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ProsperityJoy
Comment: GoodMorning Everyone! Hey Idrissa you are in the running with StormyMonday, LawdHvMrcy and beboyz. Don't give up guys! bigchassie-I will get back to you on your "interracial dating" question. Have a nice weekend...Peace...
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StormyMonday
Comment: Happy St. Patty's Day to you all! {ProsperityJoy} March 27th?
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OSUN
Comment: Good Morning folks. It is 5:30 am. TGIF!!!!
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StormyMonday
Comment: Top of the morning to you OSUN!
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TAZBABY
Comment: Good Morning Eurians! Hey Osun Sis you are up rather early! Happy Friday ProsperityJoy and Stormy! Happy Birthday Myrlie Evers Wiliams!
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ELSBABY
Comment: Good Morning, Happy Friday, and Patty's Day to the Back Irish folk on the board. Sincere thanks to everyone who said a prayer for my baby, she is doing much better and starting to take more food each day. She had an allergic reaction to the Amoxicillan (sp?), she was taking it for an ear infection. I don't usually celebrate this day, but after the week I had I think I might outdrink all of the Irish people at the bar today.
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ELSBABY
Comment: sorry, meant to say black not back.
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StormyMonday
Comment: Elsbaby, I'm glad that your daughter is doing much better and I'm glad they figured out what was wrong with her.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Top-o-thee mornin' mates! Happy St. Patty's Day to ye all! Pour me a pint and kiss me blarney stone (that's for MIDWESTMAN)
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: For whoever was speculating yesterday whether or not it was GHank who wrote the letter to Advice Chick...yes, it WAS him. I haven't read it, but he TOLD me that he'd written the letter. I have no intention of reading it because I like the man to pieces and don't wanna jeopardize that "like."
(LOL)
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ELSBABY
Comment: ProsperityJoy, not sure if you found a winner for the prize, but here is my take: 6, Zurich, and March 28
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ELSBABY
Comment: Thanks Stormy:)
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Hey ELSBABY, I'm, like 1/8 Irish or somthing like that, and I take ownership of it! My great-great grandmother Emma was Irish. She secretly married an African slave man and had my great-grandmother. SHE married a man from the Cherokee nation and had my grandmom. SHE got with a dude from Guyana and had my dad. He married my mom (of African-Apache descent) and here I is!
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bigchassie
Comment: THE CHASSIE IS HURRE! hi my babies! *muah* *muah, listening to Jamie Foxx "Experiment" this morning* ok ProsperityJoy, i look forward to hearing from you. I checked out Lil Kim and College Hill. College Hill: Brianna is a trip! she acts like a little dingbat and that other chick wants to jump that thang so bad she can't stand it! Lil Kim is a trip! she's a perfectionist but a trip! yall, i'll be peeking in and out today. more typing to do. much love to allamy babies today! *muah*
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oldschoolbrother
Comment: Before cops threw the book at him, Jakub Fik threw something unusual at them -- his penis.
Fik, 33, cut off his own penis during a Northwest Side rampage Wednesday morning. When confronted by police, Fik hurled several knives and his severed organ at the officers, police said. Officers stunned him with a Taser and took him into custody.
"We took him out without any serious injury, with the exception of his own," said Chicago Police Sgt. Edward Dolan of the 16th District.
Doctors at Northwestern Memorial Hospital reattached Fik's penis Wednesday, sources said. He was listed in good condition Thursday, according to hospital spokesman Andrew Buchanan, who declined to comment further.
Smashing car windows
Fik, who lives in the 5400 block of W. Berenice, is charged with two counts of aggravated %*$ault and one count of criminal damage to property, said Officer Laura Kubiak. He told paramedics he was distraught over problems with his girlfriend in Poland, Dolan said.
Police arrived on Fik's block at 8:20 a.m. Wednesday after receiving reports he was smashing car windows, Dolan said. Fik then broke into a house down the block. A group of six or seven officers %*$embled in front of the house, Dolan said.
The occupants were not home, he added.
Fik was bleeding when the officers arrived and may have already cut off his organ, Dolan said.
"At that point, this guy came running out, naked, with a handful of knives . . . and started throwing knives at the police officers that were 10, 20, 30 feet away," Dolan said.
Fik threw his penis during the confrontation, too, Dolan said. He then went back into the house and re-emerged with "another handful of knives," Dolan said.
Dolan sneaked to the side of the bungalow's front steps and stunned Fik with the Taser. Fik fought back when officers went to restrain him, Dolan said.
"About 10 feet from the front porch, right on the sidewalk, was his penis," Dolan said.
Dr. Greg Bales, associate professor of urology at the University of Chicago, said severed penises are uncommon but surgery usually works.
"As long as the penis is placed on ice and reattached within a few hours, the success is usually pretty good," Bales said.
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sigmascribe
Comment: Morning all....{OSB}That article made me whince.
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coesmo
Comment: Good morning Eurwebians...That was me Nappy_edges.. so it was Ghank after all..see and I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt... He must be in pretty bad shape to write to AC...the people that write to her all seem so desperate..
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StormyMonday
Comment: Awww, Ghank, sending love your way and a big cyber hug!!! Hang in there dear heart, things will get better when you least expect them.
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oldschoolbrother
Comment: He was a suspect from the start, and on Thursday the 16-year-old was charged with last month's stabbing death of an 11-year-old boy in his West Side apartment complex, a law enforcement source told the Sun-Times.
James Terry of Chicago was charged as an adult Thursday with first-degree murder. The teen had been detained for the past 30 days in the county juvenile detention center on a drug possession charge.
DNA cemented case
The charges come nearly a month to the day after the stabbing of Clay Ether in an apartment building at 3550 W. Washington, where the boy lived with his mother.
A source said the charges were filed after the suspect's DNA was found on the knife used in the slaying -- evidence that reportedly cemented the state's case against the teen. Testing was done at Illinois State Police Crime Lab "recently," according to the source.
Terry has denied the charges.
Details about a motive in the killing were not available, and family said there would be no reason someone would go after Clay, the quiet, affable kid they knew as "C.J."
But at the time of the slaying, police and relatives said Clay, a student at Robert Emmet Academy, was stabbed in the chest about 2:30 a.m. Feb. 15 after he allegedly got into a quarrel with a man in an upstairs apartment where Clay had gone to play video games.
Clay was able to return to the family's apartment and offer his final words: "Mom, I've been stabbed."
Terry is expected to be in bond court today at 26th and California.
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oldschoolbrother
Comment: ROME, Ga. -- Police believe the remains of two fetuses found in a storage unit were self-aborted by the wife of a former Indiana women's basketball coach.
That information, released in a police statement Thursday, was the latest in the bizarre case that started last week when authorities in Bay County, Fla., received a tip that Sarah Jo Warner Izard had told friends she kept the remains of two fetuses in a storage shed in Rome.
Izard is the wife of the late coach Jim Izard, who died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound on Feb. 28.
Were any laws broken?
"Sarah Jo Izard told the third party that she had been pregnant two times, one time in 2001 and one time in 2002,' Rome police said in the statement. "Both of these times she had allegedly self-aborted these pregnancies and she had saved the remains of the fetuses.'
Authorities are trying to determine if any laws were broken. No charges have been filed, and police are unwilling to speculate on what laws, if any, may have been violated for storing the fetuses.
The Izards lived in Rome for two years when Jim Izard coached the Berry College women's basketball team. He resigned in January 2005 and moved to Florida, where he committed suicide last month.
The Georgia Bureau of Investigation crime lab in Atlanta is performing DNA analysis and other tests on the fetuses, which is expected to last at least another two weeks.
The investigation started last week when Rome police were informed by the Bay County sheriff's office that Sarah Izard had told friends that she stored the remains in a green plastic container inside a leased storage unit.
On March 9, police searched the storage unit and found the container, removing two smaller containers from inside it -- each holding a human fetus in some sort of liquid, Floyd County Coroner Barry Henderson said.
Henderson said that the state crime lab's initial finding was that one fetus was a male and another was "too disintegrated to determine gender.'
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Good morning my wonderful memebrs of the African diaspora. Nappy< That was me that was hoping upon hopes that it wasn't GHank that wrote that God-awful letter to Advice Chick. *shrugs shoulders* lol Did he say it was ok for you to 'out' him? ha! I keep missing College Hill and the Lil Kim thing. Chassie< if lil Kim is a perfectionist she should work on perfecting her perfectionism b/c her albums stank.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - He figured that everybody would know that it was him, so no, I'm not outing him. I'm sure he's very surprised that some of y'all had doubts, or were kind enough to give him the benefit of the doubt! (LOL) I've gotta run, I'll catch up later.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Morning all. Ghank come on down for the meet and greet Ima be real nice to you. IJA why is my sister holdin a trip to Jersey Gardens on the same day as the meet and greet I told her that was just voodoo LOL
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shala
Comment: Good morning all...College Hill is horrible. That show along with Lil Kim's mess of a show makes me really hate watching BET at all. Spring Bling is coming up soon too. Why is it that when "we" do shows like this it always looks trashy but MTV does the same type of show and it looks so much better???
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shala
Comment: bugheadbull2>When is the trip to Jersy Gardens? I used to live a hop, skip and jump away from that mall and there aren't any good stores. It is supposed to be an outlet mall but it is so overpriced!
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Good morning folks! Just wanted to wish everyone a great Friday. Got some work I must get done this morning. I'll try to check back in later.**muah**Love to all!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: shala - recently, very recently, like in the last month or so, Comcast was nice enough to give me TV One. Thanks Comcast, for GIVING me a basic cable channel that I shoulda had eons ago. WOW. After looking at BET for so many years, it had ME thinking that black folks are a bunch of shucking n jiving, beligerant grill-wearers. TV One is a breath of fresh air. I haven't watched 5 minutes of BET since that channel popped up. If I want to see videos, I usually watch MTV2. Bottom line, I've written BET off. They are dead to me.
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shala
Comment: I meant bigheadbull2
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ThruTheFire
Comment: Mawnin all! FYI....Peaceful Protest Rally in front of WHUR, Friday, March 17th, 2006, 8:00am. Address: 529 Bryant St, NW, Washington, DC 20059. Bring your signs. We will remain professional during this rally.
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Mornin mi familia!
Nappy, how do you really feel about BET?
lol.
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ThruTheFire
Comment: BHB, is the meet and greet in WDC? If so please give details.....Thanx!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Thruthefire< I thought I emailed you about the meet and greet. I should have known I would miss someone. Send your email address to goldenandgorgeous@yahoo.com. Bigheadbull2< Tell you sister to back back back it up stop. lol I'm with Shala, I went to Jersey Gardens and was not impressed. I'd rather go to Potomac Mills or at least King of Prussia.
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bigchassie
Comment: IJA> Of course her songs stank. i was referring to her primping. didn't make sense for those guys to be waiting on her for that long for shooting a video. maybe perfectionst was a wrong choice of words. how about diva hasbeen.
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sigmascribe
Comment: ThruTheFire}what's the protest about again??
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Debonair
Comment: Good day everyone.Hope all is well.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Shala its 4/15 they have a Saks and a Neimans there girl. I bought a 450 Ellen Tracy dress at Neimans for 90 and the lady was %*$!ed because she mis marked it. I also got my grandson about ten outfits from Saks when he was about 10months old and I know I didn't spend 200.00 I found fabulous bargins. I think its like Woodbury Commons when I was going 11 years ago a sale was a sale you could get gucci scarves for 50 dollars now since everyone goes it costs about 200 bucks for the same thing. Very over rated now.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Shala Bughead? LOL at you thats funny
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bigheadbull2
Comment: TTT it going to be at Famous Dave's on 4/15 at 4:00 the one in Laurel MD.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: the one in Laurel
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trini2dbone
Comment: Greetings Fellow EURians.
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letmein
Comment: Morning peeps!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: bighead< Thanks for posting that for Thruthefire. Speaking of divas, there is a lady I work with who is a Director here (very important) and we always compare clothes, shoes etc. Welllll she is a fabulous woman HOWEVER she has a HUGE BALD SPOT!!!!. Well, she is always complimenting on my style and I tell everybody that I wear wigs. I was trying to convince her to wear one and she said she doesn’t think she can b/c it would be like she was trying to be someone else. Well, finally she bought a wig, and homegirl looks beautiful. I had to pat myself on the back b/c she was way too fabulous to walk around with a bald spot.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Never been to PM or KofP must try them. I'm taking my daughter Chanel to Arundel Mills this weekend for a sping fling only because she put my little love basket up to asking me. He said " Na-na can you buy my mommy some clothes?" Of course I told him yes but I think that place is overpriced not that it was ever billed as a discount mall. The good news is they opened a Neimans on the 3rd of March.
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: My 15yr old niece is so interesting. She is off today and has a laptop in her room. It is not connected to the internet but she figured out that there are 2 spots in her room where she can get wireless. I go downstairs and she closes the laptop. I make her log it back on and she is on Instant messenger with someone.
So I say to her: I know you are on the computer, so why would you close it when I walk over? It looks so sneaky, like you are doing something wrong.
I don't know about that child with all her attitude.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: I will say this once and only once. Every woman should own at least two wigs. A short one and a long one. I own none myself but I will. You never know when one will come in handy. Now if you are one of those strange birds who's identity is tied to their hair I would not advise a wig but counseling for you.LOL
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honeychile
Comment: Morning all!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - I've seen women with visibly thinning hair or huuuge bald spots. I think if I had either, I'd just shave my head bald. That way, when I sometimes wore a wig, it wouldn't itch so bad. Then again, I wouldn't have anything to pin it to...In honor of St. Patrick's day, I just had an apple martini for breakfast (its kinda green). Let me now chase it down with some food and get some work done...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: bigheadbul< Definitely. So many women's identities ARE tied to their hair. I think mine may be a little...fortunately for me I have several identities.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Coming in post to kiss Nappy's blarney stone, what ever da hell dat is?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: nappy< I think a wig would each worse if you are bald but maybe not. If your wig is thin enough you tape or glue it to the head in case you need to swing it like Janet Jackson. But you know everybody's head aint' right for a baldy. CQ< maybe your niece didn't want you asking a whole bunch of questions. lol
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bigheadbull2
Comment: LOL@MWM
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ImJustAsking
Comment: itch worse, not each worse
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: MWM - Dat's my boo-tay. Naw, don't kiss my as$, I ain't mad atcha or nuttin'. My boo-tay is the lil jiggly part that peeks out the pannies. It bounces when I do the Riverdance.
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mickidee
Comment: Good Morning everyone. Hope you all are have a GREAT Friday and a WONDERFUL weekend. I haven't posted much lately, I have been very busy, but hope I can spend some time with you all today. Hi Diva's and hello to all Dudes on the board!!! Hey Shala, girl, what's up?
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Idrissa
Comment: @ProsperityJoy. Well then your birthday must be on March 26 same as Diana Ross.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - I've been "Zhane'" bald before, so I could rock it. I'll put those pictures on my "myspace" page at some point. As a matter of fact, when my hair gets too gray, I'm gonna start cutting it real short instead of dying it. Actually, women in my family don't go completely gray/white, so I'm skraight.
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ThruTheFire
Comment: Sigma, protest WHUR for taking off the "Real DC Morning Show" a local morning show and replacing with Steve Harvey's syndicated show.
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TommyStrong
Comment: good morning all....
Please read the news article at
http://articles.news.aol.com/news/article.adp?id=20060 314092309990002&cid=2194
very interesting...while they got us focusing on so many other things they are undermining all the work the civil rights movement accomplished
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ThruTheFire
Comment: BHB & IJA, Thanks for the info!
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TommyStrong
Comment: the article is about giving financial aid set aside for minorities to white students
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *doing the running man into the room--with my right forearm pressed on my forehead, my left arm pointing to the back* Hey Kinfolk...
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: IJA, I only wanted to ask questions when I saw how guilty she was acting. I'm so over the 15yr old rude attitude. I'm old skool and want to beat that azz into submission. but I'm a social worker so I'll move on.
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archcookies
Comment: Good Morning everybody. That dayum Boomqueesha is started her usual shyt. Anyway too many of you are here and I don't like to exclude anyone from my greeting. Happy Friday. TGIF! I'm serious baby I have been flexed this week. Anyway asize12 I live on the Southside but am currently at my boyfriend's place in Lake St. Louis until the work get's done. I wanted to tell everyone that doesn't already use it garlic is a wonderful addition to your spice collection, good for blood pressure (not the salt--the powder) I used garlic on my meats and in most of my vegetable dishes. I also use fresh garlic, there is nothing like it. Special Mornin to the pulitzer prize winning---Momma Chassie, write the great American play and do us all proud.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Then dance dat Riverdance Nappy, cause me likey da boo-tay!
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archcookies
Comment: I hope you black mother's and fathers on here are chastising their children. Beat that azz when they get out of line, my friend was telling me the other day about a 16 year old girl acting like a 4 yr old with her mother asking for something she wanted the girl called her mother a %*$!( (white Woman) he said the woman slapped the girl so hard she fell into the cans stacked up in the aisle. She ran and got the security who in turn called the police. The police came and the woman told them what happen and they put the handcuffs on her, she told them to take the girl because she couldn't come back home with her and told them that if she called her another bytch she was going to kick her azz again. Well they let her go because evidently the girl was acting out so bad that others testified to how the little trollop was acting when the mother hit her. I don't believe in slapping but I guess if a child of mine caught me off guard I might have done the same thing. But I do believe in beating that butt. I am not going to raise someone in my house and allow them to rule over me and to call me whatever comes to their mind, and in my house it is my way or the highway take your pick. You can't live under my roof unless you follow the laws of my house and that is child or man.
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: archcookies, that is my sister's sentiment exactly. She run's things! so I get to be the sweet, nice Aunt. It always disappoints me when she is rude to me, cause I am never rude to her. She has (unneccessary) attitude! I'm gonna take her to the basement and remind her that we are caribbean if she keeps this up!
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trini2dbone
Comment: CTFU,@ Lawd doin the runnin man. Girlyour crazy!!
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Fragrance
Comment: Countdown to Spike Lee's new movie! This one should get Oscar nod...
For reading lovers book report on my novel is due! Quiz at www.princene.blogspot.com I hope you all have a great Fridaaaaay! Gotta run as usual!
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trini2dbone
Comment: Dayum Arch, she slapped the shyt outta her. 16 is usually the age for slapping. My mother slapped me when I was 16 cuz I had cut and rolled my eyes at her. She was like oh you think you bad huh? And she slapped the shyt outta me. I never cut my eyes at her again.
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TommyStrong
Comment: A friend of mines niece has been acting up in school and at home. His sister has been trying to be patient with her. But the girl came home real late one night last week and when her moms asked her where she was the girl got smart. An argument ensued and the girl cursed her mother out. At that point the mother lost it and beat dat azz! The girl said i'm going to call the cops and the mother said go ahead (the same thing my moms would have said). Well guess what? she called the cops and the cops came and arrested the mother. It was a Thursday night so she had to say there over the weekend! The parents dont want the girl back in the house. The little girl is only 12!
I'm sorry but I but i believe spare the rod and spoil the child! I'm not saying children should be abused but if they deserve a spanking they're gonna get one. I used to want kids but now i don't. If that was me when they released me from jail i would have told them to they might as well follow me home because i'm gonna beat dat azz again!
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asize12
Comment: Good mo'nin' black folks, hope errbody is ok. Happy St. Patty's day to all you Irish black folks! LOL Hey, did y'all remember to wear green? I have on green, but you have to have x-ray vision to see it;-)
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: MWM - Very well, mi lass (doing stiff-backed, straight armed Riverdance with fancy footwork).....................................(then breakin it down popping da boo-tay doubletime to "Not Just Knee Deep"....she was to-ta-lee deep/whenshediddafreakwithmeeeee) Okay I'm gone for real now....HEY TRINI!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Arch and CQ< Spankings don't work for every child. You have to tailor discipline according to the person. I was an only child so me and my parents were really close. I probably got spanked once. But spanking would have never worked for me b/c I am very good with pain therefore you would have to beat the sh!t out of me before I would even care. What worked for me is when my father would say "i'm disappointed in you" and would refuse to talk any further - then I would cry and cry and cry. Kids react to being hit the same way adults do. For many kids spanking makes them resentful and teaches them to fix things with violence. I think people grow up to be disciplined IN SPITE of spanking not because of it. JMO
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sigmascribe
Comment: I made it back. I am a lifelong Auntie! AND I will tax that azz!! The teenage years earn nice open hand slaps to the mouth...because that's what usually gets them in trouble. You can think about what is said so there is no reason for that to be the means to your end. One of my god-daughters tried that getting help because I popped her in public. I told her I had bail money. And if she kept it up I would get my monies worth.
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TommyStrong
Comment: LMAO @ sigman
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mickidee
Comment: IJA - I have an only child and I found that me telling her how that I am disappointed in her does the trick for me. Of course, when she was much younger, she did get a spanking from me. I look at some children and think they definitely need a spanking, and if their parents won't do it, I would love to. I usually say that I have been blessed, because my daughter hasn't given me harldy any problems in all her 17 years. I agree that you have to tailor discipline according to the person though, because each child may be different. Now this is a trip with children, sometimes they act one way with their parents, but another way with other people. I usually have a way with children, where they will listen to whatever it is I tell them, and I get a lot of respect from them. I have been viewed as being mean, because I am not afraid to tell them NO, but I dont' believe you should let children get away with certain things.
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mickidee
Comment: Sigma - I hear you on that one!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Well, I agree w/Arch, CQ but I also agree w/ IJA because it does depend on the child. I actually did/do whoop my kids because it was necessary. My daughter got whooped when she was younger (she's 15 now) and my son (he's 9) still get them depending on the severity of the crime that he commits. His last whooping was when he was 8 and it was for clownin' @ school, momma don't play that. Now that he's a bit older and he understands that we don't tolerate misbehaving in school, he's gotten his act together for the most part. It's funny because now, we've come up with a better way to discipline him if he cuts up @ school. My son LOVES money, when I say LOVE I mean LOVE! He told me when he was 5 that he'd be rich by the time he graduates from high school. He's tight w/ his money and he saves very well. So, my husband came up with the idea of taking his money and giving him $10 each week that he's good at school. When I told my son that we were going to do that, he cried crocodile tears! You would've thought that I beat the po' child! So, what we did was take $100 of his money and like I said, we give him $10 if he behaved himself for that week. I told his teacher about it and asked her to give us a weekly report of his behavior and if he was good the ENTIRE week, then he got $10, if not he got ZILCH! This has been working SO well, he has already collected $70 of his money back! I just got his report card yesterday and she said that his behavior has improved tremendously. So, the moral to this story is, whooping him wasn't working, taking his money DOES!
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TommyStrong
Comment: oops...sorry sigma
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Name:
asize12
Comment: sigma, I 2nd that emotion about the open slaps in the mouth cuz that's what my daughter gets for mouthin' off & she get's put on punishment. Her punishment is no phone. Last year she was on a punishment for 2 weeks w/ no phone, she was about to LOSE it! It was hilarious! LOL She didn't know what to do with herself.
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sigmascribe
Comment: asize12 and IJA}true, the punishment varies per child. That calling your parent/grandparent/guardian out of their name and having a verbal tantrum because you can't get what you want or have your way....OOOOHHHHH! Open hand slap to the mouf!!!
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trini2dbone
Comment: Size12, I used to hate it when I would loose phone privledges. YOu know between 12-17 your life depends on the telephone. I remember my mom used to take all the phones in the house and lock them in her bedroom. I remember once she took the phone from me for a month. Lets just say I got really good at writing letters.
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honeychile
Comment: Tommy>> I have 2 boys, and I'm raising them alone...they know that I'm crazy, and I don't play, but they will test me, and I'll knock them out, they want to test me again, knock 'em out again. I'm heavy handed, so I don't have to use a belt. I tell my kids, especially the youngest, cause he's a dramatic little sucker, that if I go to jail for whupping them, whoever has to bail me out is going to whup them, then when I get home, they are going to get another one and then they will be packing their stuff up cause I'm not the one for a kid to think they are going to run me....IJA>> You are right, spankings don't work for everyone, like right now, I'm doing other means of punishing, but I throw in the occasional beating when necessary..let them know, I still got it. I have 2 boys who are going to be taller than me, so therefore they need to know, I don't care if you 7 foot, my 5'2 1/2 azz will lay you out by any means necessary! LOL!
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asize12
Comment: LOL @ trini! Girl, the reason my daughter was on punishment was because her a*ss was on her CELL phone until 4am! See, her slick butt didn't know that I can monitor her calls online. She gone write me a long letter telling me how 'sorry' she was and that she'd never do it again thinking that I wouldn't put her on punishment...WRONG!!!! So, I took her phone from her & kept it w/ me while I was sleep. Why did her cornhead boyfriend (we call him cornhead) send her a text message the next night @ 3am!!! I texted him back & said "Chris, this is Deja's mother and I would appreciate it if you would not text nor call her between the hours of 12am - 8am, thank you." I wish I could've seen his face when he received that text! LOL
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ImJustAsking
Comment: I talked back to my mom when I was a teenager and she looked me in the eye and she said very softly, “after all I do for you, why would you talk to me like that? Do I deserve that?” I NEVER EVER EVER TALKED BACK AGAIN NEVER. I felt like the scum of the earth. Ever since then when I would get mad at my mom I would not talk back, I would say, mom I’m mad at you, and she would say why? LOL And there would be a discussion about why she wasn’t letting me do what I wanted. She never changed her mind as a result of the discussion but it helped me understand her POV. If I do have kids, which I’m not sure about, I hope I never carry out the urge to hit them and I’m sure I will have the urge. People say, a child shouldn’t hit a parent or family member b/c the child should love and respect them. Well, if you love and respect your child then why hit? I can’t get with the spanking thing. To me, spanking is something people do when they don’t know what else to do. I know that black people consider that a white way of thinking but I just can’t accept someone hitting me or me hitting someone else – unless I’m competitively boxing which I have done in the past. There’s always a chance that you could hit a child and they react by hitting you, not because they want to or think that it’s ok, but because that’s a NATURAL human reaction. Then, as an adult you’d be pizzed and humiliated if you got your azz kicked. Then you would want to take a different approach. but like I said, I don’t have kids but I do know I would never dream of hitting my dog!!
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asize12
Comment: LOL @ honeychile! Girl, let me tell you something, you HAVE to be like that! I ain't mad atcha one bit. My kids know when I give them that 'look' that means to get it together or get smacked!
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sigmascribe
Comment: The crazy thing is .... these damn children always want to come stay with me and bumbard me when I get their house or whatever event. And they know I am not right!!! ;-)
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Name:
MidwestMan1
Comment: My thinking, beat a lil mofo's azz, start early, stradle da mofo's at about age 3 when they get outta line, set the tone early, then you won't have no shat later! Has worked well until last year, my 15 year old tried some shat last year, thinks he done got big on me, he thought I was gonna try and spank him, I kick his azz like we was in a street fight, made sure I did it in front of the other little one's, they think I'm crazy now, lil mofo's ain't acted up since!
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Name:
Debonair
Comment: Child abuse the theme today?Well with it being St Patty's Day, i just might get drunk AND beat the kids!!!!!A 2 for 1 special!
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honeychile
Comment: asize12>> Yeah, and my friends laugh at me cause I can look at my kids tough and they will know. That youngest one, he's my challenge, but oh well, we'll be challenging each other..if he wants to keep getting in trouble, I'll keep offering my services. LOL
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asize12
Comment: IJA, Oprah said the same thing, she doesn't believe in spanking...what do you 2 have in common? Neither of you have kids. I actually think it depends on the child because some kids need spankings, and I'm not saying BEATINGS, there's a BIG difference. To each his own, but I think if a lot of these kids today had gotten their a*ss whooped, they wouldn't be as disrespectful as they are! Without discipline, your kids will run you, period. Discipline doesn't always have to be whoopings but I believe that your children should have a small dose of fear in their parents. Meaning that before they do something ignit, the think in the back of their head "Oooh, momma or daddy will kill me if I do this!" So, 9 times outta 10 they won't do it. But then on the other hand you have those kids that do it anyway and suffer the consequences. All I can say is to do what you feel is best as a parent, that's all you can do. Nobody know's how their kids will turn out. You just have to pray for them daily, that's what I do.
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sigmascribe
Comment: OOOOh,{asize12}one of godson's used to think he was slick..if I go over Auntie's house I can have my girlfriend over or talk on the phone all night.....WRONG!! I picked that phone up at 2am...All I could here was DMX "Y'all goin ta make me lose my mind. Up in Here..Up in Here!" I kindly invited her over to the house the next day for a cookout. ... Those fools were sweating all day...cut the grass...wash dishes...clean the meat...work the grill...up and down the stairs. Needless to say my godson caught on and was looking stupid. He wanted to know why I didn't just beat with the phone;-)LazyAzz boy!;-)
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Trini>> That is my dance since it is Friday! Yall ain't ready for that! lol I believe that discipline depends on the child. When I became a teenager, putting me on punishment worked for me. I should have worked for Sprint since my right ear was always hooked to a phone. So, to take that phone away from me was devastating. And, if while on punishment I managed to roll an eye, or suck a tooth--my mom would quickly add another week. I remember one time I was up to like two months. AND my momma wasn't slick. Trini--my momma got high tech on a sista. When she went to work, she took that little piece out of the phone handset so that you could HEAR folks, but they couldn't hear you...
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LOL @ sigma! That funny!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: My thing as a teenager was lip service! I got popped in the mouth so many times, I'm surprised that I still have all my teeth! LOL
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Name:
Caribbean_Queen
Comment: We open handed the other kids, but never her cause her mom passed on when she was 4, and her daddy (my bro) ain't doing the right thing....(that is not really what I want to say about him). So as a social worker I know her anger is understandable. She lives with us has her own room, private school, the works! Her mom has a gang of sisters (all of who hate my brother) who are very much in her life. She got so much attitude tho!!!! I wonder if we messed up by not lettin her have it when she was younger, or if we did right considering her circumstances.
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Name:
oldschoolbrother
Comment: Kids today got it made for real. If we could call the cops in my youth, my whole family would be on death row. For example, when my mother went grocery shopping we could not leave the house, not even to the corner and play strikeout or softball. My brother tried it once, he got beat so bad we called him Kunta Kinte. We still joke about that. But guess what, none of us stepped out of line. There are too many distractions now. High priced gym shoes, snooze dreams, ipods, internet access, cable and cell phones. When you take away most of that, you can get them to focus.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< oh defintely, yeah, like I said I don't have kids and may never have them - and i'm not telling anybody how to raise theirs. but i was a kid only 6 years ago. So I remember it very well and I know that kids have reasons for doing things that don't go away by you putting your hands on them. Some of the things your kids do may seem petty and simple to you but to them they are big deals - I'm only speaking as the youngest person here.
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Name:
oldschoolbrother
Comment: VANCOUVER -- Oregon City, Portland and Vancouver police have broken up what they say is a bank fraud scheme that used homeless people to open fake accounts, spanned three states and netted an estimated $300,000.
Dan A. Orlovskiy of Vancouver, who is described in a search warrant affidavit as the scheme "leader," is scheduled to be arraigned today in Clark County Superior Court on 19 charges.
People involved in the scheme opened accounts at Bank of America in various Washington cities and then quickly made deposits at branches throughout the Portland area and in California using stolen or forged checks, according to a March 2 search warrant affidavit. The money was then quickly withdrawn.
Homeless people -- including one recruited from Sacramento -- were paid $100 to open the accounts, and the Sacramento man was given $50-$200 to make as many as several fraudulent deposits a day, the affidavit said.
Deposits also were made by Orlovskiy and others, said Portland police Officer Travis Fields, who added that most of the money made through the scheme's estimated 500 bogus transactions over the past 11/2 years apparently was used to pay off the mortgage for Orlovskiy's home -- %*$essed at $486,700, according to records at the Clark County %*$essor's Office.
The 3,850-square-foot home was listed for sale Wednesday at $795,000.
"I don't know if I'll ever get another one of these," Fields said of the case. He said more arrests are expected.
Orlovskiy, who has owned a construction company, is being held in Clark County Jail on $50,000 bail. He will be charged today with 10 counts of second-degree identity theft and nine counts of unlawful possession of payment instruments.
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trini2dbone
Comment: LOL, Lawd thats funny...You would callin folks talkin bout hello girl whatchu doin and they couldn't hear a dayum thing..LOL...I think I got 3 spankings in my whole life. Ususally my mom or dad would put me on punishment too. That worked for me. Or she would take things away. I played softball and I remember once I got in trouble in school and my dad said I couldn't go to practice. No practice, no play. I was a starter too. By the time I was in high school though I was an angel. I had that fear of my parents.
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, don't never say what you won't do...
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Name:
archcookies
Comment: >IJA I agree with you that spanking doesn't work for every child and I don't just advocate to beat your kids azzes on GP, but I do think in some cases corporal punishment is necessary. If I had a child and he/she wouldn't mind me and I chastised them and they called the police, they azzes would be living in the "reform school" do they even have them anymore? But on the real child nothing can live in my house that is not respectful or obedient to me (I am not asking my man to be obedient-just real and considerate)but no child of mine would be cursing me out, that bytch would be minus a tongue when I got through with her azz. Hey I don't beleive in child abuse, but have you ever wondered why so many kids are getting into crime so early, poor parenting. This government has pfucked up the home by imposing their judgement into family matters. I don't believe in bull whipping kids, knocking them down stairs or anything that extreme but you got to mind me and that's just it. I FEEL SORRY FOR ALL OF YOU THAT HAVE KIDS THAT ARE OUT OF CONTROL!
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TommyStrong
Comment: my grandmother raised 10 kids basically by herself (my grandfather died when the youngest was 2 and the eldest was 22 and he helped my grandmother)....all my aunts and uncles got whoopings....my moms used to get me and brother w/belts, extension cords, hot wheels tracks (the worst), and i remember one time w/a whiffle ball bat...don't get me wrong...there were times when my mother or father would just talk to us and let us know how disappointed they were and that worked too...my grandmother nor my moms has never had any trouble...neither has ever been to court or visitors day at the prison to see any of their kids...very rarely did they have to go to the school becuz one of their kids were acting up...they never disrepected adults and knew had to act in public....although none of aunts or uncles went to college they are all fine, upstanding citizens who have made wonderful livings for themselves and their family...i was the first male in my family to go to college and most of my cuzns have followed suit...and most of my family are active in church...what my parents/grandparents did they did out of love and we learned from our mistakes and have nothing but the highest respect for them...
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Well thank G-d she ain't out of control YET...my sistah ain't havin that! but I worry about her. She gonna mess around and sever the relationship with us-we are very caribbean and the respect level is wonderfully high in this family. She got 2 moe yrs until college, i don't want her to be marginalized cause folks can't stand the attitude.
I pray this is jes a teenage ting (despite my brother's still rude blood runnin thru her) and continue to be the boss of her until she gets ovah this.
We have done it b4, and will do it again for our own kids. We raise them, but we ain't taking no....ish.
Ask my other niece who will be graduating from Howard in 60-ish days.
we don't play that!
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Name:
FineBrown
Comment: Good Morning...child abuse is pushing a kid down the stairs; or flicking lit matches--sticking their head in the toilet--that kind of stuff. Whipping is different than beating, but a few good smacks on an out of control kid is good because it tells the kid they are NOT in control. If parents are consistent, by the time kids reach a certain age--a parent should just be able to give the "evil eye" and the "churrin" should instantly get to acting right. Also, kids like to show out in public so there should be a "special" place--maybe a few feet away from the "incident"--(if the evil eye doesn't work) where the parent can pull the kid over to the side and ah --well you know...
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Name:
10piece
Comment: Good morning fam......Kiss me I'm Irish
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Name:
lilmocc
Comment: Good AFternoon EUR FAmily!! TGIF!! Growing up, my parents used several different types of discipline from spanking when we were younger, to taking things away/punishment as we got older to smacks in the mouth as teenagers when our mouths were slick. I think the combination worked. I don't have any YET, but my niece, nephew and god children know the deal when dealing with Auntie. I usually only have to provide a "look" and thats it.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: And umm... I must admit that I fought my momma once. Let me rephrase that-- I fought my momma OFF OF ME because she jumped on me like I was a woman on the street. In hindsight, I deserved the beatdown. But while I was getting my azz kicked, I didn't feel the justifcation... lol
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Name:
asize12
Comment: arch, when my daughter was 11, I threatened to taker her to Annie Malone (for those that don't live in St. Louis, it's a girls home). She thought I was bluffin', so I actually called Annie Malone & asked them if they had a program for girls that are misbehaving and the lady said, "Yes!" They let them stay there for a week so that when they leave, they'll have a better appreciation of they're parents and their life. I swear, I had that # on speed dial! Another punishment that works for her now is taking her basketball priveleges away. She plays ball @ school and if I told her that she couldn't play or go to practice, she's pass out! So far I haven't had to do that, she's a pretty good kid for the most part. Now my son, he's the little mischevious one. I remember when he was in the kindergarten, he went to a private school. Why the principal gone tell me "Have you ever thought of putting him on Ridlin?" (she's was white)First, I asked her "Are you a psychiatrist?" Second, I told her "Ridlin is just a cop out for these teachers because they don't know how to control the kids in their class." I told her that I refused to put my child on a drug that would alter his character just because his passive teacher didn't know how to control him in class!
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Name:
Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Lawd, Fought your momma? WE WOULDN'T DARE!! My mom was the matriach of the fam. He mom passed on leaving her to raise what 7 0r 8 of them...(there were 19 of em) cause she was the oldest girl. No one would dare cross my mom (except this chile's dad-mom's first born). My mom was fierce. G-d I miss her!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Brown, when my son wants to 'show out' in public, I politely grab his arm and start to twist it very slowly, but firmly until he gets the message. I'll just be walking down the aisle @ the grocery store and it'll look like I'm just holding his hand because I don't change my expression or nothin', but my son is in agony because I'm secretly twisting his arm. Now YT, call the po-po now!
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Name:
QueenCityBee
Comment: Good Friday everyone..I haven't had time to read all comments. I'm tryin to fly this coop early today. But, I'm gonna try at make this story quick. I have three girls two are grown now. They offend remanice about how I use to whopp their azzes, they say stuff like ma remember when you beat me for so-in-so. I be like hell no you think I remember every azz whoopin I ever gave yall. They also say my 16 yrs ole got away with wayyy more than they were ever allowed to. But, that was then this is now. fast foward 2006 my 16 yrs. sucks her teeth on a regular roll her eyes like she invented it. Gives me word-for-word. One day we got into it I bust her azz I mean I beat the shyt out of her cause that's how she acted like she wanted fight me so I came wit it. Next thing you no DSS at my door all up in by beewax. After I stated my case. They left me alone. Baby girl tried it again down the road after that I said I might kill her next time. So guess what she now lives with her father & miserable as hell. Oh well she thought the grass might have been greener so I let her find out. She hates it. But, I'm lovin being home with no drama me & hubby do what we want when we want. Thanks for actin a fool babygirl...
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Lawd!!! You deserved for your momma to jump you! Did you have any fear of your mother growing up? Cuz I wouldn't even THINK about laying a finger on my momma, that would be one finger that I would've lost along w/ the arm! LOL!
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Caribbean>>>> CORRECTION: I didn't roll up to my mom daring her to knock the ruler off of my shoulder. I said something smart from the bathroom (my momma has Wonder Woman hearing) and my momma came up in there swinging. I had to fight her OFF of me....
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Here's a maff equation for yall who think I swung on my momma. Beating your momma OFF of you = Blocking blows and ducking on the upswing
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Lawd, so were you trying to push her 'off' you? I would've been scared to even do that! Did you have any fear of your mother growing up?
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Name:
GHank
Comment: Hello Everyone. Things have been a whirlwind for me in the past week or so with all the family issues, health issues and just plain ol everyday issues. My father is starting dialysis next week so I am in the process of dealing with that whole thing. I know a lot of you guys read my Advice Chick letter posted yesterday. Actually, the letter was written a month ago and just decided to send it to her last week just to see the feedback it would get. (See Advice Board my comments) But with all the things I am trying to do, I will not be posting on Eurweb anymore. As much as I would like to hang with some of you, I know I simply don't have the time (or in many cases, the sanity) for it. It used to be cool to have an objective opinion about things but many of you take it to a whole new level. Some of you I have met and I hope we can still run into each other from time to time. But in all, take care of yourselves and it's been real. Peace!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: asize12>>> I was buckked nekkid and my mom was swinging my keyboard at me. Had I not blocked those blows or ducked defensively, I would have been dead. No, worse yet, I would have been found Buckked Nekkid dead in my bathroom with piano key impressions all over my body! lol we laugh about that to this day, but she always ends that chuckle with 'I whipped yo' azz, didn't I?'...
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Ghank, I hope that everything goes well w/ your father. My father was on dialysis for 4 years and he just received a kidney last September and by the grace of God, he's fine now. Keep the faith, everything will be alright.
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LilyOfTheNile
Comment: Good Afternoon EUR family......GHank you will be missed. I pray for your continued strength in the days and weeks ahead. Your father is blessed to have a son like you....you are at your appointed place to be a help and blessing to your family members. Much love and peace to you and yours!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini<LOL I hear you what you all are saying. I just want to treat others including children the way that I want to be treated. I don't like being hit and I don't want to hit anyone. My parents found other ways to connect with me and I hope to be as successful. That's all I can really say. I will save my hitting for when I return to boxing in a couple months.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Dayum! She swang a piano keyboard at you? Yeah, I would've ducked or stopped that too. You must've REALLY pis*sed her off!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Ghank< check in with someone so we all know how you are doing.
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Name:
FineBrown
Comment: >GHank--while I understand your pressure--trust me, you are gonna need to check in here from time to time to keep a balance..(if nothing more than to read silenty and fall out laughing) this is family here, too ya know! (maybe a little insane, but it's alright!)
>ASize 12: pinching also works--except when the kid hollers out "YOU ARE PINCHING ME!!"...(so!)
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Name:
LilyOfTheNile
Comment: Now let me go catch up.....how is everybody? commenting on the tail end of LawdhvMercy.....huh, hunh! My momma whooped me upside the head with the phone receiver while talking to one of her girlfriends and after knowcking me upside the head continued on with her conversation! LOL @ the memory!
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Name:
10piece
Comment: I still have the know on my shin from when my mom beat me with the phone receiver....Aaaaahhhh the memories
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Name:
lilmocc
Comment: My cousin's 15 year old daughter thought she was bad as heyell when she got to sophomore year in high school. She was VERY VERY VERY spoiled from the jump - so it only got worse as she got older. Well, she got this lil boyfriend from the other side of town and started wilding out. Staying out late, talking back, etc. Then one day she came in late and her Dad reminded her that she was only 15 and she can't come in the house when she wants to. He put her on punishment and she said "Whatever, see if you can keep me in here." He stepped to her with his finger in her face and before he could get the full "Listen Young Lady" out, she punched him in the stomach. He doubled over (he's a little chunky, lol) and she pushed him down the rest of the way. WELL, her Mom comes down the hall and peeps the scene. She was like OH HEEELLLL NAW - YOU HAVE LOST YOUR DAYUM MIND!! Oh you so bad huh? Well, Moms threw those hands up and challenged her to a street fight. And MOMS whooped that azz for real. And guess what? All of that bs she was doing before STOPPED immediately. She graduated 2 years ago with honors and is currently a junior in college with a 3.8 GPA. Behaves beautifully and is a real upstanding young woman. But dayum - it took a REAL beatdown to bring her back to her senses. Today she still gets embarrassed when someone brings it up, but she chuckles a bit and says I don't know what I was thinking. So, you just never know....
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Name:
10piece
Comment: correction...."knot"
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: I think I may have mentioned this on the board before, but my momma hit me with the elevator from my new Barbie doll townhouse. ON CHRISTMAS. And, um... Asize12, you ask was I scared of that woman?!?! You better believe it! My momma wasn't no joke.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Good! We should ALL be scurred of our momma's! Hell, I'm 34 and I'm STILL scared of my momma!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: CU @ Lawd! Girl, I am sitting here cracking up! But people don't get it, when your kids act a fool with you, ain't no telling what you gone do! QUEEN>> LOL! I always tell my oldest son that he huffs and puffs when he THINKS he's mad like he wants to throw blows with me, so we might as well go toe to toe. Don't act tough like you want to fight me, cause I was a fighting heifa (be quiet Nappy/IJA) growing up, so I have NO problem throwing blows
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< I always wanted that barbie dream house... but my mom said that if I got that I couldn't have anything else for Christmas b/c it cost too much. Then she told me that she would buy it for me when i graduated from h.s. (yes, i still wanted it) and...she didn't, then she said she would get it for me when i graduated from college (yes, i still wanted it) and she didn't. I guess it's not meant to be for me. LMAO
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< yes yes we alllllll know you were ( and still are) in a gang!!!! I gotta go call my mom about this barbie dream house.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LOL @ IJA! Girl, I feel you, I played w/ barbie dolls 'till I was 15!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: That story just reminded me of one situation of violence LOL... My momma does not play messing with her husband. My dad was sleeping b/c he was working midnights and i was singing and wouldn't stop. She didn't want me to wake him up. That time she snatched me up by my collar and covered my mouth and nose and I couldn't breathe. I thought I was dying. Yeah, I'mma have to remind her about that and my dayum dream house.
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: IJA-- My momma couldn't afford the dreamhouse, so I got the three-story cardboard townhouse with the elevator that moved up and down when you pulled a string. You may not have gotten that dreamhouse, but I got an elevator that I can wrap up for you! It never really fit back on the townhouse right after my momma busted me with it! lol
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA>> **pulling out blade from under my tongue** shut up, my past is just that...MY PAST!
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Name:
SanDiego
Comment: I always tell my Six year old... I fight little kids she be trying to jump bad...I have to turning around and laugh.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< I loved dolls, all of my old ones are proudly bald now. I styled their hair a lil too hard. lawdhv< umm thanks for offering but I would prefer to have the dream house. You have mail.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: SanDiego>> Oooo, I tell kids that who think they want to mess with MY kids...I will fight a little kid. LOL! This one boy thought he was going to throw a ball at my youngest son's stomach, I saw my son double over, I stepped in that gym ready to fight...how the hell you a big 5th grader thinking you about to throw a ball at a 1st grader...oh, if you my height (and most kids are...LOL) you fair game! My oldest son came around the corner and saw me about to scrap this boy, he probably was thinking, yeah, she about to get crazy. They told me last week, that I'm crazy, I simply said, long as you know.
LOL
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Name:
TAZBABY
Comment: Hey again Fam! My beat down story happened when I was 30 and I was fussing with and talking back to my 4'11" mother and said Shut up under my breath (I thought I said it under my breath) The next thing I know she knocked the he11 out of me...I was on the floor trying to crawl out the door. I had two children at the time and was married, when I arrived home my husband asked me what happenend to me and I told him and he and his friends Busted out laughing at me, I was devastated. Real Black Mothers don't care how old their child is Respect is demanded and they will tax that azz.
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Um Honeychile, you might be kin to my momma. She'd bust a move in a heartbeat. My aunt is like that, too. She is hard as heyall, chews (and spits into a can) snuff, and has a left-handed hook that would make Mike Tyson jealous. I don't know about fighting little kids, though. Could it have been that the little boy was aiming a ball at your son in the gym simply because they were playing DODGEBALL?!?!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Tazbaby-- dayum. Your momma got a hook like Sophia from the Color Purple! lol My mom and I have our fall outs, but I know my limits. Like, I can't really curse in front of my momma. Say I was trying to tell her a funny story that happened to have cursing in it. On the Free-4-All board, I would simply say, "... and then Tazbaby's momma knocked the SHYT out of her!" But for my momma, I would say, "... and then Tazbaby's momma knocked (slowing spelling the word) s-h-i-t- out of her!" lol
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honeychile
Comment: Lawd>> LOL! Nah, the little boy was already in the gym playing basketball, and my son (who is 7) walked in, and I saw this boy just throw the ball at him. Mind you, this boy was like 12! My God-brothers say I hit like a man....LOL.
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TAZBABY
Comment: Now me as a Mother, My oldest daughter was 17 and she wanted to go out with her Boyfriend and I said no because she didn't do what I had asked her to do. Later in the evening I was sitting in the living room and she walks past me, dressed for to go outng and I asked her where does she think she is going and she said out with Curtis and I said I told you no and she said Mama, I'm 17 and got in my face, well just by her talking back and getting in my face made me beat her up like a Be-yotch in the street, like I didn't even know her. Curtis came to the door and I said she isn't going anywhere Goodbye. This child called my Parents and told on me. LOL She is now married to Curtis and have children and I just love it when she calls me to complain about her oldest. Hahahahah Far exchange is no Robbery :O)
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Debonair
Comment: GHank>Peace to you, brother. I'm glad we got the chance to kick it a little. I hope all will be well for you.One.
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honeychile
Comment: Lawd>> My mother (she passed when I was 18) and I were the only girls in our intermediate family, she was a tom boy, so I think I got a lot of my roughness from her, she was tough dealing with her brothers and I was tough dealing with my cousins, so I had to be tough to get with my cousins. LOL!
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sweetheart
Comment: GHANK it is normal to be disappointed.; however, your disappointment is equivalent to being unhappy. It is ok to be unhappy at times, but when it is the essence of who you are, it drains and repels people because they always have to pick you up and encourage you. I recommend that you use your faith in God to become a light. People are always attracted to the light. As you become a happier person, you will attract positive people in your life that will support you and believe in you. When the time is right, you will find a woman that will believe that you can go from living at home to owning one. A woman that knows that older men often make great parents. A woman that knows that God put the union together because the internet, single ministries, blind dates, etc… never worked. With almost 7 billion people on the planet, you can easily believe that one is for you. You can strike out a million times, you only need one home run. Stay positive and when you least expect it God will bless you.
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honeychile
Comment: Ghank>> I wish you and your parents the best. I hope all goes well with you. We will miss you! **muah** Like IJA said, please keep us informed of what's going on with you.
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TAZBABY
Comment: LawdHvMrcy my children are grown and they won't cuss in front of me at all. Now that my children are grown and I have quite time, I see I raised them with a hard hand like my mother did. I know this might sound abusive but my daughter (that oldest one again, she was my thorn in the side and my mirror when she was a teenager) was coming through my door at the age of 16 at 1:30 (way past her curfew) and started to lie about where she had been and before I knew it I had throw my crystal drinking glass at her and cut her leg. I felt bad the next day but at that moment I didn't. *hanging head with a sneeky smile on my face* We are a great mother daughter team now cause she is grown and have her own now :O)
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ELSBABY
Comment: Hope I am not too late. Take care GHANK and pop in sometime and post a good song of the day or update us on where your band will be playing:)
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *****dialing up the Department of Social Services (DSS) on Taz, Taz's momma, and Honeychile**** I hear ya, girl! While I am reporting yall, I think I am going to report my momma for that keyboard incident! lol
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TAZBABY
Comment: CTFU @ LawdHvMrcy! :o)
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sigmascribe
Comment: DAMN....I go to lunch and when I return I see GHank done up and left the crew. Be Easy, baby;-)
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey ya'll back from lunch. Ya'll still talkin' about whoopins? I cuss in front of my parents and my grandmother. They don't mind. Especially my grandmother, she cuss you in a minute. In fact she's the one who taught me how to cuss. Its crazy because most people think wow, that is so disrespectful, but they don't mind it. Now 10 years ago if I cursed in front of them I would have been toothless
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Trini, my grandmother has a sailor's mouth. I think she says 'shyt' more than a port-a-john cleaner. I have to tell her sometimes that she can not speak like that around the children *pointing at myself*-- to which she exclaims "Aww Shyt, you ain't no dayum child no more!" Her vulgar vocabulary is limited to the 'less vulgar' curse words. I have only heard her say 'f*ck' once, but it was when she was telling one of her infamous nasty jokes...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< you took a long lunch break like I did.
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beboyz
Comment: GHANK the eurweb wont be the same without you man. We are family man. Life has sent me some terrible set-back lately and my Mother has a debilitating disease so i can relate to your struggle. Yeah we are dysfuntional. what family isn't? If God is for us who can stand against us. Be strong this too shall pass.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: GHank, keep yo head up partner, check in every now and then, let us know how the Fam is doing. You still got my email addy, keep in touch Bruh! Now you ladies quit jackin with us fellas fo ain't no more gonna be up in dis joint!
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beboyz
Comment: ProsperityJoy I'm going to guess and say your birthday is on 3/29
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2n2me
Comment: LMAO...The stories are too funny. My Daddy bought me a Barbie Townhouse the one with the elevator, my parents were divorced so he being his ignorant self, he wouldn't let me take it home, so of course it became a chew toy for the batch of puppies that showed up for Xmas, he left it in the basement with them. I would dream about the lil townhouse...(exhale) So I've been looking for it, so I can get one for Lexi and play with hers.
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asize12
Comment: ***panting,as I run back in from lunch*** Okay, what'd I miss? Oh, we still reminiscing? Hmmm, I recall when I had just turned 18 and I told my momma that me & my then boyfriend now husband were moving in together. Why the hell did she pick up a cane & hit me across the face w/ it? I still got the marks under my chin! ***dialing DFS on my momma***
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2n2me
Comment: *WAVING HARD* hey MWM!!! ANy Aries in the house??? I'm going to be 30 again on April 13th.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: IJA- YGM, chile! OK everybody, yall have a good weekend. I am headed out of here a lil early today. Cyber talk with you on Monday!
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asize12
Comment: >>trini, I STILL don't cuss in front of my momma. I just don't feel right cussin' in front of her or my daddy. My younger sisters do, but I just can't do it. Maybe it's cuz I'm the oldest and got beat the most! I think I have the most respect for her.
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asize12
Comment: Hey 2n2me, wassaaaaaap!
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2n2me
Comment: Hey there asize17, did ya'll know that Queen LaTifah (sp) has a line of lingerie for us big boobie girls at Walmart, she just becoming a household name... I got some stuff too!
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2n2me
Comment: a size12 You know my finger slipped I's sorry.. Blame it on the double cheeseburger
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thechocolate10
Comment: LOl@all of us who got whoopins by their momma's. I just got off the phone with mine and she is cracking up at the memory of me locking her out of the house when i was 4. and how she yelled that she was going to do bodily harm to me when she got back in the house.(this is the clean version) I dont remember that but it brings her to tears eyes and anything that make my momma dukes happy is alright by me. 'AND I am still afraid of her.
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beboyz
Comment: Bigchassie are u still here? I thoght lil Kims show was a HAM. Whats the point of the show i watched both episodes but nothing memorable happened. College hill was better than Lil Kim and thats not saying much cause CH sucks big time. Those shows look so cheaply made. Kids in middle school could do better. Now that Tracy has half of babbyfaces money maybe Edmunds entertainment can spend more on their productions
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Harriet
Comment: bigbullhead2- ". . .Now if you re one of those strange birds who's identity is tied to thier hair I would not advise a wig but counseling for you. . ." Strange birds? I think it is fine and dandy if a woman wants to wear a wig but I don't think it necessary to insult those who prefer natural hair and styles more conducive to their self and history. My identity is not defined by my hair- my hair is an extension of my identity. Because I did not want to be bald or thinning at 40, I decided at 33 to stop proceessing my hair. I did that so that wearing a wig would be an option and not a mandate. Going natural is not easy for there are so many people opposed to natural nappy nicca hair. I read a couple of weeks ago of a new requirement of no "ethnic or natural hairstyles- mainly locks- in the Hampton MBA program. They said it didn't fit into their model of success. Hampton University is a Black school! I don't think that people who prefer thier natural hair and styles need counseling. Just a little bit more acceptance and understanding and less accusations of being crazy for choosing to rock their own hair.
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TommyStrong
Comment: >2n2me my bday is March 24th...
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2n2me
Comment: Hey BBH2 ...you mention a product for natural curly hair, what was the name of it, I thought I would remember once I got in the beauty supply place but I didn't see, plz share it with me again
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Harriet< Girl you be taking everything so personal! bighead can and will speak for herself but I don't think that was the way she meant that. Anyhoo, I did see the article about Hampton banning the ethnic hairstyles. Hampton has a strict dress code as it is so I just add that to the long list of things you can't do at that school. I don't believe in stifling anyone's identity but I believe they are concerned about the students being dimissed b/c of their hair when entering the job market. I think they could be making a mistake though b/c the more blacks who wear natural styles, the more it is accepted and therefore not looked upon as strange by whites. I wear my hair naturally like Kelis so it's big and bouncy however, I don't do that on job interviews, I waited until I was already working there.
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2n2me
Comment: TommyStrong---->Hey the RAMS are in the hizzel...is your favorite color RED?
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Harriet
Comment: oldschool- You be focking me up with your in-depth reporting. Keep up the good work and thanks for being our roving news man.
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, I've been str8 chillin today. Its Friday. I'm not going anywhere tonight though. THere's going to be too many ST. Patty's day drunks on the road. I'm getting my hair done tomorrow, then Saturday night I'm going to hang out at the B'more Harbor and spend some "quality time" with my boo boo.
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Harriet
Comment: Shyt! Arkansas just lost. I don't care who wins as long as it is NOT Duke! I am a Cowboys fan (don't ask me why) and it appears that T.O. could be coming to Dallas. I am excited, I must admit. We haven't had an exciting receiver in Dallas since Michael Irvin. Don't get me wrong. I like Keyshawn and think he probably got screwed as Dallas furiously worked to free up monies for T.O. and possibly (or more like prayerfully) Vince Carter. That is one of the things I hate about Dallas- the bulley like tactics they use when it comes to their players and I am still pizzed that Emmit Smith's jersey hasn't been retired. I guess you gotta be a white boy to get honored like that in Dallas. Anyway, the thought of T.O. in Dallas is still delicious.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Ghank here is my email keep in touch bigheadbull2@yahoo.com But I must say this HE/She who would have friends must first show themselves friendly and I have extended my friendship to you on several occasions and for what ever reason, influence,fear, nerves you have not accepted so don't expect me to feel too sorry for you. I have just extended my friendship to you one last time. This is it brother you can either reach beyond the break or let go. The choice has always been yours
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< I'm not a big drinker so St. Patty's day ain't for me. I think G is taking me to dinner and to hear some muci tonight which, btw, he is stopping me from losing weight.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: music not muci (whatever that is)
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: LMAO, IJA, How is he stopping you from loosing weight? He keeps feeding you, or he thinks you look good thick? Men can be a big road block when your trying to lose weight.
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Harriet
Comment: ImJustAsking- You don't know me nor anything about me therefore I think it is inaccurate and inappropriate for you to purport to know how I "take" things. I also know that bigheadbull2 can speak for her/hisself and fail to understand why you feel a need to do it for her. I don't post here very often because it isn't always possible for you to share your thoughts without being accused of being this/that or having someone take your post in the wrong way instead of just asking you what you meant. I don't know what was so offensive to you regarding my post to come at me like that but I don't feel that I owe any apology for expressing MY self especially being that I wasn't even talking to you. Perhaps this is a small example of the things GHANK spoke of that test your sanity in EURWEB.
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bigchassie
Comment: WELL YALL...AS GOD SAID AFTER HE CREATED THE WORLD IN JUST SEVEN DAYS....WHEW! (well, he didn't really say that, but i bet he felt it!) just teasing! BUT I FINSISHED TYPING MY NEW PLAY! AND TO BE HONEST, I HAD A FUN TIME WRITING IT. I JUST LOVE IT WHEN THE CREATIVE JUICES I WILL BE HAVING A FORMAL READING VERY SOON. AND JUST TO REMIND YOU I DEDICATED IT TO MY EURweb FAMILY! ;-) WHEN THIS PLAY HIT THE STAGE YOU WILL ALSO BE MENTIONED IN THE PROGRAM.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Lawd you killing me with the dream house girl. IJA buy your own dreamhouse you can afford it now
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: I MEANT TO SAY I JUST LOVE IT WHEN THE CREATIVE JUICES ARE FLOWING JUST RIGHT! you would not beleive this but i wrote this play on the train comming home from and to work in two weeks.
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sigmascribe
Comment: Be safe over the weekend!! I'm out!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: trini, my husband is always eating right before he goes to sleep and he ALWAYS asks me if I want some. Why can't I just SAY NO!!! LOL!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Have a great weekend sigma!
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Name:
phillymom
Comment: Ghank, It will be okay, trust me you WILL be blessed because you are doing the right thing by taking care of your parents...email me some times...
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Name:
phillymom
Comment: Hey Eurweb! trini, Bighead..everyone!
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Just seeing your post Harriet what in the name are you talkin about? Don't , just don't ok?
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Name:
StopBeingIgnant
Comment: Hariett, didn't you know? ImJustAsking owns this here board and will respond for every and any person who posts when it doesn't even remotely involve her big eyed azz??
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Harriet< once again, you took something personally and out of context.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Harriet and I don't know what was so offense about my post for you to come at me like that . As you stated before IJA does not know you and guess what you don't know me. I was saying as a professional in the hair business that there are ladies and men who's identities are tied to their hair and the length to which they go to have long flowing hair is amazing. Thats why I made the comment about strange birds. Please don't do it. Buy the way I am a female and we are having a get together on 4/15 in the DC area I would be more than happy to meet you and explain myself more clearly. I don't recall the area in which you live but the offer stands
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: 2n2me its made by mazani and its for curls and waves. the is also tigi cat walk curls rock in the blue bottle and by the way for those interested my hair is natural too.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< he keeps feeding me! Whenever we go out to a restaurant I want to make the healthy choice but the crab cakes and sauce look so delicious lol. Men are roadblocks to a lot of things lmao
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thechocolate10
Comment: harriet> TO and Me-Shawn(he's mine) both in DALLAS oh let the season begin. NFC in the hizzy(i may get kick out of NYC for this). I dont particularly care for TO but the man can catch.
PITT PANTHER IN THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!
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trini2dbone
Comment: What Up Phillymom, I think its time to break out the Barcardi Apple cuz folks is gettin ready to start cuttin up in here in a second. LMAO, whats been goin on with you mama?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Stopbeinignant<Since you been staring at my myspace page like some psycho lurking, make sure you read my blogs, they're really good and also it gives me more hits to my page. also, feel free to comment.
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asize12
Comment: **dippin' in the convo** bigheadbull2, you say you're in the hair business? Can you tell me what to do for thinning hair?
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Hi Phillymom how are you my dear. IJA remember what I told you. LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Hey phillymom! Trini, hit me with some of that Bacardi....cause, um, dang......
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: bighead< yes i do! LOL I LOVES it
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: I've been reading post on this board for quite sometime but never posted on a regular until recently. I've always been curious about everyones age and what area they live. If I'm not being too offensive about the age I was wondering if you would tell me. If not on the board you can email me at tommystrng@aol.com
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< they sure are. I can relate, all my wants to do is take me out to eat. I won't tell you how much I've gained (and lost and gained again) since we've been together. I finally had to put my foot down!!! I should make him go skatin with me!
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phillymom
Comment: Hey there Trini *waving* After reading the board you know I got some barcardi Apple...*passing Trini a cup*, nothing much going on, still am in LOVE with my sisterlocks, they are growing like crazy!
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2n2me
Comment: Thanks BBH2...I'm gonna go get it, I've never of Tigi Cat, I'll google that one...
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Tommy>> I am 29 years old, and I live in Kansas City, Missouri.
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Name:
phillymom
Comment: *Pyulling out the BIG OLE COUNTRY BOTTLE of Barcardi Apple*....yall want some?
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Tommy I'm 34
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Oh, duh! I forgot to list my city. I'm from St. Louis, MO.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey Tommy, I'm a 25 year old female. No shame in tellin my age. I live in Newark, Delaware. Please don't ask how I ended up here, its a long story.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Tommy, anything else you wanna know, visit http://myspace.com/asize12
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Name:
phillymom
Comment: I am doing great Bighead...How have you been? I mean dang you can call a sister....LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Tommy>> Ditto, you can see me also on myspace... www.myspace.com/sosynsational
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: Thanx Phillymom, hey have you tried the new Melon flavor. It is on POINT!!!! BTW, your hair must look real cute n stuff
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< I was gonna ask you how you got from Providence to DE. BCS was asking me when you left there b/c he said it's small and since he's Mr. Popular he might know you. Anyway, Tommy< I just turned 24 last week, I'm in Takoma Park, MD steps away from Takoma DC.
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trini2dbone
Comment: I;m on myspace too Tommy www.myspace.com/rikesgirl anything else you wanna know is on there.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Trini>> Y you being stingy with the bacardi???
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trini2dbone
Comment: OK, IJA, this is the run down. I was born in Prov, my dads job moved us to Cali, lived there for awhile, daddy's job moved us to Colorado, lived there for awhile, graduated high school, went back to Prov for school, meantime, daddy's job transfred him to Philly, but folks decided to settle in DE. gadiated stayed for awhile longer got pregnant left crazy baby daddy came to DE. The end.
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phillymom
Comment: trini, It does!!!!!! child you can't tell me shat!!!!!
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Name:
2n2me
Comment: Tommy...I'm on myspace too, myspace.com/2n2me but I haven't been back since I started it so forgive the sight, I am 30 again, I'll claim it til I can't no mores.... :)
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< okay, so basically I can tell BCS that he don't know you!!
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: oops, my bad Honeychile, you know how I am when I start runnin my mouf...*pours some for honeychile and a lil for da homies)
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Name:
lilmocc
Comment: Tommy> Hey Tommy! *wavin* I am 29 and live in VA
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Asize12 hi my angel. It depends there are meds to consider, how one is styling ones hair(braids, and yes even sponge rollers) look around at some women who came up in the 70 wearing sponge rollers and see that most of there hairlines begin at the neck. Your genes are the key to hair thinning and growth outside of medication side effects. A good supplement is nicion you can buy at the beauty supply or health food store. Dont be too alarmed if you see hair thinning every four to seven years more than usual. Hair goes throught three phases catogen, telogen, and antogen , conversly, fall, growth and replacement. On a daily basis 150 to 200 shedding hairs is normal. You will see more during the fall and replacement stage again every 4/7 years. And we shed more in the winter and fall on GP. If you should see shedding hair and a bulb on the end I would go to a doctor or hairdresser in that order cause there could be an underlying symptom. You may also try switching products too. You don't state if you relax your hair or what shampoos and conditioners you use. For example creme of nature is stunning for its detangleing properties yet over time your hair will not hold a style because the product builds up on the hair that is why it is good to use a clarifing conditioner after rinse repeat. We can get into this more once I am more informed on your hair grooming habits if this is even about you. Hope I have not gone on too long on this subject but I love it so.
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA<He may know me...he may know some of my family. Providence is very small. YOu'll be surprised by who knows who. But yes most likely he probably doesn't.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Tommy my birthday was 3/9 and you have to come to my house and see my birth certificate. LOL
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, what high school did he go to? What part of Prov did he live in?
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Oh Tooommmy I live in The Chocolate City Washington DC born in capital cab 369 could not wait to get here I guess
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< He went to Classical High School I believe. That sound familiar? Everybody talking to Tommy and his azz is gone.
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asize12
Comment: >>bigheadbull2, Well, my hair is SO thin in the front, on the sides, and all the way back to the crown of my head that I can't wear my own hair. Weave is my BESTEST friend;-) My sister is a Weavologist and she's been doing my hair for about 8 years. I only put a very mild relaxer in my hair maybe once a year when I wanna wear a ponytail just to give the full head of weave a rest. So, for all of y'all that saw my page on myspace, NOPE that's not my hair! Well, the main picture isn't my hair. The other pics of me are my hair and those pics are like 4 years old so my hair has gotten a lot worse since then. I do believe that it's hereditary because my mother, & my 2 younger sisters all have thinning hair. It really doesn't bother me that much because my sister does such an awesome job w/ weaving my hair. But, every now & then I think about the good ole' days when I used to have healthy hair.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: I promise you I will. Are you going to try to come to our get together on /4/15 IJA has done a lovely job putting it together. Have not heard back from everyone to my knowledge but i do look foward to it and not for the reasons most people would think You know like I wonder what so and so looks like. As long as they don't have 3 titties and a glass eye and are a lovely shade of green I don't care. I just want to share the love girl
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA>> Why did I bust out laughing! You silly...dang, girl, there you go answering for someone else. **snicker**
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asize12
Comment: >>bigheadbull2, what exactly is nicion?
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< Classical is where all the "smart" kids go. Its right across the street from Central High School where all the "regular" kids go. My cousin graduated from Classical(in 96') and my two younger cousins are currently students there (at Classical)
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TommyStrong
Comment: >LOL @ IJA...i'm here...just waiting to see who else post...i remembered your bday was last week as well as bigheads....
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ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< *pushes asize12 down to the ground* NO, Weave is MY best friend! LMAO. *helps asize12 up* okay okay, I'm sorry, maybe the 3 of us can hang out some time lol. Girl, don't feel bad about weaves, my hair is long going down my back and I still wear weaves and wigs. But I feel what you're saying, it's more convenient when you feel comfortable wearing your own locks.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< you sound like Priceless. I guess stopbeinignant was right my big eyed azz owns this board. Well, Let's make it a official. I hereby declare myself Queen of EurWeb. My first order of the day is for you, honeychile, you keep your dayum legs closed.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey IJA, I didn't know you ran this board and you answer for everyone? When did this start? LMAO!!!! SMH
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LMAO @ IJA! Girl, it's funny cause I change my hairstyle once a month! These folks at work think I'm ca-razy! I just like variety, I've been doing that since high school (when I had my own hair...*sniff sniff*) I'm cool;-)
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bigheadbull2
Comment: if its in the genes and you are alright with it so am I diva, so am I . There are thickening preprations and I can vouch for rogaine for women and it is not as costley as it used to be. If your papilla has not been damaged due to trama or sponge rollers it will grow back and somewhat thicker with the rogaine. Also for any one have had surgery in the last 6 mths to a year don't be alarmed if your hair starts falling if it not a head trama and had to be cut it will grow back. Falling hair is a side effect of the anesthetic
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ImJustAsking
Comment: What Trini is trying to say is that she has just received word that I was crowned Queen. Trini, bow down. Tommy< okay well you got to speak up b/c I thought I was talking to myself, which I don't do...all the time...well, not in public...umm maybe sometimes...occasionally...lol
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Hey yall... thought I was gonna roll up out of here early, but that ain't happening. This floor is a ghost town, but I am the only fool up in here with WORK to do! IJA>>> *Looking at you with big azz'ted eyes* Girl, stop defending folks all the dayum time! CTFU TOMMYSTRONG>>> 33/Charlotte, NC. I've also been called Strange by a Bird before, or was I called a Strange Bird?!?! *winks at BHB2* Since I am saved as a friend on everybody's page, just click on the friend named BacardiVann. TRINI/Phillymom-- pass me some of that, please...
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StormyMonday
Comment: Hi Tommie, I'm 35 and live in NC.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: A vitamin that promotes growth it is also used in a lot of nail products
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asize12
Comment: You know what bighead? My dermitologist actually gave me some Women's Rogaine about 2 years ago and my butt didn't use it because she told me that it was only a 30% chance that it would work and she also told me that if it works, then I have to use it like forever! So, my heard headed self didn't use it. Hell, I think it's probably still in my cabinet in the bathroom all expired & what not! LOL
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Tommy if you would like to see the HUUUGGGEEEEE eyes I have that people speak of you can go to www.myspace.com/goldenegro or like Barcardi Vann said you can look through their friends and click on Carmel Sutra.
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asize12
Comment: I also heard that men's rogaine works better than women's rogaine, is that the troof?
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, I ain't bowin down, I don't want to wrinkle my pants! Hey Lawd, I thought you left...here have some Barcardi!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< Like when I defended Ghank by saying maybe he didn't write that letter. LMAOOOOOOOOOO I was so hoping he didn't.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Yes but if you are in child bearing years do not I repeat do not even touch the stuff it WILL render you sterile.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *grabbing Bacardi from Trini* Thanks Neicy. Man, I am so behind from messing with yall all week, I couldn't leave up out of here until I did a few thangs. EURWEB is going to have to start putting me on THEIR payroll!
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< I didn't realize before, but YOu look kinda like my cousin Alex, same complexion and big eyes. LMAO!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< how do they decide who goes to Classical vs. across the street if the schools are public? You said Classical is for the smart ones, do they divide people up by grades or something?
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bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA you all right with me. Lawd I have been called strange bird, bird strange, lady bird johnson, it all greek to me chile. What happened they made you stay at work?
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asize12
Comment: >bighead...straight? It makes you sterile? Both men & women? Wow, I didn't know that!
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, if I'm not mistaken, I think you have to test to get into Classical. I'll ask one of my cousins. But I think you test to get in there.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: We are gonna pray for brother Ghank. I think he is going to be alright. I am glad that he is taking a sabbatical. Ghank gonne roll back up in here with an open invitation to his wedding. To a black woman, of course!
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Just the women and I'm talkin about the mens formula. The womens formula is fine for women. IJA I will be takin my daughter Chanel to Arundel Mills on the morrow. Pray for me
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ImJustAsking
Comment: bigheadbul< I felt you snatch my crown off when you said I was all right with you!! you ain't slick!! LMAO yeah Fellow diva, you know how to take some of the characters on this board...the admiration is stunning ( to use your word)
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trini2dbone
Comment: Good Night ya'll. Have a safe weekend. Bighead don't do too much damage at the mall!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: bighead< as a child who is spoiled rotten, I will have to pray for your daughter in this case...pray that you buy her everything she wants. You will survive tomorrow. Trini< Now see, they don't have to put those schools across from each other like that! But I guess that's kinda good b/c that way if some of your friends are smart and some not so smart you can hook up after school. LMAO
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: LOL @ BHB2- I hear ya. I don't think folks can call me anything on this board that I haven't been called already. That's why I don't take folks too seriously. As a matter of fact, my old Drill Sergeant used to call all of us Shyt Birds-- which I have never seen or heard of THAT species before. So I'll take Strange Bird over that ANYDAY! lol
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< you have mail chile. Please go home.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Trini I take that as a compliment coming from you cause you can put it down too I'm sure. The beauty is not being able to shop in neimans the beauty is going into neimans and gettin a 135 calvin klein skirt for 7 there in is the thrill for me
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letmein
Comment: Hey, whew...too much reading. Let me see, yes, I got my azz beat as a child. Yes, I beat my kids azz. I'm 36 and live in KC. I have all my own hair... uh..what else? Oh yeah, Harriett and Stopbngignant are spawns of the devil. Why do y'all waste your time responding?!?
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: See yall gotta go pick up my iron pills cause I have a strange craving for corn starch which is a sure sign ones iorn is low.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: letmein now I know thanks for the headsup. Have a great weekend
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: letmein< I think that sums it up.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: **waving** Hey letmein;-)
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honeychile
Comment: IJA>> LOL!! You giving orders and crap! Keep my legs closed?? Did you give any other orders to anyone else? Besides, you are just supposed to answer for me when someone asks me something, that is what StopBein said...not dictate stuff for us to do! **sticking tongue out** LOL
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: honeychile< clearly ni$$as like you don't read!! Stopbeingignant said i "owned this here board" all I did was make it official. LMAOOOO
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Hey asize12. Dammit I want to be the boss!!!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA>> You know me, I'm going to fight you about that....you don't own SQUAT! LOL!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: IJA FOR PRESIDENT!!!;-)
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: To all you heifas that WANT to be the boss, I have a BIG problem with authority, so you will get no cooperation from me. **folding arms, rolling eyes**
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: asize12>> Sorry to do this to you sweetie, but I'm going to have to knock down all your IJA for President posters!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Guess every one is gone, and if you ain't, you bets to leave, cause I'm flicking off the lights....
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TommyStrong
Comment: LMAO @letmein
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Tommy> I flicked off the lights..why are you standing in the dark?? LOL...have a good weekend, folks!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: I'm in & out y'all, busy day for me. Whomever is still on, holla back!
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