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Dear Advice Chick,
*MY BOYFRIEND OF 2 YEARS DECIDED HE WANTS TO BREAK UP AND IT IS KILLING ME! I LOVE HIM SO MUCH! HOW CAN I CONVINCE HIM TO STAY WITH ME AND TRY TO WORK IT OUT? I HAVE TRIED ALMOST EVERYTHING I KNOW AND IT HASN'T WORKED . HELP PLEASE BEFORE I LOSE HIM. THANKS!!!!!!!
Advice Chick replies,
You’ve already lost him. The keyword here is DECIDED. Once a decision is formed, it’s formed. Why put so much time and energy trying to hold on to someone who has decided they want to break up with you? I know it’s easy for me to say because I’m not the one being dumped, but ohhh baby. I’ve been dumped before and it was SO not cute.
Know this – you will not die. Just accept his decision, and move on. I’m sure the two of you had some good times, right? Well, cherish those, and spend the next 90 days focusing on you. Don’t go out and jump into another relationship until you’ve gotten over this one.
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