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Dear Advice Chick,
*As since the month of April till last week of June things sort of dropped-off but I think we needed it. Into the first week or so of July me & my lady friend went so-so. I think it was when a female friend entered the picture and her ex came back for a couple days.
I do trust her as we do some walking and stop by the center but I get no other response whether she's letting me try or not or maybe seeing if I will pursue her mainly?
Advice Chick replies,
If you try to date like you try to express yourself via email, I sense trouble. Dude. Holla at your girl! It seems neither of you seriously want a commitment with each other. You were spending time with a “female friend.” She was kicking it with her “ex.” Are you guys trying to see if the grass is greener on the other side? I’m here to tell ya, it usually isn’t.
Relationships aren’t easy. If they were, everyone would have a great one. Communicate with your lady. You want to be with her, right? Let her know that. Lay your cards on the table and let her know you’d like to be with her, and her alone, IF that is where your heart is.
Otherwise, stop wasting each others time.
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