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Name: robijoa
Comment: Who cares! This is Hally, it will not last.
Name: karamelky
Comment: WHO CARES?
Name: McNasty
Comment: . . . I like Halle bunches but this must be a slow news day!
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: Why is Gabriel having his agent tell the world how much money he makes. And I find it hard to believe that Halle is cool with him exposing the details of their new relationship. This guy is clearly trying to benefit off of this relationship...he wants celebrity!
Name: coesmo
Comment: Poor Halle...yet another failed rlationship in the works....
Name: ericsgirl
Comment: robijoa, I agree. I don't think it will last either. In a few months she will try to get back with Michael Ealy.
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: It's confirmed...HALLE IS A HO... A Big yet Beautiful one at that! I thought it a long time ago..now I know.
Name: mayday
Comment: Good for Halle, I hope that she is happy no matter if it is temporary or permanent.
Name: khufu
Comment: why does she have to be a "ho?"
Name: Angel
Comment: Musb - So...because she dates a white guy, she's a confirmed ho?!? What's your criteria for someone being a ho?
Name: 4mybabygirl
Comment: I just think Halle need to learn to love herself first before she jumps into another relationship. Hopefully, she has done that. We all know she has some emotional and relationship issues.
Name: DCGG
Comment: Shyt I ain't mad at Halle - she's young, single, beautiful and successful and because she dates she's a hoe - now had she been a man - it would be all good! Yall some fuvkin Hipocrites foreal! I ain't mad at Halle the mofo is fine and I'd be all up on it too!
Name: GodsChild
Comment: We all know that from a carnal perspective Halle is very beautiful, but 'in my opinion", Halle will never be happy, nor will she ever acquire true joy, peace and happiness without Jesus Christ in her life. Jumping in and out of relationships doesn't equate her to being something other than who she is. A beautiful woman who deserves more respect that what she's giving herself. She should really stop trying to find happiness in these failed relationships, and learn to love Christ with as much zeal as she does these men. Once she does that, all else will fall in order.
Name: dcdouglass01
Comment: Halle's version of the recent movie "Something New" (that appears to have bombed at the box office)? As far as Halle's overall man problems, Richard Pryor, in his stage act, once told one of his girlfriends who was lackluster in the bedroom: "maybe yo puzzy is dead." If that's the case, start doing them kegels, Halle.
Name: thatbklyngirl
Comment: I don't think Halle is ho, but I do think she's very insecure and will always have relationship issues. She just aint right the noggin...
Name: wyld1
Comment: There was a reason why she played Dorothy Dandridge so well, she is a lot like her. I always thought Halle would eventually start dating white men that treated her badly. I don't know why, that's just how I felt.
Name: 4mybabygirl
Comment: The problem with her is she was raised without her father, so in every relationship she compares the men to her long lost daddy. Which mean she has insecurities issues, thinking every man is going to leave her or cheat on her. When all men are not like that. She need to mend her relationships with her father and get closer to our Father which is God. Then she will see that all of her relationships will work out alot better!
Name: Thunny
Comment: Ahem. Where is all the hate for this woman? The same hate that would be on display by the angry black women on this board if Halle were a male and started dating a white woman? Why no backlash for her? Personally, I don't give a good Goddamn about Halle one way or another, but I do find it interesting that there are no negative comments about the fact that she's with a white boy instead of a black man. Because we all know how the women here react to the stories about black men with white chicks.
Name: Angel
Comment: Thunny - If you haven't noticed, all of our experts are too busy psychoanalyzing her like she's been coming to them for therapy for years. She ain't no more f*cked up than the average woman which includes a lot of the "experts" on this board.
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: *Pumpin fists into the air w/a whoof* THUN That's what I'm saying. It's Not just that she's been linked to this yt guy (although the excuse will be that since she's 1/2 yt, yet these women were ready to cut Terrance Howard off at the knees when it was rumored that he's involved w/a yt woman). It's ALSO that had this been Lisa Raye, Tyra et. al, they would be crucified up in this camp. Now we here this bs about "oh it's because....." yeah right! She's been romantically linked to more people than Lil Kim and peope call her a ho....WHEW! So, my question is..if these other strong black successful women are ho's...why ain't Halle a ho right along w/them?
Name: MOTHERSHIP
Comment: 4mybabygirl, that's real talk right there. Halle needs to do her before jumping from pillar to post. Me, personally, I ain't rollin' with nobody YT. With all the atrocities done to us as people, from being chained, whipped, branded, lynched, treated like worst than chattel during the middle passage, hunted like dogs running while running way, all the shyt done to us during Reconstruction by the ancestors of these crackas and I'm supposed to date and fucck 'em too. Naw, I don't think so.
Name: GHank
Comment: (Thunny} I hear you loud and clear. I come to realize that I can't even discuss issues like this on this board. Ckeck out the Jawn Juice article posted yesterday. They talk about the same double standard you just mentioned. Two days ago, I had mentioned that some people/friends that I knew suggested that maybe I start to "broaden my horizons" and date inter-racially, and man....these folks on Eurweb stomped me like a "roach in the projects". I didn't even say I was going to do it, but it didn't matter. But the mere mention of the subject got me a one way ticket to Eurweb General Hospital. (LOL!)
Name: Thunny
Comment: GHank - I read that about Jawn yesterday so I know exactly what you're talking about!
Name: Angel
Comment: Lil Kim didn't have problem screwing married men, so that might make you fall into the ho category. I'm just not sure why you would consider Halle a ho. Does she sleep with married men? Does she indulge in one night stands on the regular? menage a trois?!? From what I've read, most of the folks she was "romantically involved with" seemed to be monogamous relations or marriages. If she is considered a ho, then you are basically calling most single women hos, especially if they are not married by 30. That just seems a little ridiculous to me. Is Beyonce a ho? LOL
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: Okay I'll be the one to say it...I do think it is messed up that Halle can go public with the white guy, but when she was dating Michael Ealy...she had to duck or have him walk behind her like a dog...why be cool with exposing the white boyfriend and not the black one.
Name: blackman
Comment: Gotta Co-Sign with Herbs, Mothership & Thunny.
Name: McNasty
Comment: Thunny there probably would be but these signifying monkeys are too busy tearing this woman apart and analyzing her. None of you people know whether she's spiritual, happy, secure or any of the rest of the adjectives used to describe her current state. What do any of you have to do with her happiness or longevity in her relationship?! This story wasn't worth these many posts let alone all this bullshit rhetoric!
Name: McNasty
Comment: mcalis you're blind or misinformed cause halle trotted michael ealy out proud as a peacock. Y'all get off that woman's clit!
Name: Thunny
Comment: Wow EUR allows the word bullshit to be printed but not the word a$$umption? That's bullshit! LOL!
Name: Gurlfrand
Comment: I knew the haters would be out in full force on Halle.
Name: EdnaMae
Comment: Go on Miss Halle! Cute couple, maybe she will find some sort of happiness with this guy.
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Angel..if u notice..I referenced certain women have have fit the EUR standard of whoredom. If those women are considered whores..then so should Halle. Sleeping w/a married man doesn't you a ho. None of the women mentioned above have one nights stands on a regular...menage a trois...and have been romantically involved in monogamous relationships...YET! They aren't ho's. Of course, I don't think B is a ho..but if she left Sean today...started dating me next month....and finished up w/Thun by the end of the year...you better believe it...people would call her a ho. BTW...Halle never wanted to publicly acknowledge her relationship w/Ealy (at least not that I'm aware of)..aint' that some bullshit.....lol..let's see about that one...
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: bullshit...bullshit..bullshit.. kiss my %*$...p.huck u...lol
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: She did not parade him around like a peacock...they were "CAUGHT" together...but she NEVER went public.
Name: Thunny
Comment: I co-sign on the fact that it was reported that Halle would keep Ealy a few paces behind her whenever they were in public. She was not proud of him in the least. And she never posed for a picture with him like the picture EUR used to the right of the story. If I was Mike Ealy I'd think that was some bullshit! LOL
Name: Southernbelle
Comment: Go ahead Halle. This is your new flava of the month. I don't see nothing wrong with a grown woman doing her thing. For all I know she's only dating these men and there's nothing wrong with that. At least she's not doing like some other women (J.Lo) and marrying almost every guy she dates.
Name: McNasty
Comment: Caught, parade - pictures of halle and ealy all over the place together and I swear I can't tell if he's paces behind her or not! Since she tells all in her interviews I'll wait for this shat to come out her mouth before I comment. All this is just so ridiculous!
Name: Priceless
Comment: y'all a dayum trip ... a woman is a ho cuz she has dated more than one guy and she dayum near 40?! it's a bunch a ho's in the world and on the board
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: ..and I would be %*$!ED to..WTF is that..now she's all bunned up on a pic w/this dude... and you don't hear nothing but crickets up in this camp...Jlo was married to what 3 guys..halle to two.
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: and she's been linked to just as many guys outside of marriage.
Name: Southernbelle
Comment: Who cares about his resume' as long as he can make Halle's toes curl.
Name: Monicia
Comment: Will never hate on Halle. Halle is an abusive woman! It's her way of no way! Her realtionships don't last, because she is a control freak. Every man she has dated and the two that married her were abused by her. Don't know is yu guys reme,ber when she dated Wesley Snipes. She hit him and he hit her back!!!!!!!!! Wesley ain't been seen with a sister since! The others are not going to risk possibly jail time or bad publicty fooling with her. So they just go on thier merry way. I hopes she gets help to deal with her attitude issue's
Name: Priceless
Comment: *raising hand to confess* I am a certified ho because in my forty something years I have dated prolly bout 20 guys *sucking teeth*
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: Halle is just looking for a sperm donor anyway. Perhaps Michael Ealy was not going for that - I believe he said he wanted to marry and have children or at least wait for the right time. So in a way Halle's using this new guy (she's probably moving faster than she normally would because she's about to turn 40 - and that's her deadline for having a baby)... Plus, she has already said she's never going to marry again - so we may see her with a few more guys down the line. Either way I think she needs to be careful when it comes to having children so late since she is a diabetic, plus, I think it to be a little crazy to just pick any dude your dating and decide that he will father your child...he could turn out to be coo coo! It took her three years to find out Eric was a little off!
Name: Harriet
Comment: Halle is a single woman and what that means is that she can date/fock who she wants when she wants and how she wants. There are no children and there is no husband and I am not aware of her focking anyone else's husband so I really do not see what the problem is. So what if you can count up ten failed relationships in her world? What 35 year old woman hasn't had at least that many in her lifetime? This vile and ugly talk when it comes to Halle is really out of order. I am not down with interracial dating by any means but at the same time I fail to see how it is necessary to call her a head case or talk about her vagina being dead.
Name: Southernbelle
Comment: Priceless>Be proud. There are worst things to be like a 40+ year old who has never dated anyone. LOL
Name: Harriet
Comment: Priceless- I guess that I am a ho' too then. I turned 37 Monday and got me a shot that night so that would make me a certified ho!
Name: realuvbaby
Comment: Dang, people. It's Halle's life and if she wants to love 2 men or 20 men, it's her business. If she's happy, why can't we just be happy with her. So what it doesn't last? Nothing is forever anyway, so why does her relationships have to last till eternity? How many of you have been in failed relationships. And if she is dating a white man, so what? Her mom is white? So she isn't she part white. And bottom line, judging from what some of you are saying, you wouldn't want her anyway, so why trip? She seems to be happy TODAY, which is more than I could say about many of these posts. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Go Halle, do you. No matter WHAT you do, from choosing a movie role to choosing a man, you gonna %*$! somebody off and somebody gonna have something hateful to say. LIFE IS TOO SHORT SO DO YOU, HALLE!!
Name: OSUN
Comment: Whoever said Halle has been linked to more men than Lil Kim had a brain fart. I could care less who she dates. If it is a white boy then it is a white boy. At least he is self sufficient and has the added benefit of being fine. Hopefully he will treat her well and that is what is most important. Let stand up and say anybody can date anyone they want as long as they are of legal age, especially black males.
Name: blackman
Comment: This is a discussion/comment board. People can say or have any opinoin that they want!!!!!! I hate that "Do You" saying. It makes no dang on sense.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Also, what is the popular definition of a HO. I didn't know it was a woman or male that has had more than one marriage or more than one boyfriend. I thought it was a male or woman who has multiple partners at the same time.
Name: McNasty
Comment: Spend some time digging around in your own lives and taking a good long look at the person in the mirror. Bet you'll find some issues or information you didn't know you had. Priceless I guess I'd be in the same boat with you and Harriet cause I did my share of trying to get my heel in his ear! but since I got married does that mean I'm all good?! LOL
Name: Thunny
Comment: In my estimation a ho is an extrememly promiscuous person. Male or female. Dating does not equal being promiscuous. The thorn in my side here is that many times the women on this board will crucify a black male celeb for dating outside his race, but when Halle does it it's OK for her to "do her". I don't get it. Where is the consistency? To the people who mention that Halle is a Halfrican, what circle do you think she filled in when she took standardized tests - other? No sir, she looks black and is black. White America identifies her as a black woman. I didn't hear her complaining when she was described as the first black woman to win an Oscar. Therefore she's black, and the people who have a problem with black men dating outside her race should have that same problem with Halle dating a white boy. But amazingly the don't... go fiure.
Name: GHank
Comment: {Thunny} I totally agree. That's what I have been saying for the longest time.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Priceless, McNasty, Harriet I will join the ranks. I am not 40, but I have had more than for relationships so I will buy my HO tshirt and wear it with pride. I guess the fact that I have had more than a couple of partners does more to define my ho-ness than the fact that I don't date married men.
Name: MER82
Comment: The queston about why Black women don't speak out as much about Black women dating outside their race as they do Black men is tired and played out. Black men don't accept the answer Black women give to that question so why keep asking? Halle is grown and can do as she pleases, if she wants to date a different man every week so be it-Believe it or not-just because you make the scene with different folks doesn't mean you are fukking each and every one of them. It seems the real issue some of you have is that her love life is outshinin yours....Halle Do you and Press on.
Name: Priceless
Comment: Harriet, welcome to the ho club *snicker*
Name: Angel
Comment: OK Musb, so we are talking about the EURWEB definition of ho...well ok, then that just means it varies by poster. And of the women you mentioned, I never thought Tyra was a ho. She's in the same category as me (never been married and in my 30s). Now Lisa Raye and Lil Kim have been linked to screwing married men, so that's just a different category. I'm not saying they are ho's, but they have shown "ho-like" behavior. In the last 5 years, Halle has been linked to 3 guys. All were relationships, so big whoopty do. As for her being seen with the white boy and not Ealy.....maybe the picture with her and the white guy was pre-dating during that photo shoot and she didn't think she would be hooking up later. LOL
Name: Priceless
Comment: Osun, you need the Ho Bomber Jacket to complete your ensemble *snicker*
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: What I find interesting about this whole subject is that "I" was the only person to reference Halle as a ho. "I" gave EUR examples of what a ho is but NO ONE acknowledges the fact that Halle falls into the same category. Talk'n bout a double-standard. Now this seems like some feminist liberation mov't up in this camp. I'll just say that if, no, WHEN the next time there is an article that talks about ANY WOMAN or who is not as well liked as Halle, as having been "linked" to numerous men...REMEMBER the HALLE FACTOR!
Name: TesticAl
Comment: I don't give a fuckk who Halle dates. She's a KWALITY WHORE in my eyes. That dude is a lucky man. If I were him, I'd be DEMOLISHIN' that azz RAW like that Billy Jack nigguh or whatever his name did in Monster's Ball! Ya DIG.
Name: AfroSheen
Comment: Dang, yall are harsh up in here!!! Why all the hate? All EUR did was post and article about Halle and her new boyfriend and the first several post was all about how the relationship was doomed to fail and how it will not last.....who's to say, he might be the person that is meant for her. And how does anyone know if Halle has gotten herself "right with GOD"? I dont believe anyone on the site knows her personally to even make such a comment. Has anyone seen the email that is floating around that has several other black celebrities that are dating white men? It has pictures of Tyra Banks, Venus and Sernena, Heather Headley, Thandie Newton, and several other people that are doing the same thing as Halle......
Name: OSUN
Comment: Angel maybe an appropriate term would be "ho like tendencies" I would suspect alot of us, male and female, display some of those. I know I do. And to be quite honest, I think I could be a really big ho if I was left up to my own devices. Alas, that is the beauty of a personal relationship with Christ. For me I think that is one of the few things that keeps me from my Ho Throne.
Name: OSUN
Comment: AfroSheen, I haven't seen the email but there is definitely a trend emerging. I personally am not attracted to white males, so it seems an impossibility for me. I think some women may be saying Hell our males are doing, I am going to give it a try. Couple that with there are more black females available than black males. I hope to remain on the chocolate side of the neopolitan ice cream.
Name: MER82
Comment: blackman---> 'Do You' in this vein simply refers to Halle shaking the haters off and doing what feels right and good to her. It means be your own person and don't get caught up in the bullshit that people bring. If you can't tell from a lot of these posts, folk will bring some %*$! to you. I am sure we can all relate to that. A weakminded individual will buy into what others have to say about his or her life. A strong person will keep it moving, regardless of what the people say. So this phrase applies.
Name: blackman
Comment: The term seems wayyy to liberal to me. To "Do You" sounds like be a "Ho" if you like.
Name: GHank
Comment: One of the main points of discussion is that a lot of men and women are dating outside their race. Personally, I'm not hating on Halle, but at the same time, why hate on Taye Diggs or Derek Fischer of the LA Lakers for dating white women? The issue is that there always seem to be an understanding support when black women date white men. But when it's the black man dating the white women, there's a sense of harshness among AA women. My point is don't be supportive of Halle and then turn around and get mad at Taye Diggs for doing the same thing. That was the only point. Most men don't even care who tagging Halle's azz. Do you actually think if Michael Ealy was dating Jessica Simpson that AA women (especially on Eurweb} would be supportive? If you believe that, I got a bridge in Brooklyn I can sell you.(LOL!}
Name: AfroSheen
Comment: I agree with you OSUN, I hope to stay on the chocolate side myself !!!
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: This white guy she's with is cute...but he's white boy cute...there's nothing better than a FINE black man...so hopefully she'll get back on track. Plus, perhaps black women don't care about other black women dating outside their race because black women (at least some -- this day in age) don't want to date other black women...so you don't feel like you've lost something when you see a black woman with a white guy.
Name: Thunny
Comment: Thank you, GHank. Well said.
Name: Angel
Comment: GHank - I don't care who anybody dates because I am open to all races, BUT I think why a lot of AA women (especially professional and successful AA women) get angry about AA men going elsewhere is because the pool of available AA men that are of their "caliber" is quite small, so there are plenty of AA women for a successful brotha to choose from. At the same time, since the pool is so small a lot of AA women are happy to hear when another AA woman chooses someone outside their race. That just means that there are more AA men for them.
Name: danyello
Comment: I think most black women who are dating outside their race do so because a large number of black men are doing it. What are they suppose to do? I am sure their first choice would be a black man. Personally, I have a wonderful black husband, but if I wasn't married, I would probably give it try. I don't know it kind of makes black women feel bad, when everyday you see black men who do not want to date black women. JMO
Name: Priceless
Comment: heyell give me a foine wealthy pank and I will fock him too .... heyell I've already confessed to being a ho *snicker*
Name: GHank
Comment: Remember...there's another side to this. Don't think for a second that white women are happy and supportive of Halle dating and focking a nice white guy (by some of the ladies' standards). There are white women right now who is looking at this picture of them saying, "THAT BLACK BYATCH!!" You will be surprise what white women say at the water cooler at work.
Name: Thunny
Comment: What people should remember is that it's all about the children -- the babies, more specifically. If we want the black/African-American race to float away into extinction, then by all means keep on dating, marrying and having children with people of another race. If we want to preserve the black family, then we will stick together. That's what it comes down to for me. I don't want some pale, straight haired kid with blue eyes. I want a brown baby, period.
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: [LOL...I knew this was bound to happen] Congratulations Halle! Now, everything will be peaches-n-cream and you will live happily ever after. You will experience the most romantic, caring, spiritual, supportive, indulging, educational and rewarding love affair of your life. I was wondering when you'd catch-on to the fact that Black men ain't %*$!. Hell, except for me and 3% of the Black male population, all Black men are criminals anyway. Most of my brothers beat their women and smoke crack. Most of us are drug dealers, too. You'll never see a one of us on a job - we don't like to work and wouldn't think of taking care of our families and children - we're animals! (except for me and the other 3%). Oh yeah, we suck at running businesses - we have a problem with stealing from the cash register. Only 1% of us even go to college and nearly 90% of us live below the poverty line. I even know of a Black man in Georgia that ate somebody before...yes, a real, live cannibal - don't worry, he's in jail. Like I said, we are the worst of the worst. The only thing we do is rap and play basketball because only 10% of us can read. A long time ago, it was just the opposite but people were spreading all these lies about us until one day we woke up and it was True! So, you hang on to your handsome white beau, he'll protect, respect and take care of you and will never, ever cheat because he's superior on the planet and he just couldn't bring himself to do that if he tried. By chance it doesn't work, keep on the "white" path and find another master, ooops, I mean white man...Black men are nothing but trouble, just look at the statistics.
Name: DCGG
Comment: Thunny all your ranting and raving about black this, black that, and the extinction of the black race -- yet in the end you really only want a brown baby - brown as in Halle Berry kinda brown or what - brown as in Taye Diggs kinda brown?
Name: dodgy
Comment: Thuny... there's an entire continent filled with people of the negroid persuasion if you so desire. Re: Halle - she tried with the brothers and it just didn't work for her so now, she's playing in the snow. Her mum is white and she loves her mum, why is it a big deal that she dates a white guy? Also, both of them are single and didn't cheat to get to where they are right now (unlike say, JLo) so erm... what's the problem?
Name: McNasty
Comment: Black women don't necessarily get up in arms about black women dating outside the race because we did it out of necessity. Black men jumped the fence en masse and left black woman standing at the bus stop so rather than keep diddling herself she found a white boy to do it. We took a page out of the black man's hand book. GHank because of this, don't expect to get no hate on a board with a brother and a white girl.
Name: MOTHERSHIP
Comment: CTFU @ Olsoul! Whaddup dude?
Name: MER82
Comment: Danyell and Angel covered it-basically Black women can't have Black babies by themselves, so to preserve the race is moot at this point...Perhaps Black men should have thought more of that before making interracial dating so popular...Black men made dating white women a MUST-it became a trend at the expense of the race which is another reason Black women got mad at the Brothas-it started for all the wrong reasons. What we see now, are Black women who are exploring their options. Fukk we supposed to do, grow old, gray and die? I would rather see Black women with Black men, and I prefer Black men, but I cannot and will not be mad at a sista searching for some love where she can get it.
Name: whynotme
Comment: at least when black women date outside their race they don't start putting black men down....when black men start dating white women call black women everything but a child of God, like a black woman didnn't give birth to them, breast feed them, and wipe their stankin azz!
Name: McNasty
Comment: . . . we only broke camp cause y'all did!
Name: Royale55
Comment: Co-sign MER and McNasty-Nuff said. Shout out to Mothership and OldSoul-
Name: McNasty
Comment: Hey Royale!
Name: MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Royale, where the hell you been? What's poppin? Glad to see ya! McNasty, whaddup?
Name: GHank
Comment: {Angel} Some points you make are valid. There are a lot of AA women making that paper as opposed to the brothers. Sinbad the comedian put it best when he said that men generally don't care that a woman make more than he does. With women, men got to have the right clothes, the right car, the right job..own place, etc..and you maight get with her. As for men, we are pretty much dogs..(Ha-ha) We don't care how much money you make or what job you have. You could be working at McDonalds and if you got a nice azz and decent boobs...we'll try to holla a cha. Yes I know it's stupid and crude, but unfortunately that's how a lot of us can be. If this guy Halle is messin with worked at a fast food place, we wouldn't even be talkin about this is a subject. Now, I know I will get flak over this......
Name: Thunny
Comment: DCGG - you sound like the product of an interracial relationship. Dodgy - I said African-American, didn't I? You sound like you love you some white folks huh? Different strokes for different folks.
Name: Angel
Comment: Uh olsoul...calm down. Halle dates one white dude and you think she hates black men?!? If that's the case, there are a whole lot more black women haters in our race.
Name: GHank
Comment: All I know is that I went to a black college and if I ever show up at homecoming with a fine white-woman......(ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha) Not that will ever happen but.......{LMAO!!!!) the haters will be in force!!!!!!
Name: Royale55
Comment: Hey Mothership and my peoples-ain't nothing, just working hard over here.
Name: DCGG
Comment: Angel - thank you-- Halle is interracial - Hell I would have expected her to date only white men from the beginning but she has dated nothing but brothers and dates a white guy once and this...Oh and Thunny what does sounding interracial sound like? At anyrate yes I suppose I am - but you sound like you WISH YOU WERE interracial.
Name: MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Royale, glad to see ya back. Don't get lost on us again!
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: I can't speak for anyone else but I can/will say this - when I see a white man who loves/dates black women (Chris Noth of "Sex and the City", Robert DeNiro, Bill Maher, even Brad Pitt was with Robin Givens for a minute) I think - it's good that SOMEBODY likes us since our own treat white women like the best thing since sliced bread and us like an old shoe! I would date a white man if I fell in love with him but not because he's white but more in spite of his race. As for Halle and this guy - as a mixed woman she is automatically supposed to go black? Nah. It's not in the "biracial handbook". I have one at home and there is no rule that as a "zebra" I gotta date black men. I just choose to because I love them. And last thing - let's discuss the real, true definition of a "whoe" which is slang for a whore. A whore has sex for money. Period. If you don't fit the profile, you ain't a "whoe" and for goodness sake, if you're gonna talk slang, at least spell it right! I hope I cleared that up for you - Thunny/Musb, you listening???...Women get called whores because what they do is whorish - a kept woman would be a good example. She's screwing a rich man because he's PAYING for her home/car/bills/etc. Halle doesn't exactly fit this description, does she??? Leave her alone. Clearly, she has enough problems...Jeez
Name: GHank
Comment: {McNasty} I'm sure you are right in certain aspects about what you are saying. Personally, I haven't known or met any black guys that dated white women. I just haven't seen it. I'm sure they are out there. Trust me, I know that bruthas got issues, but there are sistas that got issues, too. With that being said, how do you right the wrong? I can only start with me. And even though I complain at time about the sistahs, I have not dated a white woman. But I will tell you that it's tough for single AA men trying to get with single AA women. Give the good ones a chance....that's all.
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Hey MOTHER! Yo, Royale, what's the deal sista? McNasty, what's up?! I'm feelin' Thunny, GHank and Herbs - ya'll spoke for me, too. What's up Angel, I am calm shawty...just something to humor me along with the rest of the madness. You're intelligent, you know that's satirical and it's aimed not at Halle but at the broader scope of the bad rap Black men get all the time. If it was Kanye (just for example) dating Becky, ya'll would castrate dude. I don't care who or what Halle dates, she ain't my lady plus she's the product of a Black/white relationship so it's only natural that she "may" choose to do what she do. My point was that it's a lot more eligible Black men out here than the media and heresay would let on. Breathe easy...
Name: Angel
Comment: Thunny - I still have a dream of marrying a fine azz black man, but I'm not turning down dinner and a movie from any fine man--I don't care what color he is. As for me, I don't care about having children, but it is easy for you to say that you are going to hold out for brown babies because men can procreate until their last breath (just ask my grandfather. His youngest child was born when he was in his 70s). Women, however, have a much shorter deadline, so I'm sure there are plenty of black women that wanted to marry a brotha but it just didn't work out that way and at some point they broadened there horizons so that they could have kids before time expired. All that being said, our genes are dominant and have the Midas touch. Everything our genes touch turns black. LOL
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Who said anything about Halle hating Black men, Angel? You weren't talking to me, right?
Name: OSUN
Comment: I'm a ho, you know I'm a ho. I rock three different freaks after every show!!!!
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: >Oldsoul - Kanye West WAS recently linked to Pamela Anderson. And guess what - I don't care. I feel sorry for anybody he is with. He ain't never gonna love anybody as much as he loves himself/his "image". Good luck to her or whoever the next Becky it is that he chooses. I can't stand the man. I know I wouldn't date him - and you can throw all the mess up about "yes you would cuz he has money" but nah, I've dated men with money and I've dated men who are in the public eye it's not all that. Kanye West is a pig. I say let the Becky's have him! Good riddance!
Name: JadaJean
Comment: Let's get real here people. There are probably four times as many Leroy/Becky matches than there are Jim/Shenika. Let's count the high profile sisters with white men. Stacy Dash, Garcelle Beavious-Nilon (sp), Alfrie Woodard, Donna Summer, Erika Alexander. None of these women are on the same level as the brothers who jump ship. Why is it that if a white men want the cream of the crop when they have a sista on their arms but a brother - have you seen some of the Becky's they are running around with.
Name: Angel
Comment: GHank - I beg to differ. To be honest, I got more play when I was working the fries at Mickey D's than I do now as an intelligent financially secure, college educated woman. For some reason, a lot of mean DO Care if a woman makes more money when it comes to a long term relationship. But you are right about the short term. As long as you are fine, you could be a woman straight from the joint and a lot of men won't care. LOL
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: >Jada- Erika Alexander's husband is mixed/claims black. I saw an article about her and she addressed it. He is not white. As for the others, don't forget Heather Headley. She married an ex-football player. And there's Dianne Carroll and Diana Ross. I ain't mad at either of them. Diana Ross ain't worried about skin color. She marries money - that broad pulled a SHIPPING MAGNATE...do you know what kind of money that is??? That's Jackie Kennedy O'nassis money. Forget his race - the man has Bill Gates loot. And she promptly had babies with him just like she did for Barry Gordy. Diana is about securing her future. It's bidness...lol
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Queeniebunz> ...and a "ho" has sex for free. And what men are ya'll talking about("...treating white women like the best thing since sliced bread") - I'm seriously puzzled? I love the Black woman, point blank. Most if not all the guys I know wouldn't think of "being with or marrying" nothing but a woman of color. So outside of the celebrities (actors, athletes, public figures) that crossover, I don't see a whole lot of that going on comparitively speaking. I definitely didn't see it in the ATL where brown sugar and dimes are plentiful. So, if it's them ya'll are talking about, that's Hollywood (in a lot of cases) not us out here in reality.
Name: Angel
Comment: ol soul - I mistook your email, so my bad. It just sounded like you were speaking what you thought Halle was thinking, so it would seem she hated black men in that context.
Name: JadaJean
Comment: Queenie - good ones. Come on people - let's think of others. It wouldn't take us this long if we were listing Leroy's with Becky's.
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Lol...Queenie, Kanye was just an example. Just think, what if you really knew him...damm.
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: >Oldsoul - you need to come to Maryland then because "regular black dudes" sweat white girls here. And, you need to look close at the military because negroes in the military date out of their race A LOT. I guess it depends on where you are. I guess I have heard too much from black guys I know (not men I date) that "white girls are nicer" and that "white girls will do you every which way til Sunday" and that "white girls are easier to get along with" and that "white girls don't just want you for your money". The last one is the biggest lie because these Becky's wouldn't be chasing certain negroes if they didn't have education/money/big bank account. If I never hear any of that again, I'll be so happy but I'm sure I will. And, I've heard the "that's why we switch to white girls" crap enough for 3 lifetimes...I am not denying your reality but I will speak only for me and say that I have heard these comments so much that it is sickening...
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Of the ho subject now! But ya'll ought to quit. If there are so many available black women out here..then why are there so many GOOD black men who are single. Why do so many GOOD black men have problems in their relationships. It just irritates the bullshit *snicker* out of me that black women won't own up to their own shyt. . This seems like a Waiting to Exhale forum...Go head gurl do you! I don't blame you gurl! You are successful and beautiful DO you! FCK whomever you want gurl...um hunh I know that's right! Ghank is sho right. Taye Diggs married someone he met while on the set for rent..but he is dogged worse than Tupac...who black women LOVE...who, btw..objectified women to the umpth degree. Only thing Taye did was fall in love...but oh nooooooo. Ya'll dont' wanna hear that because he coulda, woulda, but didn't. Don't believe all this hype..there is a good black man for every good black woman out there! One of my boyz is not in the process of a divorce because he "good, available" wife was cheating. She is a friend of mine to but I cussed her da fk out. She felt that he didn't spend enuff time w/her so she went and had a 3-year affair w/who you ask? brb
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: >Oldsoul - from the bit I've seen of him in interviews, etc. I don't WANT to know Kanye West. First impressions really are important. And, if I met him and we actually sat down and talked I'd tell him that he comes across as ridiculous / conceited / arrogant and that perhaps he should change his image because he is sickening. And you don't know me, but I'd do it...
Name: Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: Ok I'm all late and haven't read all the posts, but Thunny and Musb, you two have valid points. Halle was not attacked (at least not in the few posts I read) for dating a white man. One reason I can come up with for this is that she has always been linked to black men in the past, and this is the first white man (that we know of) that she has been involved with. And, knowing her history with black men, maybe some feel she should get a free pass to try the other side. Personally, I feel the same about black/white relationships no matter which is the male or female- it's not a choice I would make. I can't understand how you can get down on a real level with someone who cannot personally relate to your experience or what you go through on a daily basis. I can say things to my husband, and he "gets it" immediately, that I could not say if he was white. Or, if I said it, I'd have to spend extra time explaining it to him. I like to see black people loving each other and building each other up. Someone poasted earlier that Halle is no different from the average woman when it comes to love. This is true. She's made some wrong choices (and what woman, or man for that matter, hasn't?) I would like for Halle to heal herself, then "come back" and find true love with a black man.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Mus, what does brb stand for?
Name: GHank
Comment: {Angel} I will put you on the spot. I am a single bro, w/no children and I am 40. I am college educated, I work for a law firm. I am about to go to grad school. I don't have a police record.. I can vote. I am not in the greatest shape but I am not fat either. Now, my only downfall is that is I don't own my own place. I live with my parents and the reason is I help my mother take care of my Dad since he is almost 80. I have debt but the credit is good. The man ain't looking for me. Now, I am a dark-skinned bald man. (if must see me, go to www.yorktownsoul.com) Is this enough to holla at a sista? Can a bro get some love up in here? Oh, I forgot, I ain't sexually promiscuous. Yes, I am putting myself out there. I ain't got nothing to hide like some of ya'll do.
Name: GodsChild
Comment: The conversation has reached an all time level of stupidity. What color a person is that someone chooses to date is really not important. I believe love transcends all color. Most people don't love themselves that's why they can't understand being able to fall in love with someone of a different nationality or color. Again, I just hope she gets her life right with Christ, and all else will fall in order. She will not have to find Mr. Right, God will place him in her life when the time is right. That's one think most women don't understand. It's not your job to be out looking for a man. God didn't design it that way. And at the end of the day, tyou wonder why you all alone. But I digress. Shouldn't no black man ever call a black woman out her name. Musb would you want someone refering to your mother or sister the way you speak of other women? Brother, I challenge you to chill with all that.
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen - and I've been outta of the country (besides Canada) - are the sisters in Maryland, VA and DC (at least to me). But I'm not denying that what you say is true Queenie. Now, the military scenario is a lil different and I see your point there. BUT, I think the military's culture has a lot to do with that...just think about it, you go through an entire brainwashing process, so that's bound to have an affect on a person's decision-making process. I've got a partner that just got out the military after about 15 yrs and it did a number on him, too - until he woke his Black %*$ up and got the hell out of there. Herbs said it, there is a "good" woman for every "good" man. Again, my point is not to buy into the hype, Be like what you want to attract, that's that.
Name: Harriet
Comment: GHANK- "As long as a woman has boobs and azz we don't care what she does." Herein lies the problems you have with dating- you have a very warped view of women that consists of tits and azz. Are these the type of "good men" you keep insisting are out there?
Name: Angel
Comment: Closet_Nerd - If you were looking for someone who "gets it" immediately all the time, you would marry a black woman. LOL We get each other better than any man, but you chose a black man because he has other qualities that make up for him not "getting us" as women. I agree that the more categories you have in common would seem to make it easier, but race is not everything. I've dated several men from different races and I find, although I would prefer a brother, I could find happiness elsewhere as well if need be. It would definitely have to be someone whose good qualities were to a point that it outweighed the "he gets it immediately" factor when it comes to cultural issues.
Name: Harriet
Comment: GHANK- None of the things you listed are problematic. The problem is how you always come on here and talk about Black Women and the ridiculous comments you make (especially at 40) such as azz and tits are the only requirements.
Name: McNasty
Comment: Hey Mothership, Oldsoul good to see y'all on the board.
Name: McNasty
Comment: OSUN you know you don't have right good sense!LMAO
Name: McNasty
Comment: GHank we're too late to right the wrong, we can only go from here and get rid of the animosity a lot of us have about interracial dating. Personally I would not get in a long term relationship with a white boy - for me there are too many differences cultural and otherwise and if I'm going to put forth energy it will be to my beautiful black husband. What galls a lot of us black women a poster here several months ago said it right - black men want black women to be a 10 but they will trot out any old farted out fat butt becky and give you dirty looks if you glance at them! It's disrespectful across the board. Because of what a lot of moneyed black men have already done, black women venturing down the same path are basically daring brothers to say anything other than Hi cause like I said, they got it from the brother's handbook!
Name: realuvbaby
Comment: ==>blackman: DO YOU means take care of yourself. Do what makes YOU happy because, if or when the love is not coming from anyone else. If you wait for someone to come around and approve you or what you are doing, then you are setting yourself up for heartache, not to mention setting yourself up for much hate -- like crabs in hot water who'll pull you down with their negativity so that you never progress. See the love Halle has on this board? Yup, my point exactly -- there is none! DO YOU means to see to it that your needs and desires are met. What part of that is so offensive? Having opinions is one thing, but Hate is so played out. We should never hold others up to standards we don't hold ourselves and our family members and loved ones to. It's so easy to hate Halle and not fix what's ailing in our own lives. Otherwise it sounds like hatin. Keeping it real is one thing, but hating really offends some people. Some of us just try to keep it positive, is all. Dang, haven't y'all heard MJB's FAMILY AFFAIR? Isn't this the EUR family and aren't we here to inspire and uplift?
Name: GHank
Comment: {Harriet} Those were Sinbad words....not mine. You need to chill with that. Why do you like phuckking with me? I was a joke between Angel and myself.
Name: Angel
Comment: GHank - I agree with Harriet. None of the things you list are problematic. The majority of the guys I date fit that mode, but the whole tits and azz thing....that's something you should've kept between you and the boys. LOL
Name: GHank
Comment: {Harriet} If I didn't know any better, I think you actually like me.
Name: queeniebunz
Comment: >Oldsoul - I get your point and see that you get mine. That's all we ever want is to be heard/understood to some extent...Ghank - YOU LIVE AT HOME W/MAMA AND DADDY AT 40. Sorry, buddy. That's a dealbreaker. As a friend of mine once said, "I can't really relate to a man whose only responsibility in life is keeping his room clean"...and I am a good woman and I have a good man so don't think you're hearing this from a bitter/lonely sister...GET IT - DEALBREAKER...LOL!!!
Name: MER82
Comment: Mus b-stop the madness-it is not that cut and dry. If the numbers were truly equal we wouldn't be having this discussion and the so-called myth about the shortage of quality black men would have never existed. In this situation, statistics don't lie-historically speaking, there are more sistas to brothas out there period. Historically speaking Black men left the homes, Black men quit the jobs, Black men chose not to go to school and finish, Black men often get caught up in the wrong side of the law, Black men stay at home under mommy instead of living on their own. We can look at our own families and see the discrepancies. They do exist. Not to say Black women should give up necessarily, NOt to say that you and Oldsoul's comments don't have merit, we hear you that there are decent black men out there and that sistas have to be willing to give them a chance, but please don't dismiss this notion as a trite, NON-issue. These "myths" and stereotypes come from somewhere real. Truth and falsehood are strangely mixed. I have seen, witnessed, and known to many Black women striving by themselves to believe otherwise.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Why do you say that McNasty?
Name: OSUN
Comment: The guy that I am dating at the moment is a mulatto, but he is not tragic. Does that qualify me as crossing over to the light side or am I half a sell out.
Name: McNasty
Comment: Nothing bad OSUN I ran by your post with the rap I fell out laughing, just unexpected. Still LMAO
Name: OSUN
Comment: McNasty all kinds of songs came to my mind. Like Too Shorts, these are the tales, the freaky tales, these are the tales that I tell so well or Freaks come out at night. Now that I think about it, I think it is the Free for all that has me thinking of these songs.
Name: Thunny
Comment: OSUN, the term mulatto is highly offensive to some folks. It's like calling a flight attendant a stewardess. It's archaic. Although now that I mention it I don't know what the alternative is... LOL. And queenie, you are one cold mofo! LOL
Name: Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: Angel- LOL!! Believe me, him "getting it" is only one of several reasons why I choose to be with my own. I just used that as an example. I respect your opinion. But race does matter to me. (You even said you prefer black men.) Call me racist or prejudiced or what have you, but there's just something beautiful and special about black people and I'm proud of it. I cannot imagine sharing my uniqueness with someone who isn't black. If race didn't matter, then all humans would be one color/ ethnicity. I believe that people of all races need to co-exist and respect each other. But when it comes to my personal preference, I only want to be with my own intimately. Because at the end of the day, a white man is still a white man... And all that that entails will manifest itself in the relationship.
Name: McNasty
Comment: OSUN this board has become the free for all today. GHank it's not easy caring for an ailing parent. While it is a deal breaker a good woman can't have nothing but respect for a man that is willing to be a caretaker for his parents. You do however need to start fishing with different bait!
Name: TesticAl
Comment: LMAO at some of these comments! You guys are a trip. queeniebunz, stop it right now! LOL! GHank, what up homie! Do you need ya boy Young B for some backup? *Cracks neck like Mike Tyson* It might get nasty in here.
Name: oldsoulindaSouth
Comment: Queenie> That's it, we talked ourselves to an understanding (I like "overstanding" but we're saying the same thing). And that's the thing that's lacking, the communication, ya know? MER82, point well taken - I would be a fool to disagree with what you say but I still don't feel the situation is beyond repair. I think society has blinded us with this idealistic version of what a relationship is "supposed" to be like and it ain't always like that. Also, the trend across racial lines is getting married and having kids at a later age - it applies to us, too.
Name: ladybyrd
Comment: I'm late on the Halle story, but I'm happy for the sista'. Halle is mixed so why wouldn't she date her other half. As for those saying that Halle' can't keep a man..."It's called Single and dating". She is looking for the right man to marry. I say, Date on sista' until you find what you need and pray about it.
Name: Angel
Comment: Closet-Nerd - Don't get me wrong. Race does matter. I said race is not EVERYTHING. I prefer black men because of the connection and also because relationships are hard enough without factoring in the issues related to interracial dating/marriage. But when I say race is not everything, I mean that if I met someone who had everything I wanted in a man, except he wasn't black, I might be willing to go for it. If he's just a regular old run of the mill guy, then no. LOL
Name: MER82
Comment: Oldsoul-I do agree that Society has left a great deal of us with unrealistic expectations about who we should be with and what we should accept/expect in a relationship-and that can most definitely get in the way of us finding love and happiness.
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: THIS IS NOT THE FIRST WHITE GUY HALLE HAS DATED. She used to date a white guy before she became a well known actress. He was a dentist in Chicago. After she married David Justice he broke out with a story about there love affairs, etc...and he sued her for 80,000 claiming she owed him for the gifts he bought her during their courtship. This new guy Aubry is already talking to the media through his agent...something tells me if they break up he'll tell the world why...
Name: Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >Angel- Ok, cool. I was equating "race doesn't matter" with your "race isn't everything" statement. I get your point. If you have to go to the "other side", at least you will make sure the trip is worth it. LOL!
Name: MER82
Comment: mcalis-Your point is taken. Its not to say Halle shouldn't watch her back either with them white boys...
Name: McNasty
Comment: Mcalis what did you do google halle facts?! Damn girl.
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: Here's an article on the dentist. Also McNasty...I just keep up on celebrity gossip :) http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1077/is_n2_ v50/ai_15974344
Name: Angel
Comment: Closet Nerd - I used to say "no way, no how", until a friend of mine married this fabulous Italian guy from Rome. He worshipped the ground she walked on when they met and has continued to do so since they were married 10 years ago. They travel alot and live a life I can only dream of, so I was like "OK...if a man like that comes along, then aiight". LOL
Name: GHank
Comment: {queeniebunz} If you must know, my parents don't take care of me; I help take care of them. They are on fixed income. But I appreciate your honesty. If that's the only thing you have on me, then it's better that I don't deal with a woman like you.
Name: Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: GHank- At least you have a valid reason for living at home with your mama. You appear to be intelligent- so I would dare say that you have money saved so you can buy a house when you do get married. Hang in there- the right sister will come along. Just make sure that you are giving sisters the same breaks you want them to give you. Don't overlook the good woman who may not be the "perfect 10" because you're trying to holla at the Tyra Banks look-alike with the perky tits and big azz.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Mer8 you are so right b/c them boys are quick to have you wacked. You might be sleeping with tbe fishes.
Name: GHank
Comment: Like I stated before, I have no problem talking about who I am and what I do. It's not glamorous, but at the end of the day, I am satisfied.
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: And the problems persists. Black women have the answer for any and everything. Black men..don't know what they're talking about. MER82...let's not talk about myths. Black women like to take advantage of welfare. Black women are materialistic. Black women will spend their money on getting their hair and nails done before taking care of their household responsibilities. Black women are angry. Black women are turning good black men away..in the arms of yt women. So, again...let's not talk about myths. Of all the male friends I have...none have EVER been in the system...none are deadbeat dads..none are dope dealers. Of all of them...less than half are in committed relationships. What do they find the problem is 1)Black women feel as if they're "owed" some'n 2)Black women always gotz some'n to complain about. Now, I'm sure all the women here would disagree...BUT, I'm a MAN telling you what other MEN say. BTW..none of these men are in the least bit interested in a yt woman...ok south american..maybe latino..but not yt. In fact, I can truly say that I don't have ANY friends who have/currently date yt women. Let ya'll tell it, this situation is an anomaly when in fact it's not. As it concerns black men..he only has to date a yt women ONCE to have "crossed" over..but then women...lol..well there are good reasons and "what had happend wuz"
Name: dodgy
Comment: thunny, I love all men, but hear this -after being dogged out by the brothers because I rock my fro (because you know, not every black woman wishes to bust a weave or a relaxer) and more or less being maligned because 'my woman must have hair on her head' gets reallll old reallll fast. So, I didn't see the point of denying myself companionship and love if my own brothers were rejecting me, you know? Three of my most meaningful relationships have been with men of different races and if I'd actually had blinkers on, I'd have missed out on some quality men and where would i have been then? It's just a bit sad that black women have been sold a bill of goods about being loyal to the men and the rest of it, but get tossed over for a blonde or an asian because of the black man's kryptonite - the long hair like that! Now, I aint hating, if that floats your boat, so be it. I love seeing black couples together but in my part of the world, that's rare. In europe the 'go to' black girl is beyonce - and sister is light skinned with a blonde weave. She's attractive, but she's not the typical black girl and black women tend to lose out in terms of the yard stick of 'visual representations of beauty' especially by their own black men. So, erm... tell me why I should deny myself the right to love and fufillment too if my own brothers are going to the other side?
Name: TesticAl
Comment: *Reads my boy Herbs post and looks left and right*
Name: Thunny
Comment: Emphatically co-signing Herbs - well said. And you know from me that doesn't come easily! I really feel like you're speaking for me right now. I can relate to all that you've said here today.
Name: GHank
Comment: {Closet_Girl_Nerd} Thank you for you post. My last girlfriend was no Tyra Banks at all. So that's not the most important thing to me because I am no Denzel Washington. Besides, medical bills are no joke. I try to do the best I can with the money I make. I rather do this than to see my parents in the street. If a woman can't understand that, then I simply don't need her. I am comfortable in my own skin.
Name: MER82
Comment: Musb-U are missing my point as usual. You brought up myths when you stated not to believe the hype. I wasn't giving you myth, I was giving you straight facts. I know, we discussed this, the truth hurts.
Name: Thunny
Comment: Wow, dodgy, you have some serious and quite obvious mental hang ups about black men, huh? A psychologist would have a field day with you. Not all black men, as you suggest, are obsessed with long hair. But on the real if you burnt your isht up experimenting with perms etc. back in the day and you can't grow any to this day, don't blame the dudes on that - blame yourself! Black women have no business perming their hair anyway - especially since it's not a perm, it's a temp - a temp that will snap right back into place without that beloved "touch-up." If you have to do anything blow that isht out to give it that ever-so-desired "straight" look. But you'd be surprised how many dudes aren't tripping over a lack of a perm. Not all of us, because I have some friends who prefer perms, but you shouldn't generalize, as your post most certainly did. Also, how can you say black men toss over black women for blondes (generalizing...) when you just got thru saying that you were loving on some non-blacks your damn self? Get a grip, dodgy. You're being a hypocrite.
Name: Angel
Comment: GHank - I definitely give much props to someone who lives with his parents to help take care of them. I love my parents, but the thought of actually living with them again makes me shake with fear. My mother is too religious for me, especially since I fall into the ho category according the EUR standards. She would try to give me curfew from day 1 (and definitely no men in the house when she's not there). LOL
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Hold the BULLSHIT up..lol Thun and I are in agreement... Good Lawd... *feeling the earth tremble*...Harriet must be getting ready to walk thru this door butt azz naked.... Al..I'm glad ya'll see what I'm saying... Cuz I know we got our shyt w/us..and more of us than not..acknowledge it. Take a look at this board today...what MAN has condemned Halle for dating a yt guy. All the MEN in here have said that they could care less who this WOMAN dates (of course AL would hit it raw..back oor...sideways..sunroof...on the steps of the Capitol during the Presidential inaguration)...BUT none of us have HATED on Halle for dating a yt man. On the other hand...*I think I hear crickets*
Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Mer82...please point to some'n that I said about black women that isn't FACT..just as FACTUAL as ur claims about black men. No, I'm not missing the point...The truth does hurt..and while you're grieving...hurry because *looking down the street as I type*...the short yellow bus is on it's way!
Name: Thunny
Comment: MER82, you want to talk about the truth hurting? It seems like most of the dudes up in here only said that if the tables were turned and this was a story about a black male celeb dating outside his race, the women on this board would burn dude at the stakes - immediately if not soon! That was pretty much the basis of our argument, for the most part. Like herbs said no one put Halle down for getting with this white boy. We just said the women here would hate with a vengeance. And the truth is you would, because you have in the past and you will in the future. The truth is that there are so many miserable 40-something single women who will never have children on this board and they're salty as shiznit about it so this is where they come to vent and feel better about themselves. That's the truth, and I know that has to hurt. But the truth shall set you free...
Name: Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >GHank- I feel ya bruh! Too bad you don't live in the ATL. I know a couple of women who might be a fit for you. Which reminds me- don't be afraid of blind dates. That's how I met my husband. LOL!
Name: GHank
Comment: {Angel} It's something I didn't ask for. Life is like poker....You play the hand you are dealt with. I never thought my parents would lose a lot of money trying to bail my sister out of jail for messing with a drug dealer. I was in the Army at the time when I learned this. You do what you have to do. But it's not a permanent situation. it's just going to take some time.
Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Musb-- I know that there are good black men out there. I was raised by one. Do I cringe when I see a white woman with a brother? Only if he's fine-- keep the ugly ones I always say! CTFU {Testical} Why would I not expect you to be in here hitting stuff RAW on the Halle board? *muah*
Name: GHank
Comment: {Angel} I guess my problem is that some women want you to achieve certain things before you step to them. I will achieve the things I set out for. I'm sure when I acheive those things, then the woman would want to holla at me. It really shouldn't be that way. If I hit the lottery tomorrow, am I more attractive? The answer should be no, but I'm sure I will get all the fine women there is to offer. After that point, how could I tell who is right for me?
Name: MER82
Comment: The TRUTH is you didn't pay attention to anything that was previously posted by me and others or we wouldn't have to go on like this-Which brings me back to my original point-Black men don't ACCEPT the reasons Black women give for why we don't hate the sistas who date outside---so Why ask? The two of you just proved my point precisely...You just like to dish what you can't take. Why bother?
Name: Thunny
Comment: Actually, the truth is that your angry response is an indication that I may not be too far off from the truth... Take two of deez and call me in the morning.
Name: dodgy
Comment: thunny, I am not self hating. I just basically found myself in relationships which came in a different package than I was looking for. Go Halle for realizing that fact too. Oh, and my hair is in a HUGE afro. I just choose not to straighten it. It's all good though, I still find you funny. Toodles.
Name: OSUN
Comment: Thunny what are you prescribing. Two aspirins or two nutz.
Name: Thunny
Comment: Dodgy, unless you are an intimate confidante of Halle's you nor I know what she is looking for. Either way, I'm out, too. MER82, I look forward to future confrontations with you. One.
Name: Thunny
Comment: OSUN, I'm no pharmacist if that's what you're asking...
Name: Angel
Comment: OSUN - I was wondering the same thing. LOL
Name: GHank
Comment: {Thunny} Good Talkin to you today. I actually had fun. These ladies are a tripp! You need to come to the CIAA Tourney.
Name: Thunny
Comment: GHank, I went to Hampton so my allegiance lies with the MEAC. We used to be in the CIAA years ago. I bet your boy Stephen A. Smith will be there again this year. He used to be nice at WSSU.
Name: OSUN
Comment: This has been a funny site today. My final words are people should mind their own business. Date who you want to date and stop making excuses for your dating woes. If you are consistently having problems time and time again then one might say the problem lies with you alone. Like spirits attract.
Name: GHank
Comment: {Thunny} You still need to come. {OSUN} It is what it is...no excuses here. Just fact.
Name: TesticAl
Comment: GHank inbounds the ball with 5 seconds left. Testic Al pushes ball up the court and chest passes the ball to Thun. 2 seconds, left, Thunny shoots and scores! Team rushes center court. *Testic Al TACKLES cheerleader*
Name: GHank
Comment: What's up Testical? Thanks for having back. I ain't thinking about these women. (Ha-ha)
Name: TesticAl
Comment: What up Hank! Nothing much is up with me. You know I got ya back. There's not many men on the board to our knowledge. We have to stick together. I know y'all got my back even when I say some outlandish controversial %*$!. We boys. Ya DIG.
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: To Thunny -- What's up my fellow Pirate!
Name: duckapoo
Comment: Who believes this bull? We know she is still with Michael.
Name: MER82
Comment: Wow-Its good to know I can get under the little boy and the short man's skin so much. To MusB and Thun- You look better suckin each others nutz. Little bytches.
Name: womanfootlover
Comment: To anyone out there that has a beef with Halle Berry's current relationship with her current boyfriend. Let me say this much. Who gives a fu*k whom she's dating? Black, White, or other. She's a grown woman, and can do whatever she wants as far as having any boyfriend she so choses. No matter what color he is. I'm so sick of stupid idiots out there trying to dictate to people, whom she or he should date,because of their race. Halle is half Black and half White. She have the best of both worlds. She can chose who ever she want's. All I can say to you smucks out there still trying to tell people to date within your race or otherwise. Pluck your head out of your a*s, and get with program. This 2006 not 1906. I'd wish you morons would tell me who to date. And you would get your feelings hurt. No doubt
Name: nightshift
Comment: Dorothy Dandridge
Name: mcalis1980
Comment: A great way to end this conversation is with a bombshell I just heard and I'm not sure if I believe...but if true...ALL I CAN SAY DAMN! ERIC BENET AND VIVICA A FOX ARE DATING...I GUESS ERIC IS LIKE...I'm gonna have the last laugh ---B*TCH! So Halle have fun with your little white boy...while Vivica freaks your former man! Oh that's cold and Halle even thanked her at the Oscars!
Name: goodnplenty
Comment: OH i am hoping to see if TERRENCE HOWARD walk down the Oscar's red carpet with a PINK-TOE on his arm, how many "RIGHT ON" comments will he get from the sistas in here. c'mon terrence, walk with becky sue proudly on your arms and let these sistas in here give you props. (yeah...oh who is selling that bridge in Brooklyn?)
Name: nightshift
Comment: Halle is not Black!!!
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