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ProsperityJoy
Comment: Good Morning Everyone!!!Hope you had a nice weekend! Take Care...Peace
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StormyMonday
Comment: Good morning ProsperityJoy and everyone else. Hope you all have a great day!!!
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StormyMonday
Comment: Hmmm, I guess all the early birds are sleeping in today.
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Prubin40
Comment: Howdy. I worked the whole damn weekend. I get to buy discounted eggs today.LOL
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TAZBABY
Comment: Well Good Morning EUR Fam, hey ProsperityJoy, StormyMonday and Prubin40, Make this day a good one.
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bigchassie
Comment: DE CHASSIE IS HURRE!!...*looks around the room in shocked amazement* SAY WHAT??? where in de heyell is everybody this morning??? they betta get their butts out of bed. hay, ProsperityJoy, StormieMonday, Tazzie, Prubin, Where is errbody? this is weird!...or is Boomqueesha on the prowl early?? hummm....*looking around suspiciously* Stormie, pass me my coffee sip-sip! i need to wake up!
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StormyMonday
Comment: Mama, here's your coffee sip-sip. Ya'll be good today, I'm off to do my time, I'll be back around 12:30 EST.
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bigchassie
Comment: *takes Sip-sip coffee cup* STORMIE>thank you baby, now you hurry up and come on back. you know we miss you when you ain't here. we'll try to be good! i'm gonna go and peek in on the other posts.
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MDhornet
Comment: I thought the board would be full by now since everybody's heading back to work today. Happy Tuesday everybody. Have a great day.
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Caribbean_Queen
Comment: Women's Daily Inspiration for Becoming Mindful by Diane Mariechild.
Love is the foundation of the world. Where there is love, there is peace.
Where there is selfishness, there is misery and suffering. Learn from Mother
Nature who gives of herself even though exploited by man. Do only good deeds
and look upon all as the children of God.
MATA AMRITANANDAMAYI
It takes enormous endurance to put the other person first, especially when
your efforts are met with indifference. To continue to give your best you must
be patient and not have expectations of others. Even when another doesn't
respond, remember that you are growing. You are polishing the rough edges that
make human relationships difficult. This is the purpose of the spiritual life,
to love *- and it is this loving that brings peace.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: April 18, 2006
Two Duke Lacrosse Players Are Arrested and Charged in Rape Case
By DUFF WILSON
DURHAM, N.C., April 18 — Two Duke University men's lacrosse players were arrested today and charged with rape, sexual %*$ault and kidnapping in a case involving a woman who has accused three team members of raping her at a party last month.
Sgt. Andre Mims of the Durham County Correctional Facility identified the two players who has been arrested as Reade Seligmann of Essex Fells, N.J., and Collin Finnerty of Garden City, N.Y
He said that one of the players had already been released after posting bond.
The move comes after a state grand jury issued sealed indictments on Monday against two players, according to Robert C. Ekstrand, a lawyer representing 32 of the lacrosse players.
Mr. Finnerty, 19, was charged last fall with %*$aulting a man in the Georgetown section of Washington. His lawyer in that case said that he had entered a diversion program, meaning that the simple %*$ault charge filed against him would be dismissed after the completion of 25 hours of community service.
Judge Ronald Stephens of Superior Court sealed the indictments on Monday after the grand jury adjourned, citing a state law that allows indictments to remain secret until a defendant is arrested or appears in court.
Mr. Ekstrand issued a brief written statement at 9 p.m., saying in part, "Today, two young men have been charged with crimes they did not commit."
Michael B. Nifong, the Durham County district attorney, declined to comment on the sealed indictments, which were returned with 81 public indictments involving other cases.
The case has drawn national attention to Duke and Durham while underscoring issues of class and race between the private university and the city, which is largely middle class with a population that is about 45 percent black.
The woman, a 27-year-old single mother of two and a student at a nearby university, is black. She was hired to perform as an exotic dancer at an off-campus party held March 13 by members of the team. She said she was attacked by three white players.
Defense lawyers for the players have said there was no rape and no sex at the party. They have mounted a campaign to discredit the woman by saying she was drunk and injured before the party. Robert Bennett, a former lawyer for President Bill Clinton, has been hired as a spokesman by a group of Duke supporters who feel the university, the players and the players' families have been treated unfairly.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Forty-one of the lacrosse team's 47 players attended the party last month, according to police interviews with three team captains, Dan Flannery, Bret Thompson and Matt Zash, who told the police that only members of the team were present.
Forty-six team members submitted DNA samples to the police on March 23 under a court order. Results of those DNA tests were released April 9 by defense lawyers, who said the results failed to link any of the players to the woman. The 47th player, who is black, was not required to submit a sample because the woman said the attackers were white.
The woman told the police she was blocked in a bathroom, held, hit, kicked and strangled while she was sexually %*$aulted for about 30 minutes. She said she had been separated from another dancer, who had also been hired to perform.
Police initially thought the accuser was intoxicated but later took her to the Duke University Hospital emergency room. She had "signs, symptoms, and injuries consistent with being raped and sexually %*$aulted vaginally and anally," according to a district attorney's affidavit.
Defense lawyers have told reporters that the second dancer at the party has contradicted the accuser. But that woman spoke with a local television station over the weekend, under conditions set by her lawyer that she could not be asked about specifics at the party, and she did not contradict the accuser.
In the interview, which was also shown Monday on MSNBC, the second dancer called the defense lawyers' comments about her testimony "out-and-out lies." The second dancer said that she had not seen a rape occur, but that she thought the accuser was telling the truth.
"I think that it's quite possible that something really terrible had happened to her," the second dancer said.
She said the accuser was "talkative and friendly and smiling" earlier in the night and incoherent later.
Duke's president, Richard H. Brodhead, canceled the lacrosse team's season and accepted the resignation of the coach, Mike Pressler, on April 4, the day an unsealed search warrant revealed that Mr. McFadyen had sent an e-mail message soon after the party, saying that he wanted to invite strippers to his room the next night, kill them and skin them.
Mr. Brodhead also appointed panels to examine the team's behavior and the university's handling of the case.
Viv Bernstein contributed reporting for this article.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: On the Duke case, I'm glad two of these azzholes were arrested but I also think the whole f*cking team should be indicted because they watched it happen and weren't going to say anything. What type of boys are we raising in this country? I know someone who was raped by the basketball team at Old Dominion University back in the 90s and they got away with it. They were on TV jumping up and down celebrating talking about they were going to disney land. To this day, none of those men have reached out to acknowledge what they did or what they saw. It sickens me. I see that the attorney/spokesperson for the school and team is Robert Bennett, I actually know him, like they said he was Bill Clinton's lawyer and he is a MONSTER on a case. I just hope he doesn't help the school and team exonerate itself.
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yunvme
Comment: Hey....Wheres my "Girlfriends"? As I sat in front of the TV last night getting ready for one of my favorite shows- I was bamboozled. I had read in Jet magazine that the fate of the show "Girlfriends" was up in the air with UPN and WB combining into one station. OK I can live with that. It was mentioned that a "new" show would be introduced through/as a spinoff of girlfriends. Well dayum, I didnt realize it would be so quick. Usually when they say "spinoff" one of the main characters of an old show will spinoff into a new show. Well last night, they used my "Girlfriends" and tossed them aside like last weeks garbage. The first minute of the show they had Joan with her "cousin". Then that was it. It totally went into the pilot of the new show with all new characters. As Mya would say "Oh Helz no".
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moodring100
Comment: GOOD MORNING!!!!!!!!!Sigma>>PRISON BREAKKKKKKKKK
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lovinlife
Comment: Morning Everybody, I have to earn my paycheck today so I'll check back later. *moonwalking out of room*
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arkansasgirl
Comment: I was reading another article about the Duke players that's different than what IJA posted. I'm confused on this last couple of paragraphs. Is this the same tape that was recorded that's already been linked or a different one. Plus if it was recorded 3 weeks after the %*$ault, what's the point? Here's the paragraph:"There ain't no way she was raped — ain't no way, no way that happened," the guard purportedly tells a private investigator in the recording, ABC News reported. The guard had called 911, after which police found the alleged victim at a grocery store parking lot, where the guard was working.
The tape was recorded April 3, three weeks after the alleged sexual %*$ault, ABC News reported. On the tape, the guard says she called 911 after a driver of a car entered the grocery store and said that a woman — the alleged victim — refused to get out of her car.
The guard said the driver said she picked up the alleged victim, whom she had never met, after hearing people yell racial slurs at her as she was walking down the street, ABC News reported.
The guard further says on the tape that she smelled alcohol on the driver , but not the alleged victim, and that the alleged victim was unable to talk, ABC News said.
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Good morning all! yunvme> I was left scratching my head last night too - wondering what happened to Girlfriends. I didn't even know their fate was up in the air! Pretty soon there'll be NOTHING left but reality shows.
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RyTay27
Comment: Hey, Hey Everyone!!!!!
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lovinlife
Comment: *moonwalking back into the room* Ah heyell who am I kidding. That Duke case reeks of a coverup, the email that one of the players sent tells the freakin story. But of course because she's black, a single parent and a stripper she deserved it. The injustice and racial prejudice in this country makes me wanna holler.
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: honeychile > **waving**I didn't receive any email or invite from you this weekend. Here's my yahoo address again - melissads33065@yahoo.com
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star
Comment: I wanted to see Girlfriends too. I wasn't feeling this new show.
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bigchassie
Comment: well....i see my babies are finally comming in. we was wondering where yall were. ZYDECO/IJA/RAYTY/STAR/LOVINLIFE/YUNVE/MOODRING> where yall were? yall overslept or sumpthin? *sipping on more coffee sip-sip and looking at them suscipiously*
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honeychile
Comment: Morning all! Zydeco, hmmmm, I swore I sent it. Dang. I'll see what's what later on then.
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RyTay27
Comment: >>Hey Chassie, had a late start time at work this morning. Which I hate because my incompetent co-workers have errrythang messed up by the time I get here? Let me just start out by saying improper english is my BIG pet peeve. My one co-worker decided that an n with a circle around it equals needs the same way the @ means at??!!??!! She has been employed 19 yrs. Who in the hell has ever heard of such nonsense and she explained it to me like don't you get it. I had to tell her to erase that ish immediately!!!!!
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bigchassie
Comment: HEY YALL...just found out that the guy that Proof shot just died.
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TommyStrong
Comment: Good morning everybody...Have a Blessed Day!....Nappy_Edges get at me tonyt06@hotmail.com
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: **waving at Bigchassie**Hi sweetie!! I been right herr (in my Madea voice)- lotsa drama in the office this week. My immediate supervisor, the controller, gave her 2 weeks notice yesterday, & the CFO is pizzed to say the least. But hey, ya gotta do what cha gotta do. She's going back into the oilfield industry this time in a CFO capacity & getting way more money & won't have to work the 10-14 hour days she's been putting in here.
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lovinlife
Comment: Hey momma chassie!
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honeychile
Comment: Chassie, you never added me as your friend on messenger. Wud up wit dat? **crossing arms, lip poking out**
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Morning all.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Good Morning ya'll. Something happened this morning that made me feel pretty uncomfortable. I deal alot with the finance department and most of those folks are older yt males. Today one of our controllers came in for a meeting. I've met him once or twice before. Anyway before the meeting we were going through our introductions and I said to the guy,"if memory serves me right your name is ________"? And he was like, "yes but you can call me Uncle _______." Then he kinda smiled and winked. WTF is that?!!!! It made me feel very uncomfortable.
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lovinlife
Comment: bigheadbull2, good morning Diva! I've got a hair question for you. The summertime is coming and here in Texas that means it's blazing hot. I'm working out and sweating alot. What would you recommend as far as washing my hair? I know that we can't wash everyday but I feel like it. I've been thinking of getting my hair braided but they always want to charge me so much. I know it sounds like cyber-shyt-talking but I have very long hair for a black woman, past my shoulders. It's a pain in the arse drying all of it and a lot of times I'll wash it and put it back. I don't want to strip the oils out of it but I need to do something with the sweating.
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SYRPIPC
Comment: Good morning Everyone. Does anyone watch Girlfriends? Have I missed some episodes??? What was up with the storyline last night???
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Hey yall... Pray for me because I am sick as a dog today. I didn't sleep much last night, either. As a result--I am tired, cranky, and my stomach is bubblin' like lava. HONEY, TRINI, and a couple of other hussies--- I sent yall an 'add' request on Yahoo, but it is still in a pending status. Skankita (IJA) is the only one who added me. I also checked in last night, but nobody was on. What is up with that?!?! Oh, MOISE>> where have you been? I hope the new job is going well!!!
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lovinlife
Comment: Trini2dbone, I know it sounds like I'm the typical hysterical female but you need to tell either his boss or even better HR. You shouldn't have to deal with that crap.
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lovinlife
Comment: Get better Lawd. If you have a queasy stomach go get this medicine called Emetrol. That stuff is a miracle worker on belly problems.
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yunvme
Comment: Trini- to understand I need to know whats in the _____ blank. Is it Uncle Tom, is it Uncle dikk. What made you feel uncomfortable?
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Trini-- was his first name something like Tom or Sam? I am all for saying something in the moment. You should have asked him 'What do you mean by that?"
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Thanks Lovinlife. I may have to try that medicine. I cooked some spaghetti last night, and used some hamburger meat that was 'on special'. I don't know if that is the problem or it could be the trough of candy I ate out of my Easter basket. Either way I just want to crawl up into a ball and lay down up under my desk.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< Clearly you were sexually harassed. Whether you report it or not all depends on how you feel. I could only imagine some guy doing that to me, I probably would have peed on myself laughing.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< I was gonna say something nice to you since you been in the bathroom all morning but since you want to start calling names and whatnot, have you ever thought that maybe people haven't added you because they don't want to talk to you? *shrugs shoulders* It's just a thought.
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yunvme
Comment: be nice ladies.......
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shala
Comment: Good morning all...Prison Break was really good last night. I feel bad about going back to work today. It felt oh so good to be off yesterday!
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trini2dbone
Comment: yunvme, the blank is his name. His name is Darrell, but he was like I could call him Uncle Darrell. Then he winked. I didn't like that. Lawd at that moment I didn't think to call him out about it. All that winkin in shat wasn't necessary
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< do I have a cocked eye? It looks like it in the picture you took.
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yunvme
Comment: Was he out of line? Perhaps. I wouldnt read much into it, unless it continues. Chalk it up to him thinking your a sexy sista. Now if he starts licking his lips, and crabbin his crotch when he sees you then you know what chu got ta do. Report him. In this PC society we live in now, a simply thing like flirting is taken out of context. JMO.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Good morning everyone! TRINI, that's one of those situations where you should have diffused it immediately right there if it made you uncomfortable. But, in the defense of creepy white guys worldwide, white men seem to inappropriately use winking a lot. They use it to mean "just kidding" whereas other folks use it as an affirmation or for flirting. Not that I've "wunk" at anybody since the 80's. I don't think he meant it in a racially intimidating way. Or maybe he's a pedophile and thought you were 14 and was trying to hit on you. Did he offer you candy? (LOL)
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trini2dbone
Comment: I told my supervisor. So he'll take it from there.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Oh, now I remember...I used to "wink" to signal that I was telling a lie. Or wink at guys. But white people use it as a sign of "just kidding" or "it's all in jest." Believe me, I'm the queen of inappropriate actions from dudes in the office. I've got to run, I'll catch up later.
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Jacque
Comment: Man Allegedly Shot by Rapper Proof Dies, By Associated Press, 21 minutes ago.
DETROIT - A man who police say was shot by rapper Proof, just before Proof himself was killed, died of his wounds early Tuesday, a hospital spokeswoman said.
Keith Bender had been in critical condition since being shot in the head a week ago at the CCC, a nightclub on Eight Mile Road, the boundary between Detroit and the northern suburbs.
Bender, 35, died early Tuesday, said Wende Berry, a spokeswoman for St. John Hospital and Medical Center.
Police have said witnesses told them that Proof, a hip-hop artist and friend of Eminem, shot Bender during a dispute at the after-hours club. Bender's cousin, Mario Etheridge, then shot and killed Proof, whose real name was Deshaun Holton, they said.
Etheridge, 28, has pleaded not guilty to charges of carrying a concealed weapon and discharge of a firearm in a building. His attorney, Randall Upshaw, said the shooting was in self-defense.
Proof, 32, was a member of the rap group D12 and was the best man in Eminem's January wedding. His funeral is scheduled for Wednesday.
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lilmocc
Comment: Good Morning EUR Family!! I was confused by Girlfriends too. I saw Joan with one of them Sister/Sister twins, went to the bathroom, came back and it was a whole different show with just the twin and some dude. No Joan, Mya, Lynn, Toni or William to be found. Dayum, it can't be THAT bad for Girlfriends could it? It started out a little flaky, but the storylines have been getting better as of late. Trini> Your boy was getting his flirt on. Trying to see how far he could test the waters. You should have gave him a look like he was crazy. He would have turned beet red in the face and most likely he wouldn't have approached you like that again.
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA, Your not cock-eyed. I think its just the angle and maybe the way the light was reflecting.
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Priceless
Comment: Mawnin Y'all ... lemme catch up while it's under 100 posts *snicker*
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Name:
OSUN
Comment: ULTIMATE FEMALE JOKE
It has long been contended that there are male
jokes and there are female jokes, and there are unisex
jokes. Here is a joke I consider a true female joke. I
offer it to you in the hopes that women will love it
and men will pass it along to a woman who will love
it.
A woman was sitting at a bar enjoying an after
work cocktail with her girlfriends when an
exceptionally tall, handsome, extremely sexy,
middle-aged man entered. He was so striking that the
woman could not take her eyes off him.
The young-at-heart man noticed her overly
attentive stare and walked directly toward her. (As
all men will.)
Before she could offer her apologies for staring
so rudely, he leaned over and whispered to her, "I'll
do anything, absolutely anything, that you want me to
do, no matter how kinky, for $20.00......on one
condition."
Flabbergasted, the woman asked what the condition
was. The man replied, "You have to tell me what you
want me to do in just three words."
The woman considered his proposition for a moment,
and then slowly removed a $20 bill from her purse,
which she pressed into the man's hand along with her
address. She looked deeply into his eyes, and slowly
and meaningfully said....
"Clean my house."
(YOU GO, GIRL!)
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trini2dbone
Comment: Nappy, I think I would have taken it differently if he were an attractive older yt dude. but he wasn't. he was kinda craggy lookin.
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Priceless
Comment: re: Girlfriends spinoff ... I didn't realize that it was going to be a spinoff, but was sitting there watching the new show thinking where is the rest of the cast ... LOL! I actually liked the spinoff
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Priceless
Comment: trini, long as that pankie don't ask you to call him daddy, massa or sir don't bust a cap in dat azz .... but ask him if Uncle Tom will do *smirk* or Uncle Cracker *snicker*
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Priceless
Comment: LawdHvMrcy, hope you feel better, but if you need to call earl please hurl towards IJA *snicker*
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asize12
Comment: Good mo'ning Kings & Queens! Hope err'body is having a great day so far.
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Priceless
Comment: trini, IJA is a cock eyed as the day is long ... LOL!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: To all my Girlfriends fans, what the HEYELL is going on? Yeah, I knew it was a spin off too, but DAG, so quick??? And WHY does a black show always have to have a main white character? I really wasn't feeling it, although I'm glad to see Wendy Raquel working (Piggy from Steve Harvey). Okay, tell me something, isn't that tall dark skinned guy Lynn's 1/2 brother? I missed the 1st 15 min. last night, did they introduce him as her brother? I haven't seen it in a few weeks, but the last time that I saw it, everybody was treating everybody funny. Can someone fill me in?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< I knew you'd come in to comment on my jacked up eye. Trini<you do look 14.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA and Trini I look forward to seeing those pics but I am not telecommuting today so it will have to wait unitl tonight ... I'm sure I will have plenty to say at that time *snicker*
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< my computer must have a caught a virus while I was posting pictures of you on hotghettomess.com. It is acting so ghetto, I'm hoping it's just my keyboard and mouse but I don't know. I'm going today to get a new set. Asize12< I hate that black shows have to have a main white character too. pssh whites don't have to do it. I guess that's just their attempt to get a few white people to watch their shoes. There's about to be no black shows on TV, there are only 6 at this point and out of 6 I watch 2, sometimes 3 because, although I'm embarassed to admit it, Marcus Houston turns me on so sometimes I manage to catch his show Cuts.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Priceless, you didn't get the pics? I emailed them last night. IJA< so what if I look 14. You look 36! LMAO
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Name:
Jacque
Comment: TIME FOR FLAV. APPARENTLY 'LOVE'S' UNLIKELY APPEAL BAFFLES EVERYONE, By DON KAPLAN. April 18, 2006 -- JUST like you, VH1 can't explain exactly how rapper Flavor Flav has become the king of cable TV - overnight.
"It continues to be a mystery for me," says Michael Hirshorn, the former magazine editor-turned-VH1 programming impresario. And this is coming from the guy who gave the green-light to "Flavor of Love," VH1's over-the-top "Bachelor"-type dating show, starring Flav, the funky clock 'n' hat-wearing sidekick from the 1990s hip-hop group, Public Enemy. "Love" is the third VH1 reality show for Flav, who's appeared on the cable channel's "Surreal Life" and its spin-off, "Strange Love," which chronicled his relationship with '80s action star Brigitte Nielsen - they became a couple of sorts on the first show.
Unlike Flav's first two series, "Love" has catapulted him to the top of the cable heap - much the same way that "The Osbournes" reinvented Ozzy Osbourne in 2002. To the surprise of just about everyone, the first-season finale of "Love" drew a staggering 6 million viewers last month, crushing the premiere of HBO's heavily promoted new drama, "Big Love," and becoming the most-watched program in VH1's history.
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Jacque
Comment: A second season of "Love" is slated to begin filming next month and could be on the air as soon as this summer.
Like an art-house movie, the success of "Love" appears to have been sparked by word-of-mouth - especially through clips from the show that appeared (not accidentally) on the Internet, says Hirshorn.
Unlike NBC, which last month tried to stop viewers trading video clips from "Saturday Night Live" on the Web, VH1 executives encouraged it.
A catfight that took place toward the end of the series - the so-called "Pumpkin incident" - was the first thing that drew a great deal of attention online. Hirshorn estimates that more than 1 million people used the Web to watch the spectacularly emotional elimination ceremony in which one of the girls - "Pumpkin" - got so angry at being thrown off, she spit in a rival's face.
That attention quickly morphed into a huge audience, which was further fueled by more clips from the show, made available on VH1's Web site. The clips were soon copied and traded among "get-a-load-of-this" fans.
"I'd say that most people found the show about four-fifths of the way through," he says.
Hirshorn says he was able to track the show's meteoric popularity by monitoring Web sites on which "Flavor" was a topic of discussion.
"I see it as free market research," he says. "You get a direct, unadulterated look at what people are saying about you in real time."
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *wipping vomit from IJA's lace-front wig* Girl, I am sorry-- Price made me do it! YGM, IJA {Trini} If your manager doesn't do anything about it, let me know. I agree with Nappy that it should have been addressed in the moment, but I can imagine that you were shocked. Next time you need to kick Darrell in the franks and beans when he winks at you.
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asize12
Comment: *Lawd* I hope you feel better sweetie! **walking away fast so that I don't catch it!**
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: CTFU@trini ... we just can't leave IJA alone ... if you sent the pics last night I wouldn't have seen them since I shut down my computer around 5 .... I will check them out tonight ... thanks for sending them
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yunvme
Comment: Trini- were you uncomfortable because you were in a work setting? If he were the produce guy at your local supermarket would you have been just as offended? I'm trying to understand. Well, actually I do understand where you are coming from, but there is just a part of me that thinks a big deal shouldnt be made out of it. Maybe its because I'm from Mars. LoL.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: I think I just had to get a black man in trouble. Part of my job is to contact experts and to get information for Congress and the White house and this fool wasn’t answering so I had to call his manager. I hate that. Trini< 36? You could have said 32. That’s more to my liking. I just caught what you said about how you would have taken it differently from Uncle Pervert if he would have been handsome. That is so true. When I’m out, if a guy says “What’s up with you, beautiful” If he’s cute, I get all excited but if he’s ugly, I feel he’s being disrespectful. Price< the point of my ghetto computer story is that I’ll send pictures out when my computer gets some class. Oh yeah and boomquesha is like so back today... unless my work computer is ackin up too.
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TommyStrong
Comment: MOST TIMES WHEN NEW SHOWS COME ON THE NETWORK WILL USE ONE SHOW TO INTRODUCE ANOTHER. NOT ALL SPINOFFS DIRECTLY INVOLVE ANY OF THE MAIN CHARACTERS. Excerpt I found regarding Girlfriends:
This episode serves as the Pilot for the Girlfriends spin-Off, "The Game," which is under consideration for The CW's fall schedule.
When Joan tries to convince her cousin Melanie to attend a top medical school instead of following her boyfriend, professional football-player Derwin, to San Diego, her advice falls on deaf ears, but Melanie finds it difficult to adjust to being the "girlfriend" of a football player and everything that is expected of her.
Meanwhile, Kelly, wife of San Diego Sabers' receiver Jason, tries to persuade Melanie to become involved in the football team's charity organization. Later, Tasha, the mother and manager of the star quarterback Malik, gets Kelly to confess how her husband's frugal behavior is making her life miserable.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< or maybe it's because you think it's ok for a man to rape a woman just b/c she rubbed her %*$ up against his crotch in a crowd of people. Priceless and Trini< you sluts need to stop being mean to me. haters
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Harriet
Comment: So Girlfriends may be gone while Flava Flav is taping a second season in which desperate women fight over him, white women spit on Black Women and Black Women show the cracks of their natural azz? For shame.
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yunvme
Comment: oh lawd
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Harriet
Comment: trini- He ain't got no business asking you to reference him by any name other than his own and he ain't got no business referencing you by any other name. If he wants you to call him uncle then it is not a stretch for you to look up one day and find your self referenced as "girl" and "missy" and "auntie." Check that cracker right now and let him know that he ain't your uncle and that you won't call him such.
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trini2dbone
Comment: yunvme, all the senarios you listed it would have been inappropriate. The produce guy is at work, this guy is at work. I'm not making a big deal out of it, but I'm saying it did make me feel uncomfortable.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< you know I ain't never lettin that go lol.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Trini, that's straight up harassment, like Harriet said he has no right to ask to reference him by any other name. I wish when I had a female boss, she told me to call her momma, or auntie, something else. A brother would get paid behind that shat! And why ya'll keep picking on IJA?
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trini2dbone
Comment: I'm sorry for being mean IJA. Let me give you a hug. *snatches off wig and throws it to Priceless*
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ImJustAsking
Comment: MWM< If you haven't noticed Priceless and Trini are jealous of my wigs and wit. lol *snatches wig out of Priceless's manly hands and smacks Trini while running to the bathroom to put it back on*
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Jacque
Comment: News Items From Panachereport: 1. Rapper Ludacris has slammed Oprah for initially refusing to have him on her talk show and then lecturing him about his rap lyrics. The rapper was taken aback when Winfrey took him to task about the use of the words b**ches and h*'s when Ludacris appeared on her show to promote "Crash." Ludacris says, Oprah edited out a lot of my comments while keeping her own in. "Initially, I wasn't even invited on the show." The rapper reveals, Winfrey insisted on further lecturing him on his lyrics once the show was over. After the taping, she pulled me in a room and we had a five-minute conversation. What I got was that by having rappers on her show, she feels like she's empowering them. It was like being at someone's house who doesn't really want you there. The rapper said he would think twice before agreeing to return to the show. He adds, "I don't see why Chris Rock and Dave Chappelle go on Oprah's show but they do comedy, so I guess that's acceptable to Oprah.
2. Actor/comedian Bernie Mac has purchased the film rights to remake the 1974 movie classic “Claudine,” which starred Diahann Carroll and James Earl Jones. Mac’s co-star will be Halle Berry. She will play the updated version of Claudine and Mac will portray the role that James Earl Jones made famous. This is a power move on Mac’s part, to co-star with one of the most desirable women in the world who happens to be an A-list actress, purchase the rights to a quality film property. Filming is expected to begin this summer in Chicago. 3. According to Jamie Foxx, Eva Longoria and boyfriend Tony Parker are getting married soon. Foxx says, “I know her boyfriend and soon-to-be-husband.” He added, “We’re good friends. We actually hooked up on a song. “He raps in French. He kills in French. It sounds sexy; I don’t know what he’s saying. “He could just be saying, ‘Order me dinner.’ It’s a trip to hear it.” 4. Rapper Snoop Dogg and ‘Seinfeld’ star Jason Alexander are set to team up for a quirky new horror comedy about a doomed Los Angeles neighborhood. The pair will join Billy Dee Williams, Method Man, Ernie Hudson and Danny Trejo in a new film, “Hood Of Horror.” The movie follows the fortunes of the residents of an inner city neighborhood whose actions in this life will determine their destination in the after life.
5. Wyclef Jean is turning his business interests to business and credits Donald Trump with being his inspiration. Wyclef says, “I can’t get enough of his shrewd business advice and I often consult him. “He rules and he’s real tough when it comes to business. I’m like a sponge right now.”
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yunvme
Comment: I agree with all the ladies comments. It was inappropriate. Especially being at work and all. I'm not trying to be dismissive of his behavior, and you are entitled to your feelings.
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yunvme
Comment: ImJustAsking- I guess you wont be rubbin yo titties up against my back anytime soon. Huh? LoL.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Lovinlife I believe you most of us on this board have hair that long and longer darling. Its all love. If you work out alot then my suggestion without knowing your status(natural, chems) is to buy a clarifying shampoo that can be used daily ( but you don't have to) It is also a good thing to use a leave in conditioner after you shampoo(notice I did not say wash, we do that with our clothes and our cars) LOL. Give me more detail about your hair regime and I will make suggestions based on that info. Do creams weigh your hair down? Do liquid conditioners give you dry scalp do you have any plant allergies? I know its a lot to ask but I want to give you my best recommendation not having analyized your scalp and hair in person. One Love
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< it depends on what you look like. I'm sure you could be trained to think differently.
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Harriet
Comment: Things that make you go "humh.": Did ya'll know that the original title of Dr.MLK's March on Washington speech was not I HAVE A DREAM but AMERICA HAS WRITTEN BLACKS A BAD CHECK? I did not know that and came across it in some reading I was doing the other day. White folks changed it and took a part of the speech and used it to represent the whole. The speech was written hundreds of times and rewritten hundreds more and spanned fifteen minutes. The I HAVE A DREAM part is one to three minutes tops. The rest of the speech regarded economic empowerment hence, the original title. Did you know that Harriet Tubman had two husbands? The first one she left in slavery because he was too scary to run and the second one she met while acting as government spy in the war and was 24 years her junior. I didn't know that either. I knew that she'd suffered head injuries early in life by being hit with a brick by some hateful cracker but I did not know that she developed some sort of disease at which she went to sleep at odd times. Her progress in spite of her disability is amazing.
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yunvme
Comment: ahem.. I dont need to be trained to think "differently". I would hope that you wouldnt like me for my good looks, but rather for my great personality ;-)
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asize12
Comment: >Harriet, thanks for that info, I didn't know those things either! I guess it's true what they say, ya learn something new everyday!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< I already ruled liking you for your personality out due to some of your posts, plus I'm not even sure you're a man. So at this point I'm down to hoping you look good.
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yunvme
Comment: :-(
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yunvme
Comment: I'm gonna make you love me, yes I will, yes I will.
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Harriet
Comment: asize12- You are welcome. I too love to learn and while I was initially happy about Harriet Tubman's younger man, I came to find out that he never worked and was sickly and died shortly after they were married, so that instead of her finally being loved and taken care of she was the one doing the caring and the loving as he lay dying. I wanted her to have some love. She used to go out and gather roots and herbs and things because the segregated Black troops never received equal medical attention and sometimes she would nurse soldiers back to health. Well, she met him as he was nearly dead and she nursed him back to health and he found her once the war was over and married her.
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Harriet
Comment: It is going to be 93 degrees in Arkansas today. I am glad that my hair is short and natural.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< lol
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asize12
Comment: >Harriet - Wow, that's amazing! She was an amazing woman.
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TommyStrong
Comment: Harriet> i do remember reading somewhere that she had 2 husbands and that the first one was to afraid to leave the plantation when she ran. I didnt know the 2nd one was that much younger than her.
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lovinlife
Comment: Trini, I don't think you're overreacting at all. Black women are treated with disrespect in the workplace all the time. They usually try to be more subtle about it thus making it difficult to take action against them. This fool lost his mind and put all out on the table. I say have no mercy on him cause the next time he will say something worse. I repeat what I said earlier YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THAT CRAP!!!! The fools that I work with no that better come to me like they have some sense or I'll handle them in a second.
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lovinlife
Comment: Bighead, didn't mean to sound like I was bragging about having "good" hair. It's just that most people who see me think that I'm wearing a weave. Anywho, I tend to have an itchy scalp, I can't tolerate anything heavy on my hair weighing it down. I go to my stylist at least twice a month but she's not much help in this area.
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lovinlife
Comment: Harriet, that's interesting info, keep it coming. I love to find out "non-book" Black history.
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Harriet
Comment: It is amazing to me how many "bad white children" are on television. I am not talking about SuperNanny where the little spoiled white kids stand up in the middle of the carpeted living room floor and %*$!, or WifeSwap where the teenage white kids have stolen the credit card and cannot be made to clean up their rooms, or the show I saw on Dr. Phil yesterday where the white boy was jumping on his mother and daddy after he's cursed them out and threatening to kill the younger brother. But I was watching Dr. 90210, as the 16year old got new boobs for her birthday and the 40 year old had her vagina reconstructed and "pumped" back up and what did I find?- some nightmarishly bad kids. The doctor was over in Mexico providing much needed surgeries on Mexicans born with deformities. His wife was back home starving herself to death and now weighs 88 lbs. She said that the stress of children (a 4year old and a 2year old) was more than she could take and so she can't eat. Now, she doesn't work. All she does is stay home with the kids while the maids do the housework and her mother in law does the cooking because she is too stressed. The little four year old screamed at her mother and her grandmother and then jumped up from the table and kicked her grandmother in the face before pulling %*$! down off the kitchen counter and then bolting upstairs while the mammy and the mother in law sit there looking crazy. It is amazing to me that the white woman can have so many privelages in life and still not "cope" and it tickles the shyt out of me that they claim to be unable to do ANYTHING with thier bad azz children- and they are bad. Ain't no way in the hell a four year old is going to scream at me and then kick me and then make a mess for me to clean up and then storm out! WTF?! But it shoul (country for sure) is funny to watch.
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Priceless
Comment: IJA, it looks like you put the wig on backwards .. you betta run back in the ladies room and adjust it *smirk*
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lovinlife
Comment: yunvme, I don't want to get into a man vs. woman war with you BUT.. if that comment had been made to you, would you think it wasn't that big of a deal? The exact same scenario that Trini experienced a yt man says to you call me Uncle ___, with or without the wink. I find it hard to believe that a black man would take to kindly to that. For a black woman the comment is undoubtedly sexual and possibly a master/slave type thing. Sistas have to deal with this shyt all the time.
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Harriet
Comment: Tommy- The first one got left behind when she bounced because he was too scary. Harriet Tubman carried a pistol for those weak-kneed slaves who may change thier minds en-route. IT was "keep stepping or die right here" because she could not risk having a slave go back and run his mouth or get caught. After transporting her family she went back to get him (her first husband) but he already had another woman. She loved her first husband but I don't think he loved her.
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yunvme
Comment: hmmm. How do I explain this. See I agree that she has a right to feel the ways she does. I do understand that because this was a "workplace" it complicates things, thus making it totally unacceptable. However, I just wanted to offer up- as food for thought, that perhaps it was just harmless flirting. He thinks a sister looks good. No more, no less than that. Wrong time wrong place- for sure.
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Harriet
Comment: yunvme- There is no such thing as "harmless flirting" in the workplace.
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RyTay27
Comment: I can't believe you all didn't have one comment about that igggnant ish my co-worker did. ;) Maybe it's not so unusual.!!!?!
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yunvme
Comment: Harriet- catch up with the post. LoL. There IS a such thing as "harmless flirting" in the office. The person just has to be attractive.
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bigchassie
Comment: HONEYCHILE> give me your email address and i will invite you. i didn't mean to overlook you sweetiepookie *battin eyes*
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ImJustAsking
Comment: rytay< you're talking about using n with a circle to mean need? I saw that but I figured it may have been your time of the month. yunvme< Have you registered as a sex offender yet? If not, I'm gonna need your info so I can turn you cause I KNOW you got a record.
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lovinlife
Comment: Yunvme, the point is he doesn't have the right to express to her if he thinks she looks good or not. The workplace strictly prohibits that type of stuff. He felt entitled to express what he wanted to her and quite frankly he did not. If someone makes an uninvited inappropriate comment the problem is theirs not hers because she didn't feel flattered she felt uncomfortable. He had no right to make her feel that way. His lack of self control and possibly company violations should have his azz in trouble. Women hear inappropriate shyt all the time (I work in a maintenance environment)and people are getting walked out left and right for doing it.
My last point is why should a black woman feel flattered that a yt man thinks she looks good? What the heyell is that all about. I personally find that shyt insulting.
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Priceless
Comment: Harriet, I hate that trick (Dr. Reyes wife) I can't understand why she is always so tired when she does nothing ... maybe she's tired cuz she is nutrient deprived from starving herself ... I know one thing I would eat me a big ol piece of chicken to give me the protein power I needed to hang my foot up that kids' azz ... when people totally rule out corporal punishment and taking away privileges a child will run a muck
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yunvme
Comment: nope
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honeychile
Comment: RyTay> Sorry, I meant to comment and say how the heck they just gone make up their own symbols and think you're supposed to know like it's an every day English language thing, but I kinda forgot. Sorry.
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lovinlife
Comment: LOL @ IJA, you are too much.
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yunvme
Comment: OMG. Females can be so hard headed sometimes. For the umpteenth time. I know it was unacceptable. I understand and sympathize with the offended party.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: lovinlife< you and your easily offended azz be cursing people out for all types of sh!t anyway. So I know nobody better wink at you including your husband or he's gonna get what's NOT coming to him. LOL
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RyTay27
Comment: >>>BHB2, do you recommend Nexxus products for AA hair? My youngest has a decent texture of hair, but kind of thin so I try to use moisturizing products on her hair to keep it from breaking. What do you recommend, also what is best to use on thinning edges?
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honeychile
Comment: Chassie> Ok, for the 4th time, LOL, my email address is cutiepime@yahoo.com LAWDHV> I never received an invite from you.
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lovinlife
Comment: IJA, dayum skippy. These mofos don't respect you anyway so you have to force their azzes with consequences. Oh by the way fcuk you clowning me about my husband, stank little beyotch!
*pokes IJA in both of her eyes and catches her in the throat with a quick right* Now I'm off to report you for harassment to the EUR HR people.
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Priceless
Comment: I may be in the minority but I am a natural flirt and rarely get offended by men flirting even in the workplace and even if he is a pank *shrugging shoulders*
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RyTay27
Comment: >>>>IJA,,;). The woman was SERIOUS!!! She needs a crash course in multi-tasking, she is here today and doesn't have the common sense to ask one caller to please hold while she puts another on hold. She wants me to put in work for both of us I am thisclose to going off on her!!!!!!! Somebody pray for me!!!
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letmein
Comment: Harriet>I watched that trash on Dr. Phil last night, too. I was like WTF?!?! In a couple of those cases, Dr. Phil had the nerve to defend the child!!! Talking about they were acting like that because of the parents' behavior. Whatthefcukever!!! I don't give a damn what your parents' do, you have to respect them!!! Or, get socked in your damn eye!
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Priceless
Comment: IJA, you get yo arse whupped hourly up in dis piece don't you *snatching off Superhead wig and running*
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Lovin life I didn't take it that way either. I was just lettin you know you are in good company honey. By the way long hair or wavy hair does not equal good hair. When my hair is not pressed it is so wavy you will get sea sick. All I heard growing up is you have good hair. The truth of the matter is good hair is healty hair nothing more Diva. So it all good and all in the name of love.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Price< you're not in the minority, that's why I said earlier I probably would have cracked up laughing. The sight of some older non-attractive white man thinking he could actually get with me is so funny. The only time I would have really worried about it is if he was a supervisor or someone who held my future in their hands. If I reported every white man that stared and slyly smiled at me when I saunter through this building with my f*ck-me pumps on, I would be tied up in civil rights hearings everday.
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lovinlife
Comment: Price, the flirting to me wasn't the issue it was that "uncle" shyt. What the heyell was that all about. This company that I'm in now is real bad with ethical stuff and is always in the news. When I was in the military I had a senior enlisted dude whisper in my ear that he wanted to eat my sunshine. I guess after awhile that crap gets old. *shrugging shoulders*
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless and lovinlife< you two stank azz smirking, snickering b!tches need to keep your hands to yourself. And yes, I'm looking at both of you with my good eye and my cocked one. Thanks.
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lovinlife
Comment: IJA, you stoopid, not the fcuk me pumps.
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yunvme
Comment: "eat my sunshine" lawd I dun heard it all now. What if it is "partly cloudy"
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lovinlife
Comment: Yunvme, alright player...my sunshine is neva eva cloudy. He could see that through my fatigues. *sashaying my moneymaker past yunvme daring him to say something*
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: IJA, you got me wrong, I'm a sweet, kind, good natured woman. *blows out IJA's kneecap and then grabs her wig and tosses it to Price*
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Name:
yunvme
Comment: you can sashay all you want, just dont go rubbin those titties up against me. LoL.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Ryty. Nex is very good but just as good (hold on to your hat)is suave salon series. Doo gro with the blue label is great for thinning edges but diet is the best thing. I'll get more into it later if you want but right now the produce manager demanded that I make an appearance and he is 6"4 how can I refuse. See yall later
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yunvme
Comment: Speaking of sunshine, its a beautiful day outside, time to go eat.
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: bigheadbull2, I agree about the good hair. I would never say I had good hair, it just happens to be long. Whenever a chick feels bold enough to ask me where I got it done, I say are you crazy do you think I'd pay somebody for this. She usually looks stupid. Come on now who would pay somebody just to put some dayum hair on their head with no style.
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Priceless
Comment: lovinlife, I like having my sunshine eaten *snicker*
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Price, well to tell the truth when I told my foine azz supervisor about it he got mad and handled it. Then well.....
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, brush that crazy azz wig away from the cocked eye and look at me and hear me well heffa ... you were not sauntering in those heels you were teddering and wobbling .... LOL!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< I mean, do we need to know that. Ugh lovinlife< I can only imagine how much screeching you do at home chile. LMAO
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Priceless then I'm in the minority too. As long as they don't get crazy with it.
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Name:
Tenacious
Comment: Good afternoon everybody! > HARRIET..what is the name/author of the book that had this info on MLK and Harriet Tubman it sounds very good and informative. Also, the condition H. Tubman had sounds like what today is called narcolepsy. I know someone who has it and it is no joke...you can be in the middle of a conversation and they go to sleep. Medication is helpful but the condition can be challenging in your day to day life. Therefore, considering all that and all she accomplished she was a BAD woman. Moreover, that is why I give thanks and count my blessings DAILY because life can hit YOU with some things (illness, disability, etc.) that looks, education, accomplishments, connections, relationships (you name it)...can't do a dang thing about nor help you through. And, when folks say "I GOT THIS"...I think just keep livin', just keep livin'...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Price< That’s right. I was teetering and wobbling between sexy and delicious. *takes shoe off and pops Price in the mouth with it* Now shut up ho.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Hummm, eating sunshine, and fcuk me pumps, I think I'm about to have a joygasim! CTFU.........
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: bighead, we are also in the company of the cock eyed one so I guess there is more tolerance in the workplace than we think
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, y'all may not need to know but we didn't need to hear about no man falling in your coochie face first either but you shared that lil ditty any way *smirk*
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lovinlife
Comment: IJA, WHAT THE HEYELL YOU MEAN I BE SCREECHING AND HOLLERING AT HOME??!!! LOL I'm a demure, accomodating wife at home. Just because he sleeps in his own quarters don't mean he ain't a happy and satisfied man. Gurl, I take care of his needs so he leave me the heyell alone. He gets his and now he gets the added bonus of quietness (wink at MWM).
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, I see you having a knuckle sammich for lunch you hit me with cheap Payless pumps again *mean mugging*
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: midwestman, these hags always take it there *shaking head*
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Name:
Debonair
Comment: Good afternoon, everyone.In reference to Trini's situation,this is the reason why all of those interacial movies like something new should be kicked to the curb-It's got these yt boys thinking they can say whatever they want and not feel it afterwards.Which is why i sh!t on Europeans and knock them on their azzes every chance i get.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Lovinlife< stop lying, please. Priceless< he didn't fall into my cootchie, he dived. And you know dayum well I would never buy anything more than a flip flop and a heel grip from Payless. Stop shaking your fist in front of me like Fred Sanford. lmao
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Name:
beboyz
Comment: I heard a rumor that Girlfriends is canceled (Please say it aint so) It was the twilight zone watching the spinoff last night. It was good (the spinoff)but not as much fun as a girlfriends episode
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TommyStrong
Comment: I know i'm taking a risk here but I will play devils advocate and pose a question. Does anyone think that we may be just a tad bit overly sensitive to what some deem as "harmless flirting"? I for one have been called in a meeting w/HR in the past for the same thing. It was a while ago but it was a mind opener. It was all very innocent and mutual. She got mad at me about something irrelevant and decided to take it there. It was all very harmless. Now...I never stopped being me...my exgirlfriend called me a "natural flirt" which to her meant that most of the time I didnt even realize I was flirting (which can definately get u in trouble - trust me)...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Tommy< obviously in your case it wasn't harmless. Even though it was mutal, the fact that you flirted with her gave her ammunition when she was pi$$ed off with you about something else. That's why you gotta play it safe with the ladies at work. PS natural flirt don't mean you don't know you're flirting, it means you do it and you enjoy it and you don't wanna stop. How you not gonna know you flirting?
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beboyz
Comment: When I worked at a Law Firm there was only one Brother who was a manager and they fired him for sexual harrassment. His personality was just naturally flirtatious but those Pank women kept reporting him saying he made unwelcome advances they wrote him up 3 times and the third time they let his black azz go.
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bigchassie
Comment: allayall are a mess! CTFUPP!!
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Harriet
Comment: Tenacious- It is a big coffee table book which celebrates the ACHIEVEMENTS OF BLACK AMERICANS. I forgot the author but I know that that is the title. It also told me about Jesse Owens who was a bit of a sell-out. It was him who was sent to beg the brothers who raised the fist at the Olympics to publicly apologize. They promptly refused. It was him who went to Berlin during the Olypics and befriended a German athlete and Germans and their psycho leader Adolph Hitler HATED unpure Black people. It was Jesse Owens who wrote a book denouncing the riots and begging Negroes to get back in thier place and not fight back or strike out at the good white folks. He caught such a backlash for writing the book that he wrote another one and apologized and begged the forgiveness of his people. Jesse was kind of pitiful because although he was the fastest man alive he wasn't very bright at all and never graduated from Ohio State which is where he went to school. He was given an honorary degree years later.
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RyTay27
Comment: >>>BHB2, thanx for the info. My oldest daughter just couldn't leave the scarf alone after I had tied it properly. So with her pushing it up and whatnot she has fucced up her edges big time. I was using Dr. Miracle and it seems to be working pretty well, but I would like to know what else is out there.
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Sharmona
Comment: Hello all, have been in meetings all day. I hope all is well and I will try and come back later on.
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RyTay27
Comment: >>BHB2, I don't know how true it is but I've heard it's good to switch up with products so your hair doesn't get used to it and also to avoid build-up.?.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Priceless, and they say I'm a perv! *wink*
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: **note to self**Refrain from telling the college intern to "come to mommy" CTFUPP!!
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Harriet
Comment: TommyStrong- What you deem harmless and what is harmless to another may not equate. Why is it that men don't understand that whether or not it is harmless is not the point? The law has said it is inappropriate in the workplace. What do I look like asking a man after testicular surgery if he only has one ball, or how big his penis is, or cracking some nasty joke or saying anything out of order to a co-worker? Just go to work and do your job and don't say anything to me outside of work. Your co-workers are just that- they are not your friends, your buddies nor your confidants so they ain't got no business cracking jokes, and winking at you and harmlessly flirting and winking and begging to be called uncle any dayumned way.
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Harriet
Comment: I was talking to a friend of mine, a gay male, the other day about Mandissa and American Idol. We both agreed that she had a phenomenal voice and were trying to figure out what turned her away from America's favor other than Black people not voting, which is a factor. I watch AI every week and have never voted. My nephew votes and I sometimes ask him to vote for me but I am not paying 3.99 per call/vote and am making a call a once a week and that comes out to about 15dollars a month additional on my phone bill. Call me cheap but I am not going to do that. But anyway, he brought up her weight and I brought up Ruben Studdard, who was also overweight but won. If a fat Black Man can be an idol why can't a fat Black Woman? He said that Ruben only won because America hates a sissy more than they do a nigra and did not want Clay Aiken to win, thus, Ruben's victory. What ya'll think?
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey ya'll back from lunch. Dayum ya'll still talking about this huh?
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Priceless
Comment: according to pankie Clay Aiken is not gay so there goes your cousins theory *smirk*
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MidwestMan1
Comment: trini, you gone drop a bomb like that on the board tip toe off to lunch, you ain't right!
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Priceless
Comment: trini, you see the shat you started this morning? ... LOL! don't brang no drama in dis b!tch tomorrow, m'kay?
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beboyz
Comment: Bet.com
Posted April 10, 2006 – Is “Girlfriends,” the No. 3 show airing in Black households, on the brink of cancellation? Some are speculating the hit sitcom may get squeezed out when the new CW (the marriage of UPN and the WB) launches this fall. A planned “Girlfriends” spin-off might be a telltale sign.
CW reps remain mum on the fate of all of UPN’s shows until the fall schedule is announced May 18, but say viewers shouldn’t think too hastily.
“The spin-off doesn’t necessarily mean that “Girlfriends” is cancelled,” says Paul McGuire, a CW spokesman. “Short of that, I don’t have anything I can say.”
The UPN-WB merger wasn’t necessarily welcome news to Black TV audiences in January 2006. After all, UPN broadcasts the largest number of African American-centered sitcoms on network television. On BET.com boards, users quickly raised a good question: Will all the good Black shows be cancelled?
BET.com user TouchALady says, “Are they really gonna cancel all these shows? What the hell will be left? Guess its back to Nick at Night reruns of ‘Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.’”
With the relative lack of Black sitcoms on the other major networks, the fear is real and news of a “Girlfriends” spin-off is not calming anyone’s nerves. Viewers can get an idea of the new show, called “The Game,” on an April 17 episode of “Girlfriends,” in which Joan (Tracie Ellis Ross) tries convincing her cousin, Melanie, to attend a top medical school instead of following her professional football player boyfriend to San Diego.
What’s certain is that if CW pulls the plug on UPN’s shows, including “One On One” and “All of Us,” it will most definitely change the face of Black network television. Entertainment Weekly magazine even questioned the future landscape of Black TV in an article titled, “Is the Black Sitcom Dying?” (April 7, 2006). Its staff surmised that “Everybody Hates Chris” and “Girlfriends” have the greatest chance of survival.
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trini2dbone
Comment: As far as flirting goes, I will admit I've flirted with co-workers. But they're folks that I'm already friendly with and I there are certain boundaries that you don't cross in the workplace. I think I felt uncomfortable with the mans comments because one, I don't know him, and two, he was so much older than me. Plus we're at work
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Harriet
Comment: Priceless- I was talking to a friend of mine- not a relative. And Clay Aiken is as gay as a purple ruffled shirt, but gay or not, it still doesn't explain why it is okay to have a fat black male idol but not a fat black female idol.
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Harriet
Comment: Speaking of gay- I think that Jake Gyllehnal (spelling?) is gay for real. I have seen two photographs of him with other men on the beach and at the park. I also read an article in which he described Brokeback Mountain as a beautiful love story? What? What kind of man describes a movie about two gay cowboys cheating on thier naive wives as a beautiful love story? Beautiful for whom?
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MidwestMan1
Comment: trini, since we don't work at the same place of business, you can call me Uncle Midwest!
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: LOL @ MWM1!!
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Priceless
Comment: Harriet, whateva friend cousin uncle aunt ... I was joking about Clay but you rarely get humor ... you may have answered your own question though ... if you too cheap to vote for a fat heffa maybe other people who believe that is the best person are also cheap as heyell
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TommyStrong
Comment: sorry...I hate it when instead of talkin to u directly people send emails about what you did or didnt do and cc' your boss and your boss' boss! WTF kinda shyt is that! Especially when you've asked them in the past not to do that!! Now...Harriet....my question was does anyone think that sometimes we are a lil too sensitive in situations like that...I am not sure by your examples if you were taking it somewhere I wasn't...I for one am intelligent enough to know when and where to draw the line...I would never do or say anything inappropriate...and you are right these are your co-workers not your friends but since some people spend more time at work than anywhere else I think it would be ok sometimes to consider some of these people friends...hel1 i still stay in touch w/people that I worked w/10 years ago and yes we are still friends....the law does state that certain behaviors are inappropriate but there are also some gray areas...especially if u r friendly w/someone and have established a "relationship" its difficult to call...hence my situation was basically lets talk...laugh about it...now go back to work...men understand whats harmless and whats not...we are not the sexually charged imbeciles that some try to make us out to be...especially black men...we know we can only say so much to Becky before she runs off to Brad's office to complain...all i'm sayin is this...there IS such a thing as harmless flirting...someone may be offended by it...thats on them but it can still be harmless on my part...maybe they need to loosen up and recognize it for what it was
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letmein
Comment: CTFU @ Priceless...
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Harriet
Comment: Priceless- Why are you so foul in tone and attitude? I really do try to ignore you most of the time for like others on here, you fill your life with provocative rhetoric all day on the internet and enjoy engaging people in pretend cyber battles of some sort- and that is your business. But leave me out of it. It isn't that I rarely get humor it's just that your juvenile sense of comedy isn't funny to me. For whatever reason you don't seem to care for me and that is fine for you are anonymous and I don't know nor particularly care for you either. I have already said that I was too cheap to vote and don't need you to reiterate that for me. Since we were conversating I was just bringing up topics for conversations. Forgive me if I am not into spending my time on the silliness that you find humorous such as eating sunshine and payless shoes.
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Harriet
Comment: TommyStrong- Sexually charged imbeciles? How in the world did you gather that from my post? I never said that nor questioned your intellect. I simply said that what is harmless and what isn't varies from individual to individual. Damn! Is every one on thier periods today or something?
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letmein
Comment: Sheesh....
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Priceless
Comment: Harriet, ignore this SUCK MY LEFT TIDDY .... I'm sure you can find a good fight on another board like that Lacrosse board *sucking teeth*
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yunvme
Comment: Tommy- thanks for jumping in. I tend to get myself into trouble with the ladies on this board when it comes to topics like that. In general everything must be so politically correct that things like smacking your kid on the butt in the grocery store can land you in trouble with child protection and a little harmless flirt can land you a sexual harrassment suit. Like I stated earlier, the young lady has every right to be offended. That is her right. But by the same token we must remember that these are the same ladies that will intentionally rub they tits on you in a crowded club to get your attention (smile....duckin out the way)
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trini2dbone
Comment: OH GAWD!!!!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Hey Midwestman, may I call you Daddy MidWest while twirling my hair and sucking my thumb?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< I don't think we need you for the sexual harassment topic anymore we continued without you. Harriet< I'm glad to see you are bestowing your endless charm on someone else besides me today. LMAO
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: TOMMY, BTW, I emailed you at your hotmail address.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< I told you before that you were foul, you didn't believe me.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: yunvme< that's right, a crowded CLUB not a crowded boardroom. Now shut yo azz up. Tommy< Maybe you're right that women shouldn't take it personally, HOWEVER, why take the chance?
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Priceless
Comment: IJA, and if that crazy 308! b!tch is your only proof that I'm foul the jury is still out *smirk*
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Nappy you sure can, and please sit on my lap and heave a little too! Now that's some serious harassment!
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Tommy you keep talking about ex girlfriend are you advertising a job opening my friend? ...giggle,giggle.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Price< LMAO, you right about that. And to think, Harriet says she is a teacher, then we wonder why these kids don't know anything except how to curse people out and play spades.
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Debonair
Comment: WOW...Some one is the usual barrel of laughs today.I think that they only come on board b/c no one in their real life, job and place of worship wants to f*ck with them.So they bring their misguided anger and evilness here.Seek professinal help.If not for yourself, then do it for us!They're like the so-called Gods(retarded)Child....a one track mind that takes it too far.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Nappy< Good to see you honey. Do you know anything about Sebastian Rogers?? He sounds like Sananda to me on this one song. I almost freaked out when I heard it. I'm about to buy a couple songs by Sananda over the weekend that I've had on my Weeds player but never got around to purchasing. I can't wait.
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Priceless
Comment: IJA, heyell teachers are more prone to sleep with their little students, drink and smoke on the job, and all kinds of crazy shat so there is no surprise at how 308! she gets *snicker*
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trini2dbone
Comment: yunveme, i am NOT the same lady that would purposly rub my breasts up against you in a crowded club UNLESS I know you. Don't get it twisted. IJA would rub her tittays up against some willing stranger. LMAO. *Snatches IJA's wig and tosses it to Priceless*
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Priceless
Comment: Debonair, please don't lure godschild up in here with that other 308! *snicker* it's bad enough freemswhite surfaced today
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bigchassie
Comment: Yall....i'm here but i will not be posting today. i'm too sleepy so i will just read the craziness. i'll be on line tonight. HONEYCHILE>I will hit you tonight too.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hola Nappy, whats da deal?
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Oh my goodness!!!!!!
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Priceless
Comment: trini, now why is the jelly all ova this wig now? ... IJA what were you doing at lunchtime today? *smirk*
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yunvme
Comment: Trini- that comment was not about you. Your a lady, I know you wouldnt act in such a manner.
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Harriet
Comment: ImJustAsking- So you feel that you get to question my profession and how good I am at it simply because you disagree with something I may say in a chat room? My charm? There is absolutely something that you find charming about me for I cannot seem to post anything without you commenting. I have said nothing rude or insulting nor disrespectful to you today yet here you are making suggestions that I am not good at what I do. I wasn't talking to nor about you and Priceless is a big girl (I guess) and can cover her own azz. But I have a problem with you questioning my job due to a conversation I was having with someone else. If that is what you call "funny" then you are absolutely right- I don't get it.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Price<I saw something on that very topic the other day. They were saying how SOME of the teachers these days are the bottom of the barrel b/c teaching used to be the profession for all the smartest women, but now the best brightest are doing other things like running companies and whatnot. So now, a lot of teachers are people who didn't know what they wanted to do but need a steady job. Harriet< what was your major? LMAO Trini< I was tryin to be nice by excusing you from the conversation, you seemed tired of it...can I have my wig back?
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Play spades? What did I miss?
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Hey Trini! I've wrapped up the work that I had to do today and I'm getting ready to get my offspring from school in another 1/2 hr. I'm also scanning some pictures of myself from my African dance phase. I'll be putting them on my "Myspace" page.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Das right yunvme, I'm a fockin lady.
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yunvme
Comment: ImJustAsking- LMAO.
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lovinlife
Comment: Okay I'll bite (not you MWM, Yunvme or Debonair - nasty mofos) what's 308 Price?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Harriet< Normally I don't comment on most of the sh!t you say because talking to the insane makes me tired. Actually, you usually have your head so far up my azz I could sh!t on your face but I choose not to because I'm a nice person.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - I've never heard of him. I'm still gonna stick with the authentic Sananda, although I'm not really feeling his latest releases. He tried to justify the suckiness of these songs by saying that he wanted to pare down the music and let the focus be on the vocals. He's going with a theme of "deconstruction." Yeah, well it sounds like he recorded them in a bathroom stall with one take and an out-of-tune guitar. That's okay, he's still my boy.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA I am a teacher and my rank was #1 out of 330 so don't go there Girl. LOL
Now behave.
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lovinlife
Comment: Hey, does anybody have an ipod? I'm thinking about getting one to workout with?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< I just got what you said about the jelly on my wig. LMAO mind your business trick. I got no one to do at work anymore, Tyrone got fired/quit something. yunvme< I kinda take that back...if the boardroom was REALLY crowded I might do something like that just to see if the man would notice. *shrugs shoulders* at least I'm honest. Not like Trini over there pretended to be a non-ho.
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Debonair
Comment: Priceless...you're right and my bad. We DO NOT need the unholy ,crazy trinity in the house of laughs...not today or any other day.It would only confirm my theory that the government has cut social budgets again and the insane asylums in their states have been reduced to releasing them to the wilds periodically before reeling them back in.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Nappy< I don't think he intentionally sounds like him, but yeah nothing like the real thing chile. The songs I'm buying by him are about 2 years old or more I think. I haven't listened to much of his new work b/c I heard the one song, can't think of it, and I didn't like it. Also, there were a couple of songs on Wildcard and Vibrator that disturbed me and I don't like to be critical of him. I know that sounds weird but I have heroworship for him b/c he's the one that made me start singing.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: lovinlife, not even a little nibble?
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: lovinlife - I have one on my PDA. They range in price according to how many songs they can hold. They have 'em at Kmart for about $40.00 but they only hold about 40 songs. There's others that hold thousands of songs. The prices vary greatly.
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letmein
Comment: Man y'all got me cracking the %*$!( up!!!! So, if FreeMsWhite is on another board, does that mean she's NOT Lil' Kim? Dayum, there went my theory!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: bighead< that's why I had to capitalize SOME.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Oh, MWM, as you wish..(straddling yet hovering over MWM, heaving my bosom and nibbling on his silk tie)
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yunvme
Comment: IJA- Honesty is the best policy. I wonder if Uncle Darryl had said, "I find you attractive, and was wondering if perhaps we could go out to dinner sometime".. if that would have been a more honest/better way to handle the situation. Trini- Would you have been equally offended by that approach.
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MidwestMan1
Comment: letmein, like they don't have access to the net in the poke! She must have been on good behavior and got some net time!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - girl, be as critical as you want. I TRaShed some of his songs in the forum on his sanandamaitreya.com website. One of my best buds on the forum and "myspace" (E) was like, "Uh, what's wrong with you!!!! He reads this stuff, ou know.." I ain't skurred of him! His writing is usually on point and his voice is always dynamic, but I don't patronizingly go along with everything he puts forth!
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Debonair
Comment: Lovinlife>OUT TO LUNCH, like the clock's ticking but no one's sending the time card through...not wrapped too tight....sees the world through shattered, fragmented eyes filled with rage and jealousy and a lime bit of lunacy....
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Harriet
Comment: ImJustAsking- Byatch fock you! I have my head up your %*$?? In your dreams whore! I have been on this website all day and have not addressed your simple %*$? in the slightest once because you are just that insignificant to me but don't think for one minute byatch that your silly anonymous azz gets to question what I do because I am a dayumned good focking teacher and if you'd have paid attention in class instead of reading JIVE magazine then just maybe byatch, you'd be able to talk about something other than focking and silliness. Pick up a book whore! Just because I would rather discuss Black History over munching coochie, or fock me pumps, or wigs, or violence you stupid %*$! DOES NOT MEAN that I am any less than is your tired azz! Priceless that goes for your simple stupid azz %*$? well. What do you byatches do for a living? Clean hotel rooms? Since we are talking employment and how good we are at what we do I want to know what ya'll do. Isn't that fair? Or am I being uppity for having the audacity to question you two about how you make your living. Wait a minute. . . Perhaps this is more relateable: "Say Byatch! You got my Money?!"
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asize12
Comment: Wooo, y'all been talkin' up a storm! Lemme see what y'all chicas been talkin' 'bout;-)
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Harriet< at which school do you work? I think some of those parents might want to consider homeschooling. lovinlife< I have an ipod, it makes working out go by quickly since you have such a large selection of music to choose from...not like with a cd player where you may only have a couple cds with you.
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Harriet
Comment: Debonair- What "someone" are you talking about if you don't mind me asking.
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trini2dbone
Comment: IJA< priceless has your wig.
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yunvme
Comment: whoo hooo. yall is a mess today.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: I'll be right back. Rodney King just jumped my fence and is trying to take my gas grill. I'm a go bust his kneecaps and drag him in here so that he can make his plea for y'all to get along...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Nappy< It probably is good that you wrote your real opinion b/c I do know that Sananda (Sananda like I know'em) has a huge ego so it's probably good for him to hear some criticism. I haven't been to his official web site in a while to see what's up. I may have to do that after my computer acquires some hometraining.
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letmein
Comment: That's where my son get's his language!! Shat, I thought it was me, but hell it's the school!! LOL!!!
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trini2dbone
Comment: yunvme, that wouldn't have been so bad if it were after work hours, and i would have kindly turned him down. during a meeting would not have been appropriate. LMAO @ Harriet!!!!!
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Grab's bag of gummy bears, this shat is getting interesting! Anybody want some?
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bigheadbull2
Comment: You are bad IJA where did Priceless go? But thanks.
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TommyStrong
Comment: CTFU....LMAO...ROFL..I'm out...got an offsite meeting from 3:30 to 5 and I'm running late...this is funny...I'm gonna pray for some of ya'll while I'm gone....
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Harriet
Comment: ImJustAsking- What school I work at is none of your focking business.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: IJA - He's got a brigade of serious as$-kissers. I love him to death and I'm all over his website, but I don't pretend like I love everything he does. That's probably why he's ignored my existence and has personally corresponded with everyone else (on myspace and via private messaging on his site). He of course is not into negresses either. That's okay, I don't hold that personally against him because I's got mine. And plus he's gained about 60 pounds. He looks horrible.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Ya'll are a hot mess today. Hey check out this website www.bryanboy.com this dude is HOElarious!!!!
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: letmein- I doubt it. I have taught kindergarten before and they are cursing at five and coming to the school cursing us. Children pick up foul language at home- not from their teachers.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Uncle MWM, pass me some gummy bears!
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Priceless
Comment: lovinlife, crazy aunt in the attic *snicker*
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Debonair
Comment: Harriet>I'm referring to anyone who displays a tendency to overeact,lose their cool and go WAYYY off into the deep end over not much of nothing.Anyone who can turn conversation into conflict with just a few words and anyone who brings it my way without realizing that they'll be outwitted, out classed and out of commision. I hope that helps.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Anyone who has kids attending "none of your focking business" elementary, middle, or high school should consider homeschooling. Nappy< he used to be so skinny! I wonder if he's been eating too many crepes and whatnot. What country does he live in now?
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asize12
Comment: Okay, I'm being lazy...can somebody tell me what y'all fussin' about w/out me having to scroll up?
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Name:
MidwestMan1
Comment: You got it trini!
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bigheadbull2
Comment: LOL@Harriet
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Naw, Harriett, I doubt it...And hell, the kids were probably cussin' 'cause you started it! LOL! Focking must be your word.
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Harriet
Comment: MidwestMan1- Sorry to disappoint but I am not here to put on a show for anyone. I come here to conversate with Black people- not to be insulted or cursed or threatened or run off. I was talking to Mothership the other night and we were talking about this exact same thing. Conversate does not mean agree, or suck azz or frilly up the truth or follow everyone else's views. Mothership and I talked about how people attack others whose views differ in here and how some then personally attack anyone whom the little click doesn't like. There are several people who used to post here on a regular basis and offer valid information that no longer post because of this playground sandbox bullshyt that goes on in here. But silly byatches have never run me off from anywhere and are not about to start. I do nothing more than does anyone else which is come in here and post my thoughts and opinions yet because they are mine they come under attack and I am simply not feeling that today. Praise God that when that bell rings at three I have a life and a family and interest so that internet arguments are not the entertainment highlight of my day.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey IJA< did you finda anything to wear with those shoes you bought saturday?
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Priceless
Comment: Harriet, I thought you ignored me *snicker* you are on the Internet just as much as we are so don't azzume that we have insignificant jobs because we don't .... ain't never seen no maids at a hotel online all day *sucking teeth* we are here clowning and you take it seriously and end up sounding more ignant than we trying to playing around .... TAKE YO CRAZY AZZ OFF THE FREE4ALL ... this isn't the board where folks argue all day *smirk*
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trini2dbone
Comment: Harriet who tha fock cares!!?? I sure as hell don't care. If you don't like what folks say don't read it or respond. this is the INTERNET NOT REAL LIFE!!!
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Harriet
Comment: letmein- Now what beef do you have with me? What have I done or said to you to cause you to jump on the bandwagon and question my teaching skills? I am a hard working dedicated underpaid and underappreciated focking good teacher and none of your anonymous byatches get to question that. Got it?
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Harriet, I'm not getting in this mess, but these last 20 or 30 posts have been entertaining for me, while I count down to me exit time. Gummy Bear?
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet as a teacher you should know that conversate is not a word *smirk* what you teach dog tricks or something
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, I can't believe this mofocker is praising god after cuzzing up a storm this afternoon ... 308! 308! 308!
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Harriet
Comment: trinit- Byatch what? So now you are on the bandwagon as well? I wasn't talking to you byatch and we got this. They can speak for themselves and so can I.
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: Priceless and IJA- I am still waiting on ya'll to tell me where you work. Are ya'll in jail? Clowning is what you call your silly disrespectful insulting banter? How old are ya'll? Are you adults? I ask because most adults are about more than "clowning."
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: midwestman, I want some gummy bears ... when propelled through a straw they feel like bee bee's *aiming and firing at 308!"
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet most adults are about more than arguing all day long too ... FYI I am in the Information Technology field
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: Priceless- Conversate is my word and since all that you and yours are here to do is "clown" then surely a little ebonics is allowed. Again, where do you work? Do you work? Are ya'll collecting checks and using my tax dollars to pay for your internet service so you can "clown?"
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Nappy_Edges, you got me over here in tears. That SHYT was friggin' hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: See that is why our little kids are doing so poorly on the SATs ... got some ignant azz teacher telling them "conversate" is a word ... I bet you say "irregardless" too *snicker*
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: Priceless- The information technology field? Could you be more specific? That could mean that you're a snitch or a police informant.
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: See now Harriet you crossed the line you are the main one talking about folks callin each other out of their name. I never once called you a name and you wanna call me a bi.tch?! I never once called you out your name. All I said is that your takin this sh.it all too serious! IF you feel like your always personally attacked then why come to the free4all? Oh yeah I forgot its your free will. Well like I said before WHO THE FOCK CARES!? I have no need to jump on a bangwagon, I haven't said one bad thing about you. Your talkin about folks need to check themselves, maybe you should take your own advice.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet, if you think that is what Information Technology field means I'm going on record with this one ... YOU ARE NOT A TEACHER!
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: MWM, give me some of them dayum gummy bears. WHat in hades caused all of this? This shyt is hoelarious.
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: **tip-toeing in**Bigchassie, you've got mail.**tip-toeing out**
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: trini, you hit the nail on the head ... she was the first to start calling folks out their names because of comments she didn't like and that is what makes her appear so dayum 308! *smirk*
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: Priceless- Do you know how this all got started? I do. I brought up a conversation between my gay friend and I and you referenced him as my cousin and then got shytty when I let you know that he wasn't a relative. Also, I have not been arguing with anyone all day. I have been arguing with you for the past 30-45 minutes because you questioned what I do for a living and I don't play that. Once I began arguing with you, then here came IJA, and trini, and letmein and a host of others who for whatever reason, just had to get in on the fun, excuse me, "clowning." But it is cool because I can handle mine. I have been posting here with you all day and not once had I said a mumbling word to you and certainly not anything that could be considered offensive, yet here you are in your normal callous suit talking about all that is wrong with Harriet. I did not ask nor care to know what you think of me.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet, are you sure it's been me you been arguing with that long *snicker* it seem to me you got bout 6 battles going on at once ... CTFU! did you send the kids to the library for the afternoon cuz I know they ain't learnt shat from yo crazy azz today
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: Priceless- I know exactly what information technology is. What company do you work for? I mean if you can ask what school I work for certainly I can ask you what company you work for. Fair is fair.
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: That's not what I asked you. Do you agree on how all of this got started?
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: okay okay, y'all stop "picking" on Harriet because you know she has some mental issues praising God right after cursing somebody out. When that bell rings she going right back home to her parents the same way she did when she was still in school, so you know she got to be frustrated.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet, I never asked what school you worked for ... you have me confused with another one of sparring partners this afternoon *smirk* and it truly is non of your business what company I work for ... what are you going to do call the company main line and say "May I speak to Priceless?" ... CTFU!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: harriet writes: "in your normal callous suit talking about all that is wrong with Harriet"..Price you got this girl talking in 3rd person. Now THAT is a 308! LMAO
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Name:
QueenCityBee
Comment: Now lets all join hands & sing Coon-by-ya..my Lord..coon-by-ya...Oh Lord come-by-here...Feel the love...
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Name:
letmein
Comment: I'll say what I said earlier....SHEESH....
Uh, irregardless ain't a word? Oh, my bad! LOL!!! This shat is too funny!
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, back home to parents and dyckless ... that might make me curse a mofocker out daily too ... CTFU!
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: trini- You ain't had no business saying a motherfocking thing to me because I wasn't talking to you BYATCH! If you want me to respect you then respect me. You tell me "who the fock cares" and then want to check me about calling you a byatch? Eat a dyck! I am going to slide ride down into the mud with the rest of you piglets.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: oh yeah and Harriet, I'm not answering your little question about where I work and what I do, just know that I'm not underpaid and I'm certainly not a danger to myself and others the way you are.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: MWM> u still got some gummy bears?? Cause dayuuuuummm.
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: *comes in singing like Deion Warwick without the physic friends* WGAT THE WORLD...NEEDS NOW...IS LOVE...SWEET LOVE...*Waltzing out the door with a long chiffon gown on and a very large beehive hairstyle*
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Name:
Harriet
Comment: It is three and that means my day is over. You folks have a nice evening.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: The world might need love but Harriet need some meds and therapy *snicker*
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: Harriet, have a nice evening *smirk*
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: Harriet this is my last comment to your crazy as,.s because this is so stupid. Like you I can say whatever the FOCK I WANT TO SAY YOU CRAZY AS.S BITC.H AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT YOU EAT A DI,CK BI.TCH. I AIN'T NEVER CLOWNED YOUR CRAZY AS.S YOU JUST DIDN'T LIKE WHAT I HAD TO SAY.AND LIKE MYA, I'M MOVIN ON!!!!!!
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Name:
MidwestMan1
Comment: I'm out for the day, leaves bag of gummy bears with honeychile, you better share with everybody, peace!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: ZYDECO> I hit you back sweetiepookie! check your email hunny!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Priceless< Is it wrong to say I enjoyed that exchange?
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: MamaChassie, can I have some of your sip-sip????
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, Is it wrong that I sat over here laughing like I've lost my mind????
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: "May I speak to Priceless" bawahaaahaaaaaa!!!!!!!!! Today was a classic.
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: LMAO ya'll are crazy! MWM you got any more gummy bears, my sugar is low.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: **duckin' so that I won't get hit** Dayum! Is err'body a'ight up in hurr? What the heyell is goin's on??? Wow! Harriet, if you're still reading this, repeat after me...WOOSAH...WOOSAH...WOO..**WHICH ONE-A-Y'ALL JUST KICKED ME???**
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: OKay honeychile gimme some gummi bears, my sugar is low
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: IJA, no cuz there ain't no shame in my game either ... I was thoroughly entertained this afternoon ... holla at y'all tomorrow
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: IJA, this one has my stomach hurting from laughing, "I'm certainly not a danger to myself and others the way you are.". You and Price were off the chain today. This place is just all in fun. *still giggling*
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Name:
QueenCityBee
Comment: Continuing re: girlfriends b4 shyt it the fan. I totally forget I was suppose to be watching girlfriends I'm glad they gettin cancelled. They have truely run out wit me. I was kinda feeling the new show what ever the name of it is gonna be.
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Name:
Priceless
Comment: lovinlife ... today was truly a classic ... I will remember it for a while ... LOL!
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: I hit cha back Bigchassie. Has the gunfire settled in here??
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Name:
Debonair
Comment: Man, this is HIGHLY amusing, like looking at the crazy bag lady who scratching the side of her face uncontrollably, holding an old shoe up to the other ear pretending that it's a cell ph with an old gone with the wind Aunt Jermaima scarf tied to her head talking sh!t to invisible adversaries who are not even there, while a little kid keeps poking her with a stick through the bushes!This is some funny sh!t!!!!!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >sigma, that email was hilarious! Thanks dude;-)
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Name:
Debonair
Comment: Honeychile,sweetheart, may i have some gummy bears?
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Daannngg...LOL!!! I'm still CTFU!!!
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Name:
ELSBABY
Comment: *shuttin off the lights* "It's time to go". *pick up the half-empty jar of vaseline used in the sparring* *throw is it in the trash* *shuts the door*
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Price< Thanks for the entertainment, don't you leave with my wig b!tch! lovinlife and Stormy< you gotta f*ck with crazy azz people like that or else they will never understand how crazy they are.
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: *come in singing like carol burnett* I'M SO GLAD WE HAD THIS TIME TO-GETHERRR..JUST TO HAVE A LAUGH OR SING A SONNNNGGG...SEEMS WE JUST GOT STARTED AND BEFORE WE KNOWN IT....COMES THE TIME WE HAVE TO SAY...TRINI! PUT YOUR GUN DOWN!!! *Sudden laugh-in music*
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Who has gummi bears? Gimmie only the orange ones tho;-)
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: ROLMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *FALLS OUTTA CHAIR*
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: Oh my gosh, she said "eat a dick." ROTFLMBAO!!! That's better than my favorite quote from Kelly Osborne, "go suck a donkey's dick!" ROTFLMBAO
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: Size12n honeychile has the gummi bears, and she ain't shared none with me
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: **wavin hands** I have the gummi bears so y'all hoes better behave! LOL
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Name:
musbdherbs
Comment: *whispering* see I told ya'll but oh noooooo ya'll didn't wanna listen to me... herbz is this..herbz is that... unh hunh... see what i mean now
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: yall..i just want to say thank you i needed this to wake my arse up! it was a hot mess!! this is gonna be better than American Idol tonight. i got to hit messenger tonight!!!
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: Good Night folks. I had fun today
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Nappy > Now, how come I had already guessed THAT was your favorite line?! ROTFLMBAO**falls outta chair & lands next to Trini**
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Name:
RyTay27
Comment: >>BHB2, if you're still here I'd like a response to the thinnig hair question.
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: What da heyall is going on in here today?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Debonair> You sure can....**pouring in hand** Trini> Heads up..**throws gummi bears** don't want you passing out cuz your sugar is low....LOL
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Name:
asize12
Comment: **holdin' my hand out & rollin' my neck** Ummm, honey-baby-chile, you betta gimmie some orange gummy bears! Please;-)
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: ZYDECO - Hey girlie! I'm picturing trini sitting in her dining room with a boiled dick on a plate. Eating it with a fork n knife as if it's filet mignon. Laying on a bed of spring greens. Split down the middle with crumbled blue cheese I'm sure it would be all fatty n what-not. Like the fatty part of pigsfeet. (ROTFLMBAO)
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: And, er um... a teacher does NOT have time to sit online all day. Harriet is the Detention Lady. The REAL teachers send all of the bad kids to room "308" so that they can learn how to properly say 'eat a dyck'...
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Name:
yunvme
Comment: good nite yall. Dang, I didnt get half of my work done. Laughter is good for the soul. Thanks.....Now let me go enjoy that "sunshine". LoL.
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Name:
QueenCityBee
Comment: Hey Lawd all eyes knows is..She said..then she said back to her..then they all said..And that's what happened.
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: QCB-- you are a mess! What's up, lady? Have you heard from Flyte?
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: size12>> my bad, my bad...here...dang. LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: **handing IJA her wig** I found this over in the corner.
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Nappy > Excellent visual!! LOL Whew!! I'm sure the ghost readers had a field day on here today!!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: ZYDECO>i hit you back sweetie. you got mail!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: lol Thanks HOney!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: NAPPY> Dyck fill-la for dinner? lol!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: IJA, here you go, girl--I found your eyelash, too...
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Name:
QueenCityBee
Comment: No I haven't heard for Flyte but, I don't think much of anybody missed this exchange today. Even the sideliners had to have witness this shyt today. To bad Propersity Joy misses out on the joyous times we have up in herr. She probably sleepin right now. I will say this, some people get off raising hell with others.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Lawdhv< umm that's ok I'll get me a new pair of lashes. lol QCB< And watch, Harriet will be back in this mug tomorrow acting peaceful...at first.
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Name:
letmein
Comment: I'M STILL CTFU!!! Ooo, my stomach hurts! Damn, really..irregardless ain't a word?! **getting my dictionary**
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: QUEENCITY> but this was so hilarious! LAWD> the kids have to go to room 308 so they can learn to say syuck a dyck! lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol!!!!!!NOW THAT WAS PRICELESS TO SAY THE LEAST! lol! yall, thanks for the laughs!! i haven't laughed on this site like this for a long time!! and i didn't even drink no sip-sip since this morning!!
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: rayta: I responded waaay up there^ I quess it got lost in the sauce Use the doo gro with the blue writing on it and use a silk scarf and never cotton scarves. Please stop using cotton. It does not sound like the papila is dead so the hair should grow back. See yall have class tonight
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Name:
letmein
Comment: damn, guess not....irrevocable and then irrigate...no irregardless! dayumm
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: MY BABIES...i'm out of here! hit yall tomorrow!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Eat a dyck...brahahahaha.....
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Needless to say, my productivity dropped considerably this afternoon because I was so focused on the "refresh" key! LOL Y'all have a wonderful evening!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Letmein>> Irregardless of what you think, you still a ho....now if you dont get yo skank self back to email...
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: *dabbing at racoon looking eyes from all the laughing and crying* This shyt was out of control!! Lawd, you would come in and add that shyt and make me start all over again. Goodnight you crazy mofos.
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Name:
TAZBABY
Comment: *Hello* *Echo* *Hello* LMAO, Let me print the board so I can get my laugh on, I see some funny shat has happened in here today. Anybody still here?? *Heelllllooooooooo*
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Name:
OSUN
Comment: I dont mean to be starting nothing but Conversate is not a word. It is converse. Pet peeve sorry!!!!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: dammit Osun, there you go...too bad no one else is on here to keep it going. this was some funny shat today!!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: **peeking back in** Nighty-night peeps;-) Let's play good tomorrow, m'kay?
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: i dont know if anybody is here but i've been gone for 2 1/2 hours...let me catch up...LOL...ya'll be wildin' out!
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: ROTFLMBAO! DAYUMMM...i will be in meetings all day tomorrow and miss it! oh well....If anybody is still here...ya'll need to stop pickin on people and pray for them!! ;-)
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