j cole, melissa heholt,*J. Cole and longterm sweetheart Melissa Heholt are finally getting married soon. The couple became engaged in 2010, but no one ever saw a ring!

They met while attending St. John’s University in Queens, NY.  Now he’s a successful rapper and she’s a successful wedding planner in NYC.

But rumors had it earlier this year that J. Cole and Heholt went on break, and he had a baby with a young woman named Bria, who was posting photos onto her social media before quitting.

Nevertheless, sources close to the couple say they are together, and he gave her a four carat diamond ring, and a date and location has been set already.