*You wouldn’t stare at a woman’s chest and ask “Where did you get those?” so you shouldn’t ask adoptive parents, “Where did you get her from?” says Jesse Butterworth,the lead pastor at Rain City Church in Bellevue, Washington who notes his daughter isn’t an accessory he picked up at a boutique.
So the question to ask instead is: Where is your daughter from?
“People are curious — that’s human nature and it’s natural to ask questions… so we were thinking, what’s a way that we could help people just put language around it?”
Butterworth and his wife felt it was time to address some of the insensitive questions total strangers have asked parents who have adopted children – especially those of an obviously different culture; like his adopted daughter Harper, so he created a funny tutorial using boob jobs as a metaphor, and it has now gone viral.
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