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Name: McNasty

Comment: Dude told you he communicates with others as do you - this is where women go wrong - she wants to read between the lines but there are none. He has already told you and the only other thing to do now is meet in a well lit neutral place. 2) The longer you get off on him saying he values your friendship the longer it takes to begin to heal. Get to steppin! 3)She's in the free hotel and he calls her friend, leave that alone, protect your heart and have fun. Why folk always gotta fall in love? What happened to JUST chillin'?

Name: Raypeazy

Comment: McNasty you are right! What happened to Just chillin? Seems like today the young folks ( I am mid 30's) like this thing called "friends with benefits", but then start catching feelings anyway. Kind of defeats the purpose, if (and I hear this from women) you are not looking for a serious or semi-serious 1-on-1. Back towards the end of high school and up to my mid 20's, females were pretty straight up...at least in my experiences anyway. If it was just physical then that was it...no movies, no gifts, and definitely no spending the night. If you all were working at starting a relationship then you acted accordingly. Guys and gals today are lying to themselves and their "friends". They say you can't make a Ho a housewife so don't expect to make your "wednesday piece" your boy/girl friend. Dang!! Tell the truth from the jump and really listen to a person and what they say. AC would have more time to write a screenplay or something.

Name: McNasty

Comment: Raypeazy you're absolutely right. We keep playing head games with each other that's why we're so confused in relationships and friendships. That friends with benefits jazz is for the birds cause you're either fukk partners or you're friends. Anything other is supposed to be a relationship. LMBAO AC writing a screenplay - I'd go see it but you know she'd catch hell from her naysayers as she does on this board cause she ain't pulling no punches or holding any hands!

Name: MzTee

Comment: McNasty...when AC goes on vacation, she should let you sit in for her instead of feeding us old columns (HA!).

Name: ShadowKnows

Comment: Just think where we could be as a cummunity if everyone, especially our young women/girls, followed this advice from AC: "Keep your head up, your dress down, your legs closed, and your options open." Whew, words to live by.

Name: ShadowKnows

Comment: Oops, meant to say "community."

Name: McNasty

Comment: MzTee! LMAO and I'm taking it as the compliment I know it was meant to be.

Name: MzTee

Comment: McNasty...you know it was definitely a comment!!! Should AC ever vacate her throne, EUR should give you a call (LOL).

Name: MzTee

Comment: damn, I meant to write 'compliment.' I'm suffering from brain farts this morning (LOL).

Name: McNasty

Comment: AC you reading these posts? Hey take a vacation, McNasty has your back!LMAO

Name: xavixavi

Comment: AC... Dang you are good. I hope you save these things in archives. you have said it before, but never put it so succinctly... "Keep your head up, your dress down, your legs closed, and your options open." I LOVVED that line. I may need to send it to my niece in a few years. I won't give you credit (gotta make her thing that I truly know it all), but know this That LINE will be used at least 20 more times by your readers.... Priceless!!! Truly PRICELESSS

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