Rapper Big Sean and Singer Ariana Grande attend The 57th Annual GRAMMY Awards at the STAPLES Center on February 8, 2015 in Los Angeles, California

Rapper Big Sean and Singer Ariana Grande attend The 57th Annual GRAMMY Awards at the STAPLES Center on February 8, 2015 in Los Angeles, California

*Just in case you didn’t know it, singer Ariana Grande can think for herself and oh yeah, she is no one’s property.

We got this bit of revealing news straight from Miss Grande’s mouth … well actually, her Instagram account after she penned a piece on Sunday in response to the chatter surrounding quotes she gave to The Sun in which she explained, “A girl can be friends with someone with a d— k and not hop on it.”

Grande, 21,told the news outlet, “I’m tired of needing to be linked to a guy, I’m not Big Sean‘s ex, I’m not Niall‘s new possible girl. I’m Ariana Grande.”

She goes onto explain further:

“What I meant when I said what I said about not being Sean’s ex is that I am tired of living in world where women are mostly referred to as a man’s past, present or future PROPERTY / POSSESSION,” Grande wrote in her Sunday post.

She added:

“I have clearly not been having the boy questions in my interviews lately because I have come to the realization that I have SO. MUCH. MORE. to talk about.”

Grande said she said she’s spent the majority of the past eight years “feeling like I constantly had to have a boy by my side.”

But her new time as a single woman has been a revelation.

“I can’t wait to live in a world where people are not valued by who they’re dating / married to / attached to, having sex with (or not) / seen with…. but by their values as an individual,” she wrote.

“I come from a long bloodline of female activists,” she wrote, also taking time in her post to discuss the double standards in how society talks about men and women and their relationships.

With that in mind, Grande also had this to say about society’s double standard regarding sex:

– “If a women has a lot of sex (or any sex for that matter)….she’s a “slut”.

– If a man has sex….HE’S. A. STUD. a BOSSSSSS. A KING.

– If a woman even TALKS about sex openly….she is shamed!

But if a man talks or RAPS freely about all the women (or more commonly used “bitches”/”hoes”…how lovely) he’s had…he is regaled.

– If a woman is seen with a friend with a penis, there is an immediate assumption of romance or sex and she is labeled!!

– IF a man is seen with a woman… his status is elevated / celebrated. “AWW SHIIIIT HE SMASHED!!!1!!1!”

Ariana Grande was in a relationship with rapper Big Sean until he came up with a song that referenced her private parts in which he boasted she has “a $billion p***y.” We assume he thought he paying her a compliment and she didn’t.

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