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*Hey, fellas. Here’s some advice about dating white women: Don’t for a single moment forget that you are a black male breaking a cardinal rule by putting your black n*gger hands on superior white flesh. White men don’t want to see their daughters fraternizing with the enemy. They’ll tolerate having a black son-in-law if he’s making well over six figures and can slam dunk a basketball. But in the back of a white man’s mind, he will always be superior to n*ggers. He doesn’t want his children, especially his daughter, to hop in bed with a jungle bunny. He doesn’t mind his son getting some of that brown sugar—that’s a fantasy white men have shared since the Jim Crow Era. Some white men even like to watch while their wives are ravished by tall, black, musty Mandingo n*ggers. But when it comes to his precious little girl, a white man has one rule for the average Negro: Hands off!
Fellas, I get it: Having a white on your arm is like riding a unicorn—it’s not supposed to happen outside of the occasional wet dream. Some of you n*ggas covet white women because they are status symbols in the eyes of society. Some of you believe that having the interest of a white woman makes you superior to other black men. Gaining their approval sets you apart from the other n*ggas who don’t have that special something that will catch a white woman’s eye. It makes you feel better about your place in the world. Instead of being the average n*gga, you become the type of Negro that’s acceptable to the blond haired, blue eyed goddess. Besides, White women don’t typically get involved with average n*ggas. They pursue super n*ggas who can provide three luxuries: a big penis, gobs of cash, and gorilla strength in case danger approaches.
Oh and by the way, fellas, I’ve seen too many of you booed up with sloppy, fat, homely-looking white chicks. It’s already bad enough that many of you are intentionally dating outside of your race because you’re not man enough to handle a strong black woman (I said strong, not crazy). Fellas, if you’re going to date a white woman, at least find one that’s easy on the eyes. Don’t settle for less based on the color of her skin. That’s tacky.
I often see black men proudly walking hand in hand with white women. I can see the pride and jubilation in their eyes. However, to these n*ggas I say: Don’t be fooled into thinking she wants you for the long haul. In her eyes, you ain’t nothing but a cheap thrill. When she’s had enough of sucking your big, black, d***—and pissing off her parents—she’ll go running into the arms of her White knight in shining armor. They aren’t really interested in you; they’re intrigued by the taboo of being with a black man. Even if a white woman gives birth to your children, it’ll be because she hopes they will inherit the ability to sink a jump shot like their old dad. You might be thinking love, but she’ll always be thinking about ways to come up (even if it means using your black ass to the bone). I’m just keeping it real.
In honor of former WWE wrestling icon Hulk Hogan’s racially insensitive tirade regarding his daughter’s open involvement with a black music producer, I have compiled a list of reasons why black men should stay as far away from white women as humanly possible.
1. White women cannot identify with the struggle of being a black male in America.
2. White women typically do not come from families that readily accept people of color.
3. In a divorce, white women will take everything you have (including your children).
4. White women treat their dogs better than they treat other human beings.
5. No matter how gentle you may seem, white women will always be afraid of black men.
6. When it comes to parenting, white women aren’t disciplinarians, they’re pushovers.
7. White women will dime you out to the police if they think you’re guilty of a crime.
8. White women don’t age well.
9. White women aren’t tough enough to endure the ups and downs of being with a black man.
10. Why date a white girl when you can be with a sister who looks like Nicki Minaj?
The Black Hat is written by Southern California based Cory A. Haywood, a freelance writer and expert on Negro foolishness. Contact him via: [email protected] and/or visit his blogs: www.coryhaywood.webs.com and corythewriter.blogspot.com
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143 thoughts on “The Black Hat: 10 Reasons Why Black Men Shouldn’t Date White Women”
July 25, 2015 at 5:00 am
It’s a bit much with all the offensive nigger, jungle bunny, nigga’s and musty mandingo’s, why can’t he just be mandingo? it matters not, if the writer is black these offensive words will never be accepted by me.
July 25, 2015 at 10:26 am
This the same cocky, arrogant, controversial fool that has also written articles about why Black men don’t date Black women are was REALLY offensive to ALL Black women, his past articles make him seem like an “Uncle Tom”. I’m thinking he just likes controversy and uses it to bring attention to his articles. He’s a jerk to say the least.
January 19, 2016 at 12:14 pm
I think that this is a perfect example of black men blaming everyone but themselves for their disgraceful record as husbands, fathers, community members and law abiding citizens. If this writer represents black men….none of us women of any race would want to date them.
July 25, 2015 at 5:43 am
I don’t know why I don’t just unsubscribe to this writer’s rantings but I find them very interesting even though they are highly offensive and ignorant. The author is obviously struggling with mommy issues, women issues, self hate etc.
As a white woman married to a black man I don’t deny that racism exists. And I don’t think you are helping the problem.
My husband and I are both equally attractive, although he is 8 years older. We have been married for 8 years, together for 11. We have had 4 children who are gorgeous, although they drive us a little batty sometimes. My husband and I are best friends, we treat each other with respect and are equal partners in our marriage. His parents love/d me, and mine adore/d him (past tense because both our dads have sadly passed away since we’ve been together). Our life isn’t perfect though, we have suffered tremendous loss (our little boy died tragically 8 months ago), but we are making it through with grace and dignity, hand in hand. We’re real people, we aren’t caricatures. And, sorry to disappoint you but the caricatures you describe are the very small minority. The vast majority of interracial couples are no different than any same race couple.
I feel sorry for you…I say this not to put you down but I really believe you are suffering from a mental illness and I think you need help. at the very least you are suffering from issues of self hate and misogyny. It must be very exhausting to live so full of hate and anger. Again I am NOT denying that racism exists…it does, and really bad things happen in life…that’s life. It’s up to us and our children to change that. I really do think the world is changing and my oldest son who is 9 is in entire class rooms full of mixed race children…not just black and white but Asian and white, asian and blac, latino and white ect (my little brother’s wife is from South America so there you go). I think it’s beautiful and I think our children will not have the mindset that you do once they grow into adulthood or even now. Thank God.
July 25, 2015 at 6:18 am
Wow… This mentality is so outdated and just wrong. Ignorance at it’s worst. I think this jerk just likes the attention…. Such anger uncalled for. People are people… Get over it.
July 25, 2015 at 8:30 am
Thank u for diluting the black male race. I’m good boo. But nice blog.
July 25, 2015 at 11:32 am
Jen, as an African American woman I thank you for your intelligent, articulate response to the article. I send sincere condolences on the passing of both fathers–yours and your husband’s. Not all black people feel the same way as the articles’ writer. It is rather unfortunate that he feels writing these types of articles are the only way that he can garner any kind of attention. For some reason, I thought of the song by Big Sean after reading his article. Specifically, the line “You little dumb ass bitch, I ain’t f*cking with you.” His article convinced me that the line is not gender-specific. Sean also says, later in the song, that “Drama makes for good content.” Look at how many shares his article gets. How many comments. While this is always the response writers want to their work, the respected one’s don’t go to such extremes to get it. The proof, Jen, is in the pudding as they say. This man has issues, obviously. And this is the only way that he can embrace them. Pity him, as you obviously do. He is a sad little man, probably with a very small … well, I certainly don’t have to stoop to that level but, I’m sure you get my drift. Live happy. Be well. And always seek the truth.
July 25, 2015 at 2:02 pm
Thank you, Truthseeker! Wish there was a way to Fav your comment! :)) I agree with everything you said, and wish you well too.
September 11, 2015 at 12:20 pm
Racism exists because of white people, history can speak of it well.Here in the US in my experience its the white people who are the most racist. As a dark Indian (I am sometimes been mistook as from an African decent) I mostly had unpleasant experiences with white folks especially women. Blacks comparatively are pleasant and “humane” while dealing with us.
September 13, 2015 at 5:43 pm
I again with your thoughts on wanting to just embrace your culture and wanting your children to marry inside the black/brown race. And yes, do I not have the right to embrace my culture like…. Asians and so on.
December 21, 2015 at 3:13 am
Racism exists because of extremely dumb arrogant people REGARDLESS OF COLOR, Racism exists in EVERY culture and race, because EVERY culture and race have their fair share of idiots. Look past the color of anyone’s skin, whites didn’t invent this. IDIOTS invented racism and it goes back soooooo many centuries in history.
January 10, 2016 at 7:18 am
For most caucasians, for obvious reasons, there are two entirely different standards of beauty for white people and blacks. Short of a scientific study, I can only assume that the brain of a white female that finds an African male attractive is somehow damaged.
January 14, 2016 at 11:19 pm
Jen you white ho,stop thinking only of that black pole to fuck. think of our white society,we need all white children.
July 25, 2015 at 6:36 am
I was fine until he got to number 10. Not my ideal woman, let alone BLACK woman.
July 25, 2015 at 8:24 am
Hmmm. I see it this way. Keep it up and black men will be extinct. I’m good. I already have the real black men in my life I truly need. Self hate will prevail for you. Think about it
July 25, 2015 at 9:16 am
This has to be the most misinformed unintelligent disrespectful prejudiced article I have ever read.
You sir, are grossly mistaken, on all counts. I don’t know what kind of ratchet ass idiotic white women you have encountered, but using them as the meter stick for all white women is not only grossly inaccurate, it’s flagrantly biased.
What independant free thinking educated adult forms such broad sweeping opinion in 2015?
I won’t defend everyone, because I don’t know everyone, but I know for every white woman who is as mucky as you describe there are 2 black males unworthy of marrying too for their own stereotypical problematic existences.
But to tell all white women they shouldn’t marry black men because they are dominating, uneducated, adulterous, and criminal would be not only INACCURATE … but also racist.
I see no difference in that and what you have done in this piece of trash you call an article.
You are entitled to your low opinion of an entire race, but please, keep it to yourself we have enough negative racial stereotype and bias floating around in the world.
You Sir, can have several seats.
July 25, 2015 at 4:41 pm
After dating several white women, I agree 1000% with this post. Generally speaking, white women are more racist than white men.
July 26, 2015 at 9:05 am
Racist shit. I always knew that the black against white racism in the last few decades is a lot worse than the other way around. I experienced a lot of that as a white basketball player playing in the hood where the best competition was. Fuck racism. By the way our current Irish-American president is one of the most racist presidents we’ve had in decades.
July 26, 2015 at 10:42 am
This dude is an idiot . ……(drop mic and exit stage)
July 26, 2015 at 7:34 pm
Unfortunately in the society we live in, for black men its just way better to date a white woman over a black one.
The main flaw of the white women (and males) is that they are racist. The American society doesn’t make them see their own racism or excuses it and encourages it. All white people are racist even the most liberal ones.
The main flaw of black women is that most of them are damaged by living in a white supremacist society/environment. That has damaged them culturally and mentally. Black males have also been damaged. The black family has been broken up by the white supremacists that run the prison industrial complex and the drug and weapon trade and the entertainment industry.
In a real equal society black males would prefer black women but most black males have been brainwashed into dating outside their race. Cant blame some of them because real black women are rare. And the American society will reward them and make their lives easier if they were with a white woman. The black males should just try avoid the woman’s family. Because it just takes only one to bring out racism and they will stick together.
July 27, 2015 at 11:30 am
@Pete K,
Now you’re being just as racist as the author. There are plenty of real black women available. To say that there are not is inaccurate, wrong and offensive.
September 13, 2015 at 6:00 pm
Its easier?…. I am a educated brown skin women and I have never thought to take the easy way out. Men… So this is how far they have fallen; Got it.
December 19, 2015 at 6:32 am
a educated women?? lol
January 9, 2016 at 11:10 am
ALL white people are racist? Are you for real? Do you know every white person on earth? It’s ridiculous comments like this that keep people apart and afraid of each other. So sad.
July 26, 2015 at 11:23 pm
Sometimes the truth hurts. I’ll stay with my Black Queens, there’s nothing a white woman can do for me.
October 21, 2015 at 3:41 pm
That is a racist comment. You date human beings, not skin colors. Turn your comment around and it is a very negative white supremacist comment. Why do people get so caught up in our earthly “packages”? We are all souls having a physical experience. And to clarify, there are no “white” or “black” people. There are light cream colored people and light brown people and medium brown people and dark brown people. All boring neutrals. Now if we were neon colored that’d be something to brag about.
December 18, 2015 at 10:12 pm
There’s only 1 black queen and she’s located in Africa. Get your facts straight racist ghetto boy on welfare and food stamps. Sickening how the blacks can abuse NOT use, but abuse the racist card and and say racial white slurs and thinks it’s “OK” and have the audacity to deny being a racist, but if a white person does the exact same thing it’s NOT OK to a black person. Why is that? Is it cause you blacks thinks that ya’s got the green light to say/do what the fuck ever ya’s like cause white ancestors enslaved your black ancestors? I think so. Lemme ask you this. If black lives matter, why the fuck are you blacks killing each other off? If that your guys’ sick fucked up way of defining true love for your race another well then I’m very happy that I don’t ever experience that so called true live. If I did they’d be nothing left of me but skeletal remains.
July 26, 2015 at 11:50 pm
You would think with EVERYTHING that whites have done to blacks over the CENTURIES, all of the lynching, all of the beatings, all of the raping, all of the murders, all of the discrimination, all of the denials, all of the disrespect, all of the stealing, all of the “Pure D. Hate” that they CONTINUE to do toward us today, you would think they would be THE LAST culture of people we would want to get involved with. Not to mention the “Jesus Died For You” message they shoved down our throats. The ONLY people that died for me were my ancestors. Even with VIDEOTAPE we are being hunted and killed by whites, cops AND civilians. Black Men, Women, AND Children. I don’t care what the writer’s agenda was, the shit is true, he just left off what I’m saying. Sometimes “Slaves Don’t Want To Be Saved.”
July 27, 2015 at 12:53 pm
In all the years I’ve been on this earth, I have never been treated as badly by ANY race of people as I have been treated by the black race. And my skin is black.
September 1, 2015 at 4:09 pm
You are absolutely right. Negros have Stockholm Syndrome..Tell me what so-called jew-ish holocaust victim would hook-up with and procreate with a Nazi German..smh
December 19, 2015 at 9:59 am
You’ve failed to mention they blacks enjoy beating, raping and killing each other off as well.
July 27, 2015 at 8:00 am
I guess we have to remember that this ridiculous article and others like them come with Freedom of Speech. This makes no sense at all. I’m offended in the same manner I’m offended when someone would say that all Blacks are mean, ignorant lazy stupid etc. To make absolute statements mean you know everything about everybody and that’s not the case. If you choose to date or not date a certain race/ethnicity that’s your choice, but the reasons listed in the article are dumb as dirt. Hurt, deceit, pain anguish, love and joy are not confined to a color of a person’s skin and the color of a person’s skin doesn’t protect you from experiencing those things. Nor does the color of a person’s skin mean you will experience these things. We spend to much time hating and tearing down each other. Dr. King said it best, “Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.
July 27, 2015 at 2:45 pm
What if… *gasp* a white man, marries a black woman?!? OH MAN! THE SKY IS FALLIN NOW!
July 27, 2015 at 5:08 pm
Please tell me this garbage is satire? No? This author needs his head examined. What a load of hateful trash. Self hate to black men and unjustified hate to white women. Stinky garbage through and through. If White person used all that ugly racist language and wrote this they would e tarred and feathered. This man is either evil or stupid or both.
July 27, 2015 at 5:52 pm
He does it because it gives him just what these responses are doing, giving him creditability to continue writing articles to provoke people to respond.
July 28, 2015 at 2:44 pm
In the world we have to different colours black and wite I thinking that macth together black and white I don’t care if you like yes or no but we also creat by nature, we eating we are life we work we study we also intelligence please stop violence, and didn’t what colours you are, but it’s true black man like white women, me I like borth of view I love white people and my nigga which black people in the world that is nature we not stop black and white God created by nature we are brother and sister, sister and brother I’m hear that before racist is a bad world, we are the world we are the children look stop violence everywhere how beautiful the world canna look black never do racist with the white people love black we are recreated by nature please we not anything Jesus also coming I was have dreamed for end the world going be like please my brain never stop to imagine what canna happens ……..if don’t love together …”..
July 28, 2015 at 4:44 pm
I’m cancel because I don’t want to got problem
July 29, 2015 at 8:46 am
The author obviously may have self image issues. But what is more obvious to me (as someone with experience in advertising sales and publishing), is that he was directed to write a controversial article. Listen: a “nice” article would not get much attention. If you are led to any article online, it is because there is commerce attached (advertising/site traffic). In the publishing world, “if it bleeds, it leads” is the law of the land. Thus I don’t take the author’s words seriously. Why be mad at a brother just trying to make a living when the system creates a need for off color salaciousness? Topic #2: Love. Hello folks…this isn’t high school. Anyone who is over the age of 30 should know that love is hard, love is complicated, and no one has experiences that translate to advice for the general population. When it comes to matters of the heart, skin color alone does not decide what will happen. It’s about what is in someone’s heart, and if they care bout the real you. I’ve dated women of almost every ethnic group and have found that the ones that I could stand, never questioned who I knew myself to be. Many women wanted me to be what THEY wanted me to be. I don’t care what color your skin is, to try to change someone into your ideal mate..that’s just wrong (male or female). When it comes to love, EVERYONE IS MESSED UP! That is, until you find that one freak who is “just your kind of crazy.” And even once you know that, love will still be hard. “The ship is always sinking, and love can only lead to pain.” yet, we still do it, we still join the ranks of the coupled. BTW – Nicki Minaj is in no way, my idea type of woman. Yeah, she’s got curves, but if you are simply looking at the exterior and not considering what is in that head, you’re looking at a life time of trouble! My advice: Go find out what love has in store for you, by participating in the adventure…that is the only way to find your own truth (read a book about zen to really understand this idea).
August 18, 2015 at 3:14 am
He’s joking …right? What’s his next subject – that the earth is flat and is riding on the back of a turtle.
As outdated as advising a young person to prepare for a career as an elevator operator.
It’s 2015. The 21th century. Time for the human race, the only real race/ one species, get real. Next year we Americans elect a new President. When that person issworn in the outgoing President will be there. Try and keep up.
August 18, 2015 at 6:12 pm
Sadly, as much as most of what has been written by the author stings…. some of this is true to an extent. In many white families it is taught to not treat others differently because of the Color of their skin, religion, sexuality, etc. However… when it comes to a white man having is white daughter date a black man… I do agree that there are a great deal of those fathers who cannot stand the idea. It’s one of those things that is discussed in families in a way such as “that is ok for them if it makes them happy but NOT in this family”. That is just the truth. I realize that it may not be that way in many families (or politically correct) but it was how I was raised (except the message to me was “It’s not ok for anyone”). This has also been the message I passed on to my children (not in our family). It is what was ingrained in me all of my life. We have never told our children you cannot be friends with black people, green people, purple people etc. My children have best friends who of completely different races. I have had kids of every race attend sleepovers in my home. My children have been to all sorts of events, gatherings, parties & sleepovers with friends of every race I can think of. We have never condoned any kind of hate. We have taught to treat everyone with respect & kindness. The one rule was not to cross that imaginary line with the opposite sex of another race into a relationship/dating situation. My father raised me with this specific statement being pounded into my head “If God intended for blacks & whites to mix, then we’d all be the same color.” At 40 years old I am currently faced with a situation I had not planned for. I have a 20 year old daughter who is having a relationship with a black man. This relationship was hidden from us for a year. As her Mother I felt very strongly that something was going on but each time I asked she made something up or shrugged it off. Eventually I did find out. I ask her. She told the truth. In that conversation my concern was society… that is the honest to GOD truth. I was worried about the secret whispers behind her back, the feeling if people staring, the possibility of people saying or doing hateful things to her/him bc of this relationship & so many other concerns. My daughter is Junior in a University with a very high GPA. She is stunningly beautiful. I know I am biased but she is. She works a full time job also to help us pay her college tuition. She lives at home as the University is close by. I disagree with so much of this article mainly because of the following: My daughter is not a gold digger. The man she is involved with is 5 years older than her & is a busser (buss boy) at a local restaurant. He is not a college student & has never attended college. He also lives with his Mother. I don’t believe in any way that my daughter got involved with him because it was taboo. She made it plain & clear that he treats her better than any white man she has ever been involved with (which to be honest has only been 2 young men). She said she can talk to him about anything & he makes her a better person. This child is my first true love, my heart… as upset & shocked as I was by this I could see & feel the sincerity as she spoke of him. This has been a very difficult time for our family. There is much judging happening. I have made a stand that I am her Mother. I will love her no matter what. I will be here whenever she needs me. I will have a relationship with her. I will not abandon my child & leave her with no family to turn to. I am worried about her. I have seen the neighborhood this man lives in & his home. It is very different from what she is coming from. She has moved out to be with him. Even if he was a white man… under those living conditions considering where she is coming from… I would have the same concerns about whether or not she was safe, whether or not he could protect her, etc. I am her Mother & cannot help but worry about things like this. I have come accidentally to this article seeking to understand… seeking to find some way to accept what is… find ways to help our family cope & heal… but also to see within myself what is wrong & how to undo 40 years of a way of believing. That is what I am searching for & what I had hoped to find here. I didn’t expect so much hate… at all. I know I am NOT a perfect person & certainly have room to grow & learn. If anyone (like Jen) or anyone else could offer me any advice I would certainly appreciate it & welcome it. How did your family handle this situation? How did your family get through the initial shock, hurt feelings & find a way to each heal & come together? I welcome any suggestions, reading materials, etc. Please no hate. I am hurting for myself & for my child because of the family reactions. I am trying to HELP not hurt anyone. Thank you for your time.
January 23, 2016 at 7:03 pm
To JustMe, I am a black woman and as a black woman you may not like most of what this author says in this article but he has a point with a lot of the stuff he says. Like not a lot of white fathers would be cool withe their daughters dating black guys, and may hate their black guts. Also in certain areas they do not like black people and in some cases and if you are black in the wrong area it is a problem. Also the whole mandingo thing my mother told me about and it has some truth to it. This idea that black men are well hung is not always so true, I mean cause somebody decided that is what it is about that black men have the big dicks but this is not always true. Secondly we need to be more aware of the world around us not everybody in the world is nice, and white people who act like racism does not exist need to cut that out. It does like it or not, and don’t act like you are so shocked when you see it that is what annoyed me about a post by Sam Smith talk about racism. To me he is in the majority of white people who do not get it, because if you got it it should not shock you, and what annoys me about it is it shows how oblivious you are to the world around you. Not everyone in the world is nice, like in some parts of the world I read like in Afghanistan they have so little respect for their women that they cut off females noses and ears if you will. But that is the point educating yourself about the ways of the world, and ignoring the ugly. Then the comment about white women being more racist then there men also true. Like when I was accused of theft twice in my life it was by white women one incident was a woman who worked for my Mom’s old boyfriend who had a friend who said to me once and I quote ” don’t steal.” and I was sitting on a bench minding my own business when this bitch walked up to me. The second incident was a white woman who asked me to watch her laptop while i was minding my own business working on my math, and said to me i know you won’t steal my laptop. I had no idea she was being racist until later after talking with my friend, and mother about it. But no white guy had ever accused me of stealing anything. Now that thing your father said years ago I get it it was a different time blacks and whites were not cool like that. And living down racism is a painful and powerful legacy to live down. But anyway some people are nice and some are not. Racists come in all colors, and those people that have a problem with your daughter’s black boyfriend it better be because they don’t like him as a person and not his color. As for as where he lives if it is as bad a neighborhood as you say this is a messed up thing to say but maybe hope she dumps him because she seems to be coming up in the world and not why would she want a busboy? Secondly your daughter seems like a nice girl and when you are a black man a nice white girl is hard to find. I apologize ahead of time if I am racist with what I am saying to you but when you are Black, Hispanic or whatever group you are a part of that deals with racism you have to look at the world differently because as you are probably learning by now the color of your skin affects the way you are treated and you have to adapt to survive. And like the author said the idea that most white women scheme want a man with money, and as for as black men go like them because they have big dicks usually is true of most of them. But anyway these are some ugly facts/truths that you may not want to hear. But the point is yeah their are racists in the world. But my hope for your daughter is that she does whatever makes her happy, and if being with this guy makes her happy then good, but hopefully she picks a guy regardless of color who is better educated, and who lives some place safe that is what I want for her. Anyway peace out I hope you found what you are looking for and while racism is one of the ugly things in the world if they love each other and the love is strong they will be able to get through this. Just like Tamera Mowry Houseley has said of her husband ” being strong to be with her.” And she is absolutely right because Adam is white, and she is half black and half white which is why she is lighter then me. But anyway when you see the pictures of them on the internet, and just from what I read about them you can tell both in writing, and in the pictures that he loves her, and his family. And I must say it brings great joy to my heart, and spirit to see that. The way he treats her so loving, warm, and nice you can tell he loves her as I have said. So hopefully you were left with some understanding, hope, and you got the closure or healing you were looking for.
August 19, 2015 at 2:35 pm
Unfortunately, even though some of what this author is saying seems hurtful, hateful, and painful…it can be viewed as a direct lived experience for many blacks. I am a black woman, I am of sufficient and sound mind, educated, and have dated men from various races and backgrounds. The sad truth is that, even though there are many whites who are “fragile” when it comes to black and white race relations, blacks have endured a great deal of hate, systematic oppression, structural degradation, mistreatment, and social inequalities…you name it and in some way or another any black person can relate! There has and always will be negative stereotypes about black men and women. I have personally and indirectly been privy to black men and women who perpetuate the old age and timeless attitude that white is right, more sought after, more delicate and tender, more attractive, more polite, and countless other ideas about white superiority. It is like a poison of the subconscious that black men and black women posses about the “other” race. Ultimately there is no one solution to this lack of love, appreciation, and dedication to ones own race. It is multifaceted! Sadly, there exists a mental addiction in some blacks to want and need what they historically should not have…white flesh, white love, white approval, and a white life (and all the so called and apparent benefits to it)! This twisted society has managed to promote an atmosphere of internalized racism and self hate amongst multitudes of blacks and many other races. Without any reluctance, I will say that the status quo is white and therefore white only appears right…as that is the popular paradigm of thought. Blacks, get it right…understanding that white is not right does not render racism. We can love ourselves, our men, our women without feeling like we’ve settled for something less or second best!
August 20, 2015 at 3:03 pm
Pure, unadulterated racism
November 16, 2015 at 6:28 am
im a black man,and i hate nicki minaj,voice gets on my nerves,but 2 each his own,i date both raes,would like 2 find a good sister,but they dont have their shit together,thats just me,when i find a good one,she into white guys,cuz hood brother f-ed them over,so im good,but whoever i decide 2 spend my life with,white or black,would know that my surroundings include both races,thank u
August 29, 2015 at 8:26 pm
I stumbled across this article by accident and honestly thought that it was some sort of joke, due to the level of ignorance and racism involved. In fact, I’m still a bit beside myself.
I even thought to myself, ‘Perhaps this is just some made up person who writes in such a way to anger people to get them to comment, so that the website ‘said article’ is on, ‘ranks’ extremely well (which is exactly what’s going on here, due to all the comments and social shares).
Long Story Short: I did some research and I found this YouTube video for those of you would would like to actually hear from Cory in person >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXnz369JZmc (you may have to copy and paste it, to view).
He’s a very handsome & articulate fellow… and EXTREMELY Serious!! For full shock: Be sure to stay to the end, where he says, “I want you to keep coming with comments, with negativity, the hate mail. I feed on it, I feast on it, I thrive on it… it fuels me. Please continue”.
In regards to the image with Gisele Bündchen being lifted by super dark black men “she’s not in a wedding dress”… she’s not white, Cory… she’s Latina.
Now for some commentary on your 10 points:
1. White women cannot identify with the struggle of being a black male in America.
– – True – – But can YOU identify with being a black male prior to the 1960’s?
2. White women typically do not come from families that readily accept people of color.
– – Perhaps – – But a woman in love, won’t care what her family thinks.
3. In a divorce, white women will take everything you have (including your children).
– – And you think a black women wouldn’t? Hahahaha… what world do you live in?
4. White women treat their dogs better than they treat other human beings.
– – Most dog owners ‘in general’ are like this… and i think they should all be slapped.
5. No matter how gentle you may seem, white women will always be afraid of black men.
– – I’m afraid of you not because you’re black… but because your effin’ crazy-town!!
6. When it comes to parenting, white women aren’t disciplinarians, they’re pushovers.
– – I don’t know what white mother YOU’RE talking about… my mother was a total bitch when I was growing up!! My dad was the push over. (Don’t get me wrong… I love my mother. just making a point here)
7. White women will dime you out to the police if they think you’re guilty of a crime.
– – Any intelligent person would do the right thing in this situation… race is not the issue here.
8. White women don’t age well.
– – FACT! I’ll give you this one… Not many women age as beautifully as black women!!
9. White women aren’t tough enough to endure the ups and downs of being with a black man.
– – What types of ups and downs are we talking here? Please clarify… because I don’t know any women (of any race) who wants to deal with the ‘ups and downs’ of an over dramatic man. In fact, now that I think about it… my black women friends will kick out a man (who’s pulling shenanigans) far quicker than my white women friends… #JustSayin’
10. Why date a white girl when you can be with a sister who looks like Nicki Minaj?
– – You’re funny!!! Do you know how high maintenance a woman who looks like Nicki Minaj is? And do you think for one second she’s going to put up with the ‘ups and downs’ that you’re talking about?
All I know is… you’ve got a knack for magnetizing attention to your posts and though I don’t really agree with anything other than point 8… I do respect your firm stance on your opinion.
Good for you and good luck finding (and keeping) a women.
November 30, 2015 at 7:58 am
I hope you are Joking about Gisele not being white. She is a pure German from southern Brazil, and yes most people in the far south of Brazil look like her. How can you look at a picture of her and not think she is white?
Yes, I am a pure White-Latino (Colombian born in Miami), and my grandparents were Nazis who fled to South America. According to you I am not White, when in fact you cannot be whiter than I am.
August 31, 2015 at 11:51 pm
I am a 33 year old black woman with a 5 year old son. I do not consider myself racist; but why is it wrong to hope that one day my son will bring home a black woman? I would be disappointed if that didn’t happen. I don’t think it’s racist or narrow-minded of white parents to feel the same way; or Indian, Asian, Muslim, Hispanic parents either to embrace their culture and want to strengthen it and keep it pure.
I do intend to share my views and expectations with my son when he becomes of age. I plan to point out the beauty and worthiness of black women and strongly encourage my son to search for a black woman who is equally yoked
September 13, 2015 at 6:07 pm
I agree your with thoughts on wanting to just embrace your culture and wanting your children to marry inside the black/brown race. And yes, do I not have the right to embrace my culture like…. Asians and so on. And unfortunately, racism will not be going away quickly in America unlike other countries because America was founded on it, and educated people know that.. and as long as their here..
September 16, 2015 at 9:15 am
OF COURSE,I prefer buxom blondes between 22 and 40!!!!!!!I’m a pinup boy handsome,62-year-old black Canadian lad with ABSOLUTELY ZERO INTEREST in fat broads,whether black,brown,yellow,red or white!!!!!!
September 22, 2015 at 12:37 pm
U r a fuckin idiot. I hope u get eaten by a shark.
November 25, 2015 at 9:09 am
@Oab, are you talking about a land shark? 😉
September 27, 2015 at 9:20 am
I agree and disagree
In my opinion…the author has intentionally stated several ugly truths in a provocative manner.. because he’s a writer and that’s what they do :). However the author has courage and wisdom far beyond his years. There are absolutely exceptions, but he’s spot on about most things stated in this article. One thing to note is that dark skinned black men and light skinned black men will have drastically difference experiences. A dark skinned man is 2-3x more likely to encounter these problems. Dark skin offends the average white person’s senses… and typically the white women that are chasing dark skin.. their “attraction” doesn’t come from genuine acceptance or any place healthy.
The lighter the man’s skin… the healthier and more balanced their relationship will probably be. The lighter the skin… the more respect they will have for the man. It’s probably not even intentional… just a lizard brain thing. With that said, people can and should date whomever they want. Just be honest with yourself about your motivations for doing so. If becky will understand the challenges of being a black man and will support you when the inevitable anger and depression sets in later on in your life… then cool i wish you both luck. Or If you’re dating becky in an attempt to elevate yourself or prove that there’s something exceptional about you… then whatever. Do what you have to do. But don’t try to sell delusional BS to anyone.
I don’t know if dating black women exclusively would yield a better result though. In fact, the rejection might be more damaging to a black man. Colorism exists in the black community too. 9/10 black women would probably choose a “drake” over a “wesley snipes” and an “ashton kutcher” over a “drake” and most probably couldn’t explain it. When dating interracially you expect that her family “might” not like you.. so you’re prepared. But to be rejected by someone who you feel should have shared similar experiences with you and have a similar outlook on life… because of your skin color is arguably more damaging.
September 27, 2015 at 2:14 pm
Nikki minaj is a illuminati whore…. why would anyone be with someone like that. I bet her suga walls are beyond loose… she got drake and meek mill beef between her corrupted walls
September 28, 2015 at 2:43 pm
This man is wrong on every one of these points. I am a white woman who is attracted to black men based mostly on the 1 relationship I’ve been in with one, where I was treated far better than the 3 white men–1 was my husband–I’ve been in relationships. This black man was not threatened in the least by this white woman’s strong & assertive personality, which came w/the territory in white males. I got all manner of verbal abuse & misogyny from these white men, & none of that from my black boyfriend.
Not in a relationship now, but am interested in another w/a good black man.
September 30, 2015 at 12:45 pm
fuck this stereotyping shit… i’m dating white girl and she is nothing like this..
person who is in love with you wouldn’t care what her racists family thinks and she is gonna be supportive and she is gonna stand with you
September 30, 2015 at 12:49 pm
GO AND DATE WHITE WOMANS.. GO DATE BLACK WOMANS – DO WANT YOU WANT! DO NOT LET THE STUPID MEDIA STOP YOU FROM REAL LIFE. THIS IS SHIT
PERSON WHO IS INLOVE WITH YOU WOULDN’T DO THIS THINGS.. NO MATTER WHITE,MIXED,BLACK…
October 8, 2015 at 2:55 am
This is the dumbest SHYTE I’ve ever read…and I’m black.
October 11, 2015 at 1:59 pm
Wow…what an ignorant point of view. All of your “reasons not do date a white woman” are trying to belittle white women. We’re not strong, we’re users, we’re snitches…what a joke. We’re just as down for our men as a black woman. Truth is, who cares if a white woman a black man is with is fat either? Brothers date fat black women too, not just fat white women, maybe they just like fat women. Btw, nicki minaj was also a horrible example, she’s walking silicone with no talent…I have only dated black men, my entire life and it wasn’t to piss off my parents or use them for sex, it’s because I’m genuinely attracted to black men and their demeanor and because I am strong enough to weather the storm of being in an interracial relationship. By the way, we aren’t all fat! I have the natural curves and beautiful face to put nicki to shame, so to the brothers, if I’m a status symbol, “let me upgrade ya” lol jk. Seriously though the writer is ignorant and over generalizing an entire population. Shame on you dude and sorry you’re so bitter.
October 13, 2015 at 5:00 am
Gee it is very common these days and it is no surprise to me at all.
October 13, 2015 at 10:02 pm
NO ONE will ever want to admit to the truths you just laid out. As ugly and as hurtful as some of the statements were they were also very on the mark. Unfortunately black men will continue to ACT like black women are undateable thus they are forced to date outside their race and white women will continue to ACT colorblind all while secretly LOVING the pedestal they’re placed on by society solely due to their color.
Speak truth always brother!
October 14, 2015 at 6:27 am
There is so much more white trash women now then we ever had, what a shame. Whatever happened to the real good old fashioned women we once had?
October 15, 2015 at 8:56 pm
White woman_* please do not mention plastic surgery when white women live on it.A black woman’s butt will put you to shame. Girl please you are tripping to think your a upgrade.
October 18, 2015 at 2:12 am
Absolutely none of this is true for me! I’m a white woman and I only dated black men. My husband is black. I’m only attracted to black men. I’m not a pushover, I’m not white trash, I don’t treat dogs better than humans, I’m DEFINITELY not afraid of my husband, my past boyfriends, or my black friends. My parents accepted him with open arms too! Some black men might only find white women attractive, it really comes down to a preference. Honestly, there are some white girls that match up with these points, but don’t generalize.
October 25, 2015 at 4:48 am
This article is garbage- I’ve been with my white wife for 14 years and she always held it down. People can mind their own business. Some people are just salty especially black women sometimes. My experience with black women has not been positive. Disloyalty and ever thing else. No one compares to my wifey.
October 26, 2015 at 3:40 pm
You are remarkably ignorant and this is a piece of poorly written trash.
November 4, 2015 at 2:01 pm
Hi , there is no reason why Black and White marriages are any different than any other !
November 5, 2015 at 5:01 am
I find these comparisons funny. Not all black women look anything like Nicki Minaj (not even nicki minajs younger self) you really should look up obesity rates among black women before you cast shade on a white woman. This article just makes you sound bitter and that in itself is very unattractive. Why are black women a group of people that clamour for equality yet secretly want to separate “their” men from the world? You anger a stereotypes towards black women but hae done nothing but sling around steotypes towards white in this trash article.
November 5, 2015 at 11:57 am
Way to keep hate alive, jerk. It disgusts me that you can think these things, let alone talk about them or write them down. You should be ashamed of these ideas.
November 10, 2015 at 3:00 pm
What a hypocritical and racist article. If the article stated anything negative about black women, there would be racism and angry comments made. It just highlights that white hate is a cultural problem among blacks. You were taught to hate and you pass it on to your children. Sad and disgusting. This is a perfect example of why racism still exists and black cultural is the first to point the finger. Don’t forget when you point your finger you have three pointing right back at you!
November 10, 2015 at 4:06 pm
Preach my brother…Preach…
November 15, 2015 at 12:14 am
I understand why whites would be offended, but what I don’t get is why blacks feel the need to join in…..wait. yes I do.
November 21, 2015 at 2:05 pm
Don’t even try and compare your self to the black man your picture you look like a little mommas Boy. Of course you don’t be word your saying and crave to be accepted by a white girl but rejecting has made you a pathetic loser
November 21, 2015 at 2:07 pm
Why comment Kyra your getting emotional which is what he wants
November 21, 2015 at 6:17 pm
I’m a Black man, married to a white woman for six years. I never felt superior to other black men and woman …..But some of them simply feel inferior or just act jealous of us for some reason. Other black men stare and ask questions like “Where did you get her ? and, do she have any friends or a sister”? Some black woman just make slick comments or roll their eyes at us , while some try to befriend her, only to bombard her with personal questions about our relationship. I often forget my wife is white because i love her for who she is as an individual…besides, after six long years we’re all pass this black and white thing..yet others continue to make it an issue.
November 24, 2015 at 12:07 am
As a me being Mexican and white and my kids being mixed I’m really offended bye this growing up my whole family is biracial .. u name it we have it in our family and my boyfriend is mixed black and white and he can tell u first hand that all the stuff that was said is not true maybe for some people but I live her in sandiego and every where u look there’s biracial family’s kinds and couples .. u can’t help who u fall in love with one of my good friends is black and her husband is white and she help raise his daughter witch I think is great .. I just feel like u fall in love with the person not there skin color
November 24, 2015 at 11:47 am
You forgot the part that stipulates clearly that whenever a white woman is done dating a black man the white women no longer has value to her white community as she is tainted and therefore unusable.
November 27, 2015 at 3:21 pm
Our generation will never go anywhere with people like you , the fact that you have the nerve to type out this bullshit disgusts me , if our generation does not over come the shit people like you are feeding us there will be no hope for a brighter tomorrow
November 27, 2015 at 4:00 pm
Where did you get the idea that white women aren’t though enough to deal with the ups and downs of being with a black man from? Have you met every single white woman?
November 27, 2015 at 7:32 pm
You sound like a very angry and hateful person my dude. You need to do some soul searching cause you couldn’t be more wrong. Ain’t no difference between white and black I’ve been with both got a kid with other too. They’re the same good strict whoop ya ass mommas to both of my kids so u WRONG there. They ain’t pushovers and the pops LOVES ME always has. They might not know the struggles but they sure are there to stand stromg with you and both crazy white and black will eat to ass out if they milo ours lol. You need help my dude for real lol….
November 28, 2015 at 9:43 am
Hell his is no different when black post all that negative BS about why they don’t date black women. You’ll sign-up for that BS all day (both black men and Whit women) and you’ll swear that negative shit is true about all black women. There is both positive and negativity in all races. Just be thankful you’re not attracting the negative in your life, but he’s entitled to his opinion.
November 28, 2015 at 10:27 am
If you ask me black men in general got major issues.. they’re always trying to find an excuse to blame someone for their problems.. they never seem to respect their so called women.. They always have multiple girlfriends aka side hoe’s.. if I ever had a son I will be sure that he doesn’t end up weak minded like most black men.
December 5, 2015 at 5:35 am
yeah you talking alot of SH** keep that racist crap to yourself
November 28, 2015 at 3:07 pm
I just burried my BF Keith who happen to be Black! He was a true Gentleman! We loved each other in spite of being black
November 29, 2015 at 1:43 am
This “article” makes it clear that Corey’s very bitter about being rejected by a women, if not more than one. He reeks of “sour grapes”.
As for me, an openly bisexual black man who dates only other bi people, I can say that his assertions do not apply to me, or anyone in my multi-ethnic circle. As I date only those people with whom I am intellectually, culturally, emotionally and, yes, sexually compatible, the nonsense described in the article rarely, if ever, comes up.
Then again, one would have to have the maturity and self-respect required to seek the kinds of relationships in which something as trivial as skin color simply is not an issue, but, it is appreciated(not fetishized)for its unique beauty. Corey makes it clear that he lacks both attributes. I wish him and those of similar mindsets all the best on their journey.
I will say that whenever I’ve been out with one of my friends, and we enter a room wherein I’m one of the few black men present and I am the object of “the stares”, I simply state the truth-to their faces:”Yes, I am much bigger and better than you in every way. Get over it. Good night.”.
I always say it with a massive grin upon my face. I, then, strut away like a boss. That’s the true reason for their hatred of black men:resentment/envy/jealousy/spite. We have and are everything that they wish they had and were.:)
November 29, 2015 at 10:43 am
This is right on point and 100% accurate!! Good article .
December 6, 2015 at 6:03 am
This is a very bigoted article that seems obsessed with portraying yourself as a victim no matter the circumstances. This kind of over generalization about white people is just as racist as anything you might personally experience.
December 9, 2015 at 4:56 am
Impressive. Everything you said about white women…spot on accurate and just blatantly True. I seen some post from people expressing how offensive your comments were, but I can’t understand how any of them would argue with something that’s true…. Probably because of another thing white women did to American society…… They made ” Truth” a ” Theory”
Great Acticle !
December 11, 2015 at 9:51 am
As an American born Asian man, I agree completely. White people are constantly being portrayed in the wrong light with the rest of us. That said, their image is uplifted in contrast to everyone else’s. The reality of it is white women are disgusting. They look like men and without makeup, they look like hideous creatures. They age rapidly after 25 and are void of any morals. It’s also funny how you bring up them valuing animals more than fellow humans. It is certainly true from what I’ve seen. The biggest of them all, they can not relate to me as a non-white person. They seem to enjoy basking in their blissful ignorance.
December 15, 2015 at 3:51 pm
You sound like a damn fool…
December 16, 2015 at 9:51 pm
Pretty weak “article” or op-ed. Actually there was no -ed. I’m a successful black man dating an even more successful white woman and we’ll have children soon. They will never think so ill about women or white people in general. Get with the times.
December 17, 2015 at 7:42 am
Man this shit tells the truth. I honestly agree with this article,, because it’s true
December 18, 2015 at 5:07 am
This is blatant prejudice and is not true. One injustice does not justify another. My guy is black…I’m white…I think he is brilliant, gorgeous and he makes me feel safe…I’ve never been afraid of him. I love him deeply and I’m offended at your cruel, generalized comments. You have become the very thing you hate…you are poisoned by the wounds in your soul. I pray you heal. The world is full of hate and so are you.
December 18, 2015 at 9:54 am
Black men just want to prove to white people that they are “good” enough to be valued and seen as men. Their way of achieving this success is by marrying a white woman or by simply being seen with one. The only issue i have with it is that black men will fight their hardest to degrade the image of black women but will literally sacrifice everything they have just to be with a white chick. Black men are insecure men
December 18, 2015 at 10:18 am
So what else is knew.
December 18, 2015 at 2:44 pm
You sir are a dumb butt. Enough said
December 19, 2015 at 3:32 pm
What a perfect ass. People do not hook up with a race of people, but rather one person at a time after thorough or not-so-thorough vetting of said person. This guy operates with exactly the same mentality of the lowest bottom-feeding white supremacist – namely talking about what he knows nothing about. On a purely individual level, some black people will take your life. Likewise, on a purely individual level some white people will put their lives on the line to protect you from the above-mentioned black killer. He iterates exactly the same style of myths as the white supremacists … “they are like this or that … they do this and don’t do that blah blah blah.” In fact the very thesis of his ignorant rant is a contradiction. Obviously, he places himself outside of the “they.” A true hypocrite, he wants his audience to see him as an individual and not a “they.” Yet, he casts complete lies about individual people he neither knows nor have ever met, based purely on what he perceives as a general characteristic. What about him – can he dance because everybody knows that THOSE black people can cut a rug? Is he extremely fast on the track because – once again – everybody knows that THEY are super athletes. Does he have a monster shlong (here we go again) because everybody knows THOSE darkies are hugely endowed … except for the many who are not, but that’s another story. Categories – categories. Categories is exactly what many of us with a modicum of consciousness have been trying in vein to shake off in the mentality of white supremacy. This guy speaks more in their favor than not. He writes like one desperate to convince the world he is blacker-than-thou. This, he is not even within smelling distance of such status.
December 19, 2015 at 4:59 pm
This article is wrong, poorly written, racist, prejudice and just plain dumb. There will always be someone who has something prejudice about someone else’s relationship choices…..Wake up, and grow up world…there is ONE RACE…the human race and the only people that care about the ridiculous things in this article are rich people that wants to screw with the masses because they’re bored and stupid. Relationships, real ones are about connection and the partnerships of two souls, and souls have no color.
December 26, 2015 at 3:05 am
Wow… This mentality is so outdated and just wrong. Ignorance at it’s worst. I think this jerk just likes the attention…. Such anger uncalled for. People are people… Get over it.
this mentality isnt outdated its normal and people aren’t all the same.
December 19, 2015 at 7:59 pm
This is a sad indictment of race issues in America..
December 21, 2015 at 12:11 pm
I understand your racism, I am 100% white I also encounter racism just because I am muslim and my name is mohammad I have blue eyes , what is worse than black men?
blacks are gangsters and muslims are terrorists
gangsters are better appreciated than terrorists.
December 22, 2015 at 7:48 am
i fuck white people and niggers
red power
December 23, 2015 at 8:44 pm
I can’t believe I read this dumb shit.
December 25, 2015 at 3:03 pm
Media doesn’t make it any easier on blacks, they just make more racists with all the race baiting crap. Most decent white women are not attracted to a black man because I think it is what I call “sub-conscious genetic drive” – it is well known that blacks as a race score the lowest on all SATs, have the higher per population of incarceration rate, their neighborhoods look like trash (unless it’s prof athletes), have less than 1% of the ENTIRE worlds meaningful and groundbreaking inventions. The argument that they have not been well to do in USA doesn’t hold any weight when you look at their land of origin (Africa). It hasn’t advanced much besides South Africa (and that is because the Brits took over that area and influenced the Zulus). The Arabian north has no connection to Blacks. So if you want to say all humans came from same spot, this in not proven, but I’ll say there was an obvious change of genetic lines ages ago. So where does all this hate come from and media bias? It is jealousy and envy that they cannot compete in a civilized society despite given every affirmative action assistance known and STILL are at the bottom of the barrel. People need to take the blinders off their eyes and just realize no matter how sad it sounds. It makes more sense for a Black to have genetic advantages in athletics because their land dictated that via evolution and generations of genetic programming, the land was harsh with predators. Hey I heard they will be given a 200 point boost on SAT tests coming up, they’re actually talking about that, can you imagine? “Oh let’s look beyond all that is logical just to make sure nobody feels left out.” – What kind of limp weak wimps are running this land? Change is coming trust me. Out of all this discussion and all they can talk about is penile size that all they got to be proud of? Wow. I been in many showers and military and compared myself to anyone (any man that denies this is lying) and it’s all a myth people. Any decent white women with good genetics wants nothing to do with a black sub-human.
December 26, 2015 at 5:58 am
Good stuff…All true!!
December 28, 2015 at 7:15 pm
I pray for writer… lost in mental slavery…
December 29, 2015 at 8:19 am
Wao! I am glad that I haven’t been exposed to whatever ills this authour has been exposed to. Apparently,he, his both sight and insight are very damaged. Whilst there is no pretending that there aren’t traces of truth (and that is all there are, traces) we can only pray that the author is better exposed to better sights to repair his insight.
December 30, 2015 at 12:21 pm
I was seriously hoping to see some sarcasm in the article when I read the title, like for real you’ve got to trolling…
December 31, 2015 at 9:34 pm
the fuck is this?? how did this even get published. I’ve never been on this site before but man y’all should work on the racist assholes that you call ‘experts in negro foolishness’ and let them put shit like this out on everybody’s vision. just ugh
January 2, 2016 at 8:45 am
Proof that blacks can be more racist than whites. My dad (black, native american breed) married my white mother and swore how he couldn’t’ stand dating black women, said they were worse than this guy explained white women are. And now I can scrape the black men off me (because they love us mixed girls). I could date any “race” and would prefer ot have a child with a totally different race, but I want to see all the races mix up so I have an agenda.
Racism is such a waste of time. It will only be overcome once we breed out whites and blacks, along with the rest of the races, and return to the solitary race we were before we left Mesopotamia.
Remind me not to revisit this racist website. Wow first article i read definitely set the tone for what to expect. Bye!
January 2, 2016 at 7:59 pm
You know something is fucked up when you’re a black woman and was hoping this was sarcastic.
January 3, 2016 at 6:04 pm
I lied in my last post, sorry. P.S. I am a nigger pretending to be a cracker.
January 8, 2016 at 1:06 pm
Your Black women prefer white men. Excuse me. They are not even there for you. Deal with it. If the enemy are white woman, black women are too. Why are models, actresses, singers, all successful black women marry white men? Answer me if you can.
January 10, 2016 at 10:40 pm
This is bullshit. I love my man, who happens to be black. I’m also attractive, independent, and sweet as can be. The unknown author of this post is obviously a hater who is butthurt by his failed attempt at fulfilling his ‘white chick’ quota for his sexual biography.
January 11, 2016 at 10:49 am
I never read such a ridiculous crock of shit before in my life..
January 12, 2016 at 2:31 am
For most people, both white and black, there are two entirely different standards of beauty. White people, generally speaking, don’t have huge lips and nose, and certainly not very dark skin. When it comes right down to it, bone structure is a prime indicator of species and the African bone structure is obviously very different from that of the caucasian unless similarities are caused by interbreeding. Short of a scientific study, I can only assume that the brain of a white person that finds an African attractive is somehow damaged, and vice versa. It is just not natural.
January 12, 2016 at 10:48 pm
As similar species, a lion and a tiger can bred to produce what the breeders call a liger, but that would not occur in nature. A female bird will have NOTHING to do with a male bird that is not the colors of the male of her species. There are lessons to be learned here!!
January 13, 2016 at 9:05 pm
Society isn’t ready to make this a viable option.. I have had sex with many white women, but we’re different. Yes they were horny, I was horny! Nothing in common. She doesn’t understand what my struggles are, and I don’t understand her.
January 13, 2016 at 10:45 pm
1.If a black man is struggling ,he is not living right and does not have a job. Not all of us struggle. 2 So what for the most part its about what she thinks anyway. 3 So do black women. 4. Some black women treat u bad even if they don’t own a dog, why do u think black call them self dogs….from ignorant black women. 5. u can be gentle wit a black woman and she will still treat u like sh*t. 6. There have been black women who kill there kids, abuse them, there are bad people n all races. 7.If u look guilty I would to,pull ur pants up show some respect for her and ur self. 8. don’t tell Jane Fonda,77….Kris Jenner 60…Raquel Welch 75…Susan Lucci 68 etc. that!! 9. U mean like using her as a punching bag …..no I guess not, I would’nt. 10. Yeah!! fake ass, fake boobs, I will take Meagan Fox over her anyday. morale of this is ..there are no guarantees in any relationship no matter what the color……Oh! by the way ur a dumb ass n***gger. yo mama should have taught u better than that.
January 14, 2016 at 3:01 pm
keep it up brother that’s real truth your tellin to real kings and stoopid niggas. The KJV BIBLE tells the Israelites not to deal with any other nations. A Brazilian Queen is the most I need.
January 14, 2016 at 4:15 pm
Very common nowadays and it is really no surprise to me at all.
January 15, 2016 at 6:00 pm
“expert on negro foolishness”
January 16, 2016 at 5:26 am
I’m a white woman and I hate this lying article! I won’t even call it an article, it is garbage! White women don’t turn black men over to police for any reason! It’s black women who do that for child support! No white woman has ever called the cops on black men so you can just stop with this smear campaign!
January 17, 2016 at 2:29 pm
Personally I think it’s not natural for races to mix. God made men and women for each race. It’s sad that there is a mix race that God didn’t create. Nature doesn’t mix so humans shouldn’t.
January 19, 2016 at 9:26 pm
This was just terrible to read,
And do really this this is okay to write? Do you not see this is clearly putting a whole other race and gender down?
Those are Stereotypes and it hurts me to think that anyone would actually belive this. It doesn’t matter what race or what gender someone is, just as long as you love them and cherish everymoment with them. So if anyone sees this comment, just think before you actually belive this very terrible article.
January 20, 2016 at 1:01 pm
Jenifer I’m white and a quarter black, and only southen racist white trash people say things like that. People mix now get over it.
January 21, 2016 at 3:23 am
You do know that not all white women are evil bitches who only fuck black men for their ‘fantasy’ or whatever the hell you want to call it. It isn’t impossible for a white woman and a black man to have a happy, lasting relationship. I will agree that a lot of the times this can be true, but you forgot to mention that there are plenty of white women whose preference is black men, not just for sex, and vice versa.
January 22, 2016 at 9:40 pm
Yeah, sure, just ignore what I said! SO typical!!
January 23, 2016 at 12:38 am
Hilarious, especially the comments! It’s good to see that there’s an equal amount of retards on both sides of the race line. Shine bright like lasagna!
January 26, 2016 at 2:03 pm
Okay, what else is knew?
January 27, 2016 at 12:39 pm
This is a terribly upsetting article. Doesnt the author realize that his point is exactly the same as the so called Father’s who wouldn’t let his white daughter date a black man. It is the same argument only in reverse. The author tears down not only white women but also black women by implying that having a white woman is better than a black woman on the eyes of a black man. It is a “status symbol”. No race is better than the other. We are all human and here together so we should support one another regardless of what color our skin is. Which by the way is because of evolution not because God wanted us to only marry people of our same color. Races mix. It is completely naturally and the best chance we have for survival. It is time to EVOLVE ppl.
January 28, 2016 at 10:27 am
You know,as Boris Johnson,Lord Mayor of London,Eng.,said a few years back,”Two precent of mankind possesses a 132 (Mensa level) IQ,while 16% own an 84 or lower IQ…..AND THIS THREAD PROVES IT!!!!!!!(Most posters here fall into the FIRST category!!!!!!)
Yours Truly,a cover boy handsome,62-year-old black Canadian lad,has ALWAYS desired buxom blondes,these days between 22 and 40.In fact,because I’m attempting to become a Country songwriter,and resemble a black cowboy stud in my Western duds,if I find a big boob black babe who resembles a buxom “Beckaroo” (cowgirl),my 5’9″,193-lb. body would fall for her LIKE A BOULDER!!!!!!!
January 28, 2016 at 10:29 am
And I wouldn’t come within TEN NAUTICAL MILES OF NICKI MINAJ!!!!!!!!(I also possess a 150-160 IQ,DOUBLE THAT OF MOST RAPPERS!!!!!!!)
January 28, 2016 at 10:57 am
I meant,”Most posters to this thread have sub-84 IQs,not 132+ ones!!!!!!”
January 28, 2016 at 5:19 pm
You mad? Tell us how you really feel.
I feel like you had a bad experience and now you’re looking at someone to blame, bc this article is full of BS.
I’m not sure what kind of white women you’ve been interacting with, but I can tell you this article isn’t really accurate at all. As a black man, I’m aware there are both good and bad – but what you’re describing sounds like trailer-trashy women who nobody should date (or associate with) regardless of race.
Also, every one of the white women that I’ve dated came from families who didn’t care at all (and hence raised a woman who was a good enough person for me to be interested in in the first place), and every one of their dads find some way to let me know they’re not racist. Kinda funny (I call it the “white dad talk” by now) but that’s seriously the only time it has ever come up.
The one think I will give you is that black women do tend to age better. Then again, Asian women age even better – are they off limits too though?
January 30, 2016 at 4:55 am
The 7 reasons he gave were true as hell I gotta give it to him on those but the article is bullshit!
February 1, 2016 at 4:09 am
Why not be with a black woman
1.Unfaithful
2. Has 45% of black men in jail
3. Causes men to die
4.Doesn’t age well
5.Lead stds
6. Cause unnecessary drama
7. They say their strong but mean loud
February 5, 2016 at 11:57 am
ahaha
nailed it
February 4, 2016 at 8:57 am
I can’t believe it’s been posted! Get over your anger, dude! It’s just spitting out of your mouth like a black poison. I wasn’t born here, I am white, and my ancestors were slaves, too, go read history of former Russian Empire and Soviet Union.
As long ad you going to divide people by race, you’re a racist, big time! Anger is not an answer to all problems we, as human beings, are experiencing in 21 century. How many more times you need to put that broken record on and on? It is much easier to find somebody to blame for your own misery then get out of it.
This article is showing a real author’s level of intelligence or
lack of it thereof. Hatred, over hatred, over hatred…
February 5, 2016 at 7:07 am
This article, though bold to actually write and publish, only seeks to perpetuate racism. These are all “stereotypical” reasons why we as a country cannot get past, well, the past! Nothing good will ever come from someone reading this article. In fact, it saddens me greatly to think someone would read these statements as truth and hold them close to justify racist behavior towards young black men. Cory A. Haywood, I’m not sure what you wanted to accomplish by writing this article, but I can only bow my head and hope you find peace despite cultivating hatred.
February 7, 2016 at 12:04 pm
Wow dude you are ignorant! Most black men want light complexioned black women, and statistics show only 1/10 black men date white women!
I am biracial and men of all races try to talk to me, yet only black men actually pursue me for a relationship and its cause I’m half black!!
You made a lot of racist and dumb comments
February 8, 2016 at 1:05 pm
This guy Cory is nothing but a straight up buckdancing, Uncle Tom ass nigga
February 8, 2016 at 8:45 pm
What a load of garbage this guy wrote.I am a black male and never had to deal with any of the points you wrote with white woman in my relationships. No problems with their families either. It all depends on how your raised. There are racist parents in every racial group. Luckily I met the ones that were not. You sound like someone who is bitter about a past incident.
February 10, 2016 at 4:21 pm
The only thing I would say…
When I think “strong black woman”, I think Jada Pinkett Smith, not Nicki Minaj. Let’s be real here. You will NOT find a personality as beautiful as Jada’s in someone that looks like Nicki Minaj. It’s not happening.
The real “strong black woman”, if you didn’t find them during high school, it’s too late. That’s fact.
I date any race where we click. I don’t seek a given race, but I do largely avoid black women because for the most part, they are the same: when they don’t get their way, the attitude comes out and they don’t know how to control their emotions and talk it out. Same with Ricans. Other than those, the female is perfectly content to let a guy be the “Man of the House” which avoids arguments and such. That’s just the way it is.