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Name: jazzfan

Comment: All they can do is say no. Strike up conversations and if you don't feel the interest then keep it moving and tell yourself that THEY'RE the one missing out. If you truly believe that. You don't say what you bring to the table - do you have interests, are you fun, are you employed? And forget the escort service, if you've waited this long you can hold out for someone who's into you, not into your wallet.

Name: McNasty

Comment: School him Jazzfan! It would help if this guy sounded more confident - he sounds like if he approached me and I simply looked at him he would wither. Sisters like a man who is sure he's gonna get a yes when he approaches her (whether he does or not!) and Yes Yes Yes Hygiene is absolutely everything and so is presentation.

Name: MER82

Comment: And quit being so shy. Take some courses or obtain some counseling to learn how to %*$ert yourself. You don't have to approach women like you want to date that night, just be friendly and get to know people. Build up your social skills in general, keep the hygeine tight, maintain dentist appointments--keep those teeth in line fo sho! And maintain and present yourself with a neat, respectable appearance. Focus on the actual positive of meeting people instead of the perceived negative of being rejected by Black women.

Name: MER82

Comment: that is a s s e r t yourself.

Name: Gemami

Comment: I'm wondering myself why he's so shy and feels he can not approach women. Something more has to be up. I have seen the nerdest of men and men most women wouldn't consider attractive pull the "finest" women. It's all about confidence. (Hygiene goes without saying -- but a have heard a woman took a homeless man off the street, cleaned him up and married him -- so go figure)

Name: SanDiego

Comment: he sh%t was fake not real

Name: Priceless

Comment: aaawww GHank, Jr. *snicker*

Name: McNasty

Comment: LOL Priceless - this guy says he's 24. Gemami Ron Brown former head of Dept. of Commerce (killed) and his wife were walking one of DCs streets and came upon a bum - he asked her if she would consider marrying a bum and she told him that she did, but she cleaned him up and now he's walking beside her!

Name: Goliano

Comment: Damn, dude clearly stated he's a "heterosexual man" and has "never had any type of relationship with a woman at all." So why all the DL and racial crap in your response? My advice to him would be what you said in your last sentence. LOL Peace!

Name: CILLA8192

Comment: GOLIANO I'm with you I mean she started bashing immediatly the boy just asking for some help and here she go man hatin again. I think he should get some self confidence and just go for it the worst that can happen is she rejects him but don't give up just keep your self tight and clean and confident and your gonna find a good woman who will appreciate that. Do not call an escort service that is just pathetic and wrong of AC to even suggest it. Goodluck and be confident they say that there is someone for everyone yours is out there somewhere but you have to go get it she's not just gonna fall in your lap put some work in and stop being so shy.

Name: shan

Comment: I would never ask Advice Chick for help in solving my problems. Sometimes she does give informative advice, but her answers usually come out crass and rude. AC needs some help with being tactful and classy in responding to her readers' letters.

Name: McNasty

Comment: You write to an entertainment site on the internet for advice you get what you get.

Name: bigheadbull2

Comment: Valerie Simpson did that with Nick Ashford met him while he was homeless and sleepin on a bench

Name: stscott

Comment: Shan YOU NEVER lied but come on, THAT was funny AND ENTERTAINING...we are responding and isn't that what it is all about? I believe there are guys out there just that shy. LISTEN! Black women don't make it easy on a man. More often than not we are USE TO our men jumping out there, fearless...there are SOME men that are a little more timid and NOTHING wrong with that. Takes ALL kinds. So I say to the Brother, take the advice for what it is worth, examine YOURSELF 1st and when you have done so--find someone who is ONE YOUR LEVEL and take it slow. Just because your NOT doing what you see all the other men doing...tasting women like they are a FREE all you eat smorgishboard, does NOT mean there's something wrong with YOU. There IS LOVE out there for you and I think it is WONDERFUL that even though your odds are not good at this point your not writing to pound down the black woman like some of our men like to. It is GOOD this guy least knows what a yellow light means. Take care and BE TRUE to yourself Bro and the lucky person that finds YOU.

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