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Name: ProsperityJoy
Comment: ATTENTION!ATTENTION! Good Morning Everyone! O.K. For the new contest. You know Easter is around the corner. I have a beautiful large chocolate Easter egg filled with goodies. Wrapped lovingly with a nice large bow!This is going to cost me a pretty good penny with shipping and all! But hey I enjoy it! So here are the rules. The first person to answer all three questions correctly is the winner.Here are the questions: 1. How old is my daughter? 2. What is my birthdate? (hint-it is between now and the end of March. You don't have to guess the year.) 3. What is Switzerlands largest city called? If someone guesses all correctly on the same day the winner will be the one highest on the board. Take Care Guys!!Peace...

Name: sultry
Comment: Good Mornig all. I haven't posted in a while. That is very swet of you Prosperity Joy. I will try and answer the questions for you. Your daughter is 4 years old, your birthday is March 27, and the largest cith in Switzerland is Zurich. I chose March 27th because that is my birthday.

Name: sultry
Comment: Prosperity- Give a hint about your daughter age as to what is her age between.

Name: Prubin40
Comment: Good Morning Ya'll.

Name: ProsperityJoy
Comment: O.K. I will give a hint about my daughters age. Some of you might remember from the board not too long ago when I was asking advice about my daughters color preference and I stated her age. But anyways here is a hint: Here age is an even number under 10. Have Fun! ..Peace

Name: archcookies
Comment: I had to type two messages this morning. One to my dear friend who lost his nineteen year old son who collapsed on a football field at college and died because he was immediately take to the hospital, his life is altered forever. The other message that I wanted to deliver is about gangsta rap and why I am so opposed to it. Grant you a lot of the hot beats are found in this genre of music, that is strategical because it draws you in and for the most part the listener is not paying too much attention to the lyrics. I find it objectionable for a man to call me a HO or a bytch, I am further repulsed by the idea of a man telling me to suck his dyck. I will not tolerate a man's cruelty to me I saw that growing up with an abusive father and there is nothing about that pain that makes me feel sentimental. I don't believe if a man beats your azz that he in anyway loves me. Ladies you have daughter would it be alright for her boyfriend to call her a bytch? If he roughed her up a little slapped her down so she could stay in her place would you accept this? If you accept gangsta rap then you are unknowing subjecting your children to a skewed version of life. It is amazing to me how our culture has embrassed the violence of this music and in films as entertaining. Set it off did not make me feel good at the end of the movie because everybody but one person was dead. Is that a feel good movie in the 2000s?

Name: archcookies
Comment: Is is so easy to move with the masses who in my opinion celebrate the profane and reward mediocrity. My appeal to you is to listen to the contents of this music, are you a parent who thinks it's okay for your kids to curse? Well in a lot of cases because of all of the proliferation of this music and in the media kids in Jr High School use Mother f*ckers as a common everyday word. How well I remember when growing up when we were talking dirty to each other if an adult came on the scene we halted our conversation out of respect. I am sick to death of seeing boys with their trousers too big and hanging under their azzes, long t-shirts and the occasion site of the complete bottom of his underwear. That just doesn't seem right to me. Are we so blinded by the bling, bling that we dont' see that people are promoting the ideology of "get rich or die trying" die how, worker in an underground mine? Having an accident on a construction site? No, not an honest living but a life where you are selling poison to your brothers and sister, you are exploiting the poor and indigent, robbing and killing is that what we as a people have come to. Martin Luther King, WEB DeBois, Rosa Parks and the list goes on and on of black people who knew we were being treated like n.iggers but refused to dignify the name by proving that we are not ignorant we are not violent we are not hedonist we are a family of people who love their children like everyone else. I've gone long and strong here but my heart is broken when we subject our children to this genre of music and think that it's effects are benign. How many people have ever been killed at a Will Downing concert, how many people have been shot at at a Jonathan Butler gig? Have we seen this behavior in any other of the music genres with the exception of hard rock, which I think is equally dangerous? I love my people but I am grieve that we applaud the criminal element and see some merit in these convulted art form. This is my humble opinion and I submit it with love for you all.

Name: coesmo
Comment: Good morning Eur Webians... I have a computer question for you all. Two weeks ago my screen saver started coming up sideways. I have no idea what's causing this and what to do about it. Has anyone had this happen before? if so, what did you do? any help is appreciated.....

Name: archcookies
Comment: correction embarassed = embrace

Name: archcookies
Comment: Hey ProsperityJoy, sultry and coesmo, sorry Prosperity I will have to watch the fun because I only know one answer to your question but everybody else have fun with it.

Name: Prubin40
Comment: Arch> Have you heard the "I was getting some head"? It's by Shawna of DTP. It has Too Short on it and I hear it on the radio all the time. They don't say "head" on the radio but kids know what they are saying. I love hip-hop but this song is hitting a nerve with your girl.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >Prubin, It is one of the most profane music styles I have ever experience. Stuff that people didn't just talk about is being blared on the radio every single day. That's not the only song remember the one about lick my bootie and my crack---hey y'all I am not a prude trust me on that but if a man asked me to suck his dyck he is straight out of luck it ain't happening. If I want to do it in the heat of the moment then so be it but you don't order me to get on your head, it ain't that kind of party. I just think it's disgrace that we have accepted this music and allow our impressionable kids to listen to it. When I was growing up there were certain conversations that adults had and at that time we were asked to leave the room or go outside because it was too much for a child to hear. We are exposing our babies to this trash they don't know what they are saying and they are singing it like "mary had a little lamb" it's a national disgrace. Please don't beat me up today folks I am really concerned about our acceptance of this poison in our homes.

Name: StormyMonday
Comment: Good morning everyone, hope you all have a great day! {ProsperityJoy} here's the answers to your questions....your daughter is 6, your birthday is March 24 (the only one I'm not sure is correct), and the Switzerland's largest city is Zurich.

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Good Morning ProsperityJoy, Prubin, Archm, Sorry Coesmo I don't have an answer for you but hang around long enough someone might have something for you. Prosperity good game. Arch, I am so very sorry for your friend's loss,it has to be hard and his son was so very young. This seems to be happening a lot to young people in sports even after they have had their health screening. I am just so sorry and sad to hear this.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >TAZ this was all over the news nationally, the young man was a star athelete and an excellent student he had a lot of character and charm. The coaches actually watched him failing and just let him die without taking him to the hospital. In spite of this tremendous loss he is carrying on for his surviving children.

Name: phillymom
Comment: NO WHAMMY NO WHAMMY.....RIP.....Former game show host killed in L.A. plane crash Tue Mar 14, 2006 2:22 AM ET LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - A former television game show host and his wife were killed on Monday when their light plane crashed in the ocean off the coastal suburb of Santa Monica. Peter Tomarken, 63, host of the 1980s series "Press Your Luck," and his wife, Kathleen, had just taken off in their Beechcraft about 9:45 a.m. PST (1745 GMT) when the engine failed and the plane went down near Santa Monica Pier before horrified onlookers. The Tomarkens reported engine trouble soon after take-off, according to federal officials. A rescue boat was quickly on scene, and the bodies were recovered. There were no other people on board. They were headed to San Diego, about 130 miles south of Los Angeles, to bring back a cancer patient for treatment. "Press Your Luck," noted for the dreaded word "whammy," ran on CBS from 1983 to 1986. If a "whammy" appeared the contestant would lose all their money and prizes. Contestants would shout out "big bucks, no whammies" each time they spun the wheel to win cash and prizes, according to a statement from game show cable channel GSN. Reuters/VNU

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Hey Stormy!. Arch some of this Gangster music is just so sick and I am amazed they put it on the radio. So many of these rappers can't rap, can't sing and it's just who they know and bam they have a CD out with all that ignorance spewing and most of the tracks are just fillers. I was listening to a Marvin Gaye song this morning and thought of Jaheim, now that is music to me. Marvin had a way with his words that just made you feel good. I guess until the Radio stops playing low down ugly rap it will continue on....and that is sad.

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Oh Arch that is just too sad for words, I know his parents are just devastated. Why didn't the coaches act quicker what was the problem with that?

Name: StormyMonday
Comment: Hi Taz! I'm sending out an APB and a search party for BOOT! I miss his morning humor! BOOT, I hope all is well!

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Hey Stormy no kidding, I haven't seen Boot in a while. Well, I am going back down because I am sleepy, I will return later if I can.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Good morning family. Arch...that story is too sad. Prayers for his family. I know it's not gangsta rap, but I HATE that song "I'm Conceited". Who thinks being conceited is a desirable quality????? The sideways screen saver? Turn your head or the monitor sideways? Sorry, couldn't resist the obvious. LOL

Name: archcookies
Comment: >TAZ The University has an emergency plan and the coaching staff ignored it he collapsed two or three times before they finally loaded him on a landscape truck and then they called 911 he was in complete cardiac arrest, the whole thing on the field was captured in photos by a local photojournalist it showed when it started. Missouri University Columbia has a racist history, they just ignored the obvious symptoms and told one of the team mates to stop babying him, he was perfectly healthy and they let him die. There is a big lawsuit in place.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >YLawd, "turn your head sideway, you are awful. LMAO.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: That's what it says in my tech manual. That's my story and sticking with it. LOL

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Oh Arch! that is horrible and I am glad they have the photos to show the lack of response from the coaches. There would be no reasoning with me if that would have been my child. I would go after the College and Coaches with all the vengence I would have in me. He didn't have to die. I thought they would have defibilators and oxygen on the field for such incidents. Guess I am out of the loop on that since my son is out of college and doesn't play football any more.

Name: 2timely
Comment: While riding with my son the other day, radio was on, and I really wasn't paying attention to what was being played, until I looked in the back seat and saw my son bouncing and singing. . ."I'm in love with a stripper" My mouth dropped! I asked him if he knew what he was rapping about, and to my surprise he knew. As much as I thought I was protecting him and censoring his music, some where I've failed. I hate listening to the radio!!

Name: sultry
Comment: prosperity-your daughter is 6 or 8, The largest city is Zurich and your birthday is eitherMarch 17,18,19,20,21,222,23,24,25,26,28,29,30,or 31. ive a hint if it is even or not for your birthday.

Name: archcookies
Comment: THE MARINE AND THE TAMPONS THIS IS A GREAT STORY.......Tampons to the rescue in Iraq!! It's from the mother of a Marine in Iraq. My son told me how wonderful the care packages we had sent them were and wanted me to tell everyone thank you. He said that one guy, we'll call Marine X, received a girl care package and everyone was giving him a hard time. My son said, "Marine X got some really nice smelling lotion and everyone really likes it, so every time he goes to sleep they steal it from him." I told my son I was really sorry about the mistake, and if he wanted I would send Marine X another package. He told me not to worry about Marine X because every time I send something to him, Marine X thinks it's for him too. He said when my husband and I sent the last care package Marine X came over to his cot picked up the box, started fishing through it, and said, "What did we get this time?" My son said they had the most fun with Marine X's package. He said he wasn't sure who we were sending the pack to, but the panties were size 20, and he said one of the guys got on top of the Humvee and jumped off with the panties over his head and yelled, "Look at me, I'm an Airborne Ranger!!!!" One of the guys attached the panties to an antenna and it blew in the wind like a windsock. He said it entertained them for quite awhile. Then of course, they had the tampons. When he brought this up my imagination just went running, but he continued. My son said they had to go on a mission and Marine X wanted the Chap Stick and lotion for the trip. He grabbed a bunch of the items from his care package and got in the Humvee. As luck would have it he grabbed the tampons too, and my son said everyone was teasing him about "not forgetting his feminine hygiene products".

Name: archcookies
Comment: He said things went well for a while, then the convoy was ambushed and a Marine was shot. He said the wound was pretty clean, but it was deep. He said they were administering first aid but couldn't get the bleeding to slow down, and someone said, "Hey use Marine X's tampons". My son said they put the tampon in the wound. At this point my son profoundly told me, "Mom did you know that tampons expand?" "Well, yeah!" They successfully slowed the bleeding until the guy got better medical attention. When they went to check on him later the surgeon told them, "You guys saved his life. If you hadn't stopped that bleeding he would have bled to death.â€쳌 My son said, "Mom, the tampons sent by the Marine Moms by mistake saved a Marine's life." At this point I asked him, "Well what did you do with the rest of the tampons?" He said, "Oh, we divided them up and we all have them in our flak jackets, and I kept two for our first aid kit". I am absolutely amazed by the ingenuity of our Marines, and can't believe that something that started out as a mistake, then turned into a joke, ended up saving someone's life. My sister said she doesn't believe in mistakes. She believes God had a plan all along. She believes that female care package was sent to Marine X to save our Marine. Either way, our efforts have boosted the morale of many Marines, provided much needed items for our troops, AND saved the life of a Marine!

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: I know what you mean 2timely and that is why I listen to CD's in my vehicle and old school radio stations.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >TAZ this child was raised by a single father in fact he has four children and there isn't a woman in the world that can run a household any better than he can, he doesn't tolerate and bullshyt, no girls up in the boys rooms, no sitting on their beds, one daughter at home a perfect ladylike pretty young lady, the mother is a drug addict and causing problems.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: 2time..I know exactly what you mean. I had a three year old family member stay with me for a while. Her father, my cousin, came and got her. A couple of days later, I got a phone call asking me how baby girl knew the words (a 3 year olds version) of P.I.M.P.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: I remember back in the day, my dad thought Prince was an abomination. If he only knew what was coming!

Name: TAZBABY
Comment: Arch> I hope this young man's mother wakes up and comes out of her drug addiction after this. Please let your friend know your EUR Buddies are praying for him and his remaining children.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: DE CHASSIE IS IN DE HOUSE! PHILLYMOM> aww man that is so sad, and i loved that game show Press Your Luck! those Whammies made the show too. ARCHCOOKIES/TAZZIE> i understand how you feel about gansta rap. it's ugly. pure and simple. to be honest, i really do wish they can go back to the beautiful music of the old school where the words had beautiful meaning. i just like to see a good decent group would get together and write and produce a song without all the sexually explicit lyrics. that is why i appreciate the music of my time. Stylstics, Dells, Delphonics, Temprees, Intruders, Black Ivory, Brighter Side of Darkness, and the 5 Stairsteps.

Name: ThruTheFire
Comment: Mawnin' ALL! Here's an article that proves my point about YT got to have a piece of everything that is Black...Members of the African-American community in Los Angeles are shocked and angry over the revelation that the late Johnnie Cochran's law firm has been taken over by whites and is moving away from civil rights advocacy. Longtime attorneys and staffers who helped built the firm have left and white attorneys are occupying leadership positions.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >YLawd, That's what I am talking about, we are adults we should know what is right and wrong, grown people in times past wouldn't let you in on mature stuff, you weren't privy to a lot of information it made life a little easier, but these kids are exposed to far too much, what should a six year old know about intercourse? But you have little kids trying to rape other little kids, we have a case here where a fifteen year old boy raped a college student at gun point. These ideas are not just floating out of nowhere it's because the media is saturated with salacious music, movies, a virtual "how to" manual but wrong. 12 yr olds should be hearing that filth, think how confused we were at that age and we had none of this shyt in the our conciousness, now the kids are doomed because they don't have any adult supervision, the majority of the call thefts and/or major accidents involving the death of another individual is kids under the age of 18, tell me ya'll where are they getting these ideas?

Name: bigchassie
Comment: OK YALL...I'M BACK TYPING UP THE PLAY, I'LL BE PEEKING BACK IN LATER. DID ANYONE CHECK OUT AMERICAN IDOL LAST NIGHT? TAYLOR, CHRIS, ELLIOT, MANDISSA, PARIS, LISA, KATHERINE GREAT! I'M TIRED OF LOOKING AT THE CUTE CHICKENHEAD. HE'S GOT TO GO! SORRY! AND DON'T FORGET TO CHECK OUT MY BABY JAMIE'S NEW VIDEO TONIGHT ON BET ACCESS GRANTED.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >TAZ will do.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Oh yeah, and we couldn't watch "One Day at a Time" cause the oldest daughter was "delinquent". We couldn't watch MASH because it "trivialized" war. Couldn't watch SOAP because it had *gasp* a gay guy. CTFU (Of course, I watched all of the above) If this was all we had to censor for our kids, we be ahead of the game.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Good Morning Everyone! Hope ya'll had a good nights sleep!

Name: archcookies
Comment: We talk about a lot of fun things on this site and believe me I enjoy the company but we need to focus and evaluate some of the things that are happening in our culture, I love black people, I don't want to be anything else. But it's shameful how our influence over culture is causing this horrible time in history. Honey look at all the dead young people, go out on the websites and look at how many of them were cut down in their prime, this spirit is being fueled by something in our culture, I know it's not just rap music but it's playing a bigger part then you realize. It is educating our children, we they memorize the lyrics then it is entered into their culture and could be unknown to them influencing their behavior. I would rather be loved and adored as opposed to "getting freaked"

Name: archcookies
Comment: correction call = call

Name: YLawdY
Comment: I don't know arch...sometimes "getting freaked" is aaaight! Knowwhaimean?

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Hey ya'll. I'm soooooo sleepy this morning. Have a good one.

Name: archcookies
Comment: YLawd well I want to be loved and freaked, but I am a grown-azz woman you know and I know the difference. *winking*

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Mawnin all..AI.AI..AI.what can I say. Stevie songs no doubt is a hard for anyone to follow. But, if you have to you need to pick what you can handle. That lil pickler girl was awful. And why some yt's always gonna act like they ain't never been nowhere in there life. Talkin bout I got these shoes on sale, & these eyelashes feel like turanchelers on my eyes & This is the first time I ever wore a dress. Damn don't they even think b4 the open there mouths. Country Bumpkins. Movin on..I know Lisa a blow it was the song choice she couldn't theroly handle it. I liked Mcphree girl. I liked Elliot I just can't stand lookin in his mouth. Manducesa will cruise threw til the end. That last guy Vin Densil I thought he was through the mic or something. Another Bo Bice reject.And finally Lil Paris, Paris, Paris Imma say it like this in the words of Dam Dash. You can sing..You gonna make some records somewhere..It just ain't gonna be on AI. footenote: We already have Fantasia.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Bigchassie, good luck on the play this morning. I watched AI last night and it was extremely painful for me. I thought most of them sounded horrible. I thought that Elliot was off the chain (wtf was randy and simon talking about). Katherine sounded really good and I love Chris' rendition of his song. I think that Chris is going to be the next American Idol, he's got a unique voice, stage presence and that IT factor. I'm so unimpressed with the rest. I think Elliot could have a good career he just has to be careful not to be Jon B'd out.

Name: letmein
Comment: Chassie===yeah, I watched American Idol. I wasn't too impressed until the last 5-6. I was TOO mad that your girl took her shoes off!!!

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Queencitybee, I think that Simon alway praises Mandisi because he made fun of her weight. She's talented but not overwhelmingly so. Paris and Lisa need to make an oreo cookie with Kevin and hit the road. Bucky and Kelly need to catch the first mule back to whatever farm they escaped from. The only one that held Stevie down was Elliot. I had to look away the whole time he was singing but d@mn dude can blow.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: I don't have a problem with rap music. Young people are the way they are today because of the break down of the family structure and lack of guidance. Because of this they are influence by whats on the radio. I will say that I agree that lil kids shouldn't listen to whats on the radio. Some stuff I'm even shocked to hear. Unlike some other young people I was raised with enough common sense not to take this stuff literally.

Name: letmein
Comment: Yeah, lovinlife Katherine was good!

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Arch I understand how you feel about rap but why is it so important to you? I'm not asking that to be confrontational I'm just curious. You get reallll passionate about it. Do you honestly think that rap music is what's causing all the problems in the AA community? If you do then girl you need to head on down to the projects and look around. The lack of men helping to raise their children and mothers with multiple children by different fathers conceived while they were 12,13,14 etc. is the problem. Is some of the music that you're talking about offensive...absolutely it is. I'm the mother of a 16 year old and I'm around lots of teenagers (unfortunately) and music don't make them do a d@mn thing. They only do what they can get away with based on PARENTAL INVOLVEMENT or rather a lack of parental involvement. I don't mean to pick on your theory I just think it undercuts what the real issues are. I volunteer at a youth center mentoring kids and I talk to them about what's going on and from what I've learned a lot of their problems have a lot to do with the fact that they are 15 and their momma is only 27 and still in the streets hanging out. Music is powerful but it is not responsible for this generation's problems. JMO

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Good morning, Kinfolk! Prosperity Joy--I think you said you moved to Switzerland when your daughter was about 3 and you've been there for 3 years. I am going to go with these answers-- Your daughter is 6 (going on 30); Your birthday is on March 23; Zurich is the largest city and the Mayor's name is Elmar Ledergerber. (He must be a white dude). Yall have fun today. Gotta earn my paycheck! PEACE

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Say it again trini!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Cuzzin Lawd showing off this morning yall.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Prosperity Joy...what's the Black population like in Switzerland????

Name: Deb70
Comment: Good morning all! Haven't posted in a while but I've been reading your comments. On AI; I really think that the producers have already decided the winner (Chris) and that they tell those 3 clowns to criticize certain performances in an effort to kind of play them down so another can shine. Elliot blew the heck out of that Stevie Wonder song. He was amazing. He did his thing and he knew it. It was so ridiculous for Randy's oreo azz to sit up there and say it wasn't his best performance. And forget Simon. That was garbage. Elliot, Taylor, and Chris did the thing last night. Those are the only three I look forward to hearing sing. Elliot will get a record deal regardless. All they gotta do is hook my boy up with some braces, then veneers and he's good to go. His voice is beautiful and I'll definitely buy his album. Taylor and Chris' too for that matter. All the black contestents bore me. Paris is over the top and Lisa Tucker (little Aaliyah) is boring. I'm not really feeling Mandisa at all.

Name: OSUN
Comment: Prubin, I had no idea that was what it was saying and that a girl was on that song. That is just ridiculous. I remember growing up and sneaking to listed to Uncle Luke and Too Live Crew. AS much as I enjoyed those dirty little songs I never thought they belonged on the radio. It is ridiculous. It was really brought home to me when my beautiful three year old neice was singing "Booty booty booty booty rocking everywhere... I found you Ms New Booty" When you have kids you have to be so careful what you expose them to.

Name: letmein
Comment: lovinlife===that was what I was getting at yesterday. There are so many OTHER issues that are plaquing our community. No, a 5 yr old shouldn't be singing the lyrics if they don't know there ABC's. I never said it was ok for teenagers to curse or disrespect adults. I said I don't have a problem with my daughter listening to it, but let me catch her azz singing it, she'll get smacked in the mouth. Will she sing it when she's not around me? Yes! Will she sing it around other adults? NO! Because, she knows better!

Name: Gemami
Comment: Ya'll are funny about AI. I watched it last night and was amazed how bad they sounded. Like someone said the show didn't start until the last 5 or 6 singers. Chicken Little needs to be voted off immediately. My next choice would be Bucky. My favs were Chris and Paris -- who I think will the final two. For best entertaining comical performance I have to give it up to Taylor.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Elliot is my boy. I knew he was gonna freak Stevie last night and he did! I just can't stand his dayum grill. MY GOODNESS! That one yt chick that wore that ugly dress did an okay job (I think her name is Katharine or something). Paris was doin too much screamin and yellin for me. I liked the old grey haired dude too. His dance moves had me crackin up

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Hey letmein, I agree. I used to be embarassed when some songs came on the radio when my mom was around. My dad was cool so it didn't bother me. I know some of ya'll will shake your heads, but one of my favorite memories is when my dad was teaching me to drive a standard and we were singing...It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none. I remember my dad saying he would beat my as.s if I ever let anyone disrespect me that way. The irony of it all

Name: lovinlife
Comment: OSUN and letmein > that's exactly my point...it's a parents responsibility what their kids are exposed to. I grew up in the RunDMC, Whodini, Fatboys etc generation and my mother thought that music was trash. Compared to now those groups are altar boys but some of their content was inappropriate. I as a kid never listened to a song and thought let me go do what it says, one of the reasons or I should say two was mom and dad. AA communities are wracked with abject poverty, subpar schools and crime to name a few things. The ying yang twins whispering "make it run girl" is not causing those conditions. My belief is that just because I don't agree with someone's music doesn't give me the right to tell them they can't make it. I can exercise my rights as a consumer and not purchase it. If it ends up on the radio then I turn that radio off. I monitor what my kids watch on tv, listen to, and definately their computer usage. Will I prevent them from coming in contact with "bad" things, sometimes I'll be able to and other times I won't. I can only live up to my promise of being the best mother I can by explaining to them what a bytch is, what a pimp is etc and telling them it's nothing they want to try to emulate. If more parents did that then the music would have no power over kids.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Hello, hello, hello *echo* The only AI I know about is this Avian Influenze briefing I'm working on so I can't comment on Idol. cosign with lovinlife and letmein on hip hop...umm lovinlife, why do you know "make it run?" you nasty. I would like to say I have finally given up on Michael Jackson.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: I TOTALLY AGREE LOVINLIFE

Name: YLawdY
Comment: IJA...why you giving up on Mijac? I'm listening to PYT on the radio right now. Tho, I must admit, I now wonder what he really meant, much like with Rrrrr's music. LOL

Name: Deb70
Comment: Which Stevie Wonder song did Eliott cover last night? I forget.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Arch< I also wanted to point out yesterday that if you look at the statistics for those who are in prison, a significant majority come from broken homes, many have been molested and otherwise abused. When you go though those experiences with no help, you tend to value your own life less and consequently other people's lives become less importance hence murders and robbies. Also, those who do drug crimes generally were put on to dealing by someone in their family. Additionally, alot of these young people who are committing crimes are many times not doing it for thrills. Some young boys and girls are actually hungry and need to find ways to provide for other memebers of their household - adult and minor. I'm sure many of them would love to do it legitimately but minimum wage is not what's cracking as we all know. So I just wanted to put it out there that there are actual valid or at least justifiable reasons that people commit crimes.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: good day....loveinlife and trini I agree with you on the music/AA community posts.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: It is what you teach. My daughter loved Darling Nikki when she was about three or four and I must admit to cracking up listening to her make up lyrics. (No Mom of the Year that year) Recently, she had occasion to hear it again and chastised me for letting her listen to and sing that song. I know, I know... I was wrong (it was cheap entertainment and funny as hell), but the point is, the (good) things I have taught her have sunk in to a large degree and what she listens to is not the major influence in her life. I know it is not that way for all kids, but I think the trick is to educate (and bytch slap as necessary) the parents on how to raise good kids and not censor the music.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: robbies = robberies. YlawdY,I have been the biggest Michael Jackson fan no matter what. But now these episodes of insanity are coming too close together and I just can't support him anymore. I know it doesn't matter really but to me it does because I just hate to see someone like that continue to act a fool. I feel bad that no one ever loved him enough to strongly encourage him to get help. ugggggggggg Well, we all knew what R. Kelly was talking about back when he married Aaliyah. Now as far as Mike is concerned, I'm not sure if I believe he molested anyone...but someone who puts themself in that type of position deserves to be prosecuted.

Name: letmein
Comment: Trini==I remember my dad having to use my first car. I had "my" music in there and when he picked me up from work, he was like damn, girl, you be groovin'. I thought that was so funny!!! But, just like your dad, he commanded that I carry myself like a lady and made sure I was making these niccas treat me like one.

Name: Fragrance
Comment: AI was exciting to watch but you're right, where's the real talent that we can hear on any Sunday from any church praise service singer? Also, Chris is goood, Mandesa can sang! Paris has energy and she reminds me of a young Gladys Knight. When is Kevin going home??? Gideon would have at least been there to work with Stevie if it wasn't for those Kevin fans. ELSBABY, how is your baby? If there is no change please consider this as I lived through this nightmare of my baby son, now a grown man, shooting milk out of his mouth against the wall like the exorcist, and then turning blue, not able to breathe until my Father yelled, 'get the baby syringe!' where we removed the mucus in his mouth. One doctor said it was a flu but when we took him back, another doctor had him checked out and they found out he had pyloric stenosis which required them inserting an opening in his stomach lining...so please, ask them to check for it, it's a simple surgery and baby will be able to do everything normally. If you don't have that happening then be glad, but if any of you ever see it happening, please ask baby to be tested for it. I thought my son was dying but God spared his life, and as always, I encourage you to peek his photo on my blog at www.princene.blogspot.com - Take care, y'all

Name: YLawdY
Comment: IJA...you are Soooo right. Just like Kobe and all the rest. They might not of did it, but they should be prosecuted for putting themselves in the postion for allegations to be made. Knuckleheads.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: IJA, I don't nothing about "make it run girl" my husband told me. *looking around nervously for a place to hide my ying yang cd*

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: YLawdY, I remember my dad letting me listen to White Lines, I think it was by Sugar Hill Gang? YOu know that song White lines going through my mind...something like a phenomenom...something like that. I was around 3 or 4, it wasn't until I was an adult I that I knew they were singing about coke. I also remember getting in trouble in school for singing Gil Scott Heron's song about angel dust...my daddy is one crazy man.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: lovinlife...I believe that was a disclaimer! Picking up where someone, who shall remain nameless - she know who she is, left off?

Name: archcookies
Comment: >IJA I agree with you, but honey I came from a broken home, had to deal with an alcoholic mother, lived in poverty but I had the church family members and older adults who helped to nuture me, school and reading gave me an escape. I decided then that I didn't want that life, my mother did stop drinking and died in grace and I have a life that in a lot of ways was different from some of the experiences that I had to live through. I was not exposed to drugs as a child, and before my mother's problem surfaced she was very kind and nurturing and basically maintained that even when she was drinking. So I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth, I wasn't born to priviledge, I lived in the ghetto but the bad part of the ghetto did not get into me. I am not defined by where I came from but for who I am today.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: QUEENCITY/LOVINLIFE>hi babies! *just peekin in the room* yeah i watched american idol. i think the key to singing Stevie Wonder songs is to go into his archive and find some old stevie.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: YLawdY now you know Kobe bent that nasty trick over that chair and gave her the LA manpole.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: trini}White Lines...Mel not SugarHill

Name: ThruTheFire
Comment: JOD (Joke of the Day...Japanese Fart!!!!!!!! A young Japanese girl had been taught all her life that when she married she was to please her husband and serve him diligently. The first morning of their honeymoon the young Japanese bride crawled out of bed after making love. She lovingly stooped down to pick up her husband's shorts and accidentally let out a big fart. She looked up and said: "Aww so sowwy...excuse prease, front hole so happy, back hole laugh out loud."

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini...I'm >< w/your dad. LOL My baby also liked Cloud Nine. I remember being in Macy's buying pink and white saddle shoes for my toddler and she's singing about how she's "doing fine up here on Cloud Nine".. Pank people just a looking. CTFU. Your dad was prolly LHAO too...Angel Dust, White Lines...what was pops into?

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: While lovinlife is listening to "make it run" and we are talking about hip hop.....does anyone have a stripper song? I mean this is the song or songs that if you were in the club and there was a pole you would literally slide down it? This is the song that EVERY time you hear it you feel sexually powerful like you could put a man in a spell… Okay, I’ll give mine first. Some of you may not have heard it, but my ultimate stripper song is “Take it off” by UGK. I think I would come out on stage to “Get Loose” by T.I. and then segue into Take it off…honorable mention goes to Say Yi Yi Yi by Ying Yang Twinz…okay, does anybody else have a musical combination planned if the need to strip arises?

Name: lovinlife
Comment: I don't think you can ever know how a child will turn out. I have a girlfriend who is knee deep in the church, her and her husband. They have 4 kids that they take to every church function and are raising them "right". When those kids are not around their parents they have the worst mouths and are generally thugged out. They live in a nice neighborhood with both parents and all that jazz but they still act like hoodlums. So I guess my point is you just don't know how they're going to turn out no matter what they're exposed to.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: ThruTheFire ...that was funny.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: ImJustAsking ...there is help available...just ask.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: IJA did you just say you're a pole dancer?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Thanx Sigma, I knew you would know I couldn't remember. BTW, I'm bumpin the the new Juvenile, its tight. YLawd, my dad is just a lover of music all kinds, and it doens't matter what they're singing about. He'll be 50 this year and he's more up on it than me sometimes. He'll call me and be like "Yo Nik you hear that new Busta joint?" LMAO

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Arch< I'm certainly not suggesting that everyone who comes from disadvantaged surroundings will turn criminal, I'm ony pointing out that there are mitigating factors that are much more pervasive than music - and that those parents who didn't do their jobs as parents for the current crop of youth are not products of hip hop culture.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: IJA girl I was just kidding about having a ying yang cd. Heyell before I bought Jamie's new cd the last one I bought was Bobby Brown's Don't be Cruel.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Peeking in... IJA--'Magic Stick' by Missy Elliot is my jam. Then I'd break into a little 'Shake What Yo Momma Gave Ya' by Luke. Of course, then I'd segue into 'We Fall Down' by Donnie McClerkin because I would feel guilty for showing my hoe side...

Name: YLawdY
Comment: lovinlife ...and the trick prolly loved every minute of it. Like Desiree and Mike Tyson, Kobe didn't escort her to her front door afterwards. Before somebody puts me on blast...I don't belittle or downplay rape or rape allegations, but I do believe you have a responsibility not to put your trick azz in situations that are dumb from the door. Hotel rooms with strange, though famous, men qualifies as a dumb situation.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >lovinlife YOU know why this is so important to me? Because it's like being in a space and you see danger coming and you warn those around you. I think people might think I am just harping on this but I am a passionate person, I love the black race and I see danger all around us. Some of you say something that is significant to what I am saying "I know better" I have common sense" "I had a good grandmother" "my father told me not to believe the hype" there was guidance, these kids have none and with an empty spirit and mind they are canidates for indoctrination. There have been bad character around as long as there has been a society--but we have far too many black young people in jail, kids that didn't take advantage of the educational process. If I had to work at minimum wage I'd rather do that and be able to sleep at night as opposed to selling poison to my own kind. I am so passionate because most people don't see the correlation between violent lyrics, and violence. Your twelve year old son is listening to men call women whores/bytches and they have parents that are throwing those words around freely even calling their children those names. How do you think that twelve year old is going to turn out? Is everything about bling, bling, prestige, fame, sex, drinking. Aren't there other areas in our lives that need expression? I have just been looking through the years at the downward spiral a lot of our people are taking and it just grieves my heart, that why I am so passionate about this. Another thing, I lost a cousin during a drug deal gone bad, my nephew was shot but survived, have i been personally affect? Yes. I don't want to go to no more 15 yr old funerals.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< your dad sounds like my mom. OMG if I hear one more thing about Jahem, R. Kelly, 50 cent, or Dr. Dre, I am going to rip the radio out of her car and confiscate her cd player. Not to mention her nasty azz marvin cease, poonany juke joint cds. ugh lol

Name: lovinlife
Comment: IJA to answer your skripper question, for me it would have to be Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it On". When I hear those opening notes I start "running".

Name: YLawdY
Comment: song that EVERY time you hear it you feel sexually powerful like you could put a man in a spell....IJA, when that happens the pole I'm looking for is not at the club!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< See, Uncle Luke is a good choice. I LOVE Scarred f. Tricky Daddy but I don't think I could get up the energy to strip to it. umm you WOULD respond to that post. smh

Name: YLawdY
Comment: LawdHvMrcy ...you sure that's why you falling down? lovinglife...."Let's Get It On" is THE song.

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: Good morning .. Arch that item is so sad. I always think of my sons. At dinner on Sunday we gave our 19 Y.o. a contract clearly stating his contribution to the tune of 235.00 which includes his cell, car insurance,etc. Of course he doesn't have a job, does go to Tech school. So we gave him 30days to find employment and get on point. This morning he told me that he was looking for a job and would probably only stay for two months that he was going to get his own place.. Now you don't want to pay for your incidentials and you think you're going to more successful on your own where an apt is going to cost 3 times what you have to pay us. Well go head with your bad self. I ain't mad atcha.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Arch>>> I hear your points of view and agree with some of it. But, if you feel so passionate about it, I think you are using the wrong forum to try to influence folks. For the most part, impressionable children and teenagers don't read the Free-4-All board (they are too busy on Myspace), and the parents on here are doing a decent job raising their children. Do yall have an Urban League in St. Lou? I would pack up my soap box and take it to an organization like that where you will have a more relevant audience and could perhaps make a difference.

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: This is wonderful: Pandora.com It allows you to create a music genre that you like.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Arch, I'm truly sorry that you are grieving so much. I guess everything in life is perspective, where I am in my life I don't see as much destruction as you do. Like Priceless so generously told me yesterday maybe I'm selfish cause my main concern in life is my children. The community that I live in is really diverse and the common link we all have is middle classdom. THe black folks that I come in contact with are all doing well and so are their kids.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: IJA oh you're talking about a rap song that make you wanna skrip...hmmm I'd have to say a song by LL, I think called "doing it well" or something like that.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Arch, I just went back and read your post, were you saying about the 12 year old in general?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, my stipper song is "Just a Lil Bit" Then I would break out into some B'more House music, like "Come on Girl Put ya Leg up"

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Lawd are you in HR? If so are you a generalist or did you specialize?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: IJA<I would also strip to Nookie, or Fine by Jackie-O...or B All right by Trina...

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: lovin>> yes, I am in HR but I work as a Project Manager, not a generalist. Solei is a generalist. Do you have a question?

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: IJA-- What about Whoop, There it Is by 95 South. Those were my BOYS back in '94. *making a note to find my 95 South tape when I get back home...*

Name: OSUN
Comment: I agree Lovinlife and Trini that the ultimate responsiblity lies with the parents. I am definitely a do it for yourself by yourself type of girl. However I do feel that the community as a whole should have some sort of responsibility towards the protection of children. And you have to admit the "values" and "morals" of the society as a whole appear to be at the basest level..ie non existent. Even though parents are ultimately responsible, you can't sheild your child from everything all day long and this stuff that is considered music is a detriment to society as a whole, especially the black community. I and apparently many on this board were blessed and fortunate enough to have parents that were engaged enough to monitor what we saw,listened to and etc. But lets face it there are many who dont which is apparent today. At somepoint do we just say it is all kids for themselves who don't have proper guidance and influence in their lives or do we advocate something better for the lest of these. Having said all this I know rap can't be held totally responsible for the ills of our community, but lets face it. It is the manifestation of what ails them.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Cuzzin Lawd...I hate HR!!!!! The reason I'm on so much today is...I hate HR. I have to do orientation for 20 employees (not a problem), but do to staffing constraints, I also have to put together the 300 gazillion page orientation packets for the new hires. I am proscratinating by playing with yall. Make a packet, make five posts, make a packet, make 7 posts...

Name: archcookies
Comment: >IJA I use any forum necessary, I am stepping off the lectern about this I have other duties at work but will check back. I say this again, if one parent takes the time to monitor what their children are listening and sit down with them and tell them the real deal I am happy. I did not mean to be too serious but I have always be accused of that. Again I am passionate about my people and I hate seeing what is happening to us. I am not saying that gangsta rap is the sole contributor to the demise of our culture but it certainly is not lifting any of us up and not instilling any pride or self-worth to the listener. As a woman I have never accepted being called a bytch, that's a dog you know. The End. (for today)

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Lawd, no I was just curious based on what you said yesterday. I worked in HR for a number of years but I had to run for the hills. I wasn't very good at listening to "issues". My specialization for my MBA was HR. I'm currently dealing with Aerospace. It pays the bills but doesn't fulfill me. I think I'm going back to school for interior design/textiles.

Name: archcookies
Comment: As far as my skripping song, it would have to be "Sexual Healing" by M. Gaye.

Name: lilmocc
Comment: Good Morning EUR FAmily!! I hope all is well with everyone. Sigma> whats up chica? Yeah, AI didn't really begin last night until the last 5 or 6 contestants. I think everyone was a little shaky, but the last 5 or 6 really found their stride and I think gave it their best. I don't know why everybody is so hooked on that Lisa girl. She is cute, but she is soooooo boring to me. Her, Chicken Little, Tarantula eyes and Bucky need to GO ASAP!! Arch> Sorry to hear about your friend's son. I will be praying for him and his remaining children. What an admirable man to step up and take care of his own children when Mom went astray. You would think that coaches are more aware that they need to act immediately when things like this happen. It has happened too often on high school, college and pro football fields to be lax about that situation. I certainly hope you all will get to the bottom of the situation and take the necessary action so it doesn't happen to anyone elses child.

Name: archcookies
Comment: >loveinlife I am going back to school in the fall for Restuarant and Hospitality I am going to open a restuarant and need to know the ends and outs of the business.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: lovinlife ...not pole dancing? Cuzzin Lawd..today, I'm a Project Manager too. I'm Managing to Project an image of total efficiency when in reality....I've also had two cups of French Roast coffee and two snickerdoodle cookies this morning...so I'm Managing to Project an air of manic activity.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: OSUN that's true ma but you could lose your hair, marbles, and everything else trying to save every child. I don't know the solution so I concentrate on what I can do, raising my kids to the best of my ability. I volunteer to mentor kids(especially teenage girls) and that's all I can do. I refuse to be miserable worrying about the state of Black America. I guess Priceless is right I'm selfish.

Name: Nappy_Edges
Comment: Mornin'all! Yep, I co-sign that its not music that's corrupting young people. Its the lifestyle of the parents. I remember when "Sexual Healing" came out. That was my song! I was 10 or 11 but I thought that Marvin Gaye, with his sexy peasy beard, should be my husband. I didn't go out looking for a stranger with candy that resembled Marvin Gaye to fill that void in my life! When "White Lines" came out, that was my jam! I knew what they were talking about but to me it seemed like a cautionary tale of "DON'T DON'T DO IT..BBBBAAABBBY" I think I was 11, 12. I had the single and played it till it started skipping, scratching and basically turned into a remix or sum'n. I turnt out just fine! (LOL) Frankly, I'd let my child listen to "White Lines" before I'd let him listen to "Ugh, Na Na ni na" by Master P. At least Melly Mel enunciates perfectly.

Name: archcookies
Comment: .lilmocc He is difinitely on top of things, he has the kids medical records to when they were babies, they live an upper middle class life, the kids are not spoiled and there is no real rebellions in the house cause brother rules the roost. But he is so fragile since the loss of his child--so all the prayers are definitely needed, thanks everyone for expressing concern and I will pass the message to him that I have another group of concerned people that have him on their prayer list.

Name: coneyi
Comment: Deb70- Elliot sang Knocks Me Off My Feet. I thought he and Katherine did the best. I was like, awwwww, watching him get all choked up when he got to sit next to Stevie. Chris was good as always. Mandisa was good. Taylor (even though he irritates me) was good. Paris is an good singer but she needs to calm down just a little. Chicken Little needs to go NOW! He did PartTime Lover no justice at all. It was horrible, I was through after that. And they said they like it. I was HEATED after that, like you can not be serious. And what was up with his stop sign dancing, or whatever the he!! it was. Ace did not sound good to me at all. he's still fine as he!!. I know it was hard for him to go 1st though. And even though Bucky and that dingy young blonde chick worked me last night acting like they never heard a Stevie Wonder song. YES YOU HAVE! They were just trying to play that up because they new they could not deliver any type of soul in their voice. Bucky was alright he wasn't as bad as I thought he would have been. But dingy girl was a mess.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< it looks like you will pretty much strip to anything. YlawdY< lol@ the pole you're looking for not being a real pole. lovinlife< i'm not a pole dancer, but sometimes I do like an audience. Now I don't think I could dance to Let's get it on, that would be more romantic than freaky to me. We don't want no romance on the pole! lmao

Name: Nappy_Edges
Comment: ...and I would never let my child listen to my "guilty pleasure" artist right now - Remy Ma. She's got this song called "Conceited" that I can't frickin get out of my brain! cause I look to GOOOD to be fv(kin you/and I look to GOOOOD to be lovin you/I'm conceited/I got a reason. I think its the irony that she has no reason to be conceited and rejecting guys. And NO, beotch, you DON'T look too good! But I admire the gall that she has to put something out like that!

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: Arch}best of luck to you going to school to study restaurant/hospitality management. I study that one...it's a rough one are you going to minor in business? {lilmocc}what's up chica. I haven't heard anything but I have my folks checking around for you.

Name: Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - I think you just helped me realize that "Conceited" by Remy Ma is my current stripper song in my head. I always have a "favorite" song then I have a "stripper" song in my head. I always seem to start singing it when I'm looking in the bathroom mirror with panties on and nothing else. Thank you! I've gotta run now...

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Go'on Arch! I really want my artistic expression to make my living. It's scary when you have a "good" job but I want to be fulfilled in what I do. Good luck to you. BTW you never did give me the name of a low-fat flavorful cookbook. THat website had about 1000 on there, it was overwhelming.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: Nappy don't be blaming IJA you know you been dancing around buck nekkid on the regular.

Name: archcookies
Comment: lovinlife, okay I'll do a little research and you'll have the information today. Sigma, I am really not wanting a degree just the ends and outs of the business. I need to learn how to convert my recipes so that they will feed more people. I am excited about the prospect. It may be difficult but I also need the challenge to master this. I already have a serious back who also is going to decorate the restuarant. He told me he'd back me and he is a man of his word.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: Arch}I meant I STUDIED,past tense.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Nappy...don't think you needed an inspiration to get your strip on.

Name: OSUN
Comment: Nappy I like that conceited song also, but everytime I see the video I ask myself what is she conceited about. She looks like Alf to me. That is an ugly broad.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: OSUN ...don't be picking on ALF!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: No, IJA, I won't strip to just about anything. Just those songs. I have my stripper standards you know. LOL...Remy Ma has had some face work or something. She looks different from when she came out with Lean Back. I think she got her nose done or something. Okay guys. I'm off to do some real work. Check back in a few.

Name: OSUN
Comment: Nappy, Luther Campbell makes the best stripper songs hands down.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: lovin>> Since I am not a generalist, I don't deal with the 'issues'. I manage the HR-related projects and initiatives for Performance Mgmt, Diversity, Exit Interviews, Recruiting, Talent Development, Organizational Development, etc. Shoot girl, I do it all--from the rooter to the tooter. My MBA was in straight business with no specialization. That was on purpose so that I could have a little flexibility in my career choices. OK yall. I am gone FOR REAL this time. (I know that I say this every other post, but I mean it this time) I'll be back on here in about um... 15 minutes! lol

Name: archcookies
Comment: SEX AFTER 60 As my wife, and I are approaching our 63rd and 65th birthdays, respectively, we scheduled our annual medical examination the same day, so we could travel together. After my examination, the doctor said, "You appear to be in good health. Do you have any medical concerns that you would like to discuss with me?" "In fact, I do," I said. "After I have sex with my wife the first time, I am usually hot and sweaty. And then, after I have sex with my wife the second time, I am usually cold and chilly." This is very interesting,"replied the doctor. "Let me do some research and get back to you." After examining my wife, the doctor said, "Everything appears to be fine. Do you have any medial concerns that you would like to discuss with me?" She replied that she had no questions nor concerns. The doctor than asked, "Your husband had an unusual concern. He claims that he is usually hot and sweaty after having sex the first time with you and cold and chilly after the second time, do you know why?" "Oh, that old fart!" she replied. "That's because, the first time is usually in July and the second time is usually in December." Momma Arch would not be happy in this house.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Nappy< I also love that song but refuse to watch the video b/c of the reasons you sited!! Trin< stripper standards? I didn't know they existed. lol

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *running back in* Hey Nappy! *running back out*

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: arch} oh,okay...best of luck to you;-)

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Brokeback Mountain A rugged cowboy from Brokeback Mountain, Wyoming goes into the > doctor's office and has some tests run. > > The doctor comes back and says, "I am not going to beat around the > bush, You have AIDS." > > The cowboy tugs at his Stetson and sets his jaw and says, "Doc, > what can I do?" > > The doctor says, "I want you to go home and eat 5 pounds of spicy > sausage, a head of cabbage, 20 un-peeled carrots drenched in hot > sauce, 10 jalapeno peppers, 40 walnuts, 40 peanuts, 1/2 box of > Grapenuts cereal, and top it off with a gallon of prune juice." > > The cowboy squares his rugged shoulders and asks, "Will that cure > me, Doc?" > > "No, but it should leave you with a better understanding of what > your %*$ is for."

Name: bigchassie
Comment: *opening door slightly and sticking head in the room waving* hay yall just peeked in to holla at my family! still typing though.

Name: archcookies
Comment: Three friends from the local congregation were asked, "When you're in your casket, and friends and congr! egation members are mourning over you, what would you like them to say?" Artie said, "I would like them to say I was a wonderful husband, a fine spiritual leader, and a great family man." Merle commented, "I would like them to say I was a wonderful teacher and servant of God who made a huge difference in peoples lives." Don said, "I'd like them to say, 'Look! He's moving!'"

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Teacher Fired After Allegedly Biting Pupil Tue Mar 14, 11:25 PM ET School officials on Tuesday fired a middle school teacher charged with biting a student who would not spit out a piece of candy. Caroline Kolb has pleaded not guilty to an aggravated %*$ault charge for allegedly biting 14-year-old Garrick Hudson on the back during a classroom scuffle Jan. 11. School officials conducted a probe and fired Kolb for insubordination and conduct unbecoming a teacher, The Courier-Journal reported, citing a copy of her termination letter. Administrators had previously warned Kolb to avoid being physically confrontational with students, according to the letter. A call Tuesday to Kolb's attorney was not immediately returned. The student's mother said Kolb told her son to stand in the hallway after he disobeyed her order to spit out the candy. When the boy tried to retrieve his books, they got into the scuffle. According to court records, the boy was treated for a bite wound.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: ."..you can look smart in front of your child" 2 hours, 59 minutes ago A new Discovery Channel homework Web site aims to remind parents whose math and history knowledge has gotten rusty how to help their children with the very things they have forgotten. Cosmeo, a new online subscription site from Discovery Communications, offers a range of tools from a WebMath equation solver to educational videos and subject-specific Brain Games. Launched on Monday, the site targets Web-savvy children from kindergarten through 12th grade. It also gives parents and other caretakers a way to be more involved in the learning process while refreshing their own knowledge, said Judith McHale, president and chief executive of Discovery Communications. "Finally, you can look smart in front of your child," she joked. Cosmeo is located at http://www.cosmeo.com and costs $9.95 per month or $99 per year. Other features include interactive quizzes, a digital encyclopedia and a digital photo library. The service is built on Discovery's unitedstreaming, an educational video streaming service used in more than 70,000 schools. Cosmeo's search functions serve up age- or grade-appropriate content, which is also tailored to match state curriculum requirements.

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Okay yall let slant this thing just a litle. Let's talk about ringtones. Everybody has a cell phone, newborns, pre-teens, grannies evrrbody. Some ringstone choices are a trip too. Short story I was in the movies watchin madea this lil girls phone start chripin ou Beyonce. Check up on it. Every 10-15 min I hear Ima check up on it check on it tonite. After the 1st 2-3 times I said to her can't you put Bee on Vibrate she said no my momma said never turn my phone off. I said Okay. Left that alone. When the movie got to the part where Madea snatch that lil girl up in the backseat I said to the lil Bee fan that's how I feel right now. The girl said I'm sorry mam. All I could do was laugh I got like maybe six ringtones. This weeks is Anthony Hamilton, but some of these kids are a trip with there phone for real.

Name: beboyz
Comment: ProsperityJoy- Do you have a winner yet? If not Your darling daughter is 6 years old. Zurich is the largest city and your birthday is March 24. I hope I win!!!

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: QueenCity}I didn't know vibrate was turning the phone off;-)

Name: YLawdY
Comment: I thought the vibrate was for personal, lovely relations. Learn somptin new erday.

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Sigma>I know, it's not turning it off you that but once she said her momma said.. I left the entire issue alone. That's my point they walkin round with phone they don't even know how to use.

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Ylawd>If you desperate enuf to stick a cell phone up your azz you are lonely.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: QueenCity}what's also funny is that if her mother thought she needed a phone to go to the movie...then momma needed to be there.

Name: 10piece
Comment: Good Morning Fam.... I need to catch up

Name: YLawdY
Comment: QueenCityBee...See you just nasty...I wasn't talk about sticking it nowhere but in my pocket. :)

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Hey "The New Home of the Tom Joyner Show" in the Philly area (can't remember name of station) is playing a song just for cuzzin Lawd..."We fall down, but we get up...."

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Okay Ylawd> May the freak B wit U. lol

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Hey ya'll I'm back...anything new going on?! Hey Nappy, I know your gone but today is TTD burfday!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini...that's why Nappy's gone. She's off celebrating, doing that new age stuff he's into.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: What's his new name again?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Y Lawd, its Atriveda Matahsuaya or something crazy like that. Shi.t girl I don't know.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Dayum where did everybody go? I guess they off workin or at lunch. I'm going to lunch in about 20 min.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< ooo Nappy gonna get you! It's Sananda Maitreya...hmm I hope I'm spelling that right.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: LOL, Thanx IJA< I knew its was a name in Sanskrit. A big NAMASTE to TTD!!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: They ain't off working. They must be eating. I just had the best sandwich..a Monte Cristo (sp). It was da bomb.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Where's ARch? She's intrested in opening a resturant. My Aunt opened one in Cambridge Mass, its called Petsi Pies. Everything she did was by trial and error. SO far so good she's opening her second shop this month in Harvard Square. She's been featured on the Food Network a couple times.

Name: 10piece
Comment: I havent finished reading but my stripper song is "Get that money why ya bullshi*ing by Suga Free

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Ain't nobody here but me, you and IJA. What kind of food does she serve?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Monte Cristo's are good YLawd. I have leftover Chicken Parm that I made last night.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Headline. "Saddam Insists He's Still Iraqi President" That's his story and he's sticking with it.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: She serves pies, sweet and savory. Different types of desserts and stuff. Her second resturant has a more extended menu. They still serve pies and stuff but she'll also sandwiches, pastries, coffee and tea, stuff like that.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: all this talk of pies, pastries and sandwiches is making me hungry. I'm gone to lunch. Check ya'll in a few.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Michael Douglas is doing some heavy Brangelina bashing. "I don't know about Brad Pitt, leaving that beautiful wife to go hold orphans for Angelina," Douglas, referring to ex-Mrs. Pitt Jennifer Aniston, snipes in an interview appearing in the new issue of GQ. "I mean, how long is that going to last?" *****************That's funny! His wife is what, 16?

Name: beboyz
Comment: Trini- Chicken parm and veal Parm are some of my favorites yum yum!!!

Name: MidwestMan1
Comment: Afternoon how's all the strippers and perverts doing today?

Name: archcookies
Comment: I have not given you all a recipe but I tried something last night and it is delicious. Curried Tuna Salad 2 cans of tuna drained 1/4 cup of finely diced green peppers 1/8 cup of diced pimentos 1 tblspoon of prepared horseradish 2 hard boiled eggs 1/4 cup diced onion 1/2 teaspoon of curry powder garlic powder 1/4 cup of mayonaise or salad dressing 2 tblspoons of mango chutney. Delicious.

Name: beboyz
Comment: trini2dbone - my fave scrippa song is by 8 ball and MJD *rappin* "Dont Flex baby I want to see you touch them toes in that dress baby...Bounce it up and down like we havin sex baby" Oh God I just had a flashback LOL

Name: archcookies
Comment: >trini thanks for the encouragement. That is what I am dreaming of and believe me I know that it is hard work.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Erbody back from lunch? I had to go visit with my mens for a minute....The Rock, LL, Howard Hewett, Josh Hollaway *drying off keyboard*.

Name: lovinlife
Comment: I just came from a meeting where I was sitting next to a pank man whose breaf smelled like somebody took a crap in his mouth. My stomach is still turning. I offered him a gum and he had the nerve to say no thanks.

Name: Debonair
Comment: Afternoon,all....what's really good?

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Thanks for the recipe, Arch. I was just about to ask what can I cook this weekend! lol Can I roll up in here and eat that Tuna sammich at my desk without folks tripping? And oh, what is mango chutney? {MWM1}-- hey sweetie! Ain't no strippers up in here. Only Polar Gyration Specialists {Beboyz} Where are you located? Are you still kicking it with that chick with the trout mouth?

Name: beboyz
Comment: LawdHvMrcy - I reside in the thriving metropolis called Houston, Texas. Now the Third largest US City (After Katrina) I am no longer seeing Cootie mouth by the way LOL.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: {Beboyz} LMAO. Hey, I have a past lover that treated me like crap who now resides in Houston. Could you go over to his house and kick his azz for me?!?!

Name: MidwestMan1
Comment: LawdHvMrcy, no stripper huh, but I see you didn't nothin bout da perverts!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: How many of yall have really been to strip clubs? Am I the only one who hasn't? The closest I've come to a stripper is "The Players Club" and "Pimps Up, Ho's Down" or however it goes. LOL

Name: lovinlife
Comment: beboyz what up homie! I didn't know you was in Texas, I'm in San Antonio.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: MidWestMan-- Correct, we only have Polar Gyration Specialists in here--no strippers. AND, we only have ONE resident perve on this board. His initials are MWM1. lol

Name: beboyz
Comment: Lovinlife i didn't know you were that close I SA!!!

Name: MidwestMan1
Comment: LawdHvMrcy, what's the last perverted thing you've heard me say, I'm a reformed ConservAPerv I tell ya! LOL....

Name: beboyz
Comment: LawdHvMrcy - I'm always down for giving a sorry ex a beatdown. You are getting me excited. LOL

Name: asize12
Comment: Good Afternoon peoples! I'm just peekin' in & out. The "man" doesn't allow me to be on-line all day, so I have to sneak in & out during lunch & my 2 breaks. It just ain't fair I tell ya!

Name: beboyz
Comment: Ok Fam Am Idol Notes: Whats up with Paris she is so lackluster. Now I love all I do but Not Paris Style. Wendy Moton wrecked that song and I love the original by stevie. I was surprised that about 5 of them nailed their songs the others sucked.

Name: ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Good afternoon all! Just poppin' in & look what I find - big convo on strippin' & pervertin' - well wonders never cease! LOL My 2-song set (today) would be Luke's "Don't Stop - Git It Git It & closing out with Ready For The World's "Tonight". Yep, I'm old skool allright & proud of it!**bouncin' & jigglin' outta post to the beat of Adina Howard's "Freak Like Me"**

Name: beboyz
Comment: If chicken lil aint leaving tonight I might not watch anymore

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: ZYDECODIVA-- you are our top, money-making Polar Gyration Specialist! lol Actually RFTW's Tonight was on my list, too. I downloaded that song (and a bunch of others) to make a 'hookup CD'. As for the Don't Stop, Get it Get it----- why is it that Luke's songs make you look over your left shoulder at your butt when you dance?!?!?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Oooh Beboyz you just gave me chills with that song. That bring backs memories for me too....*starin off into space*....*fixin self* Hey ya'll back from lunch that chicken parm was BLAZIN...

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Lawd, Mango Chutney is like the best thing in the world!!!

Name: asize12
Comment: >>Prubin40, that song "Gettin' Some Head" should NOT be allowed to be played on the radio. I don't care if they do beep 'head' out, kids ain't stupid! They really think kids are stupid, don't they. I've actually never heard the whole song because as soon as it comes on I immediately turn the station. Y'all know that stupid a*ss song "Laffy Taffy"? There's a verse or some lyrics that definitely shouldn't be played on the radio, but they continue to play it w/o beeping it out. The part where he says he's a like a "jolly rancher cause he stays so hard" WTF? I normally turn the station on that song too, but one day I decided to listen to it when my kids weren't in the car. I was appalled at that line in the song! I couldn't believe they didn't beep it out. The radio station has gone down hill and 'payola' has got a lot to do w/ it. That's why for the most part, I listen to cds.

Name: asize12
Comment: Oh, I forgot to mention, someone's cell phone went off at church and guess what the song was...LAFFY TAFFY!!! She was SO embarrassed! I was like, don't be ashamed now, you shouldn've put that crap on your phone!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: 4 cups underripe mangoes (diced) 1 cup raisins 1 cup dates, chopped 4 oz green ginger, chopped 1 teaspoon mustard seed 4 cups sugar 2 oz salt 2 cloves garlic, minced 2 hot peppers, chopped 4 cups red wine vinegar 1/2 lb onions, chopped mix all ingredients together and let sit for a day. the next day slowly cook all ingredient until thick a brown. serve with curry

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Trini>> can you get mango chutney at the grocery store, or do I need to go to a speciality shop? I noticed that the recipe called for 2 tspoons, so it must be an important ingredient. A chick like me would be trying to substitute with pepper or something like that, but I guess I need to get the exact ingredients. {MWM} The only time you pop up is when folks up in here trying to get their rocks off. It's like you have the 6 Million Dollar Man hearing when you hear a booty clap or something! {Deb} Hey, sweetie. You are still on my list-- I ain't forgot about 'chu... {Beboyz} Don't beat him down just yet. I got one more itch that I need for him to scratch before I totally write him off...

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: LOL asize12, somebodys phone was playin Laffy Taffy in church?! LMAO, thats funny. That reminds me, THe other day I was at the doctor at and this older yt lady was sitting across from me, anyway her phone started ringing and it was playin Gold Digger, it came on right at the chrous when he says "I ain't messin wit no broke %*$!(". LMAO! It was so funny, her face got bright red.

Name: asize12
Comment: LOL @ beboyz!!! Don't he look just like Chicken Little? He surprisingly did okay last night, but my favorite is Mandisa. That gal can SANG! I like Paris too and that one white chic Katherine clowned on "Till' U Come Back to Me". That dude w/ the gray hair did a good job too. The other white chick pis*sed me off when she jacked up the lyrics to 'Lately'. Other than that, she sounded okay. It was a good show last night. I think the 16 year old girl that favors Aaliyah is getting voted off, she didn't do too well to me.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Ylawdy< you never been to a strip club? Girllllllllllllllllllllll you are missing out!! I LOVEEEEEEE going. The stripping doesn't actually make me honry, but there is nothing like telling a man to shake it faster, and then smacking him on the azz! Plus that is really the only time when you get to feel a real 6 pack. I love it. You need to check around and see where the black male dancers are in your area, it’s an emergency.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Lawd you can buy chutney in the grocery store. The best brand is maggi...you can also find it in west indian specialty stores.

Name: ZYDECODIVA
Comment: CU @ LawdHvMercy! You are so right - Luke's songs DO make ya look back! LOL Yeah, "We gots to use what we got to gets what we want"! Note to the youngin's on the board - that line is from Lynn Collins & did NOT originate from The Players Club. Carry on!

Name: asize12
Comment: >trini2dbone, yes! And it was even funnier when she was fumbling trying to turn the phone off cuz she felt stupid cause ERRRBODY was looking at her! Luckily we were in the basement so the Pastor didn't hear it.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< I remember for my 19th birthday my girlfriends took me to this male revue. I promised myself I would never go again. I've never been so violated in my entire life!!!! They announced it was my b-day and took me on stage and that dude air-fukked me to no end!!!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< LMAO that ALWAYS happens to someone. When I first went I voluntered to be a fluffer...until I realized that you would have to play with or suck their d!ck. Fluffers are the girls that help get them hard before a show, shoot, I ain't know! lol you right up by Philly so the Platinum E dancers are right at your disposal. And let me tell you they are some of the best! I think the best thing at a strip club is when the host asks you to be his wife for the night. Then he gives you like 100 dollars so you can buy drinks and whatnot...but best believe you will get 'air-fukked' as you call it when he comes out to perform, because, you know, you're his WIFE.

Name: MidwestMan1
Comment: LawdHvMrcy, now that would mean I'm up in here everyday, because everyday somebody gets to talkin bout gettin they rocks offs, or booty clappin by 2:00pm. ZYDECODIVA, ya'll look back cause ya know a brother eventually is gonna try and grab dat mofo!

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Cuzzin Lawd-- I have been to strip clubs before, but I like to watch from afar. I hate to be touched because they are rubbed down in baby oil and glitter so it gets on your clothes. Not to mention that they smell like Aquaboogie. For those of you who don't know, Aquaboogie is a combination of nutsack sweat, cheap baby oil, stank cologne, and breath.

Name: OSUN
Comment: Queencitybee, my ringtone is Kryptonite by the Purple Ribbon all stars.

Name: Debonair
Comment: YLawdY>I've worked in SEVERAL strip clubs back in the day!You may be the only Amish person on the board in that retrospect.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: IJA<I went to one show with the Platinum dancers and I watched from far away. After my last ordeal I didn't want to be touched. The ladies in there were a trip! Especially the older ones like 50 and up OH LAWD!!!!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: IJA...you sound like an expert! I'm near Philly too. Who are these E guys and where do you find them? LMAO @ cuzzin Lawd...Aquaboogie.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *gasps at the possible skillsets of Debonair* Deb, you mean to tell me you worked at the strip club as the FEATURED Gyration Specialists, or were you bartending/working security/DJ'ing ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: I've gone to female clubs before too. It was pretty interesting and the dancers were cool. You can learn a few things too.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Good day mi familia! beboyz, what u meant to say was "Paris looked a hot mess like nite!" Everone else was styled so lovely. Paris looked like an old woman in the attic dressed her. She needs to stop all that hugging and being "on" all the time. chill Paris, chill! With that said, I voted for her, Mandisa and Lisa.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Lawd, I think Deb was security. Or maybe he was a dancer *lookin over at Debonair*

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: CQ, I didn't like Paris' hair last night and someone needs to pluck or wax her eyebrows. She's starting to look like Naima...

Name: Debonair
Comment: LawdHvMercy>No sweetheart, i was just security...I save my wham whams and boom booms for when i'm intimate.

Name: StopBeingIgnant
Comment: The Philly strip club you guys are talking about......is that the one that was featured on a segment of HBO Real Se x about 5 years ago?? If so, then all I can say is unh unh unh unhun uuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Pariseses' (didn't know how to make that noun possessive) hair looked 1000 times better than it looked on the preview. I was NOT feeling the yarn weave look. Now, don't get me wrong that chile can saaaaang like Shug Avery, but I am not so sure she will make it to the top.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< female clubs are great as far as I'm concerned. A show is a show. And like I said, the men don't really turn me on so that's not why I go anyway. the only thing that bothers me about female strip clubs is that I know the back story for many of those girls is just sad. Plus a lot of times the girls are drunk so it takes something away because I know they are not enjoyin themselves in the least bit. YlawdY< Different clubs will book platinum E dancers on any given night. I know they used to be at Aphrodisac and Pegasus a lot. Fliers are always distributed so if you check around I’m sure you will find them.

Name: ZYDECODIVA
Comment: LOL @ MWM1!! Sho' you right!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Lawd, you talkin about them pigtails or whatever it was she had in her hair? Yeah that looked crazy...the child still needs her eyebrows done.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: **making note to self that Deb has wham whams and boom booms in his repertoire* {Carribean Queen} Yesterday you said your sister was moving to the QC. Post you email address or send me an email to BS11221972@yahoo.com so that I can tell you what I know...

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: ylawdy, don't feel bad I have never been to a strip club either. Don't seem like i'm missin anyting

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Deb...Amish? How did you know!

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: I got to admit i use to love Juvenile's "Back that thang-up"! I went to the bahamas the summer that song came out & that's all you hear up & thru their.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: QCB< now I'm surprised more people didn't say Back that thang up. You can't lose with that one.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: Back from lunch. I am not fooling with you and the strippers;-) But on AI...I feel this season will produce the most record deals. Overall this is the best crop of talent at once.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: How about Juvenile's Slow Motion? That gets me going too. IJA< I guess your right, I'll strip to just about anything. LMAO!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini..do you even need music?

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: I can't believe none of you strip to "SuperFreak" by the late great Rick James!

Name: Debonair
Comment: YLawdY ...it's either that or a Quaker.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Sigma< superfreak is kinda silly to me...I need a more serious song. Plus the beat is corny for stripping. The beat has got to GRIND. Trini< co-sign with what YlawdY said, clearly you're just a freak.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: LawdHvMrcy, you've got mail! thanks

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: Pjoy your daughter is six your birthday is march 28 and Zurich is the third answer 3 million people live in the catchment( I threw that in for princess points)LOL

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: bighead< where you been allllllll day?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: YLawd, nope, you know them drummer you see bangin them white paint buckets in the subway, I strip to that too. LMAO!!!

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Thanks, CQ-- I will check it when I get home tonight. I do not have access to my yahoo account during the day... {BHB2} YEAH, where have YOU been all day! Since BHB2 is sucking up for some brownie points PROSPERITY JOY-- let me tell you how much pimping I had to do today to try to find your birthday. I went through ALL of the available archives to see if your birthday was listed. I didn't have any luck with that, but I did find where you had your blogspot posted there. SOO, because we can't access blogs at work, I CALLED my friend who works for another company to physically log onto your page to see if you have your birthday out there. The only thing she saw was that you were an Aries. So, I just pulled the date out of my behind and am sitting here with my fingers crossed. Truth be told, I gave up chocolates for Lent so I don't know why in the HEYALL I am doing all of that for some dayum chocolate... *shrugging shoulders* IJA-- did you get the DC people together yet? As for the prices for Chicago-- my friend and I found flight/hotels to Chicago for 4 nights 5 days for around $400 -450. You can't beat that with a bat. I will probably be cheaper coming from DC...

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA Rock the boat,rock the boat LOL

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: lawdhv< those chicago prices sound great. I'm goin there to visit my friend so I'll be staying with her or else she'll kill me. The DC people will be meeting up April 15th and I'm too excited. bighead< you nasty, who was you rockin the boat with. hmph!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: bighead and cuzzin Lawd both showing off today. *sticking out tongue*

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini...I HAVE seen you!

Name: honeychile
Comment: Afternoon all! What is this I hear...we talking about strippers, huh? I used to always go to shows. Was funny to me. LAWD> About the baby oil and crap, I remember when I was pregnant with my youngest son (you couldn't tell), this stripper picked me up and air f***d me and man, he had baby oil all in my clothes! I was sitting there watching the show, and my best friend went to the bar, she said she came back and was like, where did she go, she looked on stage and all she saw was my shoes in the air. CU! I was mad when I left there though cause he messed up my outfit!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Which Platform you seen me dancin on YLawd?

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *popping Cuzzin Lawd in the back of her head, making her bite down on her tongue* lol {IJA} The flights alone are less than $200. You can't beat that with a BAT!!! Girl, I will see you there!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: YLawd, don't you have a brother that lives here in DE? Or was that someone else?

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: lawdhv< are you stripping to Black sheep?

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: CU @ Honeychile-- well, now you know why I'd much rather look from AFAR. I wasted almost a whole bottle of baby oil on my carpet in my bedroom (long story) and I can not get it out. I can only imagine what it does to your clothes!

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: {IJA} I can believe you took me serious on the Rick James;-);-) Foreal, the D.C. area people didn't put any Go-Go in there for strip songs...I can't believe it. ... What about "Freakin You" -Jodeci

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini...yes, my brother lives off Smalleys Dam Road. My extended family lives from Middletown south to Millsboro.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Honeychile, one of my co-workers was shownin me pictures from her sis in-laws babyshower, and I swear they had a stripper at the shower and took pics to prove it. I wish I had copies so I could send it to hotghettomess.com because the pics were crazy!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Sigma< I thought when you said that you werent' messing with us and the strippers, I thought for a second that maybe you didn't like the atmosphere...but I see you were just frontin' lmao. Yeah the DC go-go people could have put one leg up and their booty on the floor. HA!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Ylawd, Smalleys Dam Rd? Why does that sound so familiar. I live in Newark. So where have you seen me?

Name: YLawdY
Comment: trini...I could kick myself. I spent 4 HOURS sitting in the car sleeping & reading on Saturday, cause my daughter had a photo shoot in Trolley Square. I coulda called you.

Name: ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Ginuwine - My Pony. Nuff said.**minimizing screen**

Name: honeychile
Comment: Lawdhv> Baby oil ain't no joke...that mess did NOT come out...baby oil, oil sheen, might as well forget it.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Smalleys Dam Road is off Rt 273 and Rt 7. I thought I saw you out at the homeboy mall in Claymont (Tri-State Mall). LOL

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: IJA-- no, I ain't stripping to no 'This or That!'-- cause that is kinda WHACK! lol

Name: honeychile
Comment: Lawd>> What exactly or should I say, who exactly were you lathering up with that oil????

Name: honeychile
Comment: Trini>> A stripper at a baby shower?? Dang, that was off the chain! I know when I eventually get married, if I get married, my friends are going to hook it up...we have some local strippers that will blow your mind, among other things if you let them.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: LOL, YLawd you sure could have I'm wasn't doing a dayum thing Saturday! You'll have to email me (n2jane@yahoo.com) so the next time your down we can meet!

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Hey, do yall remember this instrumental song called Chinese Math? That song would be a good strip song. What about Maxwell's 'A woman's worth'?

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: LOL, Honeychile I kid you not. Most people think I'm bullshitting when I say they had a stripper but they had a stripper at the girls shower!!! IJA, how do you feel about Baltimore club/house music. When I moved down to this area and heard it I was like what is this crazy nonsense?! But I've grown to like it. *boppin to perculator*

Name: lilmocc
Comment: Paris's eyebrows made her look like a leprechaun with yarn ponytails. Why do they doll up all the rest of the contestants and have her looking like a mud duck? I was HOLLERIN' though when Simon said Bucky's hair looked like Jessica Simpson's. IJA- I am stripping to "Ice Cream" by Raekwon the Chef ----- watch these rap nuccas get all up in your guts... and guess what I would use as my props........ LMAO or "Pony" by Genuwine

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< whenever I hear A Woman's worth I think of intepretive dance not stripping, plus there's too much love in that song...no love on the pole! Trini< I like CERTAIN go-go or house songs, you know watch out for the big girls, there's some hos in this house, Scenario, perculator etc but overall it gives me a headache lol. I much prefer to dance to down south music. lilmocc< one of my favorite strippers...what was his name...INCOGNEGRO lol I believe, came out to Pony. changed my life.

Name: SYRPIPC
Comment: My kids only listen to Radio Disney. My kids can sing the heck out of a Hilary Duff, Raven Symone' or B5 song. They have no desire to listen to Hip Hop. If I have the station on when I pick them up from school, they ask for Radio Disney. I do what I can when they are with me. I have to monitor what they are exposed to at school, friends' homes, etc. It is my responsibility.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Honeychile>> *looking around all innocent* Who me? Babyoil? What are you talking about?!?!?! Let's just say there was a combination of babyoil and the plastic tarp you use when you paint a room...

Name: StormyMonday
Comment: RyTay, are you on the board today??? I know you watched The Amazing Race last night.

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: ylawdy no you didn't say the Rock I thought this was settled he is mine along with JBandFH and Tiamak(sp)

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: beboyz you betta hush about Wendy she was the bomb and do you remember Malira and David Peaston? Those are singers

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< watch out for da big girl!! LOL I thought I was going to die laughin when I heard that. Put ya leg up is my song though. The stripper that changed my life and made me never want to go to another strip club was named El Hurucan or somthing like that. Hurricane is spanish dammit. Anyway thats the one who air fukked me. SMH

Name: honeychile
Comment: Lawd>> You crazy!

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Stormy, did you jes say the Amazing Race? It was good last nite, but all I gotta say is that Brother on there is a PUNK!!!! How you gonna be with a woman and have her drive while chilling in the back seat explaining that you are she has been in a long distance relationship so this situation will let you really get to know each other???? Sucka you drive!!!! Be a man!!! and when it came to decide who would jump off the highest platform into the pool in cold-azz Russia....she reminds you that she has a fear of pools, and can barely swim, you tell her to do it because you did the last challenge?? what a PUNK!!!

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA working baby sis. They tryin to make me earn my coins this week. Hi Arch and Chassie and MS Sigma anyone seen ms kayweezy?

Name: Debonair
Comment: As a former employee of the Common Arts Lowest Denomination Dance Establishment,i do not mess with strippers...We used to have to check the girls' bags as they were coming in(y'know to prevent the smuggling of assorted drugs, liquors and weapons) and you'd be AMAZED at how nasty alot of those girls were!A lot of them would bring in the same items that they wore the night before...Man, you'd open those bags and suitcases up for a routine check and it's like a full blown HAMPER would punch you right in your nose!!!!They would not even wash the same costumes and panties that they used the night before.I definately saw a nature of woman that is not common.Looks do not mean nothing!B/c there is a true difference between a woman and a different sort of person who just happens to be a female.

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: LOL @ Trini drummer at the subway

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Debonair< I tol' you the night you opened my bag that I did not have time to get over to the laundry mat b/c my baby was sick. You ain't got to get on the board and bad mouth me.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Aaaand, it took her soo long to finally jump off that high azz diving board. Notice when she came out the water she didn't say anyting? Ruh Kelly says when a woman's fed up....but what brothers don't know is "when a woman's quiet"! Once they are off the show, this relationship is splitsville.

Name: asize12
Comment: >trini2dbone & lilmocc, yes they do need to wax those brows on Paris and would they PUH-LEASE tell them to wax them ELVIS SIDEBURNS!!!! She looks like Ashanti before the waxing! LOL Also, I'm so glad they straightened that one girls hair (I forget her name, but she's the light skinned young girl). She looks better w/ straight hair.

Name: honeychile
Comment: Debonair>> That's just nasty...ewwwww

Name: letmein
Comment: I don't know nothing about going to a stip club/bar, but I can tell you something about seeing some strippers! LOL!!! I say that because it's naever been in an established club. Well, take that back, ONE club. Other times, it's been a rented hall, someone's bachelorette party, or a comdemned building. Hell, the one's I've seen are RAUNCHY!! Damn, but they hung, LOL!!! Ooo, Honeychile, have you ever seen Diamond? Damn, dude was young but um um um....and it had a crook...um um um!!

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: asize12, I can't remember the girls name either, but I know she sang terribly last night...

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: What up bigheadbull2...I'm in out myself today. I can read constantly, but posting is slower.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: LOL@letmein, had a crook huh? NASTY!!!

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: I think Paris's family must be involved in her styling. The other conqtestants look so much bettah than she does. I have a feeling that her mom and grandma gives rules/input for her styling. She looks so old! poor ting! that's why so works the stage so hard! she is trying to act 17 through those old gladys knight clothes.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: did i jes say conqtestants? lol at my typing with one hand!!

Name: honeychile
Comment: LETMEIN>> that's the sucka who jacked up my clothes!!! But yeah, he's FOINE...I'm telling y'all, we got some strippers for ya up here...man! QuietStorm, Mr. Sexy, Diamond...mmmmm...

Name: MidwestMan1
Comment: Debonair, they don't wash the outfits cause they want them to get extra sticky, so mo money would hold on! Okay that ain't even plausible, they just some trifflin females. That's why I don't frequent those establishments, well I did once or twice but that was it I tell you!

Name: StormyMonday
Comment: CQ, I love the Amazing Race! The only player that I can't stand at this point is Lake! I don't know how his wife deals with his mouth! And he was out of line for fussing at the black couple for picking the nesting dolls, he had no business following their cab. Oh and Dani and Danielle need to stop messing with those boys, they looked like fools having forgotten their bag with ALL their valuables!

Name: Debonair
Comment: My bad, IJA but you CAME to work pissy drunk and stumblin' with your makeup applied to damn near clownish, with bad breath and a ghetto attitude...I HAD to blown your sh!t up! You're lucky we're cool now...I didn't mention the battle scars and stretch marks across your not even in shape stomach and the coke habit.-....ooopps!

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Beyonce and Tina are on Oprah...it's a repeat. The one with their clothing line. Beyonce talks like she has something hot in her mouth. Tina speaks suprisingly well.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: CTFU @ Letmein and Honeychile. Either yall have the same strippers that we have or they just recycle names! lol We have Star, Big Daddy Long Stroke (although I hope he has retired cause he had a blister on him wee wee), Diamond, Long Dong Silver, Cowboy... {DEBONAIR} That is plain nasty. Recycling crotch juice. EWWWW

Name: SYRPIPC
Comment: So was anyone eliminated on The Amazing Race?

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA with JB and The Rock of course LOL

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: 'scuse me. Crotch juice = smegma

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: To be honest I sang at this girls birthday party and she had a stripper. I was sooo turn off by it that I left. I know a couple from this way back in the day and a lot of those guys are as funny as a four dollar bill. It does absolutly nothing for me.

Name: YLawdY
Comment: THE ROCK IS MINE! MINE I SAY!

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Syrpipc, no one was eliminated on The Amazing Race cause it was not an elimination leg. The leg continues next week.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Debonair< you just hating b/c I ain't give you none of this. *points to croch like a nasty ho would* hmph! *crosses arms, pops gum* You ain't that cute no way. *rolls eyes, walks off mumbling* Lawdhv< you KNOW they recycle those names. My favorite stripper of alllll times (Trini, I know you've seen him) is Tank, then there's Cream, Hollywood, Fresno (why?), Wild Stallion...do you guys ever try to guess which ones are gay?

Name: asize12
Comment: LMAO @ Caribbean_Queen!!! Me & my sisters always make fun of the way she talks! She's a smart girl when it comes to bitness and she can sing her tail off, but the girl needs to brush up on public speaking!

Name: asize12
Comment: >>bigheadbull2, it does nothing for me either. I don't want some stranger bumpin' & grindin' all ova me! That's what my man is fo!

Name: honeychile
Comment: Lawd> Maybe their is a name book for strippers....Long Dong Silver??? heheheeehe

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: Trini you did not ask me but I live for house music I can twrill all girly and stuff and Lawd when "ring my bell" was out me and the queens would hustle for days and mornings. I am also a go-go lover

Name: letmein
Comment: Dammit Honeychile, how you forget about Total Passion? Damn, that dude so cold I stuck dollars in his jeans pockets! LOL!!! Talk about Thug Love...whew!!!

Name: honeychile
Comment: Oooo IJA> I do try to guess which ones are gay...I had to SMH one time when I found out this real popular one was gay...should've known cause his hair was always LAID better than any female I EVER knew...every time I saw him at the mall, I wanted to say, excuse me, who did your hair?? Man! Then I found out, he gay as all get out and got a teenage son (or almost a teenager).

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: UMM HOW ABOUT ALL OF THEM ARE GAY IJA!! Thats another thing that grosses me out about male strippers. The night before they was gettin duked up the poop shooter, then they wanna come and grind all over you the next night NASTY!!

Name: YLawdY
Comment: O.K. folks. I need some EUR prayers for good news. I have to take my daughter to the pediatric cardiologist tomorrow and I need some good news prayers.

Name: honeychile
Comment: **staring in space** Total Passion...totally addictive!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< what kills me is when men critize male strippers. I'm like, don't hate just b/c you don't have a body like them. And yes, girl, some of them be gay as hell. Luckily I'm there for the degradation and not for a turn on lol.

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: Say it asize12, say it girl.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: Bighead, I used to frequent this gay club when I was in college (oh I miss my crew, Hector, Santos and Brian where are you guys!!) and girl I could twrill and vogue with the best of them. I would have them queens goin!!

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA the 15th sounds love. Did we decide on a time. I got a new part time job at the college and get off at 2 on saturday. I'm not goin to even tell how much they pay me to sit and read my books and do my own homework.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< I can't say all of them are gay b/c I have no way of confirming that lol but I do know that some of the ones I've met, if they are gay, they are also bisexual b/c I know quite a few girls who have slept with various Platinum E dancers. They used to have a shuttle that would take us straight from Temple's campus to Aphrodisiac. I know they say a lot of female strippers are gay also - which I also can't confirm. But like I always say, no way of telling who's gay. I gotta investigate the sexual habits of every n*gga I meet lol.

Name: honeychile
Comment: YLawd> I will send one up for you. I pray all goes well. IJA> Right! But man, the bodies are pretty tight. SMH...makes you say, dang what a waste.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Stormy, they need to stop acting like this is a team sport. It's not the Amazing GROUP Race! stop flirting, helping each other out and compete for da luv of pete! YLawdY, I hear you....*Holdin up Prayer list with your daughter's name on the top* we got you.

Name: asize12
Comment: >>YLawdY, Sending prayers your way sweetie.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: bigheadbul< I have to send out a final email. It looks like it's going to be 4pm so it's early enough for travellers to get home. I was waiting for the last few laggers to give their input. No, don't tell me how much they pay you! lol

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: Yes, Paris is a hairy little monster she has a unibrow so heavy looks like she could be related to Tupac.

Name: trini2dbone
Comment: I'm out ya'll chat with ya'll tomorrow.

Name: honeychile
Comment: bighead>> Every time someone mentions 'Ring my Bell' I start laughing, I used to sing that song when I was little and do this little dance to it. When it comes on, to this DAY my cousins tease me about it. They are like, do your dance, S----. I just say, nope, and walk off. LOL!

Name: honeychile
Comment: IJA>> Nowadays, sometimes your GAYDAR can be way off...and it's a darn shame.

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: What should I do? I just listened to audio of College Park, GA police threatening to shoot my son and that nothing would happen to him that nothing happened to the police in NY. My son had the presence of mind to call me as soon as the cops made him stop. He was walking down the street with 2 friends. He called me just before leaving the house and within 3 minutes the cops had them spread out talking about shooting them. During the entire conversation you can clearly hear the boys answering " yes sir no sir." i am %*$!ed

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: Ylawd call those things that are not as though they were. And it is so. God does all things well and there is no shadow of turning with him so according to your faith be it unto you my angel.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: See ya Trini. I wish I didn't have to be here 'til 6 today. hmph!

Name: Debonair
Comment: Hey everyone, IJA is still %*$!ed at me b/c of that one time she was cutting a fool and i had to put her out....She tried to step to me in the parking lot but when i sideswiped her blow, i tripped her and her shoe heel broke and her wig fell off....MidWestMan was there, he saw it!We all were laughing!!!!!!

Name: bigchassie
Comment: HI MY BABIES!!! AAAAFGGGGGHHHH!!! I'VE BEEN TRYING TO TYPE MY SCRIPT AND THIS @#$@#$!@ PHONE IS MAKING ME SICK! I GOT SOME TYPING IN SO I'M BREAKING OFF FOR TODAY SO I'M GOING TO BE READING WHAT YALL BEEN SAYING. DON'T FORGET TO WATCH THE REST OF AMERICAN IDOL AND THEY ARE GOING TO SHOW MY SWEETIE'S NEW VIDEO AT 7:30 ON BET. SO YALL CHECK IT OUT AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YALL THINK.

Name: bigheadbull2
Comment: See that's what I'm talkin bout I used to be good friends with the owners of the Club House here in DC Andre's gone now but Raine is this big time preacher in this Gay church and the only person I know that has lived since 1980 being HIV positive. And he looks good too

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Good night all. Catch you tomorrow if we don't get back too late. Thanks for the good wishes.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: Queencity}Don't disrespect Tupac like that;-)

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: GAPeach< That is CRAZY. I know you were so scared for your son. Thank God he called you! You have to file a complaint with the police department ASAP, that way they can't say you were unsure.

Name: asize12
Comment: bigchassie, who's your baby so I know who to watch for?

Name: honeychile
Comment: Wow GAPEACH>> I don't know what to say about that one. You don't have it taped, huh? Other than that, I'm not sure how you can prove it if you tried to file a case on it. Cops are a trip, and they wonder why our people don't trust them.

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: bigchassie, I know Jaime is all you see, but Eva Pigford from Next Top model looks lovely in the video. She looks all golden.

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Cuzzin Lawd-- Imma send up a prayer for my little second cuzzin. She is going to be alright.

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: chassie}call me tonight. I'll be in the house.

Name: asize12
Comment: Whassup sigmascribe, is ya girl done w/ that letter yet?

Name: honeychile
Comment: Ditto on what IJA just posted.

Name: Debonair
Comment: I can say that a lot of the lady strippers were gay and bisexual;for some it wasn't a matter of sexual orientation-they're egos were so blown with self entitlement demands, that they just didn't care who provided it for them.Male or Female.That's why i said for a LONG time, i was looking at EVERY woman sideways.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Debonair< let's be realistic, you would NEVER side swipe one of my blows *winks eye* and neither would MWM *blows a kiss at MWM* Besides, the only reason we fought that night is because you were mad that I told everyone you wanted to have a threesome with me and my boyfriend. Oh yeah, is that still on?

Name: sigmascribe
Comment: BigHead}Is that the same Raine that would get down in TRAXX once a week?

Name: bigchassie
Comment: CARABEEAN> you know i was wondering who that was. she is pretty! you go gurl! work that thang with my baby!

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: I just called the precint and evidently these officers are problems because the officer on duty told me exactly what to say and who to say it to and asked me not state that I had called their precint. I am %*$!ed. But on the other hand I told my son not to hang out and walk the streets. But my police officer's wife said that he can do that they weren't disturbing the peace or smoking.. just going from one point to another. I am not a parent that says not my child. I told him to take his %*$ home. I always tell him that he shouldn't hang around with do nothing people and to find a job and just be damn productive. So I'm mad with him for even finding himself in that position

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: I have everything on tape

Name: letmein
Comment: Naw, I don't go see the strippers for a turn on. Just having fun drinking with my girls. No, I don't want them all on me or making me part of the show. That's our pact, don't get on film!! Ooo, Honeychile, who you know is gay? You know Mr. Sexy is suspect? With his sugary self!

Name: bigchassie
Comment: SIGMA> OK soror, i will. if my idiotic friend from indy don't be calling me tangling me all up on the phone. don't you know this guy still wants me to come back up there to indy. i ain't budging!

Name: QueenCityBee
Comment: CQ>That tan in a can works wonder don't it. Sigma>No dis. just the facts. You know his brows was joined together in holy matramony.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Ga Peach, how old is your son?

Name: bigchassie
Comment: ASIZE12> my baby Jamie *girliesigh eyes batting, blush-blush*

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: 19

Name: Debonair
Comment: IJA.OOOHHHH YEAHHH, I remember that...because your boyfriend was really a girl, right?The thing with all the dreads and gold teeth looking like a broke down, female LIL'Jon...Nah, i was trying to get you to DITCH her.but she was stuck to you like booty glue.You know how those types of girls are....

Name: honeychile
Comment: LETMEIN>> That's who I was talking about in my post...hair always was laid when it was cut short, he has a son by this one chick. Found out a couple of years ago, he had a boyfriend or something..but man, could he work the stage!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Debonair< I know you want me. GA peach< ok I see, that's that in between age right there.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< this guy send me a note on myspace saying that I looked inncocent in my pictures. Would you agree with that?

Name: letmein
Comment: HONEYCHILE===His sister is a egotistical hairdresser. She owns her own shop now. I remember she was all on the radio trying to hustle up business. She had him in there washing hair. That was her pitch, come get your hair washed by Mr. Sexy. hell, I remember when he started out, wearing tighty whiteys. We were like WTF??? AND Quiet Storm used to have on white socks when he started out! LOL!!!!

Name: asize12
Comment: LOL @ bigchassie! I blush like that when I see Hill Harper;-) I saw the previews of the video, Eva looks beautiful. I'll make sure that I watch it.

Name: honeychile
Comment: LETMEIN>> Oh, you talking about the beauty shop/clothing store?? hehehehehe

Name: bigchassie
Comment: YEAH, LET'S ALL WATCH SO WE CAN HAVE SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT IN THE MORNING. IN THE MEANTIME, I'M OUT! TOOTLES YALL. MUCH LOVE TO ALLAYALL! *muah-muah*

Name: asize12
Comment: ImJustAsking, what's your handle on myspace?

Name: Debonair
Comment: I can't mess with you...you're in a mess, girl...Plus since you tripped and fell,you broke your ankle so you can't dance at the club no more...it wasn't like you had a GED BEFORE the club...so essentially you're broke now.And in a gay relationship.Your life sucks now!But you're still cool with me.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< handle? I like that, that's like CB talk! www.myspace.com/goldenegro

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: >Yep IJA it is so damn in between.. In btween everything good or bad..

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Debonair< talk about back handed compliments - ouch! *kisses Debonair*

Name: asize12
Comment: Okay, I'mma check you out on myspace. Girl, don't laugh at me, I've always called it my 'handle'! So, what's the proper cyber ediquette for saying 'handle'?

Name: asize12
Comment: Cute pics ImJustAsking! Girl your page is cute! I like the Louie Vutton background. My page is PLAIN! I haven't had time to figure out how to put all that fancy-smancy stuff on my page yet. www.myspace.com/asize12

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< add me as a friend girl!!! I will have to check your page out. The cyber word for handle would be URL lol. Now, who cares if I'm cute! I wanna know if I look innocent. lmao

Name: Debonair
Comment: IJA>MAD LOVE to you,too sweetheart...Thanks for being a sport and not taking things personal.Rare is the type.I'm bouncing out now. Have a good one and i'll holla soon.*kisses IJA On the forehead and heand and gives her a rose*

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: MY husband thinks that if I file a complaint the officers will really target our son? What do you all think?

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: GA Peach< hmm that's a hard one Peach. I mean, if these are problem officers that COULD be the case but then it also could be the case that filing a complaing will let them know that momma don't play that sh!t and they need to go pick on someone else's baby. Plus, one thing I love about the media is that if the police dept doesn't investigate properly you can out them big time on your local news channel. Those stations loves that! and law enforcement is VERY sensitive about their image especially as it pertains to young black men.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: *starts sweating Debonair like only a young girl can* LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

Name: asize12
Comment: >IJA, I am SO slow! I am rarely on myspace, so tell me, how do I add you as a friend? BTW, I viewed your ENTIRE page and it's AWESOME! Very interesting;-)

Name: honeychile
Comment: asize12>> You've entered the world where darn near everyone here on EUR has a myspace page. hehehehe

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Peeking in before I peel up outta here! Hey ASIZE12, I think I am saved as one of IJA's friends. I am BacardiVann. Save me as a friend, too. {IJA} Stop arguing with my man! lol Ok yall, I am gone. Have a good evening!!!

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Asize12< you know what, I think my little box for that has disappeared due to my bandwidth being exceeded so you might not be able to see the 'add as a friend' thingy. I'll add you when I get home.

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: Well I know for certain that I will talk to the Chief Deputy. Damn.. it's so hard to be a parent. When they are young they step on your feet and when they get old they step on your heart.. what a life

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: REalGAPeach, If the cops are shady they might just target him. You should do something, but be careful how you do it.

Name: asize12
Comment: >>honeychile, I swear, I rarely have time to visit but I really wanna make my page look nice. I just have to take the time to figure out how to do it. What's your URL honeychile?

Name: asize12
Comment: Peach, I hope everything goes okay w/ your son. Police brutality is horrible here in St. Louis, I know the whole world has seen that guy getting beat 2 mo. ago. They are just so da*mn racist!

Name: honeychile
Comment: asize12>> Me 2, me 2! My name is Synsational and I'm the one that looks like I'm 15, but I'm really 29. LOL! My URL is www.myspace.com/sosynsational

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< that's why I asked you if I looked innocent b/c u look like a young gang member.

Name: honeychile
Comment: asize12>> I forgot you are a Midwest girl! Me and LETMEIN are in KC...

Name: asize12
Comment: Gone honeychile representing KC to the fullest! You close to STL girl! You don't look no 15, but you don't look 29 either. Girl, people think I'm younger than what I am, I've even been getting carded lately, unbelievable! I know I don't look as young as 21! What y'all think? Let's play "guess my age" I'm so bored!www.myspace.com/asize12

Name: honeychile
Comment: IJA>> Don't start cuz I will cut you! I am all growed up now...thankyouverymuch. I'm leaving for the day, talk to you all tomorrow!

Name: RealGAPeach
Comment: and what kills me is that they try to pretend that they are law-abiding. They are just as bad as the crooks are..

Name: Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Good nite mi familia! Let me go and season de chicken fer dinner. My poor sis commutes from manhattan to the island so the least I could do is cook....or season up de food at a minimum...lol.

Name: ImJustAsking
Comment: Forget the midwest. VA is in the MUTHAF*CKING building! lol I'm imitating Ms. NY from flavor of love. Asize12 I will try to guess your age for a prize, like they do at amusement parks. ugg a half an hour to go.

Name: honeychile
Comment: **running back in** asize12>> Yes, ma'am...I reps to the fullest! LOL...nah, that pic is pretty old, maybe 3 years..I need to get a updated one on there...I'll work on that. Talk to you later...

Name: Nappy_Edges
Comment: Actually, honeychile's picture is from when she was 15 and ran away from home! (LOL) I just came back to formally say "goodnite." I might whip out my "polar" skills tomorrow.

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