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Name: McNasty

Comment: I hope now that those that thought AC is just harsh without a cause gain some modicum of understanding. I agree with her 100% cause there are way too many women, of all ages, out here having random sex, not considering any of the consequences and not even thinking how nasty it really is cause you don't know that person you just followed from the club! I know I get sick of reading about how good the dyck is but nothing else is clicking - doesn't anybody see how debase that it - yet we demand as loudly as possible as often as possible that we be respected. It's difficult to respect someone when they obviously don't respect themselves. Don't ask for what you're not willing to do for yourself.

Name: Pamalicious

Comment: excellent, excellent article!!!!!! I totally agree. The women of color are dying of AIDS at an alarming rate, I met a 21 year old girl that has a baby by a man and has found out the man she was "seeing" was HIV positive.....now she is stressing. IT IS TIME TO STOP!!!!! what's wrong with waiting, dating and requiring an HIV test....condoms are not 100%....So I present this question - If you knew someone was HIV positive, would you sleep with him? But he'll use a condom!!!!!! Think about it..... I live my life different, I have dedicated my life, my soul, my mind, body and spirit to the Lord. I am divorced and practice celibacy (for the past 5 years), I'm young, professional, and pretty much have it together and the men are coming out of the wood-work.......but I'm focused and know exactly what I'm looking for and what I've prayed for. I refuse to give out "free samples"; I believe that sex should never be CASUAL. I haven't always been saved.....there are some things that I've been through that I wouldn't change, because it has made me the person that I am today....and for that I'm grateful.

Name: MrsPhoenix

Comment: Pamalicious: "what's wrong with waiting, dating and requiring an HIV test" He!!, what's wrong with waiting, courting, waiting some more and GETTING MARRIED??

Name: McNasty

Comment: MrsPhoenix, not a damned thing! As a matter of fact follow that path and a lot of black women would still be here! If he doesn't know your colors, he couldn't possibly be in a position to appreciate anything about you. Just one of the things I hold dear to me.

Name: Pamalicious

Comment: >>MrsPhoenix; Getting married of course is the ultimate goal....which is exactly why I live my life this way, if you love me, desire me, want me and need me,....commit yourself to me and give me my bling-bling and a license.....then and only then....IS IT ON..... think its a game

Name: MzTee

Comment: McNasty...girl you're always on point and Pamalicious I applaud you girl because I'm doing the same thing, albeit NOT for religious reasons. I am practicing the "Greatest Love of ALL," which is me. Once folks truly love and respect themselves, they will project positive energy out into the universe. People are attracted to positive energy -- like a moth to a flame. And if you love and respect yourself, you dang sure ain't going to let anyone disrespect you. People often treat time like it's the enemy. Time is your greatest ally, especially if used properly.

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