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Dear Advice Chick,
I have been seeing this guy for about three years and six months, and the last three weekends he has something to do with other women such as going out to dinner, going to a party and, this weekend, going to a BBQ because someone at church wanted to introduce him to her daughter.
He keeps saying to me he has not kicked me to the curb, but I strongly feel the relationship has been put on the back burner until he tests the water, and I have told him that. I am thinking very seriously about letting this person go, because he is not bringing anything to the table because he doesn't have anything to bring other than his self and that is not enough for me. He doesn't have an apartment, he lives in a one room with a roommate, and only makes $13.00 an hour and is always complaining about I make more money than he does. I have really been trying to be his friend but it has gotten very hard to be his friend. I own my house and have two sport cars that I have paid off, and I have been on my job over 30 years and am vested; but not him. So my friends keep saying what is this guy doing for you? Let him go. Please respond to me personally.
Dear Advice Chick,
I don’t respond personally, boo. I also don’t use names (ever) so you’re alright. He hasn’t kicked you to the curb; he has dropped you like you’re hot! He’s spending his weekends with other women? Hell, he’s doing girlfriend things (having a good time) with them and leaving you at home alone, lonely, and angry.
How long have you known he doesn’t have an apartment, he lives with a room mate, and he only makes $13.00 an hour? He is (was) your boo sweetie, YOU picked him. When you get stuck with a lemon don’t blame the lemon, blame yourself.
Make better choices in men. You don’t always have to be with someone, and you don’t have to worry about letting him go. When your so-called boyfriend is dating other women, AND telling you he’s dating other women, AND telling you a church member is trying to fix him up with her daughter – he’s telling you goodbye.
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