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Solei
Comment: Good Morning Board! I hope everyone has had a wonderful week and an even better weekend! I'm waiting on some news today about a position that I have been interviewing for that I really want....wish me luck! I'll come back and share the good or bad news with ya'll later.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Good morning, kinfolk-- the regulars and the ghost readers!!! TGIF... Let's make today a good day! Solei>> Good luck on your new job--claim it!!!! We need to talk, chile!
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Solei
Comment: Hey Lawd, I see you're up with the birds this morning. We'll talk very soon!
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Solei
Comment: Believe me, I HAVE claimed it and in a very short while it will be mine! I wasn’t looking to make a move but I’m not one to turn down a better opportunity when it comes knocking at me door so now I'm waiting to see how negotiations turn out?
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lovinlife
Comment: Dayum what you gotta do to be first?!! Anyway Good Morning to the early risers. TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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lovinlife
Comment: Solei and Lawdhv, I hope you both are successful in your professional endeavors.
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ProsperityJoy
Comment: Hello Everyone! Wishing you all a wonderful weekend. Here is my *INFAMOUS COMMENT OF THE WEEK* it is from Southerbelle she wrote her comment on Tuesday April 18 concerning-Brangelina breaks bread with Nambian official- Here is her comment: Gurlfrand>I don't know either but she need to bottle it and put it on sale. Anything that would take a shallow white man from his Malibu home and girl next door wife to the streets of Africa need to be on the market. I like Angelina. She seems to be a down to earth woman. I wish them the best. RATING: 4 1/2 stars out of 5. My comment: I could just see her face with a tense look on it when writing this. It drives the point home perfectly, and its witty and funny. Take care all...Peace
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TAZBABY
Comment: Good Friday Morning EUR Fam. Good Luck to you Solei. >>>>BigChassie Good luck and Prayers to you on doing your thing. Morning LawdHvMrcy, lovinlife, ProsperityJoy, Solei and everyone else that comes home today. Prosperity when you get a chance do Leo for the Lions and Lioness on the board. Well, I will be back later as you know its quite early here on the Left Coast.
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RyTay27
Comment: Good Morning and TGIF!!!!!!!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Good morning all! I'm early today because I've got work to do during busines hours (like that's ever stopped me before...well it's gonna stop me today!) Anyway, I'll try to check back later. Everyone have a great day!
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YLawdY
Comment: Good morning family. What's up with the unusual early birds today? Not the folks normally here at this time of day. Must be Friday. Good luck Solei.
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YLawdY
Comment: IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
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YLawdY
Comment: If a person suffered from amnesia and then was cured would they remember that they forgot?
Can someone have their head in the clouds and be down-to-earth at the same time?
Why is Joey short for Joe, when Joey has more letters?
If you were a pastor, and you were getting married, would you hire a pastor, or would you do the wedding yourself?
Is there a certain temperature at which it stops being qualified as cold? At what temperature does it qualify as hot?
Why is most lunchmeat bigger than the bread?
Why is it that whenever you sing to the radio, your voice is higher? Even when you have a low voice?
How come toy hippos are always blue, or purple, when real hippos are brown?
Have ex-punsters been expunged?
Have ex-mathematicians become dysfunctional?
Have ex-locomotive engineers been derailed?
Have ex-civil lawyers been distorted?
Have ex-bankers become disinterested?
Are there seeing eye humans for blind dogs?
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YLawdY
Comment: Under Heading - HOW STUPID ARE THEY!
Phony doctor gives free breast exams Thu Apr 20, 11:40 AM ET
A 76-year-old man claiming to be a doctor went door-to-door in a Florida neighborhood offering free breast exams, and was charged with sexually %*$aulting two women who accepted the offer, police said on Thursday.
One woman became suspicious after the man asked her to remove all her clothes and began conducting a purported genital exam without donning rubber gloves, investigators said.
The woman then phoned the Broward County Sheriff's Office and the suspect fled. He was arrested at another woman's apartment in the same Lauderdale Lakes neighborhood on Wednesday, a sheriff's spokesman said.
The white-haired suspect, Philip Winikoff, carried a black bag and claimed to be visiting on behalf of a local hospital.
"He told the woman that he was in the neighborhood offering free breast exams," sheriff's spokesman Hugh Graf said in a statement.
At least two women, both in their 30s, let him into their homes and he fondled and sexually %*$aulted them, the investigators said.
Winikoff was not a doctor, Graf said. He worked as a shuttle driver for an auto dealership.
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lovinlife
Comment: *passing YlawdY the big eur bottle of prozac*
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YLawdY
Comment: yunvme...was that you?
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MidwestMan1
Comment: Morning all, wish me luck I'm heading up to a interview for a new gig. And throw a few prays up too, if you don't mind. Thanks in advance, fam!
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YLawdY
Comment: This is truly demented.
Childbirth To Be Area Woman's Least Painful Interaction With Daughter
April 19, 2006 | Issue 42•16
SCHENECTADY, NY—The near-indescribable pain of a 30-hour labor and the passing of an eight-pound infant through her birth canal will, over time, prove to be the least agonizing part of Virginia Quigley's relationship with her daughter, the 23-year-old first-time mother failed to realize Monday.
Quigley with an eerily quiet Caitlyn Rose in the calm before the storm that their life together will become.
"Labor was horrible," says a weakened Quigley, who doesn't know the half of it, as she lies in her bed at Divine Savior Hospital cradling her tiny future nemesis, Caitlyn Rose.
"This is the happiest day of my life," she adds, unaware of how true that observation will prove to be.
Over the next two decades, the young mother will endure a worsening avalanche of agonies. Unceasingly shrill fits for the first 18 months, followed by a sustained campaign of migraine-inducing petulant disobedience and gratuitous defiance, will typify Quigley's relationship with her daughter.
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bigchassie
Comment: HAPPY FRIDAY!! THE CHASSIE IS HURRE!! TAZZIE>thank you ever so much, yall just keep your fingers crossed and say a prayer. i tell you, if i get chosen, I decided to have a big party and a hotel and i'm gonna really have to go on a Foxx hunt for that! lol! SOLEI>hunny, that job belongs to you! ask, and you shall receive it! YLAWDY> good read for early morning. gives a woman something to think about when thinking about her relationships with men. i don't have a man in my life right now, but i'm happy with myself anyway and that is all that matters. it is said that a man completes the woman, i don't know how true that is but i do know that real happiness comes from within. so you got to seek happiness in yourself to be whole. meanwhile, uh pass me the vibrator! lol!
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YLawdY
Comment: While the shrieking arguments over persistent truancy from school, harrowing episodes of self-mutilation, and pointless stints in rehab are still safely in the future, Quigley lovingly rocks her newborn, enjoying their last small window of peaceful interaction before it forever slams shut.
"Look at her little face—isn't she the most precious thing?" says father Douglas Quigley, 31, who, in addition to being spared the physical pain of labor, will also largely be spared the psychological pain of raising Caitlyn after abandoning his family in May 2009.
Other horrors that await mother and daughter include: a March 2010 ordeal demonstrating how insignificant postpartum hemorrhaging really is when compared to the deep pain of a hysterical 3-year-old Caitlyn repeatedly screaming, "I hate you! I wish you would die!" before a dozen onlookers in the cereal aisle of a local supermarket; the September 2014 scalding death of a pet gerbil, in which Caitlyn's amoral tendencies will first surface, dwarfing the discomfort of torn vaginal tissue; and, in an incident that will easily trump the intense nausea that tortured Quigley throughout labor, the night in July 2017 when the unsupervised 11-year-old, embittered by her single working mother's inability to provide adequate attention, will steal a bottle of Wild Turkey from a neighbor's liquor cabinet and vomit its contents on the living-room couch.
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YLawdY
Comment: Also slated to occur is a June 2021 incident in which the father-figure-deprived teenager will have underage sex with a 45-year-old ex-convict named Wheeler, then call crying from a motel room at 4 a.m. A sleepless Quigley will drive 70 miles to pick up her daughter, only to fight bitterly with her all the way home and be two hours late for work, causing her to lose her low-paying job.
Quigley geared up for motherhood by reading child-care guides and sincerely hopes to be closely involved in Caitlyn's upbringing. However, Caitlyn's hyperactivity and intense flashes of temper will cause her frightened and intimidated mother to retreat into apathetic numbness, which will only accelerate Caitlyn's feelings of neglect and lay the groundwork for a life of destructive behavior.
As the Quigleys prepare to check out of the hospital and take Caitlyn back to their small two-bedroom home, they remain oblivious to their tragic future, including the unexpected arrival of police and child protective authorities alerted by concerned neighbors who will overhear a fight in which Quigley's then-boyfriend, Glenn, will beat and rape 13-year-old Caitlyn while Quigley lies passed out in the kitchen from a punch to the face.
In perhaps the most morbidly poetic chapter of the troubled relationship, a cancer-ridden Quigley will die alone, burdened on her deathbed with the worst pain of her life, after her repeated pleas for aid and comfort go unanswered by Caitlyn, who, though longing for reconciliation with her mother, will refuse to return the calls, saying she is "done" with her.
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lovinlife
Comment: LOL @ YLawdY, oh hell to da naw those dingbat women are just as loony as that nasty old man.
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lovinlife
Comment: MWM1, best of luck Big Poppa!!!
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RyTay27
Comment: >>YLY, how stupid could these women be? He needs his old as* kicked!!
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bigchassie
Comment: LOVINLIFE/PROSERITYJOY/LAWDHAVMERCY/MIDWESTMAN1>a big *muah* to you, my brotha! and NAPPY/RYTAY> *cybersisterhug* and GOOD MORNING ALL MY BABIES!! FRIDAY IS GOOD!!!! LUV ALLAYALL!!!!!!! NOW...where's my juice and where's my Jamie so we can jump behind that big red couch for our friday necking sessions!
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YLawdY
Comment: CTFU @ bigchassie...lovinlife...thanks for the prozac. Feeling a little manic this morning.
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Happy TGIF family!! Best of luck to everyone of y'all that's out there trying to take that next step in your careers. We are truly a special group of people - funloving, caring, wild - all while seriously taking care of business! I'm playing hooky the last half of the day, so that's why I'm posting so early! lol Much love & best wishes to all.**muah**
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MDhornet
Comment: TGIF. Happy Friday all. So, who's the Michael Franti dude who's the face of Free 4 All today? He's kinda hot.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: What’s up Everybody? I see everybody and their momma’s trying to find a new job. Good Luck y’all.
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bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> *grabbing Jamie by the hand with bottle of sip-sip in the other going towards the big red couch* no problem, sweeite! it's friday! time to chill out and to tell those crazies at work to leave you the heyell alone. *waves at zydecodiva*ZYDECO>Hay babygull! happy friday! now if yall excuse me, i got to do what it do, babies! *they dive behind the big red couch. girliegiggles are heard*
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bigchassie
Comment: IJA>*hand waving in the air behind big red couch* HAYY LIL SIS!!
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YLawdY
Comment: Good luck MWM...It's yours cause I said so.
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: LOL @ Bigchassie!! Yep, it's Friday alright - Chassie's behind the nekking couch...
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Chassie< I’m not talking to you until you get from behind the couch.
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bigchassie
Comment: ZYDECO/IJA>*from behind the couch* Aww come'mon yall, yall know i got to get it when i can get it, and fridays is the only time when i can do some serious neckking! now IJA what if it was you and Boris Kojoe behind this couch?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Chassie< Boris is foine but we would have to do it in the open with the lights on.
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bigchassie
Comment: IJA>*from behind the big red couch* hayy, now thats how to do it, baby! *giggle* ouch! Jamie! you badd boy! *more giggles*
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YLawdY
Comment: bigchassie ...is your vibrator named Jamie?
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OSUN
Comment: Good Morning folks. MWM you will most definitely get that new gig b/c you are deserving of it. I hope you will still get to visit us from time to time while in your new position.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: ylawdy< you got mail chile.
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bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> *head pops up from behind big red couch and grinns at Ylawd* why, how did you know? why yes it is!
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bigchassie
Comment: OSUN>*hand waving from big red couch* hayy osun!!
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TAZBABY
Comment: Hey MWM Good luck to you Brother. Its all Good for you.
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StormyMonday
Comment: Chassie, remember we were talking we were talking about Lee's hairstyle, well, check out Ki-Ci's head, lol. I don't know if this pic is new or old, either way, its' a mess! http://cinnamonscope.blogspot.com/ scroll down until you find him. Also, you'll have to turn off the MJ song playing in the background.
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Morning (again) family!!! Solei, I will email you. Good luck!!! {MWM} I hope there aren't any women in that new department! Do they know you have a couple of seckshual hara$$ment cases pending on the Free-4-All board?!?! lol Seriously, good luck on your interview. I just shot a prayer up for you, Solei, Chassie and the rest of my Free-4-All family. Truth be told, He has already blessed us because He woke us up this morning and put us in the right frame of mind to log onto a PC, hit the EURWEB url, find the Free-4-All link, then click on the 'View Comments' section... OK, that was my sermon for the day...
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StormyMonday
Comment: Oh yeah, Hey ya'll!!! Hope you all are having a good morning!
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StormyMonday
Comment: Chassie, also there's a pic of Jamie & Sade.
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RyTay27
Comment: I have a question for you all, Can you have teamwork if your workplace calls for 2 or more people work together, doing multiple jobs and not everyone is able to multitask? My co-worker says I am not a team player, but she is a slacker and it is getting on my nerves, I'm bout ready to take me fist and knock her in the top of head!!!!!
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OSUN
Comment: hey big chassie, I made up a sip sip of my own last week. I mixed orange pineapple apple juice concentrate with crushed pineapple ice and rum!!!! Then I mixed that concoction with a lemon lime drink. that was some good drinkin.
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bigchassie
Comment: STORMYMONDAY>*Head slowly pops up behind the big red couch. hair in dissary sleepishly grinns at Stormy* ok, i will have to check him out! *Jamie suddendly grabs her back down*
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OSUN
Comment: Rytay your refusal to disregard her triflingness and pull up her slack does not mean you are not a team player. Tell her team members contribute to team. If she is unable to do her fair share I would submit that you are the one that is not the team player.
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trini2dbone
Comment: *slams door* Hey everybody. I need a frappacino NOW!!!!!
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bigchassie
Comment: OSUN> *From behind the big red couch* ooh gurl that sounds delishious! what did you call it? it has to have a name!
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YLawdY
Comment: trini...here's two *ducking as I hand them over*
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RyTay27
Comment: >>>OSUN, that is what I say. If we have 10 people to take care of and I do 8 because you are on the phone taking 20 min. for a call that should last 5, and then I refuse to help you with the 2 that you DO have......... oh, well.
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honeychile
Comment: Good Mornin' all...Happy Friday. CHASSIE> If you don't bring your butt from behind that dayum couch.
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YLawdY
Comment: IJA...when you're right, you're right!
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bigchassie
Comment: OSUN>*head pops up from behind the big red couch* oh-oh somebody made trini mad. fix her some sip-sip quick before she pulls out her gun!
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trini2dbone
Comment: THANX YLAWD!
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bigchassie
Comment: HONEYCHILE>*Sly grinn at honeychile* awww honnneeeeeee...you know i got to have it on fridayyss! *slow slide back down behind big red couch more girliegiggles*
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ImJustAsking
Comment: ylawdy< LMAO oh yes! Trini< aren't those frappucinos really sweet?
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StormyMonday
Comment: Chassie, you sure have been spending A LOT of time behind the couch these days. Whachu doing back there????
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trini2dbone
Comment: NO IJA THEY'RE REALLY GOOD
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bigchassie
Comment: STORMY>*peeking from behind the big red couch sly grinn at stormy* Oh...just being friendly to Jamie, that's all. *giggles and slide back down behind couch*
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OSUN
Comment: Big chassie I think that drink should be named: Orange Pimpmosa.
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OSUN
Comment: Trini, screw the frappacino, take some of this orange pimpmosa.
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bigchassie
Comment: OSUN> Ummmm...that sounds real good! shoot, i want some too! go on and work it gurl!! MAKE US ALL SOME! *rasing glass from behind big red couch*
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RyTay27
Comment: Okay , I don't want to dwell on the co-worker thang. BUT, why is it the one that does the most slacking is the 1st one to run tell dat to the manager!!?
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trini2dbone
Comment: OOh thanx OSun, nice and sweet. LOL
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trini2dbone
Comment: RyTay, I was talkin about that co-worker thing yesterday. I work with a couple of folks like that. Sometimes I just want to punch them in the throat and push them down a steep flight of concrete steps
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini< You are EXTREMAHLEE violent when it comes to this coworker thing. Rytay< I hate teamwork. Somebody is always either slacking or trying to run sh!t. That’s when my masculinity comes in handy.
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Penelope
Comment: Good Morning everyone! Hope everyone is doing well. I'm glad its friday, because I NEED friday. I wanted to comment to RYTAY: Some people always fall back on telling people they are not a co-worker when they need you to cover for them...I had that happen to me in a prior job, and finally, I had to go ghetto (but in a professional way) wherein I made a list of stuff, presented it to the non-worker, and said perhaps we needed to raise this higher. I had no more problems from the slacker.
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OSUN
Comment: Rytay27 to cover her basis. She ultimately knows she is trifling, so she wants to put her explanation up first to make herself look good in the sicheeation.
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trini2dbone
Comment: I don't like teamwork either.
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honeychile
Comment: Trini> Ooo, I co-sign on that. I've wanted to dot this chick next to me's eye for a long time, and I've been darn near close to it on many occasions...she's one of those white girls that thinks she can say do whatever and not get a comeback on it...I will slap you silly and then pack my stuff cuz I know Im about to get fired for beating you down. But, I have kids and bills, so I have to refrain, but oooo, I used to want to catch her on the street somewhere...man...oh, can y'all tell I'm frustrated today? My bad.
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bigchassie
Comment: TRINI>*from behind the big red couch* i co-sign withya on that too sista!!
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RyTay27
Comment: >>P, okay this may be something I need to do, we are having a meeting to address the situation, the thing with me is I try to present things in a professional way and it always comes out sounding overly aggressive.>>>OSUN, I was trippin when the manager addressed me with something that I knew came from her dumb ^&*!!!>>>trini, I ain't saying I agree, but I understand. :)
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bigchassie
Comment: OSUN>*from behind the big red couch* Osun, give Honeychile another round of that pimp! umm...tastes good! *giggle* stop it Jamie!
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RyTay27
Comment: I knew y'all would feel my pain. But when we do have this meeting I don't care who wants to throw a rock and hide their hand. I am bringing it all to the table and to heck with whomever doesn't like it. I only have to work with you 8hrs. a day and see ya. I always tell my co-workers that it is okay if we don't get along we only have to work with one another. I don't have a NEED to be liked.
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trini2dbone
Comment: honeychile, i'm frustrated today too. i don't feel like being bothered with no nonsense. folks are like, why you so mean today. these mofo's better not ask me anymore questions.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini and HOney< I'm not in the best mood today either, this week has been rougher than rough but I'm trying to ignore it.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Chassie, GET FROM BEHIND THAT DAYUM COUCH!! JAMIE YOU TAKE YO AS.S HOME!!!!
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: I co-sign with all a y'all. That's why I'm blowing this popsickle stand no later than noon today.**ooh stomach hurts**wink**
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Morning all. MMM I don't believe in luck but I do believe in the will of God now go get that thing. See yall later. Hey Chass and IJA , Lawd do it star
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honeychile
Comment: **snicker**
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Good mo'ning Kings & Queens!;-) Happy T.G.I.F.! How's err'body doing this wonderful Friday morning? Well, from the looks of it, I'd say DAYUM good cuz my sista's & brotha's are doing the damn thang w/ their careers! >Midwest & Solei, prayers sent you you guys way! If you both claim it, then it's YOURS! >ylawd, THANK YOU for that wonderful post about relationships, it was awesome! I've already emailed to a friend of mine that's going through the same exact thing and I know it'll be beneficial to her, shoot it's beneficial to all women! Great post! And once again, you are a big goofball w/ the questions! You got me crackin' up! *waving* hey momma chass, you & Jamie play *nice* today;-)
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honeychile
Comment: Zydeco> I feel you....**coughing**
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Ya'll the strangest thing happened to me last night at church. I walk in, casually dressed, speaking to folk and whatnot. I make my way down to my pew, the older woman 70+ yrs. old says, "turn around her honey", pats me on my rump and says all loud "that butt is holding up that skirt child". She caught me off guard, I'm standing there looking all stupid, with everyone's attention on my hump. Now, I know sometimes when I wear skirts, the back is jacked up while the front hangs a little lower because well, that's just how it is. I didn't get snotty with her because I automatically give older people that pass where they can say whatever they want because they're old, but why did she have to pat my tail??? Does that seem weird???
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: IJA not if you put a cut of peppermint mocha on the frap from starbucks. See look what Trini made me do. I don't usually drink coffee I'ma tea girl
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: My supervisor (Queen of the Children) called in this morning and said "I have a vision problem *dramatic pause on his end*. I can't see myself being there today". So I'm having a peaceful Friday, eating cookies, drinking milk, chatting with yall..It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood. Oh yeah, and tomorrow's my birthday, so I don't plan on feeling no work related stress this day. Oh yeah, yeah (sort of like P.S.S.), it's PAYDAY!
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Name:
MidwestMan1
Comment: Two lawyers had been stranded on a desert island for several months. The only thing on the island was a tall coconut tree that provided them their only food. Each day one of the lawyers would climb to the top to see if he could spot a rescue boat coming.
One day the lawyer yelled down from the tree, "WOW, I just can't believe my eyes. There is a woman out there floating in our direction."
The lawyer on the ground was most skeptical and said, "You're hallucinating; you've finally lost your mind."
But within a few minutes, up to the beach floated a stunning red head, face up, totally naked, unconscious, without even so much as a ring or earrings on her person.
The two lawyers went down to the water, dragged her up on the beach and discovered, yes, she was alive, warm and breathing.
One said to the other, "You know, we've been on this God forsaken island for months now without a woman. It's been such a long, long time... so... do you think we should well, you know, screw her?"
"Out of what?" asked the other.
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trini2dbone
Comment: LOL@Stormy. I work with an older lady and sometimes she'll make a comment about my blouse because she can see my cleavage or she'll comment about my skirts or my pants. I remember she even had the nerve to touch me. I let it slide cuz she's old.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Teams SUCK
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bigchassie
Comment: ASIZE12>*Fanning self from behind the big red couch* 12, we are trying, but Trini won't let us! lol! *Looks at Jamie sad* Well baby, Trini does not want us to play today so i'll see you later? *Jamie kisses her on the forhead and walks out the door* TRINI> he's gone now. YOU SATISTFIED? can't have no fun! *smiles to self and giggles*
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YLawdY
Comment: IT'S A BOY!
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asize12
Comment: >honey, girl, my daughter don' read me my RIGHTS! She had a dr. appt. yesterday evening & we were just talking. WHY did my child tell me that I was picking up weight and I needed to get back in the gym and STAY there! Then she gon' tell me that I watch too much tv and "Girlfriends" can't help me lose weight! I listened to her *with shame* cuz she's 15 and I let her express her opinions. But, it's so hard to hear the troof coming from your baby. I said to her, "You're enjoying reading me my rights, aren't you?" She said, "Yep!" Cuz I'm ALWAYS telling her to never give up, be disciplined, don't let them boyz get in ya head, blah blah FREAKIN' blah! I told her, "Well, I guess I'd betta practice what I preach then, huh?" She said, "YEP!" How can I expect her to continue striving for excellence by CONSISTENTLY being on the honor roll since kindergarten, if I can't get my fat a*ss from off the couch??? My excuse was that I have a problem with being consistent, which is actually the troof. I've been struggling with that for years! I guess I didn't notice it until I stepped on the scale @ the dr. office, I've gained 9 lbs!!!! UGH!!! My clothes are getting tighter and I just feel awful. I don't wanna have to change my dayum name to "asize18" cuz that's where I'm headed if I don't get back on the ball! :-(
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trini2dbone
Comment: Jaime bet not bring his a.ss 'roun here fo a couple days!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Stormy< i as.sume this lady was black lol. I don't know what old white people do but old black people make it their business to embarrass you. The ladies at my church do it all the time but only to those they care about so that's how I take it lol. hey bighead< stick around today and play.
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YLawdY
Comment: I was excited and didn't finish the previous comment. My cousin is having a baby and she just e-mailed from the doctor's that the baby is a boy. It's her first and the first baby born on my mom's side of the family since my daughter 17 years ago.
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bigchassie
Comment: TRINI>LOL! i had to scroll up and read you again!! chile you remind me of my mama when she caught me on the couch with one of my boyfriends! man, that took me back Rest her soul! lol!
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bigchassie
Comment: BIGHEAD>hayy sweetie! Trini won't let me play with Jamie today! and i always have my neccking sessions on friday with Jamie.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Trini, thanx for gettin Mr. Foxx out this mug, I don't wanna him around here for at least the next 2 months. YlawdY< your supervisor is a mess.
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letmein
Comment: Hey YLawd...I have anal glaucoma....I can't see my azz staying at work today!!! LOL!
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YLawdY
Comment: MWM...good joke.
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bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> aww that's precious sweetie! congratulations. ain't nothing like a sweet angelbaby to come into the world...untill they turn into little rugratcrumbsnacthers who tear up the place! what little darlings! *smile sweetly*
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YLawdY
Comment: letmein ...asize12 called ME a big goofball? LOL
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bigchassie
Comment: IJA> You leave my man alone! how about if we come over to your place and use your couch to make out! your big sis has to go somewhere and neck! lol!
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StormyMonday
Comment: trini & IJA, I'm wondering do women tend to get more %*$ertive as they get older, or do they feel, "well, I'm old so I can do and say as I please?". IJA, yes she was a black woman. After I sat down she turned around and was telling me how she was related to another woman who had walked in and sat down about 2 pews ahead of us. She was telling me that back in the day the woman's side of the family barely spoke to her side since they were so "light-bright" (yes, she used that word). Then she started telling the story, but now things have changed and they treat the darker family members better; "yeah I still remember how they use to "pass", but honey God has a way of changing things". I was thinking to myself, can you please whisper 'cause you're talking loud and I don't want no problems before church starts, LOL!
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: **just walked slowly from the file room with that queasy look on my face**wink**
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RyTay27
Comment: Old people think they can say and do what they want, and I agree if you don gone and made it past 65+ you can damn well get away wit anything. My auntie, bless her heart, had the nerve to tell me I needed to step on someone's face to get to the Dr. and get rid of my 2nd child. WTF. What kind of ish is that, but I let it slide. But some of the strangest ish comes out of the mouths of the elderly.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: asize12 - Hey girlie! Don't feel bad about your daughter "checking" you. In fact, my son fully understands the concept behind "do what I say and not as I do." I make him clean up his room and make his bed every single day. As a rule, I don't make my bed. Well, only when I change the sheets (when I say "I", I actually mean my husband). Baby boy will come in and say "your bed sure is messy!" I'm like, "yep, surrrre is!"
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StormyMonday
Comment: OMG. RyTay!!! Your auntie sounds like a trip, lol. I absolutely love old people/elderly, well until they have something crazy to say to me, as long as they're getting on other people I'm all for it!
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asize12
Comment: LMAO @ letmein!!! >ylawd, I stand corrected...letmein beat you w/ that one! That's some funny stuff! LOL
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Stormy< if that lady hadn’t have been in church, she would have said light bright and dayum near white. Light bright was the nice way of putting it. I would hope that women get more %*$ertive as they get older, but I think that most old people are the same as when they were young. When you’re old you don’t view yourself like “I’m old now I have to act a certain way.” The loud black lady in the church is the same loud black lady you went to school with, or workED with, or made friends with when you were young…well not you personally b/c you didn’t go to school, or work with, or make friends with any black women, but you get what I’m saying. LMAO.
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trini2dbone
Comment: Question for ya'll: do you think its okay to wear skin tight booty pants to work? I work with this lady who has a very nice shape (yes I can admit that) her as.s is huge though compared to the rest of her body and she always wears skin tight pants. so tight you can see her thong line. it looks pretty trifling sometimes. but she's nice do you think i should tell her she looks stank?
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Hey MidwestMan, GET that job! You gotta keep movin' on up & makin' that money so you can take care of, you know, me, your wife, y'alls kids, our kids, and dental insurance for your hos. Best of luck!
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bigchassie
Comment: RYTAY> you know, funny you should say that. i remember back when my uncle died. before he died, he was suffering from dementia and we were at the hospital with him and i remember and he looked at me and said the strangest thing...he said real slow..."SWEET TIDDY" i looked at him and said "in my mind" WTF??? so it's interesting you should say that because it's so true!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: trini, yes, please tell her "scuse me, but you look stank." (LOL) Then she's gonna go tell your Canadian uncle and he's gonna tell your manager and you'll be in trouble for sexually harrassing a woman in a lesionic way.
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asize12
Comment: >napps, yeah I know the "do as I say not as I do" rule, but in this case SHE'S RIGHT! Cuz I *DO* need to shed some lbs *especially for health reasons* my mother & brother are both diabetic, my father was on dialysis for 4 years & just got a kidney last September, one of my sisters has a bad pancreas and me...well, my kidneys ain't all that. So WHY is it so dayum hard to do this??? All I need to lose is 25 to 30 lbs, simple, right? WRONG! I've been struggling w/ this for years and it's my own fault. **walking out the EUR room w/ my big fo'head down in shame** *sniff-sniff*
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StormyMonday
Comment: Another thing about old folk, I didn't know folk cussed in church until I heard some old women talking and a few cuss words slipped out. And when the subject comes to sex.......whew, the things that come out of their mouths!
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OSUN
Comment: Sorry, I don't think old people can say whatever they want just b/c they are old. Now my response to them will be tempered out of respect, but I can't abide by ignorance no matter who is spewing it. She had no business touching your arse and saying what she wants for all the congregation to hear. She is an "old saint" and should know better.
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StormyMonday
Comment: trini!!!! LMAO!!!!!
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YLawdY
Comment: I was reading some entertainment site adn this review amused me:"Lost in Space" (1965-68)
This classic sci-fi, action-adventure hoke-fest continued the tradition of stranded Robinsons (Robinson Crusoe, Swiss Family Robinson), though the Robinsons of "Lost in Space" were the first to own a truly obnoxious silver robot shaped like a blinking trashcan. For every planet they discovered, we could expect the Robinsons to face super-human trouble and the robot's nasally wail, "Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!" (Why did they build a robot that only sensed danger? Why not a robot with, say, a rocket launcher built into it?). The show's name said it all (lost, space, not too complicated), but sadly, this intergalactic nuclear family would remain lost: The series was abruptly cancelled by CBS. But we can be confident that the Robinsons never made it home, as the show takes place in the far-future date of 1997 (the year after "Star Trek" claimed Khan would take over the Earth with an army of super-men).
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asize12
Comment: >trini, are y'all friends? Cuz if not, then she may think there's some hateration & holleration going on in this danceree;-)
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OSUN
Comment: trini she has a mirror and you telling her that she is stank will just ellicit "hateration" from her. She will think you are hating on her. I would only tell her if you and she are friends, otherwise sign her up for an episode of What not to wear.
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asize12
Comment: >stormy, I have the DEEPEST respect for old black people, HOWEVER, some of them use their age to their advantage and think that they can say or do whatever they want just because their old. All old people ain't nice, I've met a few old hags in my day;-)
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Ya know, I think most loose-cannon old ladies DO start out as sassy young women. BUT they do use their elderliness to say some foul shyt which they know they can get away with. I worked at a black travel agency about 11 years ago (to protect their identity, I'll call them "Ignorant Trips and Tours") and there was this lady who looked 114 but was 72 with all her facilities but a smart-as$ mouth. My 23 yr old narrow behind almost went toe-to-toe with her several times, but never fully "went there". Well I left and in 2001, I saw her at a travel function. I said "Hi Miss Cadaver" (her name isn't really cadaver - I'm protecting her identity) and she said "You Gained Weight!!!!" It took all my strength to not say "and I can't believe you're still alive." I had just had a baby 4 months ago and was still nursing. I was a whopping 140lbs. Ooh, I hate her.
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StormyMonday
Comment: OSUN, I really didn't mind the comment, but she really didn't have to touch me. I think the fact that she touched me drew more attention than her words. I try to wear clothes that minimize certain %*$ests, but dang if I wasn't self-conscious the entire night!
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YLawdY
Comment: RyTay27 ...Age does not excuse rudeness. I'm with IJA (can't believe I said that again). She's probably the same old rude person she's always been except now the rudeness gets coated with "She's old". Some people use their age as an excuse to be rude. F that! You get checked when you're out of line like that, age or no age. Just add sir or m'am before the takedown. CTFU
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asize12
Comment: LMAO @ Napps! It's funny how all some people (old or young) say that like it's something nice to say! The secretary at my son's school gon' ask me a couple of months ago "So, when are you due?" I said "Due w/ what?" She said, "you're pregnant, aren't you?" I said, "no, actually I'm not, but I could say the same thing about you too, but you're not in your childbearing years". BOZO!!!! Ever since then, she's been just as sweet as pie to me;-) Don't eff w/ me old trick!!!
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Southernbelle
Comment: Good morning all, Hello my Louisiana folks. Laissez les bon temp roulez.
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trini2dbone
Comment: LOL, no she ain't my friend. I just talk to her because she's a co-worker. But her pants look so stank sometimes. She would probably think I was hating if I said something. So I'll just continue to snicker at her behind her back. Isn't that shady of me?
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YLawdY
Comment: trini...a discreet post it note is called for in this situation. No name necessary, just a nice polite yellow sticky with "You look like a ho wit dat thong showing" stuck to the side of her desk, cubicle, whatever.
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TommyStrong
Comment: wassup everybody...just gettin in...its no way i will catch up but i will try....I hope everyone is having a blessed Friday!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: asize12, the best advice that I can give you is that when you decide to lose weight, you've gotta commit your life to it. You've gotta change your tv habits, you've gotta scrutinize what you drink, what you snack on. Don' tell your family, but buy healthier stuff and cook it for dinner to give all of you a healthier lifestyle. You've gotta change how you get to one place or another: can you walk there or do I really have to drive? When I really got back down from my baby weight (2003) I was following the Atkins diet principles. The Atkins Diet is pretty easy because it starts off radically carb-free, but then you slowly add things back into your diet. It worked well for me. And it doesn't cost anything. I also walk at least 2 miles a day. Not on a treadmill-but around Philly doing my daily errands and meetings n what-not. Girl, you can do it.
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YLawdY
Comment: Nappy_Edges ....walk? Your car broke?
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: **waving @ Southernbelle** Hi homie!!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: The old ladies in my church are wide open, if I gain 1.2lbs they are ALL ON IT. Some of them are as fat as they wanna be and will call you fat in a minute. I guess it just doesn't bother me b/c I'm not the type that's easily embarassed/offended plus I know I have been told that I have a problem with umm tact. I don't think being old excuses being rude...but in those situations you just say what you have to say back and keep it moving. I'm not for arguing with no old person. Maybe it's a cultural thing 'cause in the south you get used to old people saying stuff.
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YLawdY
Comment: ZYDECODIVA ....it's 11:26. Shouldn't be doubled over with stomach cramps about now?
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: ImJustAsking ...I'm getting this mental picture of you as an old lady. Hmmmm...
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trini2dbone
Comment: LMAO, YLawd thats a good idea *addin it to list of deviant behaviors*
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OSUN
Comment: Shoot Stormy be proud of your big ole butt, Stormy got a big ole butt, oh yeah. I will give you a cup and a half of these (o)(o) for some of your UU. Shake what your mama or daddy gave yahhhh!!! I bet she was envious b/c baby didn't have "back" back in her day. I could see if you were wearing hot butt pants like trini's coworker but you had on a skirt for goodness sake. To borrow a line from our precious Priceless, tell her to suck your left (o)(o)
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trini2dbone
Comment: Hey Nappy! Whats the plan for tonight?
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: YLAWDY - I live in a one-car household and that one car is out in the suburbs at my husband's job. I do live within the city and on a main street, so I can walk, train, cab or bus it to wherever I need to be. I look at each excursion outta my home as an exercise endeavor. It's done wonders for my herniated back and I've got amazing inner thighs.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Asize12< maybe something is holding you back from committing to weight loss. You know like they say on Dr. Phil and Oprah. I really think the key is finding an exercise that you like to do…dancing? Skating? Riding your bike? I’on know. Also, find out when you eat…do you eat when you’re bored? Sad? Lonely? Frustrated? For me, I over eat only when I’m bored. So I try not to be bored I fill my life with activity and that’s when I lose weight. But the minute I take a few days off from going to my hobby classes or hanging out with friends or whatever, I eat too much…so I zero in on those times.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: YlawdY< mabe I am...speaking of old ladies, remember the 70 year old lady that used to come up in here...awareinga?
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: OSUN - I meant to say yesterday that your girl Joi has a new CD out called "Tennessee Slim is the Bomb" which it totally is. Especially the title track. Gosh, I'd love to see the child that she had with that terminally ugly Goodie Mob guy.
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YLawdY
Comment: Nappy...unlike those of us that live in the country and life stops without a car. LOL I thought the inner thighs of titanium came from all your other activities.
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asize12
Comment: Thanks Napps, I really appreciate that. A good friend of mine told me that she started off changing her life by turning the tv OFF for 30 days and she never looked back. Looks like that's what I'm gonna hafta do. And you're right, *I'M* the one that goes to the grocery store so whatever food comes into our house, it's all on me. I know that I can do it, it's like OSUN said yesterday, it's mind over matter. I pray every night for God to give me strength, but God ain't gon' help me if I don't help myself and I know this! Thanks for the pep talk;-)
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YLawdY
Comment: Mind Over Matter - If you don't mind, it don't matter.
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: YLawdY > Just gave a command performance for the boss. You know how panks love to diagnose everything! I'm letting her believe it could be the mac n cheese I got from KFC yesterday! BRAHAAAHAAAAHAAAAHAAAA
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asize12
Comment: >IJA, I eat when I'm bored too, and boredom comes from me watching too much dayum tv! I have GOT to get a grip! I just need to teach myself how to be disciplined & consistent, those are the two things that I struggle with everyday. I LOATHE exercise, so I walk and I do it for 30 to 40 min. I guess 4 times per week should do the trick. Maybe I'll try 4 times instead of 3 cuz I am the world's MOST impatient person. I swear, if I don't lose 10 lbs in two weeks from consistently working out, I'm ready to give up. It's crazy cuz my husband & both my kids are active and I've never been active in my life and I'm starting to pay for it w/ my slow metabolism. Okay, that's enough of the pity party, I'm 'bout to get serious fo' real now. *jumping up & down like Muhummad Ali in the ring* Thanks IJA girl!
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lovinlife
Comment: YLawdY, happy birthday gurl!!! You make sure you enjoy and pamper yourself.
Trini, I'm with you I hate all this forced teamwork crap. We have a meeting once a week to encourage team building.
Stormy, it's good that you restrained yourself cause she truly didn't mean to embarass you. Old people just lose control of their lips as they age. My grandmother (God rest her soul) would say whateva popped into her head where eva she was. She once said in the middle of a church sermon that the preacher looked like he was on drugs...LOUDLY!!!
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: Hey Trini - I'm about to get my hair did, so wherever I am, I'll be looking good! (LOL) My "friend" Mutlu (the chubby, cute Turkish guy with the pretty voice) is performing next Fri. I'm checking to see who's gonna be in town tonight.
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: MWM1, that was a good one.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >ylawd, I'mma slap you! You so ignit!;-)
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Asize12< you don’t like ANY exercise activity? Tennis? Softball? Kickball? Playing catch? Dayum, come on! There has got to be something.
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: asize12, even though I'm sure there were moments that you wanted to put her in a figure-4-leg lock, she's right. I feel the same way about my daughter, how I can tell her to strive to be the best she can be when I got way too much extra junk in the trunk. So pick up your bottom lip and go for a walk when you get home.
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asize12
Comment: Oh snap! I forgot to wish ylawd a happy b-day...**AHEM** *singing* ~~me, me, me, me, me~~ *Happy BURF-day to you...Happy BURF-day to you...Happy BURF-day to YLawd's crazy as*s...Happy BURF-day to YOU-OOOOOOOOOOO!!!!* *bowing, stank you very much!*
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bigchassie
Comment: *Comming back in from a Rendeveauzs with Jamie* hey yall..i was checking out 106 N Park yesterday. what is up with this beef between Lil Romeo and bow wow. it seems to me that Romeo is the more mature one to say the least.
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YLawdY
Comment: IJA...enjoy exercise? Oxymoron for me. I'm w/asize12. Exercise is a necessary EVIL, with evil being the operative word.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >trini, that's a great idea about the anonymous post-it! Genius!
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Trini, NO!!!!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: ASIZE12>*Clapping* you were splendid dear! utterly splendid! happy birthday YLawdY!!!! you know what you got to do...ASSUME THE POSITION ON THE TABLE AND DO THE SACRED SUGAR SHAKE DANCE!!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: YlawdY< happy birthday stank b!tch. Enjoy yourself. I love to exercise.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: Ylawd it seems like you're win win day
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: asize12 - you know what, I loathe exercise, too! SO I started incorporating movement and exercise into everything I do. I do warm-ups with my son before his t-ball practice and I chase the balls all over the field when they go flying outta bounds. I'm an obsessive sweeper. Yeah, I have a vacuum cleaner, but I sweep with a broom like a mad-woman. I walk, of course and I play with the dog. I chase the dog in circles in the yard for about 15 minutes a day. Then I work my husband like I'm paying for "it." But no, you won't find me actually doing aerobics or sit-ups. Yeah, pilates here n there and some yoga, but no Donna Richardson or Richard Simmons tapes.
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StormyMonday
Comment: YLawdY, Happy Birthday!!! I didn't know it was your special day. I tried to appoint myself as the Birthday Greeter, but I am slipping. Sorry 'bout that!
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Thank you lovin and asize12. I just want to give thanks to God for allowing me to make it this far. Sometimes circumstances have conspired to not let that happen, but I made it over. I been to the mountaintop and now I'm rolling down the other side. Oh wait, that's my 70th birthday speech.
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lovinlife
Comment: StormyMonday, gurl you have me in tears, remembering my grandfathers' sisters. They were off the chain, one of them would get the holy ghosts and say "shyt say it again lord, aw shyt say it again". Of course we'd get pinched if we laughed. Another one of his sisters (the mean one) said mofo in chuch on the regular. If someone passed the collection basket to her and she gave that little nod meaning keep it movin', she say muthafcuka is something wrong with you?!! She was nuts but you couldn't tell her she wasn't tight with Jesus.
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asize12
Comment: >IJA, I got F's in gym when I was a kid! I couldn't even do a cartwheel! I was always uncoordinated, but I can jump the HEYELL outta some double-dutch, still can today!!! Hey, maybe that's what I'll do, I'll jump double-dutch w/ my daughter and one of the kids next door, that's a form of exercise, right? Plus, I've been promising my kids & hubby for YEARS that I was gonna get a bike, well this year I'm REALLY gonna get one, how 'bout THAT!!! Hey, I feel some confidence oozing outta me! **taking a sponge & soakin' it all up for later**
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asize12
Comment: >trini, I couldn't even go across the monkey bars, nor could I climb one of those big a*ss ropes! Just uncoordinated I tell ya, this ain't no lie! All I remember liking to do when I was in grade school was jump double-dutch #1, play kickball #2, & I remember that I could do a back-bend, that's about it.
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ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Happy Birthday Lawd!!**another reason to have a drink at lunch**Yippee!!! Seriously, have a wonderful birthday & bask in the glow that comes from knowing how blessed you are.**muah**
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Disclaimer - while I will take credit for the post it note idea, I've never actually done this to anyone.....except that one time and it was needed. Her breath really did stink.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: **stepping up to podium, hitting mic** testing testing...I just want to say that I'm frustrated, and would love to have my back blown out sometime this weekend. Thank you and good day folks. **stepping down, sashaying out the room**
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RyTay27
Comment: YLY, you are too much. You guys are all a mess!!!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: LOVINLIFE>CTFUPPPP!!!!...NO THEY DIDN'T SAY THAT???!!!CTFPPP!!!
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Ole auntee aint wrong. I don't remember no commandment that says Thou shalt not say shyt of mofo in church. Go head auntee.
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bigchassie
Comment: LOVINLIFE> that put me in the mind of those "good sistas" who get the holy ghost when one of the cute ushers is standing by and this woman was shouting and then she said "hold me daddie, hold me!"
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Asize12< I always wondered who the heyall got Fs in gym. That is ridayumdiculous! That was my favorite subject, I looked forward to it. I took gym classes in college lol. Riding a bike and double dutch will be great and an opportunity to spend time with your family.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: asize12...I feel your childhood pain. I never got picked for any of the teams because I couldn't play nothing. I can't do a cartwheel, handstand or jump double dutch. What made it worse is that the fat kids got picked before me. I believe that's what started me on the fashionista path. I can't jump rope, but dammit I can look better than all you stank byatches that won't pick me cause I can't catch or throw or run fast...Wait I need a moment.
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: YLAWDY - Happy birthday! Even though you're one of those ignant olde ladies that talk smack then pretend like "ooh, dearie, I'm oold and crazy", I still like and tolerate you. Stop wearing the sequinned disco beret during the day, though. (Why do old ladies love sequined disco hats during the day?)
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: ylawdy< the bible got so many rules I'm surprised that one isn't in there. Maybe it's time for a new testament to the bible. You know everytime somebody wanted to restrict some new behavior they revised that book.
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asize12
Comment: LMAO @ honey! Girl you iz so ignit! LOL
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: lovinlife, LMAO!!!! I stayed in trouble laughing at folk in church, I STILL laugh and people will look at me and roll their eyes. I can't help it! My m-i-l is good for cussing in church, and don't let them put her on the spot! You know how they say "be ye also ready", her response is always the same "ready my as.s, ya'll could've called me and told me I had to pray, ya'll make me sick with this sh.it".
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: honeychile, I just called Biz Markie and he said...I don't know what he said. But from the joy that I heard in his beat-boxing, he'll be more than happy to blow your back out for you. I'm booking his trip to KC right now.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: *Stepping back in room, composing myself* O.K., now where was I...gym. They made fun of me because I was skinny and couldn't do nothing, like it would have been o.k. if I was fat and couldn't do nothing IJA...don't be picking on asize12 for her F in gym class. I got D's, and that's only because you got points for changing into gym clothes.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >IJA, is this payback for me & the others gettin' on your tail a couple of weeks ago? Cuz if it is...then...**runnin' out the room crying** I'mma get momma chass on you, you'd betta leave me alone! :-P! ;-)
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: How the hell do you fail gym you gotta be one lazy mofo! Nappy I'll call you when I get out of work.
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Name:
ZYDECODIVA
Comment: Well, my time is up folks. Wishing a wonderful weekend to all. Peace.
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Name:
Penelope
Comment: RyTay...I'm sorry for the delay in my response, but I'm crunching under the friday weight. I hope I'm not too late on this, but make a list of things prior to your meeting. Stay focused on that. Folks like to get emotional when they are called out, but just stick to your script. Be prepared for their comeback, and you may want to even forumulate what you think their response is going to be prior to the meeting, that way you can address it right there! Because of what I do for a living, I will tell you that a lot of weight is given to the person who took time to write things down as opposed to those who tell you what they thing they saw.
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, well I got an F in gym my senior year. That F almost messed up my scholarship. My parents and I had to go back to school after I had graduated to ask if the principle could change my grade. I refused to go to gym, I refused to dress out, during gym time I would go sit in the office, when the bell rang, I got up and went to my next class! LOL
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Thank you Nappy...who's pretending? I am old and crazy. LOL You so crazy!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: **wiping off my tears & blowing my nose** Thanks Ylawd, I appreciate your empathy, now back to YOU Ms. Missypoo IJA, you'd betta leave me alone for I drop kick you in da neck! **puttin' on my karate suit**
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Stormy< why wouldn't you dress out???? I never understood that. And I hated when people would take forever to change clothes. We only had 45 minutes in the class, you mahf*ckers were cutting into my exercise time. hmph asize12< these hatin azz b!tches stay cursing me out anyway so no payback here.
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: CTFU Stormy, and to make it worse she would be looking down her glasses. Then once service was over she'd go on and on about how disrespectful that little baztard of an usher was. Oh my god she was crazy as heyell. You're MIL sounds hilarious. I try to never eva eva cuss in chuch.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Yall starting to step on toes now with the gym class remarks. Some of us were met for loftier pursuits than sweating on a rubber mat. *nose in the air again, sniffing the at polluted Jersey air*
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Honeychile, you's a crazy fool, LOL. I got mine blown out last night so I'm feeling strangely tolerant of the normal work sheningans. I hope you get some chile.
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: shoot it's all good now...i'm sittin here at my desk having a nice "cocktail". some absolut and some crangrape juice. but i rather have some of Osun's concotion. but right now i'm feelin rather righteous! ummmhummm....shoot, gotta do sumpthin since yall won't let me get my neckin on!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Dayum, now trini-poo's all up in my grill? What the heyell? Lemme tell you something ms. trini-poo, it wasn't about being lazy, it was about being uncoordinated, so THERE!!!! **lookin' for my momma chass to take up for me**
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: asize12< you can't drop kick me b/c going along with my M.O. of serious exercise I am also proficient in muay thai and also tae kwon do. But tae kwon do doesn't count b/c it's not a true contact sport. Muay thai is brutal. Where's Priceless so I can demonstrate!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: ZYDECO> you leavin us chile?? well hunny do yo thang and have a groovy weekend! hope you get to do some necckin this weekend.
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, I couldn't dress out for several reasons....1. I thought I was too cute for that foolishness....2. That was during my Fashion Fair make-up days.....3. I didn't own tenny shoes
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: I remember before my aunts funeral, we were all gathered at the house and the funeral director or somebody made us all gather in the hot azz living room to pray. It took forever to get everybody in the room and then to stop talking. Then he had a nerve to ask "Who's going to pray". Without thinking (and with some pharmaceutical help), I said, "You called this meeting, you need to be praying". I thought my mom was going to knock my azz out right there. CTFU This was only two years ago..so Imma go with the old and crazy defense.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: HOney< you don't have to HOnounce all the HOtivities you plan to partake in.
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Name:
Nappy_Edges
Comment: Stormy - Ooh, Fashion Fair had all those matte, primary-colored cosmetics. You would've had a sweaty rainbow on your face had you exercised any. (LOL)
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Nappy, my point exactly that's why I didn't even bother, lol!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LMAO @ Stormy! Girl, in high school I flat out REFUSED to get my jheri curl wet! You KNOW a sista's curl would never be the same once some water hit it!!! LMAO!!!! I only got F's in gym in my freshman year cuz that's the only year I had to take gym thank GAWD! Plus, I took my curl out in my sophomore year;-)
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: IJA...no need for all that sweating..a gun is quicker. Gets the job done and preserves your sexy all at the same time (I finally got a chance to use Pufdiddly's line). LEAVE us non gym rats alone.
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Good afternoon folks... Happy Birstay (that's how my stepdaddy says it) Cuzzin' Lawd!!!!! {ZYDECOLEAVINGWORKEARLY} One way you could have tricked 'em was to NOT wear eyeliner. If you wear eyeliner regularly, it makes you look really weird when you don't. I don't wear liner on my bottom lid, but I wear a thin line on my top lid. When I forget to wear it, folks always ask me if I am feeling well...
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Stormy, since you wore Fashion Fair, did you ever wear the infamous Chocolate Rasberry lipstick?
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: I failed gym every year until 11th grade and thats only cause I took this gym class where all we did was walk and run the track and do some other little stupid. I always hated sports, but I love racing. But other sports, nah, I just didn't suit up. LOL **flipping off Trini and erbody else who talked about me, YLawd, and size12** SIZE12> I just speaks the troof and a good back blowing would relieve so much stress right about now.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Cuzzin Lawd...hey! I always take the eyeliner pencil and smudge it under my eyes so I look "peaked". LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: YLawd> you have yahoo mail....
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: LOL so Size12 you were lazy and uncoordinated? NOt a good combo. LMAO. I was pretty active in school I played softball and I ran track.
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: don't you hate it when you are trying to catch up on the board and people keep coming in your office? anyway...MidWest, Solei I pray that God blesses you w/the positions you are both seeking...BigChass I pray that you will win the Nobel prize (and that you stay from behind that couch w/Jaime)...YLawdY Happy Birthday - may God bring you a new year of peace and Happiness...asize12 when my father passed last year due to complications of hypertension and diabetes I decided I wanted to be healthy. I'm not overweight at least I didnt think i was but my dr said if I didnt make some changes in my diet and lifestyle I would become diabetic in a year or so. If you dont like to excercise just start out doing a little bit at a time and gradually build up...make sure you change your eating habits...before I eat anything now I ask myself if i really need it and if its a healthy choice.....ImJustAsking leave her alone!...StormyMonday I curious now as to how good it looked for her to be slappin dat as$....RyTay I agree w/Penelope write down everything and go in there prepared....was it Trini w/the stank dressing co-worker - cant remember...anyway....i agree w/whoever said put a post-it on her desk or you can start a general conversation w/her and talk about somebody elses clothes being too tight or too revealing or something...plant a seed so she can think about it...Nappy i will respond to your email today! OSUN pass me some of that sip-sip....
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Name:
RyTay27
Comment: >>P, I am definately going to do that. Sometimes my tone intimidates people so if I have it written down so I can keep my cool. And my manager is not the brightest blub in the box....Gym, don't get me started on that!! Me and a few friends had gotten together on a Saturday to Bar*b*que, after we had eaten someone mentioned childhood games we used to play and the talk turned to double dutch. This was a 3 family dwelling. My friend stayed above the garage and her mom and sister lived in the main house. Anyhoo...next thing I know we had taken down her Moms clothes line and were in the yard gittin' down. :) Her sister opened up her window cause she could her the snap snap of the jump rope and said " Who's playing double dutch"? ooooooooooweeeeeeeeeee did we have fun that night. I ain't got nutthin to say about the next day!!! ;)
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: lovinlife, yes my mil is a trip. She was so upset because her sister won't call over here and invite us to family functions. I explained to her, she won't invite us because she doesn't want me to come to her house. My mil said, "well that's not right because he's my son, and even if she doesn't want you over there you two are a packaged deal, sometimes you have to take the bitter with the sweet". I was thinking, dang, whatchu trying to say that I'm "bitter"???
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Tommy *tapping foot* I'm still waiting.
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Name:
bigheadbull2
Comment: LOL@letmein
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Name:
asize12
Comment: That's right Ylawd, you tell 'em! Leave us non-gym rats alone!!! As for the Puffy comment, he makes me so nervous when he says that!!! That's a hot a*ss mess! Then he's got the nerve to try to sue them? Get the EF outa here!!!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: tommy< I'll leave them alone but they still suck.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: I ALREADY KNOW I'M GOING TO HELL WITH GASOLINE DRAWERS RIDING A ROCKET, but why does that line about he stays on his knees daily set me in a fit. Read on:> >Saved & Single
> >- Author Unknown
> >
> >
> >What makes you think that just because I am an attractive woman of
Godly
>intelligence that I'm incomplete without a mate?
> >
> >Who told you that without a man something's missing from my life?
And if
>so, what would that be?
> >
> >Love?
> >I love myself and more importantly I love the Lord. He told me that
when
>I delight in him, he will give me the desires of my heart.
> >
> >Security?
> >I have everything I need according to His riches in glory.
> >
> >Intimacy?
> >Now, how's a man going to get to know me when he doesn't even know
who he
>is in the Lord. See my Father told me I'm above a ruby's worth and a
gem
>does not seek; it is sought.
> >
> >I'm single and that's all right with me.
> >
> >See, it's not that I oppose relationships. It's that I detest
>co-dependency. As a woman I know it is not my role to chase after any
man.
> >
> >Esther 2:14 reads: That I am to wait on my king and when he's
delighted
>in me, he will call me by my name.
> >
> >My Lord does not intend for me to be needy or desperate. I am to be
>Cherished, Relished, Valued, and Honored,
> >
> >It's not my job to convince him or convict him of that,
> >
> >My mate will already know it and consistently show it and he will
stay on
>his knees daily. Not just to adore me but to praise the Lord for the
>virtuous woman he has found.
> >
> >So, when you see me by myself I'm not alone. I know what I have
coming to
>me.
> >
> >I'm single and saved, and right now that's all I need to be!
> >
> >Please forward this to all the women in your contacts list! Whether
>married or single it applies to us all!
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: asize12, no I never wore that shade. For some idiotic reason, I thought my colors was more fuchia and pink with a brown lip liner. SMH!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Dammit Honeychile. You bet not get shat busted or blown this weekend...you hear me?!?! Dammit!!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Fa'getchu trini!!!! :-P Me & my crew gon' jump you @ 3:00!
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Tommy, you're so wrong for that! I imagine it couldn't have looked too good with her wrinkled old hand on my butt!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY>right on my sista! i like that because it's true and to the point! you know sometimes, a woman has to go through some serious things in her life to come to the realization of that, for that hit home with me on the spot. i'm single and i'm happy being single. and that says it for me. thank you my sista, for sharing that.
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: I ain't scared of u size12!!! And I ain't scared of yo busta as.s clique EVA!!!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Stormy, Chocolate Rasberry *WAS* fuschia!!! I didn't wear black liner w/ it but one of friends did AND she lit the tip of her eyeliner before she put it under her eyes! Drove me CA-RAZY!!! She looked like a racoon!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: ***clinging my glasses together while calling my busta as.s crew*** Warriors...come out to play-ya! Where's my clique so we can jump this helfa @ 3pm???
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Tommy, thanks for the advice punkin, you're the bestest!!!
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: IJA....and we suck well, thank you very much. Stormy...that's too funny. Does she live with you?
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: asize12, oh, ok, I don't recall that name. I did have good sense not to line my lips with black liner. I hate to see that, kinda like I hate to see white stocking with black shoes, that combo drives works my nerves!!!!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: *raising hand in shame* I am guilty of using Wet 'n Wild black as a lip liner back in the 90's. I also wore fuschia lipstick and used to wear a smudge of lipstick as blush and eyeshadow. Dayum.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: asize12...I got your back. I said I didn't do gym, didn't say I didn't do azz kicking.
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: Stormy my bad...lol...does it jiggle? just kiddin...please dont sue me for sexual harrassment
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: oh how i remember the days of Groovy Grape and...BLACK ORCHID!!
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: YLawdY, hhheeeeeelllllll No! Not yet anyway.
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: LAWDHAVMERCY> ooh gurl how i remember doing that technique.
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: asize12>hang in there baby...make a choice to stay healthy!
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Tommy, no worries. Ummm, I kinda like sexual harrassment. (looking away in shame)
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: LETMEIN> Calm yo damn nerves...I said, I would like to, didn't see the chance was there..dangit...But if someone comes a knockin, I'll be a droppin...my draws!! LOL...just kiddin...or not....
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: LAWDHAVMERCY> but the worst thing a woman did and her arse should have been arrested for doing this...using eyebrow pencil for lip liner. and it be a black or dark brown eybrow pencil and the lipstick was either too dayum red or it looked like she was rimming a snowman with powderd lips and they were lined...arrest her malpractice of cosmetics.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: YLAWDY did I go to Rite Aid to buy over the counter allergy medicine and there was none on the shelf. Had to take a card from a stack with the picture of what I wanted to the pharmacy counter. Inconvenient, but o.k. Girlie at the counter took the card, put the Alevert on the counter and then said "Can I see your license, please." My ignant %*$ said "Look at my face. Why do you need my license.?" She got all apologetic because this is the new rule due to all them no count whyte cracker meth makers. Of course, I had left my license in the car. Went to get them cause I didn't have time to go to another store. Did the baby heffa not have the nerve to ask me to take them out of my wallet. Why says me. She said "We have to put your drivers license number, exp date and birthdate in the cash register to ring out the sale. WTF???
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Name:
Penelope
Comment: Stormy...or, light shoes with dark hose is equally inappealing...plus it makes the person look like they have daisy duck feet.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LMAO @ both lawds! >Ylawd, you on a roll today babygirl! LOL Lawdhv, girl I ain't mad atcha, remember, I had a jheri curl from age 9 to 15! LOL
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: HONEYCHILE>Aww go on and get yo thang hit. somebody needs to feel a rumble in de jungle every now and then *mumbles to self* insted of waiting till thanksgiving to get her "turkey stuffed" DAYUM!!!!!I NEED TO GO TO INDY!!!!LOL!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Special thanks to my buddy Tommy, you da man;-)
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Penelope, you are so right! Whenever I see something like that all I can think is "country"! I just figured only folk living in NC, SC, TN, AL, MS did mess like that!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: CHASSIE> You bet not take your butt to Indy..Indy and behind the couch is prohibited from here on out.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Okay Stormy, you don' opened up a can of worms! Now, I must pose the question: WHAT ARE YOUR PET PEEVES??? Here are mine: 1. Sheer colored stockings (red, green, purple, orange) 2. Dark colored stockings with light colored shoes 3. Seeing kids look a hot mess (hair not combed, dirty clothes, non-fitting clothes) while their momma is clean w/ a fresh new hairdo. 4. Parents cussing their kids out in public LOUDLY 5. Dudes w/ their pants saggin' (don't their ignit as*ses know what that means?) 6. Body odor 7. Bad breath 8. People that think they're better than others 9. People that gossip about other people all the time like ain't sh*it wrong w/ their lives 10. People that come outside w/ their houseshoes especially if they're dirty! Okay, if I think of some more, which I know I will, I'll be back!
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Name:
Penelope
Comment: Stormy, I don't know b/c I've seen it in Ohio too! But, then maybe I'm looking to hard for it, b/c I can't stand the wrong color hose of people. For example, white women seem to wear nude host with almost anything, and sometimes, it just doesn't carry the look. But, I've seen some sisters wear nude color hose, but the 'nude' color is not their color, so it looks like old lady stockings. I'm weird like that, but I think little touches like that can make or break a polished look.
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Name:
Penelope
Comment: OK, what about eyeliner that goes off the edge of the person's eye like they are trying to do the Egyptian look? I think it makes them kook like qupie dolls...but then again, qupie dolls are cute, and the eyeliner isn't.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: My cousin gets nauseous when she sees a dude wearing either khaki's w/ white tennis shoes or black jeans or pants w/ white tennis shoes. She says it looks like they're going to work at Footlocker or somethin'! LOL
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: HONEYCHILE>*stomping foot* dayum! can't have no fun! shoot! yall might as well get rid of the big red couch then *looks longinly at the big red couch and long sad sigh* well Jamie, no more friday necking on the big...red...couch *waves good bye to the big red couch as the movers take it out the room*
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Chassie> It's for your own damn good....
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Name:
Debonair
Comment: Good afternoon, everyone*just walking through the cyberhood*....
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Here's my list....1. bad breath....they always refuse a mint or gum and ALWAYS want to get right up on you to talk.....2. I loathe black women w/kids that look like dirt daubers and they look like they step off the cover of a magazine.....3. white hose & black shoes and vise versa....4. nappy hair on top and a bone straight pony tail.....5. white kids walking around the grocery store w/a full pamper sagging in the middle and them red cowboy boots when it's 90+ degrees outside......6. big breasted women who think it's ok to put on a big T to run inside the store w/out a bra......7. that make-up line that starts at one ear lobe, along the edge of the chin and to the other lobe.....8. a black mother who cusses her baby boy out, and tells him to shut that crying up, lil punk or fag (that mess makes me want to fight the mama)......9. people who refuse to get their heels fixed or throw the shoes away once the heel has a worn down to one side.....10. people who sit up in church and agree w/the Pastor about backstabbers and as soon as the last Amen is sang they start backstabbing folk....11. Platters make me sick!
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Name:
beboyz
Comment: Hey Fam This has been a crazy day. Would any of you like a free breast exam CTFU!!! IJA Dont get any ideas I dont want you to go to jail *smirk*
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Name:
letmein
Comment: asize12==tell your cousin, forget him...**as I look down at my khaki's and white tennis shoes wondering if I can get a p/t gig at Foot Locker** lol
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Name:
RyTay27
Comment: Do any of you remember the jump rope game lemon lime....Lemon..lime... gotta be on time so and you could count 1,2...jump out...next one jump in 3,4 and so on and so forth. :)
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: HONEYCHILE>*pouting and kicking rock and whining like a kid* but i want my thang hitttt...!! *looking at honeychile with big puppy dog eyes* got a cucumber?
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: bigchassie ...we done talked about this. You need to get a new thang hitter.
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Chassie, when you go home, go to this site and get yourself a lil treat, ok. http://nawtythings.com/toys.html
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: RYTAY> i don't remember that one but i remember the ball bounce game where you say, "WHERE YOU GOIN, BILL" DOWN TOWN, BILL, WHAT FOR, BILL, TO PAY A DOCTORBILL, HOW MANY BILLS, TEN DOLLAR BILLS! DOLLAR ONE, DOLLAR TWO, DOLLAR THREE....
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: STORMY> Oh yeah??? hummm...maybe i will check it out. ok!
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Name:
RyTay27
Comment: >>Chassie do you double dutch? My cousin is giving her son a birthday/8th grade graduation party in May and I am going to get some clothes line so we can get down. I don't know for how long but I am going to show the whipper snappers how its done. tee hee
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> Yeah, yeah, i know and you are right. and i will. but dang that dyck was good!! but i hear ya. *stares dreamily at Jamie's picture* oh well, at least you will be in my dreams, love. dayum! what's a girl to do. no Jamie, can't go to indy. sheyatt! lol!
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: RYTAY> Shoot yeah! i love to doubble dutch! can't do it now, but yeah! i'll work the rope though. but i used to love see the girls get out there and jump!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Man, I can't scroll all the way up to read alla this mess. PET PEEVE: 1. Liars 2. People who smack gum or pop bubbles 3. People who send emails that say "Praise the Lord, but if you don't forward this email to 50 of your closest friends, you are going to heyall" 4. Dudes with raggedy cornrows (actually, I'd prefer a nice/neat Ceasar) but if you are going to braid your hair, please be neat with it. 5. Selfish lovers 6. Seeing "public" hairs in public (whether it be on a toilet, shower, poking out from a bikini, etc)
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bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> OF COURSE YOU KNOW I'M ONLY TEASING ABOUT THIS! LOL!
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letmein
Comment: Ooo, I HATE gum poppers, too...uh, unless it's myself 'cause I KNOW I don't pop it loud. But this chick next to me...damn, I be ready to tell her to spit out.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: letmein< when it comes to HOneychile, you gotta let a ho be a ho. Remember that song?
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StormyMonday
Comment: LOL, letmein!
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letmein
Comment: CTFU @ IJA...I'm trying to get Honeychile to see past her ho'ism! Don't do it...don't do it!!! You know that skank ain't lisn'n though!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: beboyz< umm why would I get ideas about a breast exam? And why the heyall are you smirking in my direction?
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StormyMonday
Comment: Why do people think just because a little boy cries or whines that he will turn into a punk???? Why do they insist you have to rough him up so he when he grows up he will be opposed to bending over and taking a frank???? Can someone explain the method to that madness????? Or is it just me who doesn't understand???
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Letmein< yeah girl I know. I tried to get that nasty heifa to follow my lead but she won’t listen. I mean neither I nor you is captain save-a-ho you know?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Stormy< I assume you have a son that someone has accused of having gay tendancies. You know people are ignant and have backwards ways of thinking. I say fuck’em.
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RyTay27
Comment: >>Stormy, I hear ya. I don't have boys but my cousin and sister both have boys and wow are my uncles hard on them. It comes from that 50's 60's mentality of boys being tough.
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bigchassie
Comment: SIGMA>I'm about to send you a crazy email i just gotten.
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StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, no, but I've seen people do this to little boys quite often. I just find it very disturbing.
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letmein
Comment: I have a son..and I don't know about the whole "turn into a punk" thing...but naw, I don't think a boy should be whining and crying over EVERYDAMNTHING!! To me, that is girlie. Girls whine and cry to get their way...boys shouldn't. Now, if something has upset him and it brings him to tears...cool....but "wah wah" I want some ice cream...or "wah wah" that's my ball...HELL TO THE NAW!! JMO
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ImJustAsking
Comment: letmein< girls shouldn't whine either, that was a huge no no in my house. I was supposed to "talk like I had some sense" as my mother would say. Did anybody notice that they let me say %*$!'em?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: ok, they didn't let me say it that time.
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asize12
Comment: **raising my hand in shame** >Lawdhv & letmein...I pop gum! Here me out, before y'all cuss me out, I DON'T do it at work! I may chew it, but I have my "professional" chew;-) >letmein, actually my cousin is a "she" and she REFUSED to holla at a dude if he has on khaki's w/ white tennis shoes or black pants w/ white tennis shoes! She just says "they should know betta!"
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TommyStrong
Comment: i just need to vent...why one of my boyz been w/his wife since we were in high school...she totally runs his life...he cannot make a move w/out her approving...its soooo ridiculous...he missed our class reunion in November becuz she didnt want him to go...he missed a few fund raisers last year becuz she told him no at the last minute - he was in the car backin out the driveway and she ran out and said i dont want u to go...he was upset and w/tears in his eyes and his head down he got out the car and went in the house pouting like a lil kid....the other day he told one of our class reunion committe members that he's so sorry he missed it and wish he would have come but she wouldnt let him come...none of us ever see him because she wont let him hang out w/us...he had to get rid of his cell phone becuz she was callin him every 5 minutes...what the hel1 kinda shyt is that??? he's a grown as$ man....when i see him i'm gonna whoop his as$ for being that stupid...it really makes me mad! aint no pu$$y that dayumm good that you have no control over your own life....and if it is I'm not sure I want any!
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RyTay27
Comment: #1 all- time pet peeve...Improper english!!!
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StormyMonday
Comment: letmein, I understand what you're saying about excessive whining, I don't think girls should get away with that either. But, I'm talking about boys that are 1, 2 and 3 yrs. old. I don't know, whenever I hear a mom or a dad going off like that, it just get's next to me.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Tommy< That reminds me of the book Married Men by Carl Weber oh and also Melissa DeSousa’s character in The Best Man…I have often wondered why men or women let themselves be controlled in a relationship. I always as.sume it’s low self esteem. Maybe he thinks he can’t find anyone else.
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Stormy stop it with the saggy diaper and red boots just stop ok? LOL
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Name:
asize12
Comment: More of my pet peeves...1. Thongs peeking outta some hip huggers (disgusting, get a larger size TRIFE-LIFE!) 2. People that buy shoes too little & walk like they feet hurt 3. Habitual Liars 4. Complainers 5. Negative people 6. Tracks showing (take a mirror to ya head to make sho' yo' do is together befo' steppin' out the crib!) 7. Nappy edges w/ straight weave 8. BABY HAIR (not just any baby hair CRACKHEAD baby hair like Chili) 9. People that wear sandals w/out their toes done w/ crusty as*s heels 10. Microbraids on someone w/ thin hair (too many gaps between the braids) 11. People that have a nice ride & either they still stay w/ their momma or their house looks like CRAP! 12. Drugdealers 13. Parents of drugdealers that ACCEPT their money & pay bills & go shopping w/ it 14. People w/ money that have jacked up teefus (they kill me thinking noone notices it)...I'll be back w/ more...
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StormyMonday
Comment: TommyStrong, don't whoop his as.s. If he's not man enough to get out of that situation, oh well! I don't think a man nor woman should let their spouse take total control over their lives. I wonder does she physically abuse him??? And why would he even admit that she runs him like that????
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Bertie
Comment: stormy--Its not right to attribute whinning as a kid to being gay later, but I think a lot of parents try to raise boys hard (lord knows my father, uncles and older cousins did it to me) because its a hard world and they want the kid to be prepared. Alot of folks take it overboard but I think thats the mentality behind it.
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RyTay27
Comment: Boys as young as 3 IMO should be allowed to cry whenever they want, they are still babies at that age. It really is still a way to express themselves. JMO
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asize12
Comment: >Tommy, IJA is right, it's gotta be a low self-esteem thing because like you said, no se*x is *THAT* good! Maybe he'll do what ole' boy did in The Best Man and find him someone that treats him w/ respect & dignity and like a human being NOT a dog!
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TommyStrong
Comment: Stormy/IJA>the funny thing is he was always very athletic and a lot of girls find him attractive...i cant imagine his self esteem being that low but maybe it is...we grew up together...really nice guy...star in ftball and b-ball...he could get another girl easy...it just doesnt make sense...his brutha and sista cant stand his wife...LOL..thought about Melissa DeSouza and Harrold Perrineau from best man while i was typing...that was on the other night
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: I think that is the reason why some men today don't know how to express themselves because they were forced to hold their emotions as children. It is OK for a child to cry-- whether it is a boy or a girl. I think there is a big difference between crying and whining. JMO
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asize12
Comment: Thought of a few more pet peeves: 1. People that let their kids run around the dayum store like they have no control over them 2. Parents that ALLOW their kids to disrespect them 3. Big girls that wear mini skirts & tight clothing (every piece of clothing that's made AIN'T for everybody, wear something that compliments your shape). 4. Women whose breasts are MILES apart & sagging and they INSIST on not wearing a bra ...I'll be back w/ more...
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RyTay27
Comment: >>>Bertie, I agree, and with the men in my family being hard didn't get them very far!!
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TommyStrong
Comment: asize12 you what i think is that will happen one day and he will leave her...i dont wish anybody bad luck but I do hope one of them wakes up - either he will leave for somebody else or she will stop treating him like that.
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Name:
Effulgence
Comment: Hi Everyone,
I am trying to enjoy my last few days of the Easter vacation.Midwestman good luck!! YlawdY thanks for the interesting info!!
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StormyMonday
Comment: Bertie & RyTay, I agree with both of your comments. I was wondering about it, because I notice only black people do that to their sons. I remember months ago, or maybe last year this guy beat his 9 month old son to death because he was trying to make him "man-up". That was some crazy bull! That leads to my other question, At what point does a boy become a man? Young girl's are rarely called women, usually people call them lil' mama. Or you have some old school folk who will say a girl is a woman once she get's her period. On the other hand, boys are almost immediately called lil' man.
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RyTay27
Comment: >>TS, he is going to have to leave because she is not going to stop her behavior.
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Tommy< well if he was a one-time star athlete, he may have defined himself that way, and now that he’s not…he may have trouble. You get what I’m saying? Like sometimes you define yourself as a certain thing and when you’re not that anymore you may struggle to find your self-worth. Also, a lot of men ‘groom’ women to have low self esteem…like they start off small “I don’t want you to go out with so and so” then it’s “I’m the reason you are who you are” then it’s “do you really think you can make it without me.” And on and on and on, most of the time men do it, but it’s not unheard of for women to do.
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asize12
Comment: My opinion about the "boys don't cry" mess is I don't see anything wrong with a boy crying. Crying does NOT = gay and that's the misconception that a lot of people may have. My son is a little gentleman but at the same time he can fight if he has too. Neither me or my husband calls him a "fag" or "gay" if he cries because he's not one of those kids that cries or whines all the time. I don't play that whining mess! Don't get me wrong, my kids whine sometimes and I just look at 'em like they got 8 heads and ignore their as*ses!
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ImJustAsking
Comment: Asize12< with all them pet peeves, I don’t see how you make it through the day without slapping somebody. You might want to think about being more accepting. LMAO Stormy< I think a boy becomes a man at the same time a girl becomes a woman, when they can live on their own and take care of their own bills and other responsibilities. When they can figure things out for themselves and not rely on someone else to bail them out. Not before and not until.
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asize12
Comment: You know what, I tripped! I mean my kids POUT! They pout when they don't get thier way. But they're a bit older now so they don't really whine now, they've graduated to POUTING! LOL
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lovinlife
Comment: Stormy, I don't get that "punk" thing either. In fact that shyt makes me angry as heyell. My husband is always telling me that my son is a Mama's boy and crap like that. He says that if my son is hurt and I come around he feels free to cry. Well of course he does dammit, what is he a cyborg?! If he's hurt than he has every right to express himself. He doesn't burst into tears for every little thing. Sometimes when my husband tells me that he's a spoiled brat I want to bash his skull in (shut up IJA), I just can't take nobody saying nothing bad about him. He's a good boy who happens to be very caring. I know I'm protective of him (and all of my kids) but so muthafcking what that's my dayum job. *dialing husband's number to curse him out*
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honeychile
Comment: **walking, kicks LETMEIN in the back, hits IJA in throat** U heifas talking about me while I'm at lunch? I come back like, no these tricks didn't. Don't near one of you heifas worry about my ho'ing...I gots this under control. IJA> Follow your lead? HO please, you on the verge of your head popping off cause you just as sexually frustrated as I am...and LETMEIN> Did you or did you not tell me the other day to just screw someone and get it over with? Don't be justifying to my face then talking about me behind my back, skank. **flippin them off, hitting IJA in her throat while kung fu kickin letmein in her chest**
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StormyMonday
Comment: Ummm, hi honeychile, welcome back!
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Hey ya'll I need a quick "mama joke". My husband has been busting me for the past couple of days and I need to get him.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Stormy...uh-huh....plus, see, I'm not a REAL ho, I'm just a 'cyber' ho...you know I figure there are people who lie about things every day in cyberworld, so I should be able to lie about it something,too. If I'm a cyber-ho, at least I don't have to try and keep up with lies, cause a ho is a ho, ain't no way you can mess that up too bad, so next week, when I talk about my ho'ing skills, I wont be caught in a lie. Y'all feel me? **snicker** Now, when I gets me a man who is mines, THEN I'll pull out the real skills...hehehe
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bigchassie
Comment: WHAT DE HEYELL IS GOIN ON WITH ALL THIS BEEF???.....i'm checking out ybf.blogspot. it seems LL having beef with Jigga (why and dayum did ya get a load of LL pic in there? mercy! IAICS)and then you got Mos Def having a beef with Lil john and then there's the two littles: Lil Romeo and Lil Bow Wow. dayum! it's like what is going on?
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ImJustAsking
Comment: letmein< boy, when those hos can't get their fix they get violent...it must be like coming off a crack binge.
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: IJA> u r probably right...after high school he went to a small college but flunked out so you make a good point...he probably doesnt know how he fits in and she was always controlling so he probably just accepted it as it is what it is...he probably feels somewhat honored that she still stayed w/him after all that...wow...ok...so I wont hit him when i see him...if she ever lets him out the house....
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YLawdY
Comment: #1 pet peeve - whiny kids, male or female. #2 pet peeve - bad %*$ kids
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: HOney< good point. I was thinking about this at the DC people’s meet up the other day. There’s got to be some people on the board who are not who/what they say they are. What do you all think?
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rayne
Comment: Tommy, first of all, seems like your boyz wife doesnt have any trust. What did he do not to earn her trust?- ask him. They may have issues that you have no clue about. Being married is not an easy task ( money, in laws, children, baby Moma drama, etc.... the list goes on). I agree with you, he should be able to go hang out with his friends & she not worry about if he is cheating on her or not. Does she have any friends that she can hang out with? You can see that he is been "hen pecked", but when your boyz gets tired he'll handle it.
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honeychile
Comment: IJA>> Didn't I just say, I'm a cyber make believe ho? That's just my title THIS week, next week you can add my crack habit to it, and I'll be a receptionist/cyberho/crackhead....
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StormyMonday
Comment: honeychile, I knew you weren't a tool for real, LOL! I just wanted to calm you down a bit before you kicked my way.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA> I agree, but who the hell am I? That's why I'm a cyber-ho/receptionist/crackhead...well I'll add crackhead next week...
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: I checked out ybf. I'll take some of LL's beef anytime. Dayum.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Stormy> Thanks sweetie, I had to set that straight. TOMMY> I hope your friend gets control of his life...he don't live in KCMO does he? LOL
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Come on please he just got me again: yo mama is so dumb she tried to make an appointment with Dr. Pepper. I can't take no more I've got to get him with a good one. Help me!!!!!!
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Name:
trini2dbone
Comment: Hey Size12, its 3 oclock where's yo bi.tch as.s crew at now?!!! *puttin clip in glock*
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, I already told ya'll I have left out one major thing about who I really am, but the stuff I have said on here is all true. And Lawd, you know I ain't white, so don't start! LOL
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YLawdY
Comment: LL or Jay-Z? No contest!
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Yo mama so nasty, her crabs used her tampon cord to bunge jump.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: HOney< you should limit your lying to all positive things! Like other suspected fib-tellers do. Tommy< *jumping up and down* I helped I helped. Rayne< I don't collect money from new people b/c I have trouble remembering who I've cyber-seen before, but I suspect you owe us money for your comments. Back to you Tommy< I agree with what Rayne said as far as them having some problems that you don't know about, BUT if he was hen pecked because of that he would know it and would be more apt to say "i can't go b/c my wife is jealous" then to say "I can't go b/c my wife simply won't let me" Because his male friends could understand the first but obviously they will have trouble with the latter just like you do. With that said, I think I'm right. He's just struggling to maintain his identity and Ms. Controlling B1tch 2006 ain't helping.
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StormyMonday
Comment: Eewwww, I'm sorry that was really gross! Lovinlife, don't use that one.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: StormyMonday ...so what? You're really somebody famous that we diss all the time? Like you're really Whigney Houston? Lil Kim? What? A transvestite?
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Excuse me IJA, but the money collecting was passed on to me by Philly. You can't take over every dang thing.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: Stormy< I forgot you had said there's something we don't know about you...I wouldn't even know where to start guessing. have you met anyone on the board? You met lawdhav right?
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Name:
lovinlife
Comment: Stormy, that was gross but I already emailed it to him. *evil grin*
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >IJA, I am one of the worlds MOST accepting people *altho all of my pet peeves may not seem that way* I don't treat people different just they don't have the same views or ideas that I have, that ain't my style boo-boo;-) These pet peeves of mine are just things that go on inside my head, I don't let 'em rule me;-)
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA> I feel like this, if I'm gone lie, might as well do it up! Ain't no 1/2 steppin with this cyber-ho. TOMMY> I'm really not a ho...
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StormyMonday
Comment: IJA, I haven't met anyone on this board, well I've spoken with 2 people on the tele, that's about it.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: YlawdY< hence why I said I DON'T collect money. B!tches always tryin to come at the muthaf*&% President. hmph Plus I never can remember who's been on here before so I can't be responsible for that. You probably never even paid your dayum self.
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: YLawdY, I'm not famous, if I were I must be washed up 'cause I spend all my days up here on this board, lol.
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: HOney< you didn't finish your sentence! You meant to say Tommy< I’m not a real HOLY person, I’m a nasty skank. Go ‘head. Finish.
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Heeyy ImjustLYING....
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Name:
asize12
Comment: ***hearing the sound of crickets*** Ummm, where the HEYELL is my crew???? **looking bewildered**
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Name:
letmein
Comment: lovinlife==feel free to use the one I used the other day...your momma so crossed eyed, your daddy left her for seeing someone on the side. brahahaha...that shat still makes me laugh....
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StormyMonday
Comment: asize12, all I can do is give you moral support 'cause I can't fight. Sorry!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Now, that that skank Honeychile....yeah, I told you to fock him and get it over with cause you was focking up the keyboard with all that damn drooling and slobberin' talking 'bout you wonder what it tastes like!!! Frankly, I could care less if you give it up or not. Now, you wanted me to keep you on the straight and narrow, but dammit I can't help those who don't want to help themselves. Now, put that in your pipe and smoke it!!!
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letmein
Comment: AND FURTHERMORE, HONEYCHILE...uh, you gon' make that strawberry cake? lol
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Stormy, it's okay cuz trini don't fight FAIR anyway! Pullin' out GLOCKS & what not!
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: IJA *cyber smack upside the head*
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: **poppin IJlying in fo'head** I did finish my sentence, thankuverymuch.
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Name:
letmein
Comment: I don't know who y'all try'n to say be lying. I AM a Dr., nurse, teacher, sponsor, stylistic Evangelist. hmpf...heifas tryna call me out!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: LETMEIN> I'll make that strawberry cake, but only cause your daughter asked me to..I bet not see a piece in your hand...but don't forget your chicken wings...LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: letmein> All summed up that just equals a lowdown skank.
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Name:
lilmocc
Comment: Good Afternoon All - TGIF - I know it is late in the afternoon but i wanted to drop in and hang out for a little bit while I can. TAZBABY> Thanks for asking Prosperity Joy for some Leo action. I'm always late getting on the board. Good look. MWM/SOLEI> I am sending many prayers up for your new jobs. Many Blessings. YLAWD> HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: LMAO<letmein, you sure are accomplished. Hey Lyinchile and ylawdy stop hitting me!!
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: IJA> where did everyone go????
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: *comming in from the vibe board* dang! i didn't know Mary J was screwed up like that! but what is really the deal with K-ci? wasn't he on drugs too??
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Name:
ImJustAsking
Comment: HOney< prolly the same place I'm about to go. HOME. Actually, I'm going to the gym and then home to clean up my apartment since I been living in filth for two weeks now.
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Name:
YLawdY
Comment: Thank you for all the birthday wishes. Everyone have a great weekend *popping IJA upside the head on the way out*
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: YLAWDY> HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWEETIE. may you be blessed with many more.
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: OK.....either yall are ignoring me or everybody is gone. hummm......*thinks* maybe i can sneek Jamie up in hurre now! lol! Hey baby! i think the coast is clear!
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asize12
Comment: >Ylawd, thanks for popping IJA she needed it! You have a GREAT b-day punkin! >momma chass, I was just talking to my sister about Mary J. At first, I was on her side and now after reading the K-Ci article, I realized that I was biased. I never heard his side. It seems like Mary ain't quite got over him, even tho she's married. Why does she continue to write songs about him? Let it go, let the past be the past and keep it movin' Mary J. I think that article will make a few people change their view about the whole abusive story that she told. I must admit tho, K-Ci didn't hafta to go into such VIVID details, sheesh! He just let it all out, didn't he?
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StormyMonday
Comment: Bigchassie, whatchu doing?!?!? Caught ya!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Happy Bday YLawdY
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Name:
StormyMonday
Comment: Nah, go on and have your fun behind that couch, heck it's Friday! Ya'll have a good weekend, I need to get going. Toodles!
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letmein
Comment: asize12==I read the article last night. I don't know...I wanna believe KC, but I don't think he's taking responsibility for his part. You know damn well he played a big part in that!! NO ONE and I repeat NO ONE could ever, ever, ever, ever, make me believe his dyck was that good!!! I truly believe he was leading her on. Who hasn't been there? I know damn well, I've busted a window or two, slashed a tire or three (lol) 'cause some nicca was lying and I was believe it.
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letmein
Comment: I was believing it
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Name:
bigchassie
Comment: ASIZE12>Yeah he definitely went into detail about her that's deep! STORMY> *Pushing Jamie into a closet and turning around with an inocent look* what, i'm not doing anything!
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Name:
LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Hey yall... Just found out some good news and some bad news. BAD NEWS: Just talked with the recruiter. They had to split up the panel because no one could get their schedules in synch. Now I have to interview TWICE. Once on Wednesday and once on Friday! Good lord. Could yall DOUBLE up on your LawdHvMrcy prayers?!?!?! GOOD NEWS: That means I have a legitimate excuse to buy TWO pantsuits.
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asize12
Comment: >letmein, yeah, I feel you cuz I know his gremlin lookin a*ss had a lot to do with it too! And the fact that he just "put it all out there" like that leads me to believe that he may have embelished just a lil' bit. But, I still don't think Mary should be having 50 cent playing K-Ci in a video. Nobody even had to know that this song was about him, she could've just kept that to herself IMO.
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Nappy_Edges
Comment: asize12, Ya know, Mary JB has been trippin' off her time with K-Ci for over 10 years now. By "trippin" I mean doing magazine interviews and telling her sob story, going on talk shows and telling her sob story, writing songs about that relationship. This is the 1st time that I can ever remember reading anything attributed to HIM. I'm not surprised that he has a lot to say because it's been a one-sided story for over a decade now. She keeps emphatically stating that she's so together and centered and happy now, but she's STILL dwelling on that relationship. If she was FORREAL for real "all-together" she would have tossed that stupid shyt in the mental incinerator before she got married. Yet, she's still harping on it...
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asize12
Comment: >Lawdhv, double prayers being sent your way:-) Don't get discouraged, it'll be a piece-a-cake! Besides, at least you get to buy another suit!! LOL
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TommyStrong
Comment: i'm not sure if I believe KC either...I've never been a big fan of mary's altho I'm happy for her and her success and the progress shes made in her personal but I not sure if I can believe KC...and asize12 sometimes its very hard to let go of the past especially when you've been deeply hurt (turning around so no one can see the tears well up in this big strong mans eyes) LMAO
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bigheadbull2
Comment: Tommy now your friend is the definition of a punk. LOL
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Chassie>> I know damn well you ain't bring no Jamie in this mofo! What did I tell you?
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Nappy==Don't get me wrong, I totally agree. I said the same thing when I heard about the video. Damn, let it go already. Hell, I wouldn't want to be reminding folks that I was with that idiot! WTF she see in him anyway...aw yeah, I forgot, the long stroke..let him tell it. LOL!
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LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Aw Tommy, go join your punk azz'ted friend with alla that crying! lol {Nappy} I agree that she is dragging it on TOO long. Yeah, everybody goes through stuff, but she's done about 4 albums on KC alone. He ain't even worth a verse if you ask me... {SIZE} Thanks for the love, girl! Actually I am excited. Ok yall, I am outta here. Have a good weekend.....
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LMAO @ Tommy! It's okay boo, you let it all out;-) >Napps, you got a point, he SHOULD have a lot to say cuz she HAS been mouthin' off about it for years and I ain't heard K-Ci say JACK! So, I suppose this is 10+ years of him not responding then, huh?
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Name:
honeychile
Comment: Hey Lawd and Nappy!!
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TommyStrong
Comment: LMAO @ Lawd...why we gotta be punks?! Thank you asize12...question...does sensitivity make a brotha punk or gay? or does having a sensitive side make him more of a man? curious...by the way bigchassie your boy CD is just starting to grow on me
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Tommy, to the rest of the world, my hubby is a very outgoing, funny, nice guy, but TOUGH! He ain't no punk! He may not be a big man, but he can definitely hold his own in a fight...then, there's the flip side he is just as sensitive as I am! We cry together all the time when we make up from a fight. He's a sweetie pie, but I'm the lucky one that gets to experience that;-) Didn't mean to ramble;-) Anyhoo, to answer your question, NO being sensitive DOES NOT make you a punk! Being sensitive & being a punk are two totally different things. I think most women like a man a bit in touch w/ his sensitive side, I know I do!
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: asize12>thank you! i try to hide my sensitive side but my girl laughs at me...lol...she will call me a punk in a minute!! lol...its funny tho...anyway...i guess we are the only ones left up in here on a friday night...i got another hour to go...thats what i get for comin in late
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Name:
asize12
Comment: LOL, tell your lady to leave you alone! It's okay for you to let it out. That's what's wrong with a lotta folks nowadays, they just need to LET IT OUT! People hold too much inside, and then one day they just EXPLODE. I speak from experience cuz I used to be like that. Don't get me wrong, I'd cry or whatever, but when it came to arguing or trying to plead my case, I used to say "just forget it". Now, you can't shut me up! LOL
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: i'm still like that to an extent...my dr even told me to stop holding stuff inside becuz the stress was creating too many problems
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Quit it with all the snottin' and shat!! I can't get with it!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Well looky-looky Tommy, we got company! LOL!
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Name:
asize12
Comment: >Tommy, your dr.'s right! I just got tired of not pleading my case, so one day I just decided to start speaking my mind and it blew err'body away!!! They couldn't believe it!
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Yep, unfortunately, I'm still here. This sucks!! Things we do for money. Trying to take my daughter to Mexico as a graduation gift...so I gotta get my hustle on..
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Awww, letmein, that's so sweet! Your daughter graduate's next year, right?
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: since i stopped ghost reading from time to time and reading the board on a regular i have fallen way behind on this project...its due next week i probably got another 3 weeks worth of work so i will be here late tonite and most of next week...i'm thinkin about comin in on sunday evening too
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Tommy, don't worry 'bout it, hey look at the bright side, mo' money in yo' pocket!
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: i wish...i dont get paid OT :(
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Tommy, what kinda work do you do?
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Name:
letmein
Comment: Tommy--it's funny, cause when I took this position they wanted to put me on salary. Hell to the naw!!! I want my O/T!!
Yep, my daughter graduates next year. I'm taking her and a few friends on a cruise to Mexico.
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Here's a performance from Mary J. & K-Ci on Arsenio back in 1993
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAZqUz4QBdg&search=arse nio%20
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Name:
asize12
Comment: letmein, that's really cool! My daughter has always wanted to go to Cali & she graduates in 3 years so I may hafta steal your idea! BTW, did you ever get that stuff straightened out about her father wanting to come to the graduation?
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Sorry y'all, that link has a defect in it...here it is again:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAZqUz4QBdg&search=arse nio%20
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Name:
letmein
Comment: It wasn't her father that was the problem. The father is my husband. LOL!!! It was her mother! Loser...oh yeah, my daughter is my STEPdaughter
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Name:
asize12
Comment: Oh okay, I get it now:-) Okey-dokey smokeys, I'm outta here! Y'all have a wonderful weekend! Peace, Love & Nappiness!
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Name:
TommyStrong
Comment: IM STILL HERE..i work in the IT dept but i'm not a techie...i'm still learning...i take care of the administrative aspect of the dept. its frustrating becuz i feel like i should be using my marketing degree or my management degree and i am not using either one...
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