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*Actress Shar Jackson says she had a little talk with Kevin Federline, the father of her three children, to ensure that he wouldn’t unintentionally favor his kids with wife Britney Spears over their own.
The former “Moesha” star says she accepted K-Fed’s 2004 marriage to the pop star, but laments the damage it may cause her kids if he fails to give them equal time.
“As far as I was concerned, I was OK that [our] relationship ended, but the family breaking up is something painful,” she told gossip site Scoop. "And honestly I didn't let it happen."
“Now in the beginning it was rough, because he was overseas, so I really didn't have much control over there. But when he came back home, I told him, 'Kevin, I'm not going to let you be a convenient father, when it's convenient for you. If you are going to be part of these kids' lives, then you're going to be a part. If not, then you're not.'"
Jackson adds that she and her kids view Spears and her two children with Federline as “extended family,” but she's yet to meet one-year-old Sean Preston and newborn Sutton Pierce because, she says, "I keep my distance."