife was at home pregnant.

While many criticized Kirk’s behavior, Rasheeda feels that maybe she could’ve been there more for her husband, who was shocked by her pregnancy. She said that Kirk already has kids and wasn’t exactly ready to start the process all over again.

Although their issues have been exposed throughout the series, the couple have still been spotted togetherat events including the BET Awards red carpet and showed up at the “Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta” reunion together.

“People had no compassion for him,” said the source who attended the reunion taping.

Right now, Kirk is not living in the house with Rasheeda but the two have been keeping in contact. Some reports suggest their marriage is beyond repair at this point.

However, Rasheeda recently told VibeVixen that she and Kirk haven’t definitively called it quits yet.

“When you’ve been married for 13 years and have businesses and kids together, you find a way to work it out,” said Rasheeda whose marriage hasn’t met an obstacle quite like this before.

“I haven’t had a problem with a husband that has been involved in constant infidelity. This is the first time we have gone through something on this level. It would be different if you saw this [email protected] out here running around here on a regular,” she explained.

Despite what some have advised, Rasheeda confirmed that Kirk’s cheating isn’t an automatic deal-breaker.

“I don’t give a damn about anyone else’s opinion. It’s about what’s in my heart and what the Lord has instilled in me. We have a baby on the way…I have stepchildren. I’m not rushing into a divorce. Love don’t turn off like a light switch.”

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