Dear Advice Chick,
*I have a big problem and I hope that maybe you can help me. I am in my 20's and I have a homosexual relationship with a friend of mine that is only 18. We know each other for 2 years. Ever since we met we felt each other in love and I want you to tell me how to finish this homosexual relationship. Our relationship is kind'a bisexual because both of us have girlfriends. Now, we care about each other very much, I love him very much and so does him love me.
I want you to give me an advice because I don't want to turn into a gay person and first of all I don't want him because he's only 18 to turn into a gay. We had sex since we met for 4-5 times but oral sex and masturbation was very often. Now we both decided to end this homosexual (bisexual) relationship because we both like girls and is better for us to finish it. It is very hard for both of us not to do oral sex or masturbation. In the last 5-6 weeks we only do oral sex and I think this is a step in finishing this relationship. Sometimes I think that the only way to finish it is not to speak each other for a long time, but is very hard for us. I hope that you can give me an advice. Thank you for listening to my problem!
Advice Chick replies,
You don’t want to turn into a gay person? Huh? Too late! Having sex with a person of the same sex is gay. I’m here to tell ya, ending ANY relationship is hard. By your own admission, you believe cutting off all contact is the best way to end it, and I agree.
Yes, initially it will be hard, but just like your lil pee pee, it’ll eventually become soft (easy). Back in the 70’s the Manhattans sang a beautiful, yet heartbreaking song entitled “Kiss and Say Goodbye.” Google it, listen to it, and then do it.
Oh yea, you’ve got some soul searching to do. Are you only sexually attracted to this guy, or are you also attracted to other guys? You can tell me anything but please be honest with yourself.
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