Tag Archives: advice

  • 5 Pieces of Good Advice You Don’t Want to Hear (but Should Listen to) During a Divorce

    Feb 3, 14 by Brainuser1 Leave a comment


    *It’s like it was yesterday: that deep down ache that’s somehow empty and full of emotion at the same time; the checkout girl staring strangely because I’ve started to tear up while buying printer ink; the unbearably lonely, harsh time of 3 a.m. when the universe decides I should be awake. Divorce is excruciating, made […]

  • Ask Tamara: Coworker Talks Too Much!

    Jan 17, 14 by tallen 1 Comment


    Dear Tamara: I work in an office of about 30 people. All of us have a child or two (or more). We mention our children in conversation from time to time. There is a young lady that has a four-year-old son. She talks about her son ALL DAY! I try to change the conversation, but […]

  • Ask Tamara: Friendship and Business…Can it Come to Blows?

    Jan 9, 14 by tallen Leave a comment


    Dear Tamara: My best friend wants us to go into business together. At first, I was excited about the business opportunity, but the more I talk to people the more it makes me nervous. Everyone keeps telling me that you should never mix friendship and business because it can ruin the friendship. One person said […]

  • Ask Tamara: Pastor is Ruining My Marriage!

    Nov 4, 13 by tallen 11 Comments


    Dear Tamara: My wife’s pastor is ruining our marriage. My wife spends more time at the church then she does at home. And to make matters worse, her pastor is interfering with our personal life and making suggestions to my wife that affect our entire household. First her pastor convinced her to quit her job […]

  • Lil Mo Has Words For Chris Brown

    Oct 29, 13 by Cory Alexander Haywood 6 Comments


    *During a recent interview with Sister 2 Sister magazine, Lil’ Mo shared her opinion regarding Chris Brown‘s ongoing legal woes. “He needs his mama back around him. You need the people that really love and care for you,” she insisted. Mo continued, “I consider other artists my co-workers. I really want Chris Brown to be […]

  • Ask Tamara: My Boss is a Bully!

    Oct 17, 13 by tallen 2 Comments


    *Dear Tamara: My boss is a bully! She uses her power and position to bully everyone in the office, but she seems to get a special kick out of picking on me. She constantly talks down to me and makes snide comments about my clothes and appearance. During our last staff meeting she used me […]