porsha- stewart and kordell stewart*Divorcing someone is not as simple as it seems if you’re Porsha Stewart.

Apparently, the reality TV starlet has been maintain communication with her ex-husband Kordell Stewart, despite him filing for divorce.

Porsha comes clean on the renewed communication to her family in a look at Sunday’s “Real Housewives of Atlanta.”

“My family, I knew that they were protective over me, but they have stepped up and have been extremely protective of me since the divorce,” Porsha revealed. “If they had their way they would wipe Kordell off the face of the earth, and I would never have any contact with him ever again.”

During the family meeting, Porsha reveals her reason for talking to Kordell, saying that she wanted to “some closure.”

“He said he did not want the divorce,” Porsha stated.

“That doesn’t make sense,” her family responded.

“He said, either you come home or you leave and fend for yourself,” Porsha added.

Kordell’s reaction came as no surprise to Porsha’s family, who know he was a different person behind closed doors.

“In Kordell’s case, my wife is my possession, under my ownership and all that kind of thing,” said Porsha’s mom.

Ultimately, her ex-husband’s reaction was exactly the closure Porsha needed to go ahead with the divorce, which was finalized on Dec. 5.

“I really think, now, looking back, that it wasn’t a good idea to reach out to Kordell,” she said. “I’m not trying to be controlled by him and manipulated, so for me, at this point, I really want this divorce to be over so I can just move forward with my life,” she reveals.

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