tami roman*Tami Roman is hoping that her “Basketball Wives” co-stars take time to clear the air about her allegedly hating on them and instigating.

Tami has been adamant about using her words more than her fists on season 5, so she took to her blog and posted a video encouraging Suzie, Evelyn Lozada and Shaunie O’Neal to be more mindful of how they’re representing her.

While viewers did in fact see Tami talk to Suzie Ketcham about newcomer Tasha Marbury and her husband’s past affair with a chef, Tami insists her intentions were never to pry in Tasha’s personal business.

“Yes, I did have the conversation with Suzie about getting information on Tasha and being armed with a response in case she tried to come for us, but A: I told Suzie before we went into that woman’s house, ‘do not bring up the chef. Don’t talk about it at all, just let the woman get to know us. Let us get to know her. Let’s just go on here and have a good ass dinner and leave it at that,’ but that is not what Suzie did,” said Tami who explained that the gossip about Tasha’s marriage was only supposed to be mentioned if needed.

“I said use the information if she came for us, and that is not what was going on at that dinner,” she said. “So, the fact that you chose to open your big-ass mouth and bring that up at that woman’s dinner, that is not on me.”

Tami said she fully expects Suzie to explain that to fans when the reunion show airs.

“Let me tell you what you are gonna do. You gonna use that same big-ass mouth of yours at this reunion and let everybody know the truth and what I told you to do,” said Tami.

Aside from the Suzie incident, Tami was disappointed to see Evelyn and Shaunie painting her out to be a hater during Evelyn’s PETA campaign.

“Let me just say this. I don’t hate on none of y’all bitches and y’all know that, and the truth of the matter is my mother is in the hospital and this is not a m@_#er^*ckin’ TV show. This is real life, and I was dealing with some real issues here with my mother being in and out the hospital and living on her deathbed trying to recover, so you guys know why I was not at that party and to imply that I was hatin’ on Evelyn or anybody else is dead ass wrong,” said Tami.

Tami has been working hard to improve her image and doesn’t appreciate her co-stars holding her to the past.

“I’m working on myself now and that’s what matters to me, and I felt that there didn’t need to be a precursor. There didn’t need to be no introduction. Let Tami go up and meet this woman and let this woman meet me, and I still stand firmly on that,” said Tami who didn’t know anything about Shaunie imitating her until she watched it on air.

Tami talks more about Shaunie and Evelyn and losing her mother in the video below. Watch.