kandi burruss mama joyce todd tucker*She may not like Todd Tucker (ok. She absolutely doesn’t like Todd Tucker), but Momma Joyce is letting her daughter, Kandi Burruss, do whatever she wants in regards to the former Xscape member’s feelings for Tucker. Even it means gaining a son-in-law.

In a interview with Radar Online, Momma Joyce confessed that she’s so frustrated and exhausted–and has lost sleep–that she says doesn’t care anymore if Kandi and Todd marry.

“I’m out of it. Whatever Kandi does, it is completely her decision now. I wish her well. I just hope that this is the right choice for her,” said Momma Joyce, who continued airing what she thinks about her daughter’s significant other. “They have worn me down to the point where it has made me sick. I just don’t feel like Todd is the right choice. I think he’s manipulative…I’ve tried to shield my child, but i’m tired. I’m over it. I pray to God I’m wrong about him.”

Momma Joyce’ surrender is the latest development in the continuing saga involving her and Tucker. Among her expressions of dislike, as featured on “Real Housewives of Atlanta.” are dissing Kandi’s engagement ring, claiming that Kandi’s daughter Riley doesn’t like Todd, calling Tucker an opportunist to his face, and trying to jump up to beat down Kandi’s friend Carmon.

Nevertheless, Momma Joyce is done with her reality TV star daughter and her soon-to-be husband.

“If Kandi is happy, I’m happy,” Momma Joyce continued.  “At the end of the day, she’s the one who will have to deal with him not me.

A lot of people who worked for Kandi and I have told me that Todd and Carmon were acting like much more than friends around the house,” continued Momma Joyce concerning rumors of infidelity on Tucker’s part. “They may have squashed the relationship for now, but I truly believe they were doing things behind Kandi’s back at one point.

“I’ve confronted Kandi [about the cheating rumors] — but she’s still with Todd, so who knows. It’s her choice, and I wish her well.”