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Dear Advice Chick,
*I need advice on breaking up during the holiday season... Specifically: How can one end a long, intense romantic relationship with finesse if the break should happen during the holiday season (it's tricky this time of year, with Thanksgiving, religious holidays, and of course the New Year kiss)... And how does one rebound with the New Year's positive attitude?
Advice Chick replies,
It seems like people can NOT handle being dumped lately. Every time I turn on the news some fool done shot, stabbed, or killed the ex that dumped him. No, seriously. The restraining order is always in the purse or the pocket or somewhere near by. I respect the law, but when fools go crazy, it might not be enough.
So, how in the hell can you shake an ex without getting stalked or injured? You make them break up with you, that’s how. I suggest you make haste. If you can get it done within the next week or two he just might be o.k. by Thanksgiving.
Shake this guy be becoming overly needy. Constantly ask him for excessive amounts of money. Each and every time you call, ask for some money. Tell him you need $1500.00 to get your car fixed. Next, say you need $4200.00 for a repair around the house. Tell him you have an unexpected emergency and need $7,000.00. Girl! He is going to bounce!
Maybe he’ll think you have a drug problem. Maybe he’ll think “you’ve changed.” What the hell ever. Let him think what ever he wants, just make it uncomfortable for him to be with you and he will leave you.
You can always try being honest about the real reason you want to end it, but proceed with caution. I don’t want to read about you on CNN.
Handle the New Year by throwing a party! Have fun, girl! Relationships are great, but take some “me” time, you deserve it!
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