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Name: Taurusingr
Comment: Drrrraaaaaaaammmmmmmaaa!!

Name: Brandon
Comment: From the sound of it, LisaRaye is attempting to garner sympathy by "playing" the victim. If she knew she was banned from the house, she had no business going over there. Of course she can allege that he shoved her, or pushed her, or even bit her - but there's no proof of that. Furthermore, he's right and she's wrong ~ because she had no business in the main house. She was wrong to force her way into the house. As logical-thinking adults, we should always look for the truth between the 2 stories, and hers simply doesn't make sense. Imagine George Bush throwing Laura Bush out of the White House - she would be wrong to force her way back in. This is a similar situation, because this man is a government official. LisaRaye is luck his security detail didn't shoot her, after all, she was an intruder. She holds no claim to the house. Even in America, if a person (husband or wife) is kicked out of the house - you can't go back until the court tells you that you can. I simply have trouble believing she's the total victim in all of this.

Name: MsBlake
Comment: Despite being a tad concerned about Lisaraye and Misick getting married after a few months of dating, especially with him being linked to Omorosa at the same time, I was really happy for her, the pictures of their wedding in Ebony were fairy-tale like. A part of me really hoped they’d make it. Just goes to show everything that glitters ain’t gold cos the drama that follows this man is on a whole nother level.

Name: MsBlake
Comment: Last year my company attended an event at a Carribean embassy, I got talking to this guy, as he was trying to explain where his Island was located, he mentioned it was near Turks and Caicos, I was like 'oh Turks that’s where the premier is Micheal Misick and his wife Lisaraye'. He was like ‘oh u know them?’, I was like no I've seen his wife on TV several times. So the guy was like Micheal is his boy and showed me his number in his phone and offered to introduce me personally. Dude was serious and everything, I was like nah that’s cool. Then it kinda dawned on me that him and Misick must be picking up women on the low, cos why else will he offer to introduce a stranger to his newly married friend. Personally I think Misick has been stepping out on Lisaraye since forever!!

Name: MsBlake
Comment: I believe Misick beat up Lisaraye, yeah she can be a lil hood sometimes but I reckon he manhandled her and will try to deny it. Not too long ago he beat up a guy at the airport who was investigating him for being an absentee Premier. He was taking pictures of Misick arriving in a private jet, Misick rushed towards him bodyguards in tow n' punched him in the stomach several times, when Misick was questioned about it, he said he thought the guy had a firearm (it was actually a camera). Now if someone wants to harm you will you run in harms way and start giving that person a beatdown??? I think not!! Misick is crazy and there's bout to be some serious drama up in Turks.

Name: JustTellingTheTruth
Comment: What a mess! LisaRaye needs to be careful before the Premier or someone in his mix makes her "disappear". She might as well return to the U.S. and let her lawyer(s) hash it out for her. Dude is obviously a walking time bomb, so why linger around in T&C and make matters worse.

Name: huey
Comment: sounds like homeboy got oost to the behind in premier fashion....

Name: amethyst
Comment: Sounds like Weeks-Bynum Phase II! Goes to show you that money doesn't buy class nor preclude drama. This is a hot mess, and I feel bad for the residents of the Turks and Caicos that this is the type of publicity their islands are getting. Before LisaRaye became the First Lady some people weren't familiar with the islands, and they aren't getting a good picture now.

Name: BKLYNVIAMAHATTAN
Comment: Morning Everyone.... I'm here. @justtelling.... she doesn't realize the harm that could come to her. If it was Jamaica or Trinidad, she would of been GONE!!!! Time for her to get her %*$ out of the T&I. If she's reading... get your crazyhorse %*$ Stateside... Deal with it from there.

Name: Selah
Comment: You hit it on the head amethyst (No pun intended)

Name: Sexee
Comment: I'm sorry to say this but where were the elocution classes? You went from hood star to First Lady, why didn't you put your energy in becoming polished as opposed to partying with your friends; whom obviously were looking to covenant your position. Get a clue!

Name: Sexee
Comment: amethyst - I strongly agree.

Name: Sexee
Comment: This is detrimental for Black women because it puts us in a damaging light. Not to mention, it will give fuel for non-black women to say "I know how to behave in the public's eye". This is very dangerous for our Children to witness. So sad. Hip-hop entertainers get a clue!

Name: BecuzICan
Comment: I don't know what "America" you live in, but a husband (or wife) can't just kick the wife (or husband) out of the house. It doesn't matter who's name the house is in or who pays all the bills, that person has established residency and there are legal proceedings that one must take to have that person LEGALLY removed. It's funny how this man has been accused of all types of wrongdoing and the first thing people do is blame the wife. Now I don't know what LisaRaye does down there on that island...but nothing has been reported while on the other had The Premier has been all up and through the news! She might not be a victim in all this but neither is that thief/rapist/adulterer.

Name: Reds
Comment: <<She holds no claim to the house. Even in America, if a person (husband or wife) is kicked out of the house - you can't go back until the court tells you that you can.>> Once someone has established residence, you can’t just “kick” them out of the house. In America, to establish residence, you only need to sleep at the house for one night. After that, if the man wants to get rid of the woman, he has to give her an eviction notice, usually 30 days. In Diary of a Mad black woman, for example, all she had to do was call the police and he would have to let her stay there, irrespective of any pre-nup arrangement.

Name: nightshift
Comment: Hood huh? 'Ol girl TRIED to keep it real and it went so wrong. She better get her natural self out of that backwater town before those folks put a h'ain't on that azz. I wonder if there was a foot involved?

Name: DrKnowItAll
Comment: Sexee, who's hip hop in this relationship?? anyway, anybody with a brain knew this relationship wasn't gonna last. I'm not surprised..

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: WTF?...She ain't no real first lady and he ain't no real premier...Whateva the fucc that is...These just two muthafuccers on a Island...Like Gilligan...The Skipper too, the millionaire and his wife...The movie star...the professor and Mary Anne...

Name: eyesley
Comment: To Brandon, regardless if she was trying to get in the house or not, if she shouldn't have been in the house or not, you never put a hand on the woman. You are a punk azz man if you do so. That is what Misick is. Brother got some problems with the rape allegation, money and now with LisaRaye. I do agree that whatever she wasn't able to get out the mansion with before she came up her to participate in the Bud Billiken Parade on Sat, the 9th, may just have to stay in that house. Need to be back here in the U.S. before an "accident" happens..

Name: nightshift
Comment: here on hip-hop iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisle!!!!

Name: queenren
Comment: Dang B00TANEB00TUS! Do you HAVE to use all of that foul language? It made it difficult to read your post.

Name: huey
Comment: B00TANEB00TUS HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Name: Sexee
Comment: Lisa ~ comes from a Hip-Hop "Keeping it Real" background... Da brat is her half-sister and she put out a couple of rap tracks. Not to mention, the Player's club and videos she starred in... When I made the comment Hip-Hop get a clue, I am focusing overall prescense that it has in our young men&women lives. You are a first lady, why are you saying "ummm"? Know your worth! She's too busy playing the role instead of being the role. this woman was in a position that most women regardless of race would love to be in.. Yes her husband was a hot mess, get your contacts, step into the role and when it's time to bounce leave with dignity.. He's spiraling out of control you don't have to spiral with him to save face. As one of the posters mentioned you are in a place where MONEY is SHELTERED. Alot of people have a vested interested in the island.. Misick is a paid man by all accounts, someone will KILL her to keep b*llsh*t from hitting her accounts.. people get UNDERSTANDING.. Geesh!

Name: huey
Comment: B00TANEB00TUS ---by the way...queenren and i aint gonna be putting up with u using all the got dayum mother effn foul azzed language up in this sumbytchn forum, u know good and got dayum well yo family taught u better than to be going around spouting out a bunch of mother effn nasty azz superlatives in a room full of mixed dayum company!! now clean up your mother effn act with the got dayum quickness.....please...lol

Name: Sexee
Comment: Pretty photo doesn't do the trick; having pretty good understand does... She should have WISE counselors around her not black hollywood (no offense I love and support you thoroughly black hollywood)... She should of took the lemons, made lemonade and sold the Lemonade stand for a new venture... That is how we must think.... Geesh!

Name: Sexee
Comment: Queenren ~ Boot is the funniest person on Eurweb and has the most sense... Let him have his blippity blippp... He has never been blantantly or subtly disrespectful... trust me we have types of fools that come here under the guise of "intelligence"...

Name: shulamite
Comment: REDS and becauseican ---> re LisaRaye rights to enter the house at will. The Premier's palace is a government owned house. She has no ownership rights and is there at the pleasure of the government. Even Princess Diana couldn't run up in Buckingham Palace at will. LisaRaye is lucky that she didn't get shot. And she needs to get herself back to the US before England steps in and escorts her tail back for her.

Name: Dean32
Comment: And this is a classic lady fighting like a ghetto queen in the streets. The women on this site may call Mike low, but LisaRaye is just as low. It looks like one player (LisaRaye) was out played by the other player (Mike).

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: ...huey..LMBAO WTF you talking 'bout?...Sh1t, he11, fucc man...My vocabulary is quite limited...I gotta cuzz...I gotta cuzz dammitt...Ok, I'll try that sh1t...

Name: shulamite
Comment: Sexee, I agree. Its so very hard for us to step up and BE the role instead of shucking & jiving at playing the role. Makes me shake my head at LisaRaye.

Name: Teigh
Comment: The bitefest happened in front of elected officials. Lisa had not been living with Misick for a minute, seems like his statement caught her off guard. Why I don't know but in most cases there is always someone who doesn't want to let go. obviously she wants to lose the dude but the island and the bennies go with it. She obviously ain't ready to let that part go. We can talk about American rules and American law but ain't nothing American about that marriage or the dissolution of it. Lisa is doing a mean Effie but even Effie eventually went away! Lisa needs to quit with the publicist and the conflicting statements and get her a lawyer versed in the laws of TCI and handle her business. From the looks of how this is going down -- there doesn't appear to be any business to handle.

Name: MsBlake
Comment: I've been curious to know what Misick's 'Premier' status really means, I've hit up wikipedia and other sites and still can't figure out whether he's the equivalent of a president, prime minister or a damn 'King', either way he's considered a 'very important person' on that island. As first lady I don't Lisa handled things too well, she should not have gone back to the mansion. This latest drama is not very classy on both parts, I think the right way to go woulda been through her lawyers. (sigh)

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: B00TANEB00TUS Comment: Golly Gee...She's not a real first lady and he's no real premier.....They're just two classless, ill mannered, silly acting people on a Island...It's all reminiscence of Gilligan...The Skipper too, the millionaire and his wife...The movie star...the professor and Mary Anne...Naw fucc it...I must use foul language...

Name: Quanli
Comment: She sounded downright stupid in the video then tried to clean it up chaste style with the "I will pray for him". LOL. For what I understand she was still carrying on during the marriage herself. Since the Island is owned by the English these folks probably told this man to "take out the trash" and THAT is why she is upset. I'm surprised I haven't seen the "I feel sorry for her" or "There's no proof she was screwing other people's husbands" comments as of yet. I put it this way, would these folks bring her around their SOs/husbands/boyfriends? Nope! I can somewhat dig that she stays true to herself, however you do need to know when the switch the game up. Standard procedure is to 1) keep head low 2) shades on 3) "no comment" as you have conversed with counsel to get PAID. It'll be interesting to see how much this glorified jump-off actually gets.

Name: shulamite
Comment: BOOT - you just made me laugh in spite of myself!

Name: MsBlake
Comment: Morgan Freeman’s been doing the dirty on his wife (allegedly) but u don’t see his wife all up in the news, giving or receiving a beatdown (well not yet anway!!). She’s probably just taking her time to calculate all she’s owed and by the time she’s done with Morgan he’d have to pawn his Academy Award to keep up alimony payments. Lisaraye may have been really hurt, afterall there’s nothing worse than your man messin with your friend, its humiliating. And if Rosci is/was really involved with Misick, she best watch Lisaraye’s fight scene in the film 'The Players club' and start figuring out how to defend herself, cos its about to get ugly!!!

Name: shulamite
Comment: Since we have chastised her for not being 1st Lady material, let me move on to him. This man obviously doesn't respect women and is as classless as they come. Hopefully, his superiors will put him in check or "impeach" him once all this blows over.

Name: Sexee
Comment: Princess Di was a commoner, however she was a school teacher. Nonetheless, Princess Di knew her husband was a playboy his reputations proceeded him. Her first duty was to produce an heir (which solidied Di in the kingdom) after attempts to make reconcilation with her husband to no avail she left the relationship with dignity through an amicable divorce (in public). Di chose lovers that would add-value and not subtract.. You had to come with serious $$$$ to get next to her.. Lisa _ if you had wise counselors they would have educated you..... Vivica, Tisha and the likes have no experience on that level... You brought this on your self. Our people perish due to lack of knowledge....

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Elocution classes? Because she says "uhmm" she needs elocution classes? WTF kind of negrodian shyt is that? Elocute my azz. If she needs classes for saying "uhmm" then Obama and a whole host of public officials need them too.

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: And the day after americans find out that Obama has once again cowtowed to the Clinton's, Nig ger Bailey and his staff don't even bother to mention it. Oh well, the good thing is that we have Day 6 of this story. Good looking out.

Name: ShayLove
Comment: ok, I guess no one is going to even speak on this being maybe a little carma? I mean, wasn't she the 'other woman'....GP?

Name: huey
Comment: B00TANEB00TUS --YEA,,go back to the 2pac unedited version, the clean version sound like a walmart cd...gimme mine gangsta style...serve my portions up 125th street in harlem usa style...i dont need no milk in mine to take the bite outtn it ...

Name: Quanli
Comment: musbdherbs, It was about the whole presentation. She could not go in a job interview with that so why do it on camera? Again, you have what you use at home and what you use elsewhere. It seems you just like to be a dissenting voice.

Name: nightshift
Comment: Was that Cedric in the background? Judging by the "ONE" news reporter interviewing her, this must not be interesting news to the masses. And my girl that opened the cast needs to push back from the table, that suit jacket she was wearing can't take too much more of the strain her gut's putting on it. I hear they like to eat goat, and you know that's baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!!!!

Name: oshun
Comment: see, this is gettin tacky. i'm not interested in hearing any more at this point. i knew they were gonna try their divorce through the media!

Name: Quanli
Comment: ShayLove, people have selective memories and as soon as you hit 40 you're supposed to have "learned from your mistakes, are wiser, blah blah blah". I think that's what she's ridding on to get the sympathy that she does. How else do people think she was making a living in all those years before "All of Us"? Certainly not from straight to video flicks.

Name: CRENEEJ
Comment: MUSB, what happened w/ BO and the Clintons? huey, u r 2 funny and BOOT, you are the resident fool....CTFU

Name: Sexee
Comment: Musbe ~ she needs elocution classes because she doesn't know how to speak in public... the officials that you speak of college graduates they say umm because they have to choose their words carefully because it will come back to them... She's saying ummm stop from cussing people out... Get understanding! Geesh!

Name: Sexee
Comment: We as black have to take responsibilty as well.. I must admit in the beginning I was so happy, that I didn't get on my needs to PRAY for her that she would have wise counseling... So shame on me... and us...

Name: Sexee
Comment: sorry I meant Knees, I am typing too fast while I am getting ready for work and cooking... LOL.... multi-tasking at it's best!

Name: huey
Comment: Sexee --u just getting ready for work??? aint chu late? massa gonna give u 20 lashes for that u know....lol

Name: Sexee
Comment: Huey ~ I had to check Massa in a nice way yesterday..... We're working on the budget and it isn't prettyy.... I am tired and frustrated... :) Besides, I don't take lashes I give them...

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Quanli...uhmmm...was she at a job interview or was she giving a candid interview at an airport? Should she have also been wearing a sequined gown w/a Tiara? Would that have made for a candid interview presentation? Absolutely nothing wrong w/being a dissenting voice. That is unless all black folk have to think alike. Sexee, pondering a question is no excuse for using "uhmmm." Any person familiar w/elocution/voice/diction will tell you that. If she's saying uhmm to stop her from cussing folk out then I would rather hear the "uhmm" than her wild'n out. So uhm...I understand and no I wasn't trying to stop from cussing you out. ;)

Name: huey
Comment: Sexee ---ohhhhh, u one of dem da rebellious slaves...gonna grab the whip outn massa hands lol...hummm, u need halfn yo foot chopped off...that outta learn ya...

Name: DrKnowItAll
Comment: okay Sexee, playing a role in a movie makes you hip hop or having a sister that USEd to rap?? So I guess Denzel is a crooked cop in his real life too, and Sam Jackson is a black alien leader from Star Wars too.... You need to get a clue, and also a valium or somethin to calm your spirit down. It aint even this serious! Lisa is an actress. A paid professional.. And this drama isn't some film project her and Misek are playing in.. This is their REAL LIFE. YOU are basically racially profiling her by putting her into the "hip hop" category for being young and black..A foreign dignitary and a mid 40 plus year old black woman equals hip hop...I hate to be disrespectful but that's some of the dumbest *sh I've ever heard here. That's about as rational as Don Imus using hip hop for his issues.

Name: Quanli
Comment: musbdherbs, you're right not everyone is going to agree. My comment was to express how I feel like you often gather an opinion out of left field for the SOLE PURPOSE of not agreeing, whether you can see the logic in what others are saying or not. Also, "First Lady" is still technically her job description. It is her job to carry herself as such, especially when the powers that be did not feel she was suitable to begin with. You don't prove them right by not know a) when to shut up & seek legal advice and b) not knowing how to express yourself in the context of your description when you do decide to speak.

Name: Sexee
Comment: Musbe ` you're nit-picking on foolishness. which is to be expected, if you truly had understanding you wouldn't have brought it up.. She's the first lady bottom line, she doesn't not have to be dolled up to present herself well... Her body language and her demeanor was not of first lady caliber... Plain and simple. you need to get understanding and stop looking for petty this to squabble about.....

Name: Quanli
Comment: *not knowing

Name: Reds
Comment: shulamite <<REDS and becauseican>>. The right of residence is one of the most protected rights in civilized societies. For some reason, most people don’t realize how much protection they are afforded under the law. I’m not now in a position to give specifics in the case speak of TCI, but I would imagine that it would be similar to America. No man has the right to put a woman on the streets “becauseican”, married or not. I would imagine that even Rocsi would have the right to stay in that residence until she had a court ordered eviction, at least in America, she would. If you do an internet search on the topic, you will find case after case of people stymied by law in their effort to “put someone out” where previously they thought it was a case of “becauseican.” For example, if you get drunk and take home someone, and then decide to kick her out the house the next morning, all she has to do is call the police. If he can establish that she slept there for one night, then you will then find yourself being given instructions by the police for the court house having jurisdiction for filling an eviction notice, usually at least 30 days.

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: ...We're getting Lisaraye's take on this sh1t...but she probably stepped to that dude...Hands in his face...neck weaving...cursing his azz out..."Ooooooh, he11 naw, you didn't bring that 106 and park bytch up in my house...Playing Cinderella and wearing my dayum clothes...Well guess what n-word the dayum clock done struck twelve and Imma fucc yo azz up"...Then it was all downhill from there...I can't beleive he bit her azz...You don't bite a woman...No dude bites a woman....unless they're in some freaky-sadistic-sh1t...

Name: SpecialK
Comment: huey: Your anti-profanity speech was priceless!!! LOL!!!!!!!!

Name: SpecialK
Comment: Boot: You's a damn fool!! LOL!!!!!

Name: sweetpea
Comment: WOW! I don't care how bad a relationship is, any abuse from a man or a women is unacceptable. I do believe in self-defense if someone is trying to cause you harm.

Name: huey
Comment: B00TANEB00TUS ---shiiiitt..dem lies u telling...i woulda bit liza ray too...i woulda lept across the couch, hands by my side as i flew through the air and lodged my teeth square in the beautiful round firm azz...lika a pitt bull, they woulda had to pry my jaws loose offn that fat azz like a pitt bull terrier...

Name: BecuzICan
Comment: shulamite >>> I never said LisaRaye could enter the home in Turks and Caicos at will. If you re-read my post you'll see where I'm am speaking about the laws in America.>>> Name: BecuzICan Comment: I don't know what "America" you live in, but a husband (or wife) can't just kick the wife (or husband) out of the house. It doesn't matter who's name the house is in or who pays all the bills, that person has established residency and there are legal proceedings that one must take to have that person LEGALLY removed.

Name: WordUp
Comment: LisaRaye should high tail her butt on home and leave the island behind because they didn't want her American azz there in the first place. This Misick hound dog just got carried away with her booty to marry her and now he is really showing the world what he thinks about American women. LisaRaye should also whup Rosci's azz for messing with the husband if that's true.

Name: javone77
Comment: what the hell?!?!? That girl should have just eaten the damn cake and saved her self that %*$ whippin LOL

Name: huey
Comment: i woulda been chewing on that booty like it was a peice of fried chicken..just tearing hunks outtn it..grrrrrrr grrrrr...nibble nibble...snarrrlll..groowwwllll...clackity clack...clackity clack...snarrrrlll...grroooowwwll...munch munch..crunch and munch..yummmyy..grrrrr snarrrll

Name: DoctorSmooth
Comment: Some of these people here nitpicking and looking for reasons to find fault with Lisa Raye Misick, what great acheivements have they had in their lives? It's easy for people who dont have any acheivements in their lives to go on the 'net and find fault with other people's inperfections. I'm not a huge Lisa Raye Fan, but I'm sure this is a dificult situation for her and I wish her the best. I dont know who was wrong or right in this... maybe they both were; but when a once-happy marriage goes up in flames its a sad situation.

Name: DCGG
Comment: YAWN who gives a shyt...

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Quanli if you can explain what is "left field" about stating that I disagree that she should be acting as if she's at a job interview regardless of the occassion. I didn't have a problem w/her "presentation" and understood everything she said and didn't think she was unfirst lady-like. If that's left field for you...then oh well. So may it be. Sexee...WOW..me nitpicking on foolishness? Am I nitpicking the nitpicker or some'n? You made a statement that she needs elocution classes due to her "uhmm." I disagreed by comparing her "uhmm" to other public people who use it. You countered by saying that they (college grads) are excused because they use it when pondering what to say so as not to put their own foot in mouths. I went on to point out that any person in those fields of profession would advise against anyone using "uhmm." Now I'm just looking for some'n to quabble about bcz I am responding to what you say but disagreeing. Oh ok. Agreeing w/DSmooth.

Name: indipindintthnkr
Comment: This crap has spun out of control! Both are acting like two hood rats. I'm sure the leaders / governs (?) of that island aren't too happy with EITHER one of them. And....I'l bet, those leaders feel the same about the way these two are acting. It would be poetic justice if both were kicked out of the house and all guards and locks changed.

Name: javone77
Comment: huey: it is too early in the damn morning for all of that smh

Name: huey
Comment: javone77 --morteeennnn

Name: javone77
Comment: hello huey. thanks for helping me with that situation the other day.

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: huey..If ya put like that...Then I might have to take a bite outta Lisaraye's azz too...

Name: javone77
Comment: LOL Boot. PLEASE don't keep him going lol

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: ...Yo, we interupt this dumbsh1t to bring you this important message...WTF is up with this Walmart sh1t?...Are they telling employees it would be n their best interest not to vote Dem?...Can somebody elaborate?...Mus?..We now return to our regulary scheduled dumbsh1t....

Name: Grace12_34
Comment: It sounds like she needs to get her azz back to her REAL home -- the USA. Instead of getting into all those fisticuffs, what she SHOULD have done was wait until this man was out and THEN enter the fvcking palace or whatever the hell it is and change every damn lock in the place. I KNOW he is a "public official," but nobody is divocrced YET.

Name: gingerg
Comment: There's a such thing as carrying yourself with dignity. You don't have to get into the gutter with people. I'd have a lot more respect for LisaRaye if she would just let her attorneys handle the situation. Also, she's not liked over there, so it is too easy to wind up dead over some bs.

Name: Quanli
Comment: musbdherbs, you came here picking on another poster's statement with to logic that "umm" shouldn't present the need for Elocution classes. It was clear to me that the statement wasn't so much about the "umm" as it was her total presentation: the attitude, the repetition, the loss for words, the mention of the word "rape" without the presence of "alleged". These are all signs she has no idea how to present herself in this situation. Yet you always take the smallest portion of a point to come up with the total opposite. That is where I come up with "let field". Regardless of what I think about her lifestyle, I would have been glad to at least see her presenting SOMEWHAT, considering black women (especially American) are thought of as being lowest on the world's totem pole.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Reds, I agree with what you're saying as it pertains to citizens. But there's a world of difference between privately owned homes and an official government residence where state business is conducted.

Name: shulamite
Comment: BecuzIcan --> I didn't write the quote that you responded to...

Name: shulamite
Comment: Quanli --> Excellent points. You know we're in trouble as a society when people dumb down standards in order to justify a person's lack of effort. There's nothing wrong with trying to do better.

Name: gingerg
Comment: Let me add one more thing to the mix. You reap what you sow. I know a woman who was dating a married man many years ago. She was uneducated, etc. and his wife was a nurse at a hospital in a town about an hour away. Well, she got pregnant and had someone drive her to that particular hospital to give birth to her son. She paid for it, though. She suffered from poor health, financial problems and eventually wound up losing her home. On top of that, the husband stayed with his wife and didn't pay child support.

Name: dcdouglass01
Comment: I guess Premier of TCI is like being principle of a high school...you head things up, make sure everything is running OK and whatnot. And your boss is the larger school district on up to the state. So he's a principle and the state, in this case, is England, as that chain of islands is a part of what's left of the so-called British empire. It has a population of 31,000 (about half the size of the suburb I live in; so LisaRaye would have a similar reign if she moved to my suburb and we declared her to be queen of half of it) and a total land area that you could trace out in your car in less than an hour's drive. Anyway, given that TCI is a part of England, the divorce will fall under English law, which of course is what American law is based on, so LisaRaye will get something (assuming they can find all the money he's supposedly embezzled).

Name: Eastwood
Comment: Jeez, what do you expect when you marry a Premier? The man pretty much owns an island where some of the most beautiful women in the world reside. If I were the Premier, it wouldn't be a case of "Who I cheated on my wife with," it'd be "Who didn't I cheat on her with."

Name: YLawdY
Comment: Messy! Re: reaping what you sow: Wasn't LisARaye messing with Gary Payton, a married man......

Name: Exmun
Comment: What an unfortunate situation on a lot of levels. First, Misick is a classless fool if he did put his hands on LisaRaye. And if she was involved in instigating the mess, she is a classless fool too. The problem with domestic ish is that folks are so blinded by emotion, rage, etc that they don't think things through. And just as easily as I can believe he (or his guards) did %*$ault LisaRaye, I can just as easily believe that she might have tried to go southside Chicago on him to "show him a lesson" that ended with her in the hospital. Think it through folks. You might be correct under the law, but there is some value to good sense if preserving your life or health is important to you.

Name: Stephanie
Comment: There has to be more to this. I think he probably gave her the impression they were going to reconcile only to say, "psych". I think she's pizzed because they probably both signed pre nups and she's going to walk away with "nathan" and its not like her acting career is at an all time high!

Name: MsBlake
Comment: Lol @ Grace referring to te Misick mansion as a 'Palace'. Girl u done made Misick the king Zamunda a la Coming to America. Also lol@ DC Douglas saying Lisaraye could be queen of half of your suburb cos thats practically the size of Turks & Caicos. Ah man ya'll got jokes today lol

Name: TheQuietGuy
Comment: if the allegations are true this is really sad. No matter the situation is you dont put your hands on a woman!!! this is so sad...

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Quanli..maybe you should allow sexee (which she did) to explain what she meant because as of this point, you sound dumb. She said, "she needs elocution classes because she doesn't know how to speak in public...she's saying uhmm to stop from cussing people out." Therfore your subsequent explanation falls quite outside of what her stated point was. Elocution (what my initial post was responding to) solely deals w/speech. Attitude, repetition, loss for words, and mentioning the word rape w/out "alleged" does not denote a lack of elocution. "Social grace" is not the same as elocution and maybe that's the point you should be making instead of her needing lessons on elocution. Obviously you have bought into the stereotypes of how black women act and hold all black women up/down to that ridiculous standard. I've seen enough black women to know that there is no one way for a black women act. Lisa is not the standard for how all black women should act and neither is Halle. As a black man, I had no problem w/her "representation" of black women. Did she go all Rasputia during the interview? Had she, we would be having a different discussion. IMO she did not. IYO, she did. Oh well, that's why we have this thing called a mind...we can think for ourselves. LOL@DCDOUG...no sir, she's a first lady. She wouldn't be in your burb..not the first lady.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: all i know is this. Rossi, better watch her back and get her some bodyguards or just take a hiatus from 106NPark, cause LisaRay and her peep is gonna gon gunnin after her or DaBrat who don't care about beatin somebody down who messes with her cousin. can you imagine Rossi taping the show and Lisa Raye comes on there abruptly and gives her a serious beatdown on TV! hilarious. Lisa will be thinking she is reshooting the beatdown scene from the players club.

Name: MsBlake
Comment: I feel for Lisaraye though, her babyfather (ex-owner of Source Mag) was an immature deadbeat dad (her words not mine). She mentioned in an interview some time ago that she dated a basketballer, who was separated from his wife (at least thats what he told her) and because of that relationship she was falsely linked with damn near every player in the NBA. I guess she was just holding out for a mature unattached man and setting aside Misick's drama he was an upgrade. Compared to her girls Tisha, Vivica n' Star Jones she got herself a um.....head of country or King or whatever he is, she probably thought she hit the jackpot, so not the case!!!

Name: Sexee
Comment: I finally made it to work (after I played on the morning). Quanili ~ You have understanding.. When I suggested elocution classes the word it self delves into the total presentation of “public speaking”. Ummm was just the icing on the cake of the foolishness. After using the word, why would I further explain. She needs to learn how to present herself in pubic! Know your audience! She’s a FIRST LADY…. Thanks for your wisdom and understanding.

Name: PRDC
Comment: I heard about this on the Tom Joyner Morning Show. The sister was the ne that bit her and he didn't shove her either. He was having ameeting with other island officials when she arrived and asked her to leave and she said she wasn't and that's when everything hit the fan. I guess she is upset because he had Rocci there in her place and people here probably told her she better go back. But it will all come out in the wash.

Name: Exmun
Comment: On another note, it's clear from the interview (to me at least) that she was affected by all that's going on. At around the 1:45-50 mark I see her legitimately being affected by the Rocsi affair allegations. What spouse wouldn't be affected. There also appeared to be an aspect of wanting to tell her side of the story (probably too much of it for my tastes). And I don't think it wise to be giving interviews then asking folk to give you privacy. BUT with all that said, I don't get the hate on her. Sure, she probably made a quick and bad decision to marry a man known for his lack of fidelity. But he also married her too. Frankly, I'm sad having to even discuss it in an Internet group.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: all i can say on this is dayumm!! oh well, this makes juicy discussion on a friday.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: QUESTION: how long were they going together before they got married?

Name: Sexee
Comment: MsBlake ~ She did hit the "Jackpot" but she didn't have wise counselors... Too sad. A modern day cinderalla story (not that she was in rags)this opportunity has gone. Im sure more will come.. But she gave up too much to lose it without solidifying herself.

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: LISARAYE AND MISICK HOSPITALIZED AFTER FIGHT...In one of the most anticipated fights of the year...Michael (Messy) Misick TKO's Lisa (call me LisaRaye) Mccoy Misick with a vicious bite to her azz in the 5th round. Lisaraye entered the bout as a 3 to 1 favorite and was in control for the first 3 rounds...After landing a crushing blow to his manhood...Mesick regrouped and lunged at that azz...He clamped on and the jaws of life had to be used to separate the two...

Name: NYCSis
Comment: that clip was uncomfortable to watch for many reasons, one of which was --it looked like the top button of the anchor woman's jacket was going to fly off and hit me in the eye.

Name: dcdouglass01
Comment: bigchassie, it wasn't long. Months? Weeks? Short enough that more than a few people raised a brow. He probably saw her on TV somewhere and starting feinin', like many men do when they see somebody on TV they want to get with. Thing is, he had enough power/money to do something about it. so he made a few phone calls, threw his lines, and she fell for it. Whereas if she would have dated him for a year or so, she would have seen it was just a superficial thing for him.

Name: Exmun
Comment: NYCSis, you ain't right... uhm... actually you are. I thought the same thing too. My mind was like "why is that pear-shaped woman trying to fit into clothes 2 sizes to small?" I was hearing a cry for help from those clothes.

Name: amethyst
Comment: Javone - How was your recording the other day? Huey is going to take us out for cheesesteaks and Italian water ice before we go to a jazz club to celebrate for you.

Name: WordUp
Comment: Be U BOOT, BE U! Cuz u r funny az he11!

Name: bigchassie
Comment: BOOT>It was a rhumble in the jungle, it was a function at the junction,

Name: gingerg
Comment: Well, there's a lot more to love than looking good.

Name: McNasty
Comment: ROTFLMBAO!Now he's in trouble for sure! I had a feeling LisaRaye wasn't just gonna walk away and especially because the little jump off had taken up residence in her house. Yeah, her house - they're still married! You don't grow up on the southside of Chi-Town and let somebody punk you in the news. Also, this marriage was doomed from the start, not only because they didn't really get to know each other but if he did steal 57 mil from the Turks and Cacos there was already a black cloud hanging over his head and there was already a lie hanging from his mouth.

Name: gingerg
Comment: This mess is almost as scandalous as the Edwards fiasco. Here's the wife saying she stayed for the sake of the children, him lying about fathering a child who is obviously his and then leaving his ill wife to learn all of the sordid details of his affair with a mutt via the media. On top of that, this woman has been paid thousands in hush money while blabbing to everyone. It is just too much confusion.

Name: blackdragon
Comment: I hope this guy Michael Misick burns in hell for this. I bet he wouldn't do that to a man. He's a punk.

Name: gingerg
Comment: I'd want some peace in my final days. Elizabeth Edwards gave up her law career, etc. to be a good wife/mother. Thirty years later, he spits in her face.

Name: gingerg
Comment: Who says LisaRaye's injuries are entirely physical? She may be having a mental meltdown in the wake of all of this mess.

Name: amethyst
Comment: I've never been married and I've never cheated in relationships. Is it that hard to be committed? If you aren't happy anymore, why not bring the marriage/relationship to an end? These are rhetorical questions, there are plenty of reasons why people stay and cheat instead of moving on. It just brings so much drama and chaos. And adults don't consider how children will be affected when they are creepin'. So sad...

Name: gingerg
Comment: People don't consider the consequences of their actions and some get a kick out of leading a double life. Often, the assumption is that the husband/wife will stay regardless of what they find out, so there's no incentive to change. In the case of Edwards, he reportedly resumed the affair after confessing to his wife. Personally, I could never stay with a man that I didn't respect/trust, much less continue to sleep with him.

Name: zzzboy25
Comment: She deserved all of this and that was such a cowardly way for LR to go out by going into the public (interview) and saying those thing, if true , it make you look even dunber, Let it stay in house, but get out! Please blk ladys stop playin victum for pitty sake, if you been voliate take it to the law,but saying "oh me I so good and perfect and look at that man he so ridiculous" statements..

Name: dcdouglass01
Comment: Is LisaRaye still in the hospital? How bad was she hurt (bit)? That female reporter in Georgia got shot, wrapped up her wound, grabbed her mic and continued on with her report. Take notes on that, LisaRaye.

Name: my3pluscents
Comment: Come on now, let's keep it real. My husband has some biotch in the house, I am going over there to see for myself, I don't care what Island it is. I hate that biotch Roxie, that is probably why Terrance got with her on the show about a month ago and she walked off the set. She was sucking him and ole boy. She needs to be kicked off 106th & Park, she is no role model for the kids that come to the show or watch it. And do she think he isn't going to treat her the same way? Anyways, do the dayum thing Lisa...KEEP YOUR HEAD UP

Name: LawdHvMrcy
Comment: Yall know good and dayum well she didn't make that statement. When have you known her to say 'Whilst'? *faints*

Name: bigchassie
Comment: BLACKDRAGON>if Misick did that to a man, he would be dead by now.

Name: gedsmt
Comment: I really feel for LisaRaye. If she gets to view this message. I just want her to know, that if she wants her marriage to work and if she wants healing of her marriage don't give up. The world would say divorce, but God says that he has made a covenant with you and your husband. It make look bleak or even like it is impossible for you guys to reconcile, but with God all things are possible. I don't know what your relationship with God is like, but hold on to him. You said you are praying for your husband, do it and watch God turn it around. I know it is especially hard for you because of your position, you are a celebrity. But don't let anything or anyone keep you from working on your marriage. You are still married, no matter what the circumstances, look to God and not your circumstances. I know with the recent altercation between you and your husband, things seem to be out of control. But when we are hurt, we let anger set in, then we don't make good and sound decisions. So as you pray for your husband, pray that God will ease the pain and that he release the anger you have for your husband, and watch God move. If you desire to have your marriage restored, then God will do it. But, on His terms and His way. No matter what it looks like just continue to trust and believe God. You must let go and let God handle your husband. You can't do anything for him. Remember in those darkest hours, God is there, call on Him. He'll never leave you or forsake you. Read Psalms 34 & 37, mediate on it day and night and God will begin to lift that burden. Continue your work for the people of TCI. God Bless you

Name: B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: ...I'm suprised we don't see more Premeires and Head Chiefs from these small Islands hooking up with Hollywood chicks....Next we'll see the Chief Amb%*$ador from Bibbitty bobbitty boop tryna hookup with Kelly Rowland or Vivica Fox...Imma postup onna lil Island crown myself Royal Crown Chief and see if Sanaa Lathan wannna be First Crown Chiefess...

Name: zzzboy25
Comment: Good words >geds..Anger and bitterness is running so rampant in todays society! SO many people hold on to that anger and then wonder why their life has so much drama. THe hard part is TRUSTING, once one does, "The windows of blessing shall be open"....

Name: formerlyknownasarkansasgirl
Comment: MsBlake, the exowner of The Source is not her child's father. She dated Benzino about 4 yrs ago. Her daughter is around 19 yrs old.

Name: Eastwood
Comment: Folks being married should have to sign contracts that last for, let's say, four years (I used to believe seven years is good, but that appears to be too long to hold onto one person), before they have to renew. That way, there's no "until death do us part" pressure....

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: >BOOT: I'm sending you my cleaning bill...that fight headline (description) had me spitting coffee all over myself and desk...ROFLMAO. As for LisaRaye I feel bad for her and I understand how she feels. It may not be "first lady-like" behavior, but I can definitely see why she'd wanna roll up to the mansion on his AZZ...that's a given!! And if I were her, I'd be on my way back to the states as soon as I was released from the hospital...in the car leaving JFK on my way to 106th & Park!! Film at 11:00!!

Name: CrazzeeGyrl
Comment: This reminds me of Thomas Weeks and Juanita Bynum.

Name: CrazzeeGyrl
Comment: BOOT - U R ONE CRAZY FOOL!!!!!!!!!

Name: WordUp
Comment: LisaRaye gonna catch he11 catchin' another man after this debacle! She really should have acted like a lady and just walked away and let her lawyers take care of Island Dude, but naw, Lisa got dat hood rat genes!

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: I don't understand why everyone is jumping all over Lisaraye...most females in her position would have done the same if not worse if you found out your HUSBAND was not only cheating on you, but had the nerve to have the Skank all up in your house playing hostess to his guest...WTF!! You know they're would have been some "slow singing and flower bringing" if this had gone down in my spot!!

Name: bigchassie
Comment: DAYUMM!! LISARAYE GOT A 19 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER?? SHEYYAT! HOW OLD IS SHE??

Name: Eastwood
Comment: Shoot, I think she's like 40+

Name: McNasty
Comment: DiamondChocolate I so totally agree! People forget about that thing called human nature - it's human nature to try to protect what you percieve as yours. As for the way she speaks and catching another man - she speaks the way she speaks and must be understood cause she's on a tv show and is called for interviews regularly. Another man, hopefully she's not thinking about one just yet but even if she weren't hollywieird she's a beautiful woman with her own so that's not a problem either.

Name: javone77
Comment: Amethyst: My recording went very well thanks. But you don't have to celebrate for me, we have plans to do that. ;-)

Name: McNasty
Comment: What I don't get (and hope I never do) is all the negative bullshyt rhetoric being spewed. Not one of us in the same or similar situation would act too much different. We don't know all the details but the woman had every right to gain entry to the house that is still hers - no doubt she still has a lot of personal pos.ses.sions there. Misick didn't have the right to ban her and the jump off shouldn't have been there in the first place. Don't act brand new cause there is nothing new about situations like these and if you've never been involved in one, count yourself lucky.

Name: javone77
Comment: hey chassie!!!!!!

Name: Vanity
Comment: :-)@ DiamondChocolate with the Biggie line...I cosign and add a Baby Babyyyy to that!

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: >McNasty...Thank you!! All of a sudden these people (especially the women) want to act like this woman is crazy...like she did something so outrageous...WTF!! Tell me what woman you know finds out her HUSBAND (not boyfriend) is cheating on her and bringing the whores to her house and just turns the other cheek and walks away "gracefully and dignified"!! Fucc that...I with Babygirl...it's time to get straight GHETTO on his AZZ!!

Name: bigchassie
Comment: JAVONNE>hayy sweetiegurl!! *waving* i'll be back yall!

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: >Vanity...Aw aight!!

Name: yunvme
Comment: Awww....the po little gold digga. LoL.

Name: oshun
Comment: >>Name: huey Comment: i woulda been chewing on that booty like it was a peice of fried chicken..just tearing hunks outtn it..grrrrrrr grrrrr...nibble nibble...snarrrlll..groowwwllll...clackity clack...clackity clack...snarrrrlll...grroooowwwll...munch munch..crunch and munch..yummmyy..grrrrr snarrrll sick bastid. LOL

Name: shulamite
Comment: McNasty, no one is saying that she doesn't have the "right" to get her belongings or be ticked to high heaven. But there is a way to go about things, especially when trying to enter state property which (I don't care what she thinks) does NOT belong to her. I don't fault her for going off the way she did - I would have tried to do it too. I fault the fact that she didn't have wiser friends or persuasive legal counsel to STOP her from going off the way she did given the context of her residence.

Name: SweetieDarlin
Comment: Co-Sign McNasty, Diamond Chocolate, Musbd, Dr. KnowItAll, Dr. Smooth and everyone else who seems to understand human nature and the fact that this is a sad situation. BTW I get so tired of the folks out the woodwork with funky things to say about LisaRaye simply stemming from her so called hard ghetto voice or whatever you want to call it, aside from that minor detail why all the shade on LisaRaye? Just for the record she did not grow up ghetto but was trained to be tough having to deal with her father's various business concerns at a young age. Heck I know I'd be pizzed if my husbands was parading around my replacement before my side of the bed even got cold, Misick showed absolulately no class in this situation and didn't even have the grace to keep his affairs on the low especially since he isn't divorced from LisaRaye and is facing a rape charge. Seems like there is a lot of Kwame Kilpatrick in him. With his actions while I don't condone physical altercations of any kind I can understand why LisaRaye wanted to get that azz. Sexee, especially being from Chicago I know you have heard the same tone from other women hear and it didn't necessarily mean a person was ghetto or uneducated (heck I listen to college grads sound the same way. For that matter Eunice Johnson of Johnson Publishing sounded like she had a mouth full of rocks for years, give me LisaRaye.) I don't get overly concerned about that because by the same token folks would turn around and say ol' girl sounded too white and pretentious if she did take elocution lessons. I could see the posts now, that girl came from the southside of Chicago, why is she speaking that way...dayumed if you do, dayumed if you don't bottom line---did we understand what she said?

Name: adifferentpath
Comment: ...just lurking and reading post-es. this is some funny -ish. I do wish Lisa Raye and Misick some resolution in this mess. Period. -Next-

Name: MsBlake
Comment: Correction - Lisaraye was married to the father of her child who was not the ex owner of Source magazine, but she did refer to him as somewhat of a deadbeat dad in an interview.

Name: McNasty
Comment: Shulamite there is always a better way and who in de heyell do you think is thinking about state property with emotions running so high. Hells bells her peeps were prolly so amped on all the shyt that had already happened they couldn't think quick or right enough to try and stop her. If she were my homegirl and had come to me I would have been standing right there beside her!! Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - say what you want but ain't one female on this board that would have even thought of some damned dignity in this situation and I don't care what side of town you come from!!

Name: McNasty
Comment: Shulamite - pos.ses.sion being 9 tenths of the law - it was HER house too! There is not a court in the land that would tell you his ban was legal. He went to the pres.s talking about them being separated - he had not filed papers - or at least that wasn't printed in any article I've read. Folks are so busy trying to make LisaRaye wrong common sense has flown out the window.

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: >McNasty...I'm with you...If that was my homegirl and she called me up with this ish here...I would have been driving the car..."Ride Down There.com"...Holla!

Name: McNasty
Comment: SweetieDarlin - on the money honey! Yeah, they understood erry word she said - they just want to dog the sistah out!

Name: McNasty
Comment: LMBAO! I would have put on my sneeks and the shyt would be on! Nobody in a situation like this concerns themselves with who's right or wrong. Dignity?! some of these folks live in a fantasy land or are just straight fakes!

Name: adifferentpath
Comment: DiamondChocolate and Sweetie, ya' right. I have rolled out, will roll out and continue to roll out (should that need arise). It's just sad. anyhoo....

Name: oshun
Comment: >>Name: McNasty Comment: Shulamite - pos.ses.sion being 9 tenths of the law - it was HER house too! There is not a court in the land that would tell you his ban was legal. He went to the pres.s talking about them being separated - he had not filed papers - or at least that wasn't printed in any article I've read. Folks are so busy trying to make LisaRaye wrong common sense has flown out the window. you obviously never dealt with a foreign government of a so-called "developing nation." they make their own laws as they see fit. it's a whole other world over there.

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: Gurl...finish putting these braids in my hair and pass me that jar of vasoline...you know what time it is!!

Name: shulamite
Comment: McNasty --> what part of "State property" do you not understand?

Name: shulamite
Comment: DiamondChocolate --> Okay, so you'd be your girl's "ride or die" in a situation like that. And you wonder why black women become the laughing stocks of the world.

Name: bigchassie
Comment: DIAMONDCHOCOLATE>i'm curious. what is the significance of the vaseline? i know about the braids, but what does the vaseline do?

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: "that's why Black women become laughing stock of the world"...WTF are you smoking. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission!! And frankly I never feel unworthy for standing up for myself or my people!! And yes if one of my girlfriends called me up today and said her HUSBAND had some beyotch up in her house while she was away...after WE got done with his AZZ we'd be out ridin' looking for her...PLEASE BELIVE ME...I didn't stutter!!

Name: DiamondChocolate
Comment: >chassie...keeps them from scratchin up yo face...LOL

Name: shulamite
Comment: I'll say this once more. LisaRaye got a very cold lesson in what it means to be a *woman* in British royalty. That independent finger snapping "I run sh*t up in heah" attitude that black American females hold to so dearly does NOT fly in that culture. Princess Diana, Princess Fergie, Princess Sophie, Grace Kelly, (and the list goes on) got dissed 50 ways and back and guess what? They ALL sat their butts down somewhere. Diana - who more than anybody deserved to fight for her "rights" - could not run up in Windsor or Buckingham when she felt like it. The Queen stripped her of a title that by all means should have been hers - and she did nothing. The Queen took her jewelry off her dead body - her family did nothing. Fergie and Sophie got demoted - they did nothing. That is the REALITY of how royalty works, especially if you are a woman without power. LisaRaye is nothing but a American clebrity. That's it. She has NO authority over that man, his government or his house. If she didn't want to buy into that code, she never should have married him.

Name: SweetieDarlin
Comment: >Sigh< No other women except black women do this right? Uh-HUH. No white american woman, Asian woman,Indian Woman, Russian Woman, Irish Woman, Polish Woman, Hispanice Woman has ever done ANYTHING LIKE THIS, only black women! No other woman acts a fool when she is wronged by a man, everyone else conducts themselves with the proper decorum. Umm'Kay

Name: SweetieDarlin
Comment: So Shulamite essentially to avoid being the laughingstock, one should simply roll over and allow men and the Royal Families to do whatever they see fit to do. I understand better now and certainly that is a better way to be, to avoid being embarrassed and becoming the laughingstock. Black women take note...

Name: Eastwood
Comment: I have to disagree with those of y'all saying she should've run up in there and handled her bidness like she did. At a certain age, you should have learned how to conduct yourself in matters such as these. There's absolutely no reason for her to charge up in there like she did (assuming reporting is correct) as a grown woman. Not only that, she's a Queen of sorts; there's definitely a better way to handle things. Folks always say "Now, y'all know y'all woulda done the same thing," well, think about some of these guys--and girls--out here shooting each other: most of them have "perfectly good" reasons for handlin' their bidness.

Name: Eastwood
Comment: Let me add that he is not acting as a grown man should either (especially someone in such an important position). With security, there's no way he should have even had to be within twenty feet of her...even inside the house (though she should not have even been in there).

Name: TMan
Comment: My gut reaction when I saw this story just now is "Somebody Lyin' Somewhere!!!" LOL! I smell a Juanita Bynum situation right here! LOL!

Name: TMan
Comment: Hospitalized?!!? Now family, can you honestly see any man getting the best of a Lisa Raye?? My nickname for her is Hot Fire! LOL! I can't see no man even rasing a hand to her. LOL! Lisa Raye would shoot him that evil eye she got and the man would tuck his fist into his armpit and turn it into a paw and walk away with his tail between his legs. LOL!

Name: musbdherbs
Comment: Good to know that there are BLACK women in here who didn't find her actions/interview as deplorable and lacking class as others. While she coulda/woulda/shoulda...she didn't. And unless it's some real violence going on, you prolly won't see me bashing a women for going the fk off if she (bearing truth) finds out her man is hosting his whore in the bed she lays in. THAt in itself is real nerve. Shula..British law really is irrlevant here. She's an american citizen..not british and if she wanted to call the queen on the phone to personally cuss her azz out then so be it..lol BTW, what "black american females finger snapping" went on here? I didn't read that. Hell Diana was off da chain b4 she died and royalty didn't stop her.

Name: TMan
Comment: I think Lisa Raye could kick Kimbo Slice azz if she wanted to! LOL!

Name: Reds
Comment: shulamite : <<what part of "State property" do you not understand?>> <<LisaRaye got a very cold lesson in what it means to be a *woman* in British royalty.>> You may be right about the laws being different in those countries, i.e. I man can kick his wife to the curb at will. But until I see valid documents supporting such laws, I’m going to assume that a British territory would have laws that are civil enough to protect a wife’s right to her residence.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Other royal men have done worse to their wives than Misick, with the exception of the beatdown (horrendous). And the only reason we know about this beatdown is because they BOTH elected to publish statements about its occurence, which IMO was a big mistake on both their parts. You don't have to admit anything to anybody except your lawyer, and that under oath. They should have kept people guessing as to waht really went down. But instead they provided us with a nice graphic blow by blow.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Musbdherbs, if LisaRaye had lured Misick back stateside and then commenced to secretly whoop his tail with Viv and Co., and then denied it, I'd say good for her. But she tried that in HIS backyard. Ain't gonna work...

Name: Teigh
Comment: I really don't think the residence is his either...it belongs to the TCI government (whoever controls that island -- England) and is the residence of whomever is elected which would be ole boy.

Name: shulamite
Comment: musbdherbs wrote "she's an american citizen..not british and if she wanted to call the queen on the phone to personally cuss her azz out then so be it.." This would be funny to imagine, except LisaRaye would actually do something like that. All joking aside, I saw the "power" of the Crown in a Fergie interview once. The Queen had clowned her something awful, and I mean awful, and this (obviously) American journalist tried to bait Fergie to say something disparaging about the Queen (like, "tell me something you wish the Queen would change about how she handles stuff"). Fergie shut him down so firmly saying that she had nothing but praise for the Queen and that she couldn't even imagine thinking badly about the Queen and how dare he try to go there with her. She was serious in her reverence, and I was actually humbled by that.

Name: McNasty
Comment: The lack of understanding in this case is not mine. Y'all are dealing with state property and somebody else's laws and the fact of the matter is this is a situation between a husband and a wife and what goes on between them IS NOT GOVERNED BY A LAW - STATE OR OTHERWISE! Shulamite you pretend to be the consumate professional re:decorum and that's okay - I know you're a sistah from the hood that found some edumacation - that's when you know education can be dangerous! What you're saying doesn't apply here and british teaching anyone to be ladies is laughable. Take two steps and get a hold on your black self cause when folk see you, they see the knucklehead in you too! You seem pretentious and that's sad. I'll say again, regardless of what's said here in the same damn situation there is not one sistah that wouldn't have come close to doing the same damn thing and you're lying to yourself if you say otherwise. You keep hanging on 'laws' and british royalty - like that means a damn thing - but pray honestly and sincerely that the man you end up with doesn't do the St. Louis on you!

Name: McNasty
Comment: As far as fergie goes, she was poor white trash that wanted to stay in the light of all that ugly money - I know in private amongst her friends she dogged queenie out. For you to be humbled by such bullshat speaks volumes. British just like the french are trash just like any others - their manners are no better, in fact they're worse - they hide behind decorum and money - and that's what you admire and think LisaRaye should have conducted herself according to? Get serious! I'm glad LisaRaye acted according to the situation - it further showed that tool of a man as the beast he really is and she will be none the worse for the experience.

Name: McNasty
Comment: LMAO! Bigchassie in a fight you put vaseline on your face so IF her punches land they will slide before your face takes the full impact. You don't end up with any bruises cause she can't get a hold on you!

Name: JustTellingTheTruth
Comment: I'm just going to keep it real -- LisaRaye know dammn well she shouldna been stepping up to Mr Man without her cast iron skillet in one hand & her pot of hot grit with cheese in the other hand. Next time, her azz betta ask sumbody ... Starting with MaDea -- hers or mine. Either way, the shyt would get handled right.(LOL) For future reference, LisaRaye next time call 1-800-JUST-ASK. I've already told MaDea yo azz need a tutoring session. She is waiting for your call. LMAO....

Name: shulamite
Comment: McNasty wrote: "I know in private amongst her friends she dogged queenie out." Yes, McNasty, in private. Key words here: in private. She didn't do press releases and neither she nor the Palace admitted to ANYTHING that wasn't already blatantly caught on camera. People still don't know everything that happened with Fergie, and that is the way it should be. Very different from LisaRaye and Michael Misick.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Yes, I respect a person that can keep his or her cool under trying circumstances in public. Any fool can let emotions rule them. It takes mad self control not to act the fool (even when it's warranted), and history shows that people with that kind of self restraint come out the better for it. Now, instead of people saying "what dogs Misick and Rocsi are", they're saying "what dogs Misick and Rocsi are... and dang LisaRaye is a straight up ghetto acting fool, too. Nobody has sense in that camp!". Do you see the difference?

Name: Reds
Comment: shulamite :“Other royal men have done worse to their wives than Misick.” BTW, this guy is not royalty, he’s a subject of the queen. Not that being royalty gives you the right to treat women like that either. Even the royals have to abide by the laws of the state.

Name: shulamite
Comment: McNasty wrote "shulamite you pretend to be the consumate professional...". Please be assured that there is no pretending about it. I may slip up periodically, but I never "pretend" to have class. I have it and, you can trust and believe, I work hard to keep it.

Name: McNasty
Comment: Shulamite keep walking around with that stick up your butt - the more you post the les.s sense you make. Controversy sells anything and no one but you is gonna look at LisaRay any differently. Those who practice that restraint you're so big on die of heart attacks and perforated ulcers so you keep following them and faking the funk - it guarantees a short life span. There is not one nationality of woman that when the situation was presented didn't cut up like this. When Bianca Jagger was photoed riding straddled Mick Jaggers jaguar - she went on to live a wondrous life and is still kickin'. If paris hilton, britney spears and lindsey lohan can deliver multiple crotch shots and not be thought les.s of this will be but another blip on the hollywierd screen. To think otherwise - well, you ain't dealing with reality. Drama sells and will get you interviewed for days. For the record, a fool is the one that acts emotionles.s!

Name: McNasty
Comment: Shulamite if you have to tell people you have class - trust and believe - you don't and if what you display here is definitive of that - well, you still don't. Classless is turning your nose up in judgement and you've done that with every post. Quit actin' like your shat don't stink and don't try selling me on your 'class' - I am too aware of what you pos.ses.s.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Reds --> Yes, I know, but he is an elected/appointed representative for the Brits. SHE IS NOT. Big difference. And I'm not saying that the guy wasn't wrong. He was foul on many levels; but his state (not her and her posse) ought to be the one to deal with him, and I think they will, just maybe not to her liking. That's all...

Name: shulamite
Comment: "Quit actin' like your shat don't stink " --> Quit proving to this forum that your's does.

Name: Exmun
Comment: Honestly, I think what shulamite is saying and agree that the high road is the best way to have handled this. Many people would have reacted the same way that LisaRaye is said to have reacted. No question. LisaRaye is even "justified" in acting that way, because it's a common emotional response to your spouse cheating on your marital bed. But there ARE people who counsel folks in that situation to cool it off and work it out pragmatically. Personally, a family member of mine was in a similar situation with her husband. And I did counsel her to cool it off and let the legal system work this out, because no good will come out of both of y'all in jail... two children and all. It wasn't perfect and it didn't give outlet to the rage, but it was peaceable and she will ultimately get her due (she's already put him in jail for some of what he did). So I don't see shulamite's comments as being so unreal. Her point that the house doesn't belong to either LisaRay or Misick is very true. That's the "state's" house. It belongs to the people of the Turks and Caicos Islands. She may have a "right" to be in there (morally and perhaps legally), but it ain't HER house. Her confrontation with her husband is "understandable," but being in a foreign country, it's not "adviseable." Small as that island is, that man has access and control of the police and whatever military might be there. So one should approach any "ride or die" situation with a bit more caution than doing the "ride or die" in Baltimore. The islands ain't the U.S. And if that was shulamite's point, it wasn't lost on me. I was born in the islands... a former British colony now an independent nation. And understanding that "context" and it's difference from the United States is important. What goes on in these islands within their governments is NOT the same as the U.S. And Shulamite's take on how one deals with a Premier/head of that state is spot on. It ain't the same "get my girls together and ride on that mofo." That's a separate country and you're dealing with the head of state who has the ability to order you silenced, possibly killed, jailed, etc. So good advice and advisors would have counseled her to cool her jets and handle this business-like.

Name: shulamite
Comment: Exmun, thank you for having common sense.

Name: Exmun
Comment: She IS after-all a "First Lady." And regardless of what was done to her her "office", IMO, requires something more of her. "Understandable"... just not "wise."

Name: Exmun
Comment: Right back atcha shulamite.

Name: BKLYNVIAMAHATTAN
Comment: @Exmun.. I have stressed enough, that no matter what. She shouldn't of come back to the T&C Isles at this time.!!!!!. As word has it.....It's been relatively quiet as it always is. It's kinda hard for the Islanders to actually get a grip on what in the world is going on. Their Concentration, well most their concentration is the Corruption Investigation. So the daytime is Surreal so to speak. The First Lady wasn't well received from the beginning,but she kinda grew, especially with the Younger and Older set of people. However, they are still in total agreement when it comes to the monies that have risen and fallen in the last 5 Years.

Name: TinayPretty
Comment: It makes a certain sense that if someone bans u from ur home u should not enter. HOWEVER!! it makes more sense that because she is his WIFE, and this is her residence also, that he cannot ban her from her own home!! I totally understand that. Just imagine your spouse telling you not just, "i dont want u here", but, "u cant come here"!!! LOL. I understand her going to HER home, regardless of that crap he was spewing!! He is a womanizer- no innocent person is accused of so many wrong doings by so many different women!!! Sounds like she may not get much of a cut of some money, if the government has frozen his accounts because of missing MILLIONS!!! DAMM..2 bad..hope u get just a lil bit ms lady, and find a man who is going to respect you and treat you right. I am sure there are many waiting to take his place!!!

Name: BKLYNVIAMAHATTAN
Comment: MTO is reporting that she has emergency lifted to another hospital not to long ago. She was was not alert when they took her. All the way to Chi town. come on now... what's up. Things are quiet in the T&C islands at this time.

Name: BKLYNVIAMAHATTAN
Comment: at Mediatakeout.com there is a extra clip of over 50 Women, who speaking against Lisaraye... It's obvious in the clip they don't want here there!

Name: JustTellingTheTruth
Comment: @BKLYNN: I just checked out MTO. That website seems to be a bit whack. So, their "update" re: LisaRaye being unconscious & air lifted to Chgo may not be true. I live in Chgo & so far I haven't heard anything like this nor have I seen anything else online indicating this.

Name: Dovelyone
Comment: Y'all are NOT saying that she got AIRLIFTED from T&C to CHICAGO? Is that what y'all are saying? And she was supposedly unconscious? Were there any hospitals closer to where she was?

Name: JustTellingTheTruth
Comment: @DovelyOne--MediaTakeOut.com posted an "update" re:LisaRaye i.e. she was unconscious & airlifted to Chicago this weekend. The whole thing seemed whack to me which I replied back to BKLYN. I think that MTO website has as much credibility as a piece of lint. Aside from this, I believe Eurweb & other media outlets would've reported "updates" as well if this was actually true.

Name: JustTellingTheTruth
Comment: @Dovelyone-- if it does prove true later on that she was airlifted to Chgo, while in a unconscious state, her family could've moved her out of concern for her safety. One day she's fighting, then the next day she's releasing statements from her hospital bed while recovering from bite marks, and by the weekend she's supposedly unconscious. If this proves to be true, you can't help but wonder why her condition "suddenly" changed. Were her injuries more serious than initially reported? Did someone do "something" to her in the hospital? And, did she really prepare that statement or did someone else do it on her behalf? The whole situation just doesn't make sense. If folks are giving false reports, they need to stop. None of this is anything to take lightly.

Name: tinkius
Comment: I'm sure she got exactly what she deserved. The beat down!!!!! Women are running around here chips on their shoulders, believing the television garbage of what a man is and believing in this superwoman "crap". Obviously, the man doesn't watch sitcoms!! (Neither do I). I'm sure she hit him and he kicked the crap out of her!! She's a black woman too, so you know she got violent first. Let this be a lesson girls.

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